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[b][size=16pt]This is so painful, what a tragedy - caused by a Willy! For those of you, women - who were basically made for marriage and, who could not live without a man in their hands - here is a good lesson for you all! Many of you prefer to live with this kind of abuse than dignity in marriage. This is a woman that has done every good thing in marriage yet, Nigerian society has let her down. A philandering husband - why stay in the marriage? Nigerian women have been brought up to believe that without a husband in their lives, they are worthless - who told you so ![]() ![]() Sure, there are many of you clinging to useless and hopeless marriages as this - and some even have had their share of serious abuses in it - some have been infected with deadly diseases (HiV Aids, Gonorrhea, syphilis and all) in the name of marriage yet, they consider it a blessing and remained put in such a life threatening relationship instead of running for their lives. What a brainwash of women in this society!!! A society that gives women responsibilities without any rights whatsoever! Too bad for this wicked man - his evil days have finally caught up with him unfortunately, and to the loss of lives of innocent children - he has a lot to answer to Almighty God - and that's enough punishment for him! You're married and minding your family, and your husband is busy fornicating with 110 thousand women outside marriage and bringing the cost of such evil liaison - deadly diseases, deprivation and poverty home to you and you kept quite in order to save a marriage that never was, as examplified in this tragedy - what a sodomy! Now tell me would she go back to this marriage again, after this? You mean go back to a useless man who could not keep his 'Willy' in his pants where it belongs? A man, who selfishly and continuously spent the money reserved for upkeep of his beautiful family on a demonically possessed hopeless and dirty stinky w h o r e - would she? Obviously, the answer is 'no'! Personally, I'll be the first to shoot him dead first, for my 4 children! Hope other selfish and wicked philanders learn their lessons from this. Would they? I doubt - it will happen again!!!! [/size][/b] |
hrmkz: Have ever been abused or assaulted by Nigerian nurses?[size=16pt]You're a brave heart I wish, I could take that risk!!!! They will never near me with a Stethoscope talk much of - an invasive procedure as using a syringe and needle on me? Naaaaah!!!! I don't blame them, blame the so called Professors, Doctorate Degree Holders teaching in our University Departments up and down the Country. You also have to lay massive blame on the Government Department (Min of Health) and its looters, stealing the resources needed to improve our Healthcare System. They are all responsible for the lousy training both Nurses and Doctors received in this Country and are not ashamed of producing each year, incompetent practitioners thus, putting our lives at risk - quite shameful! Human lives does not mean any thing in Nigeria... Their incompetence only goes to show, lack of knowledge in their own learning/education - Blind leading the blind, sorio o o o ! [/size] |
[size=16pt]If he'd changed his ways, yes - can do!!! But hey, a leopard never changes his spot so becareful and move to greater things instead, ok! [/size] |
[size=16pt]Trust ndi Igbo - we node take nonsense! Just blame the demonic wicked spirit of Belial evoking his evil in men/women who have no fear of God in their lives. Nemesis have caught these lot and, those hanging on the wings let them come out now, and meet their doom![/size] |
[size=28pt]Shame, Shame - Disgraceful!!!!!!!![/size] |
[size=16pt]Well, only the blind can not see beauty and difference. As you can see Kim's got class, in show casing that gear! As of Sylvia, it looks a bit tacky - compared! What do you think? [/size] |
[size=18pt]...but why is it you don't read your Bible? If you read your Bible every day, you won't come here asking this question. Really, to answer your question, it is a 'BIG NO'! It is not compulsory to attend Church Services if you don't want to and there is no where in the Bible it is made compulsory. God is Spirit and he is every where - he sees every thing we do or say and he searches our inner hearts and knows the attitudes, thoughts and motives of our hearts. Worship him in Spirit! But I must say this, going or attending Church Service helps in other ways - fellowhip, friendship, support, sharing and socialising with like minded Christians etc that can also help your Christian life but it is not compulsory! [/size] |
