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 Family › Re: Who should a spouse listen to in matters of life and death? Family or the spouse by Theblessed(f): 9:25pm On Apr 03, 2012 |
[size=16pt][b]How awful it is, to loose a loved one and how could I cope, loosing my brother or sister, this way? I can't even imagine it. Hmmm! This is a complex situation but one thing is for sure, legalities or not 'Blood is still thicker than water' no matter what. Besides, spouses come and go even though, you love and care about them, You see, for those of you who would curse their hearts out after reading my contribition here - listen once again, the love for family is 'unconditional love - warts and all' and that of a spouse, boy/girl friend is ' conditional'. To illustrate this further, it is a love that's dependent on something. That is, 'if you do this, I will do that and that and that, bet me and see'. Usually, they do see when their cloth starts flying out of the window, in a black bin bag, period. Other times, the implication can be, emotional detachement from the one hurting and in this kind of relationship, there's always some form of penalties to pay for violating the rules. Enough now! Empathizing with this family, I am so distressed with this sad story. People trying to protect their privacy in an extended family system is one thing but where health/life is concerned, all boundaries should be let open because, one person can not bury a dead body - you need other people to help you hence, the family you tried to avoid in the first place. There's an Igbo proverb that says 'Adighi ata nsiko na nzozo' meaning - you can not eat a crab in secret without someone hearing the cracks! Now, family has heard the crack of this secret adventure. I don't blame the late man perhaps, he was put under immense pressure by those he confided in and his wife too, but at the end of the day, whose body/life is it? 'HIS'. But, he didn't take care of number one instead he allowed his emotion/love for his wife to cloud his judgement over his own life - what a silly boy! In health, there are other ways to manage ill-health and not necessarily, surgical - last resort. It could be managed medically through life without resulting to this. Perhaps, this guy did it to please, his wife probably, nagging him for it. It there were not such pressure put on him, why did he have to do it secretly without at least, his closest sibling knowing about it? You see, in life, love can boil hotter than a volcanic eruption and higher above Mount Everest however, it can also, freeze up below the North pole . This is a fact of life therefore, I challenge those who glamourizes love to deny it. Now, life goes on for those alive - what about the late man? Is there a second chance for him? No, there's no dress rehearsal for him - he's gone forever and without having his own children! And, his widow? Of course, there's a second chance even third for her - she's still young and will find love/happiness again and who should say she shouldn't re-marry? Thus, families should be involved in this kind of decision as you can not avoid family forever because one day, you will definitely, need them. Personally, in order to avoid in-fighting between families I'd rather have the family of the person, undergoing such invasive treatment to make 80% of the decision afterall, it's their son/daughter that is concerned here and, they have had them all their lives - the spouses just arrived because of love and now, when you took love out of the equation, what's left? Show me  I could here people querying? Let's face it, now this guy is gone, put a percentage mark (%) on the loss, pain and grief on both sides of the family and let's see what %age goes to his mother, father, brothers, sisters, aunties, uncles, neices, nephews and the village as a whole compared to his wife's. The truth is clear, isn't it! The owners of the person 'must make the decision' spouse or no spouse, next of kin or no next of kin and, no one else. I'm saying this because, I have one daughter, if anything happens to her and her husband goes on to make a decision without involving me and my family? Hmmmm! He's had it! My response to his action? Where is my klashnicove rifle, I'd bury bullets into him, honest! He'd be dead with her. So, ladies and gentlemen, I suggest, in whatever you do with whoever, wherever, whenever you do it please, remember not to jump into it with your head and all those energies in you because, you need your head to think in times as this, above all, always take care of NUMBER ONE - YOOOOUUUUUUU!!!! [/b][/size] |
| Webmasters › Re: Yoruba The Most Popular African Language On Wikipedia - Jimmy Wales Co-Founder by Theblessed(f): 4:05pm On Apr 01, 2012 |
saxywale: hehehe, don't get it twisted. No one quoting from wiki, it was wiki founder that confirmed the info himself when last he was in Lagos.[size=16pt] Well, as you can see in this case, he failed to do his homework and did not consult his History Book properly before opening up his gab therefore, irrespective of who he is and what he stand for - we take his confirmation this time, at face value - worthless![/size] |
| Webmasters › Re: Yoruba The Most Popular African Language On Wikipedia - Jimmy Wales Co-Founder by Theblessed(f): 3:07pm On Apr 01, 2012*. Modified: 3:47pm On Apr 01, 2012 |
