₦airaland Forum

Spy360:
Do you think that in a free and fair election, with above 50% turn out of eligible voters, that Tinubu will win 20% of the votes?

If your answer is yes, then I'll stop

He won't win, but you must agree that he has supporters, and they're enough to create the nuisance value they create.

Spy360:
As I dey so, I had to switch off generator because the noise wants to scatter my brain.

Do you have a generator?

There's nothing you'd say that would ever make Dayo have mercy on you, know this and know peace.

If he was in Nigeria, and in your shoes...or worse breaking palm kernel with garri in a dimly lit room this very night (because of APCs misgovernance) he'd still swear by the mandate of Amoda Ogunlere.

I've come to realize that however much APC abroadians might seem wicked, they truly aren't wicked and if they were in Nigeria, they would support these wicked policies just as much as they do from abroad.

Despite the suffering that APC has meted out on Nigerians, there are millions of Nigerians that swear by that party, and would thumbprint for them no matter what.

The things that the rest of us see as needless suffering, the slightly delusional cornvicts see as punishment for the days we lived fake life, while the truly delusional ones believe it's necessary for us to suffer now because some day in the future this suffering will lead to enjoyment

It's just unfortunate that there's no way to split the country along voting decisions so those that have chosen APC(666) would face the consequences of their decisions solely and squarely.

GloriousGbola:
It is a bunch of backward backwoods illiterates. Calling a person out for a celebrity crush? So what will they say about Don Jazzy and Rihanna? Our very own chief sweetus and Rita Dominic? No be the other day we dey talk about milfey maya Harris?

Abeggi

A crush on a distant and unavailable person? You know how many women dey crush on idris Elba? Or even peak Obama or Bill Clinton or trudeau?

Those making noise about this are people who really are limited to where they visit on the net.

Go to reddit. There is a subreddit ladyboners. And there is oldschoolcool where guys reminisce on their first celeb crushes.

Teasing people about their celeb crushes should be good natured fun. Not gotcha bitterness and bile

I'd be surprised if the entire episode is anything more than something to laugh over for AG and Simi.

semid4lyfe:
I don't even know or understand why flint is defending Simi.

Because I know these are jokes directed at artistes and celebs she's a fan of, plus her spouse is comfortable with the situation, and seems a fan of JCole too, so it's roasting.

Maybe she shouldn't have carried on married, but some couples try to continue exactly as friendly as they were prior to getting married. And I've not seen anything that indicates that she's not devoted to her partner, well other than the jokes

In today's hyper woke world, I know we'd like to pretend that grapey jokes from men to women, and from women to men are the same, but I still don't think so. Context makes jokes and the fact that men are on average super capable of carrying theirs out makes it carry a different weight.

That said, just like Ezra, Simi is a victim of a gender war culture she's been a part of, so I understand people not showing her grace.

raumdeuter:
If in previous years that life was being subsidized with debts which have huge interest on it then what has been achieved

Tinubu is borrowing to facilitate real-time suffering

DissTroy:
TheFlint1, this is more damaging.

She knew and she kept talking to Adekunle Gold like a cúckold.

No more excuses.

Compare the tweet to the screenshot.

https://x.com/i/status/548118068757794816

People dey get celebrity crush na, and this was before they even became celebs sef, so would just be normal ribbing between 25 year old lovers.

You guys need to do better with your digging, cause these ones no be am at all.

Her only real "crime" is being a rabid feminist, and if that's the standard, you're just as guilty with your unhealthy consumption of red pill.

raumdeuter:
Any lifestyle you live that your income cannot maintain is a fake life. Dont you think so

Of course, and it wouldn't matter whether I could maintain this lifestyle years ago on less income, it'd simply be my failure to outgrind extreme misgovernance.

TemporaryHansel:
Can you even hear yourself? Is APC's goal to make people suffer or complain endlessly?
I hope someday I'll be able to know if you're actually serious about what you say in defense of APC here or if you're just joking.

Yes, it's the belief of the average cornvict that we're living fake life.