[b][size=16pt] It is always easy to point a finger of blame on others but may I ask... How do you communicate with your own family? Because, if it is good for the goose, it is also good for the gander - they say. Please, understand this - it is not my intention on here to upset you and others but based on what I know and have percieved first hand about your people - the Yorubas, when it comes to communicating with their own people in a mixed environment, they are highly 'excluding' - excluding others from participating in the conversation by communicating exclusively in 'Yoruba' and that can not be right - it is ignorance! You have to be 'involving and inclusive' rather than pushing away people from participating in juicy conversations they are interested in. Perhaps, this could be the reason your wife is adamant she is not changing, and now, is returning the Match and you do not like it! Pinch yourself first - if it hurts then, it will certainly hurt others when you pinch them! ![]() I must advice, it would be nice you learn the language yourself or sit down and agree on appropriate language to use in the home. Als, now you have children coming in, they too should learn and understand both their parents languages - it is important that they understand both your languages because it is not only their heritage - it is their birth right. [/size][/b] |
[size=16pt]Yes, being an only child has its disadvantages and the same applies to their parents. But I must advice young parents, please, make it two or three o o o because, one pikin go pepper your eyeballs and give you a shock of your life at the crunch of events in your lives - honest! Just have a spare part o o ! God wey gave us everything in twos e.g. 2 legs, 2 eyes, 2 hands etc no dey silly but clever man - just learn and emulate what he did with us because, I have seen an only child inflicting hurt and cruelty on his/her parents. Be warned and find your black goat now, it is not yet dark!! [/size] |
[size=16pt][b] Well, there are two sides to every story - oops! three actually in this case. Perhaps, we've heard you/wife's side of the story and yet to hear from you mum. Mothers' don't alway interfere this way maybe, since you got married you have ignored her and become a naughty, naughty, selfish/cruel son and forgetting she has needs too - who knows! Go and find out what your mother need from you and your wife and sort it all out. You see, inasmuchas I agree with what some ladies said in earlier posts, I disagree to some extent based on some social and economic factors we need to draw from, in order to give balanced opinions. These social and economic factors and more, had not only enabled but empowered modern women in accessing all the priviliages our mothers generations will give 'an arm and an eye' to have thus, we become highly independent of our children e.g. emotionally and psychologically. Imagine, modern women now have quality education, careers, money in the bank and can access every location in the world they please, either with a husband or without. How many of our mother's generation can afford that? I believe your mother is hanging on to you either because, you're her 'one and only' and now, you've found a soul-mate you are abandoning her like a dirty cloth. Having forfeited alot to raise you and looking forward that you'd marry someone that would be 'inclusive' of her and now, you and your Mrs have decided to ignore her thus,'excluding'her from benefitting from her sweat. When I say, benefitting, not necessarily financial/materially but emotional/psychological and her mental well-being etc. I don't know if you are the only child or the only son - if you are, I think your wife should embrace your mother because, if she don't, what goes round will surely come for her and when it does - she better shut up! The reason I'm saying this is because, I have a friend who never got on with her mother inlaw. The mother inlaw, believed that she had a big influence on her son to an extent she deprived her from enjoying her own son. As her mother inlaw was passing away, she cursed her that, since she deprived her from benefitting from her labour that she would not benefit from hers, when the time comes. Look buddy, it is happening now! Her two sons are not quite of age to settle down yet, her first son went 'mad' in the University in Nigeria and had to be taken to a Ministry for Deliverance. Not long after that, barely a year the same thing happened to her second son - now both sons have been stigmatised and I wonder what the future hold for them and her. Becareful! Just be becareful and handle your mother with tender loving care - she loves you and she is looking out for you. And, I must warn - no one, I mean, no woman could ever love you greater and more than your own mother I must warn you - again! Women come and go - husbands come and go but you have only one mother who would give it all up for her child - you!!!!! At the crunch of it all, the tigeress will fight until the last drop of her blood but I challenge the modern woman in your arms to do the same. [/b][/size] |
[size=16pt]Well, depending on how big the size of your husband's wallet is, and taking into account your hygiene needs and that of the baby/family/relatives/friends/neighbours then, disposable is a good option. However, wash 'n' hang is a better option for those not trying to be like the 'Joneses'else there might be crying in Ramah when the funds runs out and, you will still 'wash'n'hang' - so what's the point? Just wash and hang if you haven't got the money to stretch - use your brain, cut your coat according to your size and stop emulating your friends and neighbours! Be true to yourself![/size] |