[size=16pt][b]Who is this one? And where are you getting your information from? Wikepedie, eh? Next time, research well before coming here to bias minds. Let just forget about migration of people out of their own zones and focus within Africa alone, as this post suggests. If Yoruba language is the most popular African Language, I wonder what Swahili language is doing on African soil. Swahili is widely spoken by almost everyone in East Africa and Southern and a little towards Central Africa - ok?? If Yoruba language is most popular, has anyway considered perhaps, it could be because of migration - people emigrated in the past and are still emigrating to other parts of the world, far more than other African tribes, eh? Also, slavery may have contributed to the number hence, your Wikipedie statistics! Further, unlike West Africans, East and Southern Africans are not usually known for their migrating prowess/habits - they are usually, HOME BUDDIES! It hasn't been that long when many of them started coming out - mostly, late 70's, 80's and early 1990's till date. So, you can see, they are not averse in travelling thus, their language remained contained mainly, within their own area/environment. Now, lets talk more about the Daddy of all travellers with wheels on its feet - NIGERIANS my own people. When it comes to what I consider wanderers and their normadic lifestyle - we Nigerians are CHAMPIONS OF AFRICAN in that departmet. In fact, we are the Indian of African. Indians are everywhere in the Globe check it - even in the North Pole and I'm sure a Nigerian would be there too -check it out!!!So, next time, get your facts right when you go looking for sources such as Wikipedie to authenticate your story and make it look credible.[/b][/size] |
| Romance › Re: Can You Remain Just Friends With An Ex? by Theblessed(f): 2:44pm On Apr 01, 2012*. Modified: 4:09pm On Apr 01, 2012 |
[size=16pt] Why No?? At least remember the good times you had together when your were together or married - and that should be the bases upon which to continue the friendship especially, where children are involved. In fact, your relationship this time, will be more stronger than before because, you both have gone through a furness and come out the other side respecting each other - just be there for each other in times of need . However, keep it light and don't blurr the boundaries of friendship by extending it to the bedrooms thus, causing emotional pain for everyone involved. Past is past and a new leaf has been turned based on friendship. That's how to do it![/size] |
| Family › Re: My Parents Forgot My Birthday by Theblessed(f): 11:44pm On Mar 27, 2012 |
[size=16pt] Sooooo? Big deal, eh? Birthdays are annual events and there's always another year - so no fuss![/size] |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Having A Conversation With an Atheist About God by Theblessed(f): 10:39pm On Mar 26, 2012 |
[size=16pt]You mean a Gospel conversation, with an Atheist? Brace, yourself!!! Unless the Holy Ghost brakes in, you'd be far too exhausted with stress - with this kind, honest! The demons that possess these lots are many and stubborn therefore, needs casting out first then, you would gain grounds otherwise, you won't make a head way.[/size] 1 Like |
| Politics › Re: Lagos State To Contribute ₦1 Billion To Fund Tinubu's Birthday Celebration? by Theblessed(f): 10:14pm On Mar 26, 2012 |
[size=16pt]Did I hear, Lagos taxpayers to fund Tinubu's birthday or am I hearing double?? Is that information correct or what and may I ask, Why? The birthday is his, na him want partying til 'D' and the taxpayers picks up the bill afterwards, really?? What an abuse of taxpayers money in this country, what an abuse!![/size] |
| Family › Re: Is It Normal For A Woman To Shout At Her Husband? by Theblessed(f): 9:49pm On Mar 26, 2012 |
[size=16]People should understand, it is not right for anyone to shout at anybody, simple! It is rude both at home and most unprofessional to do that, at work! In some professions e.g Health, Social Welfare/Services etc, it can result to a Conduct Committe enquiry/hearing, which could lead to one's dismissal from work therefore, people need to control their dogs both at home and at work. They need to learn to respect each other by talking calmly and quietly that's all we need to make your points. You only hear people shouting at each other in conversation, when one tries to dominate the chat without regards for the other person's view point, as can be seen quite often here, on Nairaland. It's all about having mutual respect for each other.[/size] |
| Family › Re: How Was Your First Year Of Marriage? by Theblessed(f): 11:25pm On Mar 23, 2012 |
[size=18pt]Naturally, first and second year of marriage are usually, blissful for majority of couples however, we must not expect all newly married couples to come out here to disclose some of the pains they endured in their first year experience, must we  Obviously, they won't and if pushed, their response would be ha ha ha - b l i s s f u l!!!!! [/size]  2 Likes |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Was King Solomon Really A Wise Man? by Theblessed(f): 10:54pm On Mar 23, 2012 |
[size=16pt]He who God has blessed who can curse? If the Almighty pronounced Solomon wise, who are you to say otherwise? For those who query King Solomon's wisdom, the reason you hardly could see his deeds as wise is because, you're walking on the natural realm - you are of the world as you view things from the perspective of a natural man/woman instead of spiritual. I suggest, you tap into your spiritual man, he will direct you on the right path. Solomon was and still is, the wisest King - no one has ever shown greater gift, than his![/size] |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Are Spiritual Husbands Real? by Theblessed(f): 12:30am On Mar 17, 2012 |
[size=16pt]Spiritual Husbands/wives?? Sure, they really exist! They are just evil/wicked and they ruin lives! Just pray seriously, rebuking and casting him/her out of your life every day/night in Jesus Name, Amen! You need to fast, and be serious about your prayers to God to protect you from him/her. If stubborn and refuses to go (because, they can be very detemined not to go!), seek help from a strong Holy Ghost Anointed Ministry - the man of God there will destroy the bagger, in the power of the Holy Spirit, in Jesus Name, Amen!! They are evil, tormenting and blocks every chances/opportunities you have in life. Don't let them, continue to spiritually fight and destroy them - you will win in the end.[/size] |
| Politics › Re: Owerri Vs Port Harcourt: Which Is More Developed And Planned? by Theblessed(f): 11:58pm On Mar 16, 2012 |