GloriousGbola:
the unfortunate fact is that a large number of women HAVE been sexually assaulted. and it is usually by someone they know.

if we are honest with ourselves, there has always been a very very casual attitude towards rape in these parts

there are multiple incidents that i remember from my years in school where there was clearly sexual assault

one time in ife or UI apparently it was the culture that a girl who turned down too many guys would be 'wazzed' to 'teach her a lesson'

you have guys daring a girl to drink, telling her she cant handle beer like them - she takes up the challenge, gets black out drunk and then they take turns sleeping with her. then they go around telling everyone she is a sl-t

i have spoken more than once about a medical student who we all knew as a prolific serial grapist back then. very well spoken, very handsome, very smooth predator. he did not want sex - he wanted the power of forcing himself on a terrified victim. so yes, he would ask girls on dates, they would go to his place with him, and then rather than a jointly consummated affair, he would force himself on them, and then bully and threaten them

one victim basically developed mental issues and had to be taken to a psychiatrist. that was when the whole story came out and he was arrested. the guy got away with it and everyone in his circle believed it was a setup

like most deviants, he could not stop and he got weirder and weirder. he started doing gang grapes with a friend whee they would get the girl to his place , take turns, take pictures, shave the victims public hair. they did this to a girl whose friends dad was a police commissioner. that was how they got busted and arrested and the whole thing blew open. [this time everyone new what was up]. But the guy is a practicing doctor today. this is the side we don't talk about or acknowledge and may be why some women have the same approach to this that the black jury had to the OJ trial. yes we know oj is guilty, but black people have been fked over in court so many times we will let him get away with it

there was a girl i knew in school who grew up in unilag . her dad was DSA at one time. NOTHING can make this girl come to your room. Likely because as a child growing up in unilag, she had seen and heard it all. once you were in the guys room/place, it is no longer he forced himself on me, but, what were you looking for here?

one time these boys in the room next to mine actually tried to set up the gf of one of them. she came to see the guy, and while she was waiting, they jumped on her. the only saving grace is she was a very razz babe who immediately started shouting the house down until guys in the hostel intervened.

consequence free Sexual assault is a very real thing and we should not pretend that it does not exist.

Very well said, or is it the craziness that happens at university parties/bonfires where a girl would be doing what could be termed open air romance in the course of dancing, going one guy after another, then all of a sudden because some guys can't wait their turn or feel like the girl has been monopolized proceed to mob assault her Indian men style, and the result is either a fight between the girl and the guys (if she's strong enough), or she succumbs and she leaves the place in tears.

Back then, being "decent" was not being a part of the mob and in our minds we'd feel like the girl was making a mountain of what had happened to her, afterall "nothing had changed", and the anger you feel towards the guys is they messed what was a good thing up for everyone. But with maturity you know it's two very different things, and her consent and control over what was happening was just as important as what was happening.

Or is it the entitlement guys feel to sex from a girl once they hear she's easy game, to the extent where they'd pick offence if she rebuffs their advances? We see symptoms of this play out in our markets where men assume they can assault a woman because she's skimpily dressed.

On the flip side, there's also a culture around sex that makes women believe they must play silly resistance games that's akin to a fight with the guy so they don't look "cheap", and if you take cue and not push when she puts up that resistance they say you didn't want them enough, or not a real G or whatever.

These conversations are pretty nuanced, and the feminists and red pillers who are essentially two sides of the same coin pick very extreme positions that prevents people from coming to the truth of male-female relationship dynamics. Nothing gets reesolved, and the actual bad eggs in the male-female camps hide under the confusion to continue doing awful stuff.

GloriousGbola:
if you look well, you will see some of the fonts are distorted. easy to fool the lazy, but the person who actually checks will see it as a badly done hatchet job

Yea, I get, drives home point.

Trevor012:
Oga delete that screenshot before theflint1 enemies use it against him in future arguments

You dey mind am, e no see one of e many posts take use do example, na my own e see

GloriousGbola:
https://lehiattorneys.com/divorce-admissibility-of-digital-evidence-whatsapp-chats/








the problem is that all these are easy to manipulate and if you don't have very tech savvy people across the board .. .one time someone shared a faked report indicting me for a major site issue. this person claimed they had sent this report to me a month ago. they copied everyone. but i was able to show that they had in fact edited the report the day before. if i was not a techie - everyone else would have been deceived




clear verifiable evidence that theflint1 plays for the other team. dont think you can edit your post

i also have the screenshots

Lol, I remember one time when someone switched I and 1 in Nihilists moniker and attacked Seankafor, only for Seankafor to start attacking the real Nihilist and that one didn't know where the attack originated from.

There's challenges with using social media messages and that extent of technical savvy of the parties involved is a serious one.

DissTroy:
Nobody gives a tuppence about any of these people. For the Twitter trolls, if they can push an agenda, get a hearty laugh, with engagements and go viral, sounbaorded by blogs to Facebook and Instagram and even news websites, which makes them more popular, they would ruin your life for it.