[size=16pt]Yes, I will give up everything for my Jesus!!! Because, Jesus Christ is my Salvation and eternal life and because Heaven is my Home - why shouldn't I? The only way I need to pass through, to enter Heaven is Jesus Christ. And, when I get to Heaven - there will only be one family, God's big family - you and I and the rest of us who believed in his Son and followed his Commands. So, there won't be your family or mine there - only God's family and with Christ our Big Brother in-charge of everything. That's all![/size] |
[b][size=16pt]The say that 'Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder' It is also good to know that everyone woman is beautiful in her own right however, some are awesomely beautiful than others. But, when it comes to the contest of beautiful or kissable lips I beg to differ - that some of the ladies on here have got what it takes? Not really! As far as I'm concerned, there are only 5 I can count here that have it. I mean, that rare and unique authentically Sculptured, thick and sought-after African's woman lip - which the European women spent all her life savings (thousands of pounds) to invest in, in order to acquire - hmmmm! Well, theirs are very painful to acquire yet, it is temporary - it does not last long - does it? No! Because, it is not a thing of beauty - 'a thing of beauty they say, last for ever!' Anyway, since there are more beautiful Nigerian ladies out there that are yet to come out - I can only say for now, the ladies that I consider to have that unique quality here, are: a) Chidinma b) Genevieve c) Tiwa d) Beverly e) Omotola these are truly beautiful women with unique lips. [/size][/b] |
[size=16pt]Our God is great! Praise him - Halelujah, Amen![/size] |
[size=16pt]Oh, Praise God - what a wonderful miracle - healing this man from such a horrible chronic illness. If I may ask, you whom God use as a tool to heal this man, had you ever prayed and had sick people healed before? fro healing for sick people before? I query if you had and if God had not given you a gift of healing and the Ministry for this purpose - if I were you, I'll check it out. You might be carrying a gift you do not realise you have - so, check it out - bro! [/size] |
[size=16pt]No, it shouldn't be!! However, certain misunderstanding should be expected but it mustn't lead to fights and kata kata![/size] |
[size=16pt]Too bad![/size] |
[size=16pt]But, what has family position got to do with LOVE?? ![]() Hmmmmmm! And why would you want to consider that before getting married to someone, you profess to love - if at all, you love him/her? If he/she is the first and poor and you love him wouldn't you marry him/her and create your own empire? Or, you're seeking ready made? And, what difference would it make if he/she was last and poor and you love him/her? ![]() Well, if you can't hack it when he's poor then, you're not real and there is a hidden agenda somewhere, you don't want to own up to! Anyway, I'm a bit wry about the whole idea - smells all the hallmark of someone seeking gold to dig in greener pastures, sorry!![/size] |
[size=16pt]And, why would a Policeman abuse a civilian? It's because in Nigeria any goes! Imagine, Police slapping you and getting away with it and still keeps his job! Only in Nigeria... [/size] |
[size=16pt]What a question? And, why wouldn't they if they choose to and if they can handle it ?Are married women under age? What a mentality! All the hallmark of a controlling man - who ever you are that is asking this question - your colours are being shown here if you don't know it yet. [/size] |
[size=16pt]Not a 'must' but... It is his/her implied or moral right to sit next to his/her wife/husband unless he/she wants to relinquish it to her mother Inlaw, brothers Inlaw, husbands best mate etc It is his/her right so, when travelling with your brother/sister and their partner is with him/her - don't try to force your way on the front seat - it is his/hers. Etiquette dictates you take the back seat if it's your brother/friend that is driving, unless he/she offers you the front seat then, don't humiliate yourself by going to seat there. It not your rightful place to seat - abi, are you his/her next of kin? Obviously, not - so don't go there and don't try to intimidate the lady.[/size] |
[size=16pt] Hmmmm! Why do you want to know, nosy!!!! Don' think anyone is interested in what you do yourself - so, if need some ideas,inspiration or empowerment, why not ask people respectfully than in this crafty way? ![]() [/size] |
[size=16pt] How do you mean? You mean in Nigeria, Africa - or... ![]() ?You must be smoking something! If you like hire the greatest armies of this world, they can't keep them at bay - buddy! ![]() It's an African inborn sickness - they shall come and come and come - so, do not say I did not warn you. Just prepare!! [/size] |