[size=16pt]It's Port Harcourt, anytime!! More beautiful than Owerri, you can't compare! Also, it attracts International groups than Owerri would ever do besides, the black gold beehives are there to bring them all in so, how could anyone not see that! You can't compare, body!!![/size] |
| Romance › Re: Is It Wise To Marry A Female Lawyer? by Theblessed(f): 2:01am On Mar 13, 2012 |
[size=16pt]First and foremost, if you love this lady, go ahead and marry her. Another point is, if you're one of those men that have no respect for women - please, leave her and seek a village girl for wife - that way you'd be much happier because, a learned women (lawyer or not), will not only speak out for herself but stand up for herself through the rough tumbles of marriage if pushed to the limits. So, if you're looking for a lady who would say, 'yes sir, yes sir' sorry, not a lawyer! Good Luck with your catch! [/size] |
| Family › Re: Nigerian Billionaire Battles British Wife Over $21million Divorce Payout by Theblessed(f): 9:52pm On Mar 03, 2012 |
[b][size=20pt]What kind of a man is this that came here to disrespect his mother, his grandmother, his sisters, aunties, nieces and cousins by showing their 'Butts' on here to the world?? And, I ask, who would ever find happiness, marrying this kind?  What a sad man, you are?? Pity!! What a sad and confused man you really, are! And not only are you sad but also, greedy and wicked. Imagine how low you stooped to disgrace all the females in your family, just to make a point - shame on you!!! It goes to show how low you'd stoop to prevent a woman you loved and married - the mother of your own children from getting her divorce settlement if it happens to you - you could even murder or kill her cold blooded for asking for divorce let alone - settlement. You are, a disgusting and evil man - a messenger of satan sent here on Nairaland to capture some weak souls for his kingdom of darkness - And you all, who like this sort of a thing will rot in hell, soon!! Sure already, some weak minds on N/L have started placing an order for their mothers plastic, shame on you all! Since Miss Plastic is the only way out and solution to the marital hell, most marriages experience and also, an avoidance strategy for paying out divorce settlements perhaps, Miss Plastic would would also, cook your meals, run the home and resolve your need for an "HEIR" for that your silly dirty kingdom? I mean, someone to takeover that your silly kpako when you finally depart to hell! Or, are you going to look for a "LIVE" Barbie to perform that role, Mr clever? You dare not contact any living being of a woman for that role else, the day you dare, would be your last - hypocrite. Keep riding your plastic horse, evil wankerpervert!! [/size][/b] |
| Family › Re: Nigerian Billionaire Battles British Wife Over $21million Divorce Payout by Theblessed(f): 12:13am On Mar 03, 2012 |
[b][size=16pt]So, this divorce wrangling is still being analysed? Oh please, we all should get a life now - make we leave it for the UK courts to decide, abi? In the end, we shall all see whether she's gonna go home with a $2. 5million divorce settlement or $21million, abi? However the matter ends, all we know is that, the courts here will administer justice and justice must be seen to be done in this 15yr marriage? So, make una go home, keep watching this space - my verdict is, the lady is not going home with a $2.5 peanut lai, lai, lai!!! Even if the guy like, make igo drag all his village people and list them as his partners in the business - ino go work here! You know what? The lady would receive a good and handsome handshake for a job well done and, that's a promise! In fact, it's so good the guy laid most of his eggs in the Western markets, abi? The investigation that follows this drama will be very thorough - there is no hiding place and there is not bribery, here! In fact, the investigation in this divorce war will not only expose the guy and open up a lot of worms in his business but also, make him vulnerable to the British Tax system - the British Taxman, will be very interested in him!!!  Goodluck!! And definitely, the lady would receive justice here, as for Nigerian courts? Ignore! Rapu okwu!!!!  [/size][/b] |
| Family › Re: Nigerian Billionaire Battles British Wife Over $21million Divorce Payout by Theblessed(f): 2:41am On Feb 27, 2012 |
Yorisb:[b][size=16pt]But who is this ignoble!!! What do you know about Family Laws of the 21st Century in the Uk? You think, Western legal system is like that of Nigeria where laws are never changed or seen to be enforced appropriately. Look, marriage can be annulled in any Family Courts in the West (remember, I did not say religious courts, here?), it doesn't have to and shouldn't be in the country of your birth or where you got married in the first place. Look before you start interrupting people on here, make sure you do your home work properly, ok?? So, because someone got married in Jamaica and live in the Uk with his/her family - and if they want to go their separate ways therefore, they must head home to Jamaica to do it, abi? Or should we say in this day in age, because, one studied a Science or Engineering Degree he/she must wait for jobs in those fields before he could work and feed his family, when he could find work elsewhere, eh! I know some idiots are still thinking that way in Nigerian today and based on your thinking, you're not far from such group. Yes, its true the Oil man and his wife live in the Uk and if she or he is on holiday in America or Canada or still in the UK and feels that, American or Canadian justice could do him/her good then, he/she is free to ask to settle the matter there - what matters, is it not that both get justice and that's what courts are there to do?? It doesn't matter where you file for divorce - what matters is getting justice and African courts or Nigerian courts would never give a woman justice, abi? Maybe, only South African courts in Africa as a whole could even think of it - giving a little justice to a women, shame! Right, here's a little home work for you. You see, when Mick Jagger and Jerry Hall his longer term, long suffering girlfriend and mother of his 4 children