Your pain is no more than a topic for engagement, from Mohbad to Simi.

I don't believe Simi doesn't love Adekunle Gold. She's just a fan of J Cole. I believe she's crazy in love with AG and she didn't just settle for him.

I had my own phase of 'simping' for Kelly Rowland as the most gorgeous woman in the world, and Lana Del Rey. I was following either on social media but I loved them.

Only thing is, I never posted or fantasized about banging Kelly or coercing her to have a baby by me even with voodoo hynotism, or claiming if I meet her in person, I would slip by my wife to go bang Kelly Rowland.

Now that's borderline obsession and 'rapéy' – the very thing she campaigns against today.

John Legend's wife is a pariah because of old tweets about her fantasizing about råping kids and môlesting men. Carbi B use to tweet about drûgging and rôbbing men.

Unfortunately, women don't face the same consequences men face so...

It's a bit weird, and a way women show they're simping for celebs, but it's common enough to be overlooked, and yea, it'd be looked at differently if a guy made such tweets cause they're often physically capable of carrying such acts out.

Kimbeast:
Stop deceiving yourself. WhatsApp conversations and every social media conversations and chats are weak evidence and are easily dismissed in court for being unreliable. But it's ok, keep on living in your bubble.

If it's not properly done it's weak evidence, but when properly done is admissible.

DissTroy:
At this point, men are hell-bent on ruining Simi's marriage by projecting AG as a retirement plan and attacking his ego.

Unfortunately for you, you're married to Adekunle Gold who happens to be your retirement plan.

She has always liked J Cole but obviously he didn't notice her because she's a mid artist who was never in his league, so she had to settle for who was available at the time which was… https://t.co/kE12lkrNJ7 pic.twitter.com/I5RHfjh9ED

— KING CHIDI (@guzu_p) February 20, 2026

Do not reward a combative overly- temperamental woman with commitment; and certainly not a ring. She'll bring you reproach.

There are hundreds and thousands of such narratives of her old tweets going viral now, and knowing X folks, they'd run her out of X and ruin her reputation.

For the first time in years, Simi united Tech Twitter, Crypto Twitter, Tribalismo Gang, BATists, Obidients, Patriarchy FC...everyone. Not even EndSARS united them this closely.

The reproach in question being dragging from jobless 18/19 year old red piller randos on the Internet?

Husband and wife are artistes, wife is a super fan of JCole, husband links with JCole and facilitates a FaceTime with his wife's favorite artiste and you guys believe this is what you'd use to drive a wedge in their marriage or make AG feel less of himself

I'd be surprised if this dragging is anything more than comic relief to them.

Ballzproblemm:
*dollar is falling*

Yeah cause it's getting weaker hence why gold and silver are rising,apc stooge will take credit Sha,ah well.

Let's say that's solely the case, that Naira has held steady for as long as it has is cause for thanks.

God punish Emefiele and Buhari... Very dark days.

DissTroy:
I will improvise.

Me: "Babe, when did you even shave last? On Monday, right?"

Her: "No, Tuesday. Why?"

Me: "Little wonder. 3 days. I felt bristles. Didn't you notice I was being extra careful before you were fully wet? The bristles stabbed me a few times."

Her: "You didn't tell me. Sorry. Are you okay now?"

Me: "I am. The perseverance paid off. We had fun. How you sent that document to that lady?"

Her: "Hmm... I have o. That woman's wahala sef is too much."


Evidence saved.
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These things are easy. Just be smart.

And is this to be done everytime sex is had?

DissTroy:
LOL. FInally! X influencers and men have all woken up to what I have preached all over social media for years.

https://x.com/i/status/2024724605328347399

Always have evidence and keep evidence. Save evidence. Better be called a paranoid man than a ràpîst. Backup to Google Cloud and multiple accounts. Save voice notes and videos and SMS and chats...

Save evidence. You are all just waking up. This is your morning.

If she no enjoy the sex nko ?

raumdeuter:
Someone of her stature does not make the content of her brain improve

She is talented at music just like others are. Remove her music talent she fit be dodoyo in real life. Just like many talented athletes are not very smart on other life issues

That's why some just say Shut up and dribble, shut up and sing, Shut up an run

I won't go as far as saying she's a dodoyo, but she needs take the feminism thing easy.