[size=16pt]What a sad story! This what can happen to people who have no true spirit of God in their lives. When you have no God in you, and too far away from the Word of God, and no real contact i.e. mixing with the children of God and the Ministries then, you will be susceptible to demonic vices e.g. you loose all touches - moral values and spiritual insights and that's when the devil and his messengers enter into the empty room in your Mind, Body and Soul and work havoc such as this - the demonic spirit of gluttony. That's to blame but, someone gave him the legal right to enter - y o o o u u u u!!!!! [/size] |
[size=16pt]By tradition, it's usually the mother of the woman who gave birth that stays for almost 3mths, taking care of her daughter and her new grandchild - teaching her all the intricacies or tricks of the trade. Yes, her husbands mother could still do the same for her but, nothing is more close to home, than having her own mother because as they say, mother knows best and understand the needs of her daughter and how to support her in her new experience of motherhood. [/size] |
[b][size=16pt]Look, if you love your son and what God Almighty had done for you, and you love your fellow Nigerians please, name and shame this QUARK DOCTOR, HIS HOSPITAL AND IT'S LOCATION - everything about them both on Nairaland and any other place, please! That way, and like the Western countries, we Nigerian can begin to set quality standards of operation/performance that would guide the professionals in our country. Who knows how many innocent patients had died in the hands of this evil Doctor that won't accept, his practice is below par/standard! And, which Nigerian University trained this one?? ![]() Imagine how they butchered this little boy? So called Nigerians professionals, operating in ignorance and won't accept their limitations and boundaries. I am so sorry for what they'd done to this innocent baby May I asked this Doctor, if it was his own son, how would he take it? Imagine, this evil, selfish and greedy Doctor committed this butchery of a baby out of his greed - to get the money off the little boy's parents instead of referring the family straight away, to those with the knowledge. God will reward him![/size][/b] |
[size=16pt]Hmmm! How dare she say things like this? I should warn - Lady be careful one day, you are going to be someone's mother in-law and they would wish you were dead as well - and that would be a 'return to sender' for you. When our lives are full of abundance, we tend to lack common sense and forget God and in our convictions, believe we would never again fall, it will never happen to us - until it does. Be careful!!![/size] |
Sun of god: Silly Chap . Was Ojukwu known as 'Papa Debe'?[b][size=16pt]Don't insult the man with your narrow thinking and intelligence, right? ![]() As human beings, have we controls over whom members of our own family, should be? And as children, can we choose whom our parent should bring into the world or no? Or who they should marry after a failed marriage? Though we can influence their behaviours - what if they are adamant and determined with their objectives and if possible, elope elsewhere and still get it done - show me now, how you would wring your neck for it, then? If you want to be told, I'm telling you now that, there are certain things in your life you can not control/help and this is one of them for the 'Ojukwu's' or any family as such. As long as life exists, and men kept living in ungodly ways, this kind if saga will never end and they know where it will all end and be settled - in heaven when they get there. Therefore, stop blaming innocent children, who themselves are victims of their own parents experimentations for the crimes of their parents'! [/size][/b] |
youngies: The will of the late Ikemba Nnewi, Chief Chukwuemeka Odumegwu-Ojukwu, was on Friday presented to the family with his widow, Bianca, getting the lion's share.[size=16pt]Shock, ke?? You better fear Nigerian men! He had even done well and better than most. Have we forgotten the package Abiola left behind?? |
[size=16pt]People, don't be deceived by these witches/wizards and their evil coven - be warned! This is an occult material and has been going around for too long in Europe. Used by occults who have penetrated the Church/Ministries in order to con money off people and recruit new members. Please be warned - some who call themselves men of god have been using this picture/image to con people off money in the Uk - I know that image as I have been a victim of their con and lies and now, smarter than a button, so be warned! It's about occultism (evil powers) and following their instructions, you could be initiated/hooked up into what you'd never understand, as these evil people are every where looking for opportunity and new members to be recruited, be warned! Don't let your curiosity get a better hold of you! [/size] |