went to somewhere in Indonasia and got married in a Hindu tradition/ceremony in the early 1990's - we all thought Mike had finally sowed his wild oaks not realising there was a baby coming into the world from South America by another young model - LG. This event obviously, ruffled their marriage and Jerry head off to the British courts and asked for divorce only to be shocked when her husband contested the validity of the Indonasian Hindu marriage - as not legal and settled her only £10 million after many years together whilst the mother of his love-child got £6 millions when she sought paternity and won. And, I'm asking you Mr clever Lawyer, with great juri-prudence at your disposal - in which Country/City did Jagger contest that divorce? Was it not in Britain, was it not in a British Family courts and was it not in the City of London for that matter? clever!!! Listen, if you don't know your ABC on issues raised here in Nairaland please, ask first, people would direct and open you blind eyes, ok! There's nothing wrong in asking for ideas/direction from those who know, than pretending to live a lie - that's ignorance. Next time, dare not interrupt my commentary here until you'd researched your work, ok! Now, go and google the above names and find out things - try and learn more about people and behaviours before coming out here to challenge ideas you're so timid about, lazy man! [/size][/b] |
| Family › Re: Nigerian Billionaire Battles British Wife Over $21million Divorce Payout by Theblessed(f): 2:30am On Feb 27, 2012 |
[b][size=16pt]Personally, I have heard too much of this little tsekiri Customary law coming to be used and applied in a British court on a divorce case, when British law is active. Naaaah!! It's wishful thinking and pure waste of time - British law and justice would be seen and applied - watch this space! I heard that his brother, in 2008 went to Nigerian court and applied for whatever reason - and I ask, why in 2008 instead of the start of the business? What were they doing all these years to secure such information until now? And, how could the guy's father come now to claim he is indeed, a partner in the business because he lent his son £13,000+ in support of the business. We need to see the business contract bearing the names of all the partners, their capital contributions and shares in the business. And, if he is a partner in the business it will be proven isn't? All the documentations used in the business dealings both those in Nigerian and in the Uk should and must bear the names/signatures of all the partners from the start. Don't worry this would be thoroughly investigated and then, he would be made a lier in court here, watch this space! You see, he is not the first Nigerian nor the last that would ever manipulate things to suit his needs and got found out in court and disgraced, because of money! We will watch it!! Listen man, you're dealing with British legal system and you'll see the heavy weight when it lands on you. This is not Nigeria where you could forge everything and get away with it - here experts will investigate, they'd excavate and carbon date every document you present to the court in order to reveal the truth so that justice can be seen to be done. The truth is, the money belongs to both of you - no family member contributed a dime and now, they're all active partners in the business - we shall see, shan't we? Just settle your wife appropriately and move on and what is £2.5m when you both amassed such wealth? That's so mean, man!! Typical Nigerian man,huh! [/size][/b] |
| Family › Re: Nigerian Billionaire Battles British Wife Over $21million Divorce Payout by Theblessed(f): 3:38am On Feb 26, 2012 |
[b][size=16pt]Well the woman is just so laid-back. I can't imagine that she allowed her marital to be discussed in Nigerian courts when she should have taken him - not to the UUKcourts as they would be llenienton him rather, she should have taken him to the USA - there he would have known water dey two types: [list] [li]Hot water [/li] [li]Cold water [/li] [/list] In fact, he would have return to Nigerian in his boxer shorts and flipflops because, their courts no dey take nnonsense Na she cause her own trouble for allowing him to get to the courts before you. Also, it depends where the family fortune is investmented/secured right now - if in Nigeria, forget about it and if the West then, counter-petition him in any of the Western courts since you are not happy with the deal. Also, to be able to maintain the opulent lifestyle he introduced you to all your married life after this divorce (my assumptions), take him to US courts, them go squeeze some chunks off him unless you had a prenup then, their hands would be tied. As for British courts, prenups doesn't really work here as its not legally, recognised - and Parliament had not passed any laws to that effect thus, you would've had a better chance here in the UK. After all, you married him in the West, nobe so o? Then, out-smart him by taking him there to decide your future! Indeed US courts, would have made you so, so happy! You see, if its true that Nigerian courts are deciding this matter then, count your losses and move on, as they won't really support your right to divorce a wayward husband and at the same time, asking for equitable divorce settlement - big mistake babe, big mistake but good luck with the fight at least, in the end you'd have your freedom to live a happy and independent life!!! [/size][/b] |
| Family › Re: Nigerian Billionaire Battles British Wife Over $21million Divorce Payout by Theblessed(f): 6:06pm On Feb 25, 2012 |