DissTroy:
Worse than it – they've been unearthing her posts to show she's been radical for years and quick to read sexual assault or molestation to just about everything.

Go on X – it's an unearthing fest.

The point is to prove a pattern that her gaffe this week isn't a one-off – she's out to get men or ruin men for some crazy reason.

Simi has always been feminist, at worst she's proven to be a rabid feminist, dey plenty, e no get post dem wan dig wey other girls no dey post steady.

raumdeuter:
This is not radical just stupidd and brainless

That someone is talented does not make not foolish. You are smarter than 95% of them

For someone of her stature, she should know better than to be making sweeping generalizations about men or be jumping into trendy issues where she's not fully abreast of the facts.

As Adekunle Gold marry feminist wey e mouth dey run, e go continue dey chop dragging alongside her.

DissTroy:
More of Simi exposed: https://x.com/i/status/473979226320687104 .

I was wrong about since 2016. She has always been very radical.

This is a gotcha?

DissTroy:
Now Adekunle Gold has manned up to control his wife. Simi has apologized, stating her husband is angry, her in-laws are too, and it's causing a rift in her marriage:

https://www.facebook.com/100063752402145/posts/1475600274575039/ .

Something he should have done years ago.

I'm yet to see a video of the supposed apology sha...GLB is known for telling outright lies.

DissTroy:
Wait! You don't realize in the social media age you're living a seige where even the most harmless things are misread?

I swear by the Heavens, she's reclining beside me as we type. Munching on biscuits while seeing a movie.

I swear by everything sacred what I type here about this issue is the same I have posted with my full names and information on Facebook over the years. At least a certain Uyai on Nairaland you might all know has seen my posts on pages and groups and interacted with them by calling me "Disstroy".

I swear by the divine that she has (my lady) also seen me post these things...even before we became a couple.

I've seen people being ruined, man, by vindictive women.

You understand how crazy it is that a girl in years past is sex-chatting with you but you'd rather switch to WhatsApp call?

Always ask yourself when chatting with a woman, "How would this be interpreted if a group of 300 random women are reading it?"

All my life, no woman has posted a screenshot of my chat with her publicly. None that I know. I also have never been accused. Mostly because I choose them carefully. But if that day comes (and hoping it never comes), destroy has his armoury stocked only to defend himself.

This is the case for at least 99% of men, 99% of whom aren't as paranoid as you've become.

And note that this isn't me telling you to stop being cautious or paranoid, after all a man that sleeps with a cutlass by his side every night has to be proven right but once.

I only think of the stress and wonder if you show this level of paranoia to every aspect of your life, afterall people have tales of betrayal come their way from men and women alike, and yea it doesn't pertain to rape cases alone.

DissTroy:
Simple! That's what I have been preaching for years and truly understanding the nature of emotional beings.

For example, during e-fights here, the most logical ones control how far they go; the most emotional ones here are always the first to dox with information outside of Nairaland. Now imagine what it'd be like with a being running on a full self-replenishing tank of oestrogen coursing through her. That's a disaster waiting to happen.

I do not preach all that red pill nonsense of treating women like trash or campaigning against marriage or saying a girl who isn't a virgin is automatically a whôre. None of that.

All I preach during gender debates:

1. How men should protect themselves from false accusations and extortions, and;
2. Demanding 100% loyalty from women before giving commitment to them.

Nothing more.

Hmmm

monerozi5590:
Someone tapped the phone and told me.

Someone stole money, told me they stole money, then proceeded to share some of what they stole with me, am I innocent?

sleekdot:
Tighten their belts and see the benefits like the people in various states are seeing

Na so, tightening seat belts and paying tax gleefully is good for the citizens and not the leaders.

sleekdot:
Do you find my post boring?

Actually I don't

My point is it's futile pretending to be balanced or objective when your biases are clear as day

sleekdot:
1. The common man children are not sitting at home for ASUU strike since Tinubu took the reins of power

2. The common man children are able to access NELFUND student loan program to pursue their education without stop start

3. The various road construction and rehabilitation like the coastal road is being plied daily by the common man not the uncommon ones

4. Governor are no longer borrowing to pay the salaries of the common man

5. Common man no longer has to queue endlessly for fuel in the country

The coastal road wasn't a priority, and those that have had their homes submerged because of a project that didn't follow due process would consider it a net negative.

monerozi5590:
Before he made that statement, they are already going to arrest him.

Maybe that's because they already knew El Rufai and his friends had bugged the NSA's phone.