[b][size=16pt]Of course we know, you hardly could find a rich woman in her kitchen cooking the family dinner unless she volunteered to do dinners that day for a change, for her family and why would she when her money can do the cooking. She can easily afford a salaried 'Chef' to do that and why would she if she doesn't want to - and there's no need for it, is it - the money is there, use it! I wouldn't want my finger nails cracked doing family dinners every day but from time to time definitely, I will take charge. The problem is, our orientations in Africa - poverty and suffering has led to our men calculating and weighing up everything against the worth the woman they married - look you can not quantify a woman's worth!! In fact, you can not quantify the worth of any human being, ok! So, put back that your mental Arithmetic and calculator in the your pocket, ok! The main core here is that, the professionals in this case are not looking at it the way you lot are, narrowly - rather, they are looking at it from a broader perspective - all cards on the table and he must pay up, ok! She contributed and it was a long marriage, compared to some in the rich circles! The fact that she doesn't want to be in the boat any more doesn't mean she should be deprived - she must be settled and let her move, if that's what she wants life must go on after divorce. But, why is that men find it difficult to cope with divorce especially, when the table is turned on them?? It's your turn, now take it and shut up!!  [/size][/b] |
| Family › Re: Nigerian Billionaire Battles British Wife Over $21million Divorce Payout by Theblessed(f): 4:50pm On Feb 25, 2012 |
[b][size=16pt]Well, everyone has something to say about marriage, isn't it? Including those who have not, and does not know what it is to be married. When he should have married a Nigerian woman, who would have only settle for a Million Pound when things go wry and go home (if she'd ever divorce him) instead he wanted him pikins to look white when he, himself is black. Some would say na choice, nobe so o?? Well, na choice but also take the package that comes with it, and shut up! Make he settle the lady quick and stop looking for ways to hide away the 'Nuts' here and there because, anywhere he hid them - them go be dug up! Remember, most of his investments might have been concentrated/focused in the Western world and with this in mind, where's he escaping from? And, how far could he run with the 'Nuts'. Either way, he will definitely pay up!Also remember, he's dealing with the British - 48+ Countries of the World are their friends so, where ever he hid the money will be excavated, piled together, apportioned and shared appropriately and we'll witness justice being done under our own eyes here, won't we? Kpele o if I have ruffled feathers here! Some are hailing/calling him a smart Nigerian guy, is he really?? Time will come when you all will be sorry for him because, Justice must be done. Also, for some of you who disregards women, listen - wives also contributes to their family wealth in terms of sacrifices they make in marriage hence, the need to settle her if she doesn't want the marriage anymore. For example, giving up careers to raise a famly, managing the home and what about her cooking - the good 'ol English Breadfast, Roast pork and beef together with Yorkshire pud and gravy, bangers and mash, eh? What about the Apple pie, spotty d i c k etc that he enjoyed whilst being married to her? Aha, just back from a business trip - to an opulent and comfortable family environment, everything is ready waiting for him - warm bath/jaccuzi in the corner and deliciously succulent dinner to be washed down with good quality wine of preference, abi? What about her nursing him back to health from those complex headaches that wouldn't go away, those night fevers, catarrh and that sudden pains from ingrowth toenails he suffered, eh? And, what about her frequent oil massages on those stiff shoulders and tired legs she revived back to health, abi? And don't even mention, her healing soft hands touching those hairy chest and reassuring him of her love whilst viewing the bedroom ceiling, excuse me? And finally, she is a trophy wife, isn't she? Slim, blonde and probably blue eyed and has also given him blonde/red head heirs to his Kingdom - prince and princesses, abeg? Perhaps, through her background and the people she knew before marrying him, some lucrative business connections did emerge, which may have contributed to this immense wealth so, why deprive her of her rights and contributions to this community wealth. She has a right to it and she must claim it - otherwise, another women whom I'm sure is waiting in the wings right now, will definitely claim without a flinch, all that she'd worked for in this marriage and with the level of affluence here, it will happens again, only time will tell!! An Igbo proverb says, the same hand a man take marry the first wife - na the same hand igo take marry the second, the third and so, so, so etc and remember, a leopard never changes its spots! Whatever caused trouble for this marriage is likely to surface again in the next - watch this space!!! So, anyone who say wives do not help to grow money, wealth in the family must think again because, the Legal system and its lawyers, the Economists, the Accountants and the Actuaries (i.e. Insurance) see it in a different light from you all who are ignorantly analysing what you don't understand about justice, time, profits, loss/wastage and settlements - the professionals do the sums accordingly, and not you lot! So, make una go sidon, the woman deserves her divorce settlements and she must get them afterall, the Oba go keep a chunk of the wealth because of the business, his children and family's inheritance and, soon will be marrying another queen, and that lady won't go quietly either when it happens to her so, why must the first wife leave behind all she worked/contributed to, in the family for her second - So lady, take what belongs to you and move on - tough, that's life! [/size][/b] |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Chris Oyakhilome- self-service Is Not A Sin. by Theblessed(f): 3:34am On Feb 21, 2012 |
[size=16pt]Hmmmm! This Pastor's gonna take some people to 'hell' with him - may God help una! If you want to end up in hell, go on and practice what he preached to your ears but remember, Jesus did not teach that or any thing remotely similar/close to what Oyakhilome's teaching is advocating in your ears. Does anyone needs to be told what he teaching is - sodomy? intimate perversion - which Paul condemned fiercely in the New Testament - too bad! Now it's up to you, go tryam and continue dey tryam until your wrist dis-locate, ok? One thing is for sure, satan is smiling in hell with you and Pastor Chris. I just can't understand why some Pastors think, they have a monopoly over the interpretion of scriptures in Bible - when they only interpret the scriptures based on their own weak moral values and away from the teachings of our Lord Jesus Christ. May God have mercy on their souls! [/size] |
| Romance › Re: 22years Got Married To 68 Yo Lady Today by Theblessed(f): 9:56pm On Feb 18, 2012 |
[b][size=16pt]I won't comment on this one because, there are things that need not commenting about but gonna say this. When a little boy start sleeping with his grand mother's age mate - what's stopping him from going straight to his grandma instead Blood line or abormination?? Take a pick? Perhaps, scarcity of young women all over the world?? You bet your luck! There's something psychologically wrong with these kinds and their families - it's called "DESPARANDO" tint with laziness. For a hot blooded young man to latch on to a vulnerable elderly in nuptia is, so disturbing! Similar to the posts we analysed last month, can't you all see how happy these young men felt with their 'One foot in the grave brides'.? All smiles - from cheek to cheek, eh? "Desparando" is wicked and that tells it all! They say a picture can tell many stories but the one above, is telling a trillion stories to the world! It's terribly awful, and may God help us in our quest for survival in this country! Shame! [/size][/b] |
| Culture › Re: What Aspects Of Our Nigerian Culture Should Be Abolished? by Theblessed(f): 11:30pm On Feb 08, 2012 |
[b][size=16pt]No, no, no!!! Not all our cultural Heritage should be abolished rather, most need reformation of the law and, traditional aspects to align with modern time and living. Many of these cultures and traditions are archaiac and should be redress to suit our techno-socio-cultural needs of today. For example, the Igbo culture of inheritance needs to be looked at SERIOUSLY - women are dis-inherited from their parents properties, once they are married and, that can not be right. They do not inherit any thing but they inherit family problems and responsibilities even though they are married - how can that can be right! It is sinful!!!!!!!! They say, Rights and Responsibility goes hand in hand but, not in Igbo land - this is evil! Another, is the Osu stigmatisation, it has to stop. There is no such thing as Osu - it is a demonic practice created by our forefathers! It is the ancient people that started this rubbish - they worshipped idol and that's evil in the eyes of God. After all, all human beings are sinners - who isn't? Show me the person therefore, why treat someone else the way the Osu's of Igboland are treated. That has to stop as we don't live in the ancient times anymore. Thirdly, the Bride Price or dowry system has to go. There is no need for slavery these days - selling people for money. It is only greed in most families kept this going - it has to stop. To me, that's what the Ohaneze of ndi Igbo need to address in this modern times and stop their ita ugba na okporoko and ira ngo, they all enjoy in their Igbo meetings because, it's a waste of our time if they don't address important issues in our culture/traditions to meet with modern times. That's my take! Now, open your gub at me! [/size][/b] |
| Health › Re: Why Do People Bleach Their Skin. by Theblessed(f): 10:50pm On Feb 08, 2012 |
[size=16pt]You mean why do some Nigerian women bleach their skin? Well, there is a socio-cultural demand for it and where there's demand for a particular product there's bound to be supply for it. Una men like Oyibo skin - dem like women with fair, yellow skin colour etc, abi? They prefer fair skin women when their own mothers are as black as coal. In showing this kind of preference in skin colour, indicates they hate themselves and share the same attributes as the late Jackson. So, that's the answer you been waiting for, and because of this reason, most Nigerian women with issues of confidence, low self esteem, assertiveness and difficulty attracting the opposite sex, goes out of their ways in poisoning their own skin, in order to get this attention What else, can lead a person with out African skin beauty do outrageous things as this if not the above and the ignorance that goes with it? Tell me more, I need to know! [/size] |
| Phones › Re: Broadband Is Next Phase Of Telecoms Revolution – Juwah by Theblessed(f): 10:16pm On Feb 08, 2012 |
[size=16pt]Yes you're absolutely right, Dr Juwa. But I ask next phase for who? For Nigeria, I suppose! Can't you see, most countries of the world are already on top of it but, when will you stop talking about it and start doing for Nigerians, instead. Get on with it and stop rambling.? [/size] |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Paul Ado Bayero: Kano Emir's Grandson Who Converted To Christianity by Theblessed(f): 12:29am On Feb 08, 2012 |
[size=16pt]Praise, Praise God Almighty for the life of, Paul! What a powerful Testimony to the glory of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ the Son of God, Amen, Amen and, Amen! One day, just one day - all the people in that part of the country will see the light and with their mouths, souls and spirit praise our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ - Halelujah, Halelujah, Halelujah in Jesus Name, Amen! What a fantastic testamony! In everything concerning God, the devil will always try to prevent/hinder but the light of God surmounts and crush up the evil powers of satan by fire, Amen! For the devil is under our feet in Jesus Name, Amen! Thank you Jesus, thank you Lord - thank you father in Heaven, thank you for Paul and others like him who have been and still going through persecution from messengers of satan yet, they saw and recieved the light of Jesus Christ - an, everlasting life! Praise God, Halelujah, Amen! [/size] |
| Romance › Re: 23 Years Old Nigeria Man, Marries 68 Years Old Greek Wife by Theblessed(f): 3:44am On Feb 05, 2012 |
[b][size=16pt]But who say this guy married a 68 year old?? Can't anyone see, it was her who married the guy. By the way who paid for the travel back home for this wedding? Obviously, it was madam. And who paid for the wedding itself? Check it out, it was her. Imagine, who is sitting on the husband's side of the couch smiling, touching and claiming ownership/possession of her property (i.e. hand on the knee) whilst the guy seemed miserable? It was still the madam - there you go!! Think una say women no fit marry men - I don dey happen for una eye. Make una wait, more strange things will soon hit una for eyes o o. Make una no blame the guy o o, blame it on your past leaders who ruined this country thereby plunged everyone into economic hardship thus resulting to, many confused and broken Nigerian men. Let's face it, naturally and culturally, Nigerian men are not known to do things like this,abi?? Eh?? At least, they are known and are very good at, denying any involvement with an unfortunate young woman that happens to find herself pregnant by them. They rarely own up to the responsibility let alone been keen, and interested in going out with a young lady with a child from another man (except if loaded). No, such a lady is classed as second hand article and who wants a second hand article for wifery, when there are many pretending first hands around, talk of being actually married to their great granma!!! Aru don happen!!!Imagine as proud as Nigerian men are, who could today believe they'd end up poking under their granma's skirt for survival? The world don kpafuka!!! Fear don dey catch me, for una o o o! Aru don't happen!!!!!! Anyway - guy, more grease to una elbow I hope it last in heaven o o and produce many happy pikins. O'dear, I wish una good luck o o!!!! [/size][/b] |
| Health › Re: High Heels Can Cause Physical Damage by Theblessed(f): 11:52pm On Feb 02, 2012 |
[size=16pt]Don't women know this? Or, does any one of us, need to be told Or, is that how nature intended our feet to hang - up there?? And, you thought that's natural, eh??Common sense they say, is not really common in most people. Even babies could see it's not normal, and can make mummy's feet very sore - and not do the school run for weeks because of damage, it can cause. Get it, sometimes, fashion can kill!!![/size] |
| Family › Re: Getting Married To A Widower by Theblessed(f): 11:26pm On Feb 02, 2012 |
fellis:[size=30pt]Thick head, what exactly is your problem, eh? Petty jealousy, or---? So, you're not yet blind after reading my work? Thought, you'd have been! And, if you are not, why not? Maybe this would give you the cure, you need! I d i o t, how many times would I warn you - stop reading my work, if it's causing you blindness! Or do I have to remind you of your glucoma, thick head? I command you out of my doormot now, by fire!!! PPPaaaaaasssss!!! Wanka!!!! [/size] |
| Politics › Re: Uwazuruike To Igbo Leaders: You Are Callous by Theblessed(f): 10:25pm On Feb 02, 2012 |
[b][size=16pt] There is no man in Nigeria, that could compare with Odimegwu Ojukwu - in any and every aspect. In terms of, leadership, honesty, boldness, intelligence, confidence, fearlessness, self-sacrifice, love, respect and pride in his people, no one! Bring them on, let's see! He was the only man in Nigeria with "BALLS"abi?? No one else, and I challenge you to bring them on!!!! Ikemba, we love you and will always love you forever but we miss you terribly!! This is a man that gave us everything he and his family had yet, we Igbos had never rewarded him nor his family - we took and never gave back, shame!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Without Ikemba, some of you guys, who are now, calling yourselves leaders would have been in your graves, doing so. I could see some of you calling yourselves leaders and eager to lead our people and I ask, to where? To the abyss/oblivion, eh? To lead, you must be able to demonstrate the qualities of a good leader and none of you actually, have what it takes to lead the Igbos - do you? You do not have those qualities instead, you are juxstaposing for political recognition at the expense of Igbo future. You are all seeking politcal positions and its benefits but without the responsibilities that goes with such position - you can not have it until you demonstrate, your worthiness - not in terms of your material wealth but genuine leadership qualities. You are only waiting for us to say our 'Good byes!' to our Ikemba before, the real fight for leadership begins and that's when we Igbos will lay our cards on the table for you all. Ojukwu led us, self-sacrificially and never grumbled nor ever asked for a penny back from us - would you Mr Leader?? I wonder, how many of you would do so!!!! Therefore, if you know you can not give your life for us, Igbo people please, don't ever consider our leadership position because, when the going go tough, you wouldn't be our 'Ojukwu' - would you You'd abandon ship and leg it - off to your Mansion in Britain, America, Germany, Switzerland, Rome etc - you name it! So, if you're not prepared to sacrifice everything for us no need to consider the Igbo leadership position and based on your attitudes right now, it does not seem any one of you could go a mile further, than Ikemba. You're all fighting for political gains but, forgot that rights comes with responsibility! Igbos, we're not fools and, remember the adage,"IGBO ENWE EZE". As you can see, Igbos can do without one, if none of you are suitable for that post always, remember that, "IGBO ENWEGI EZE". We can do without anyone of you! I did not say it rather, ndi ochie said it all and it has been, in Igbo proverb ever since and it will continue to be a reminder to all of you, who think you've got "balls" to lead us and we are watching, you! [/size][/b] |
| Family › Re: Getting Married To A Widower by Theblessed(f): 7:48pm On Feb 02, 2012 |
[b][size=16pt]Widow or a widower - which exactly do you want us to consider her? A widow?? Well, if a widow - my thoughts are, why on earth do people always like to enter troubled waters instead peace and quiet in their lives? Later, you'd all come out here on Nairaland, to cry wolf Why would anyone want to marry a widow with 3 children to feed - is it because, there's scarcity of single hot blooded young women out there or you want to play a little messaiah to her and her children or what Sympathy? Sympathy has creeped in, has it?? Marrying her out of sympathy, eh?? Wrong reason, it won't last beyond your front door. And if it does, you'd regret it unless, you have your own family with her. Even with your good intentions, when the kids grow up and flew the nest, they might or might not remember and you'd be left as though - a messager and there's nothing your beautiful widow could do about it! Go get yourself a single woman without any baggage, please - there's so much trouble in this life to deal with than taking on someone else's left-over! Or you want to do it because, you haven't got enough to pay dowry on a beautiful young woman? I'll see if I could lend you a hand in that area - lol!!!!!!!!!!! Yes, if you're looking for a role in the widow's life, why not consider helping her raise her kids by being a good Charity sponsor to them - she would reward your effort in kind, assuming she's not doing so right now hence, this degree of emotional attachement that you'd displayed here! Well, since you want to help - take a role, help her with the children's school fees at least and that would certainly show you really care, and want to help her but, making her your Mrs might not be a good move unless----! (see no.2) No. 2. If you're considering enlarging your own family/clan - go on, what a marvelous idea! That will get you really noticed!! No. 3. Or do it if you have no family of your own at all, and no other ways of creating one yourself - that could benefit you all, in the end! At least, the kids will always remember you, as a good and fantastic dad! Good luck! [/size][/b] |
| Family › Re: Is It Possible Not To Have A Favourite Amongst One's Children? by Theblessed(f): 8:23pm On Jan 21, 2012 |
[b][size=16pt] Preacher Man, thanks for your analysis of the Israeli relationship with the rest of the world. For God loves his people and, he swore an everlasing convenant with them and that can never change, because God is not a man that he should lie! Again, in Isaiah chpt. 55 v.10 - 11, he said, "As the rain and snow comes down from Heaven and do not return to it without watering the earth and making it bud and flourish---so it's my word that goes out from my mouth---" I leave you to finish th rest of the verse. God does not lie, for he will never completely, turn his back on Israel, ok!!!!!!!!!!! The Bible tells us that God will never be angry with his people forever. It's a love, sin, punish, plea and forgiveness kind of relationship he has with them and has always, if you don't know! So, if anyone think that God has forgotten or turn his back on Israel, you think again because, the word and promises of God must be fulfilled whether you like it or not. And if you think the way you do about Israel, and believed God has deserted them why did he say,' See, I will becon to the Gentiles --- they will bring your sons in their arms and carry your daughter on their shoulders", (Isaiah Chpt. 49 v.22). He also said, "I will bless those who blesses Israel and curse those who curses them". Is it not happening, now? The Children of Israel are now returning back to their Father land - a promised land given to them and who are the people sponsoring this return - Is it not the GENTILES whom God promised to bless / It is happening through Christain Charities and other Charitable groups and Governments - all the GENTILES!So get it, God is not a man that he should lie - the word of God must come to pass! Secondly, the Name of our God is, God Almighty - an everlasing God, there is nothing impossible for him to do. He changeth not but he changes situation by, fire! He is a consuming fire!(Heb Chpt 12 v. 29). Gorit Therefore, God is entitled and has the power to do as he pleases - and to change his mind 110 million time per second, if he choses! So, if God reversed his promise to Samuel, as cited by you (1 Samuel Chpt. 2 v. 30) who are we to query that. God is entitled to change his mind any time and there are many example in the Bible to show he can, and has done. But God has a word for you and those who think like you - he swore with 'Uplifted Right Arm", he will never abandon Israel. So, Israeli situation and their neighbours, man can not resolve but God - that's what disobedience bring to mankind and Moses warned them about it. If they'd done properly what God told them to do,'Enter the land and take possession', but laziness, and complecency got hold of them hence, their misery today. Also, they were warned not to inter-marry from nations around them because they'd follow their ways e.g. idol worshipping etc and they did - otherwise, all these troubles won't be afflicted them, today. So, we can all see, that disobedience does not pay, it can bring misery hence, the kata kata in that region today. Also, you spoke as if Israel had ever accepted Jesus Christ as their Messaiah and Saviour? Israel has never embraced Jesus Christ as their Saviour even when he was there with them - they were still asking when their Messaiah would come (they never embraced Christ then, how could they now become CHRISTAINS?) so, what makes anyone think they will accept him now. Obviously, there are some Christains among them and not a lot. So only God can resolve all the problems in the troubled waters, no one else - and that would happen on the last day! Therefore, stop preaching! Finally, concerining the colour of my texts, please don't lecture about my font and colour, ok! It's my choice and, you have yours - keep to it! You needn't read my work - if its hurting you good eyes - do you, eh? Therefore, you wouldn't get them blinded, would you? So, live and let live and please, let the sleeping dog lie, ok!!!! [/size][/b] |
