There is nothing wrong with blacks, except blacks who think it is only blacks that can be cruel to animals. Or those who forget that not all blacks treat their pets like that. Or worse still, those blacks that are more shocked by how one black man treated a cat, than how many white folks treated and are still treating black folks from slavery till date.
Jman06: Op, I can understand your plight. The reason is that an average Nigerian girl is not interesting to be with and to make matters worse, they don't even make attempts to improve on themselves since they believe that only the guy has the responsibility to bring everything into the relationship---the fun, the funds, etc. Many of them can't even hold conversations.
So, after enduring a few months of boredom, it is only natural for you to lose interest.
You are speaking about the kind of girls you attract and hang out with. Up your game, and stop putting the blame on Naija dames.!
Good Morning Dear Friend reading this post right now it's 11.am Wednesday. I am appealing to you With all sincerity and i am on my knees pleading, please hear my cries I am in distress right now. Things have not been easy for me and my family since i lost my job, We have been drinking garri for days now. My kids are now looking so skinny and they are crying all the time, i am so frustrated right now. I beg you in the name of God please help us, no matter how little to buy food and water. We have been starving and cannot afford real food for days now. I am kneeling before you pleading to your kind heart , please help us with any amount' please. 09 93 02 21 52 ecobank. I pray as you extend a hand to us may you never lack anything in life.
I am still on my knees pleading, someone please help me.
Michelle55: All I'm trying to let him know is that HIV has no cure but can be managed with the drugs so there's no secret about it except he wants to extort the OP. Other med specialists have been dishing out advice and guidance on how to go about it, why is his own different? Make im share the information abi na secret here or keep it!
marenx: Joe Biden is older than Tinubu, isn't he? Lets look for another reason please. Lets not be overwhelmed by jealousy please. Let's get rid of envy.
I see the usual rush to refer to the US as an example against Naija/ Africa. However, Joe Biden is not a very good example to use , as age is obviously telling on Him.
I am not a Trump Fan, but Biden is not doing enough to counter the “sleepy joe” perception with His frequent gaffes, both insignificant - like insulting a journalist while mic was on and significant - like Afghanistan.
babzo: You can't fulfill any dream in life if you are not feeding yourself and taking care of your responsibilities like family , rent.
Making your dream come to pass is not moinmoin, which is most people never do.
Most people you see massively successful today except those born to rich families worked jobs first. Not talking about Nigeria, talking about the USA.
There is dignity in labor. No dignity in begging relatives and friends to lend you money or pay your children's school fees.
Yes, you must survive first, before you can live, But don’t in the process of trying to survive speed up your death.
That’s what happens when you allow, ONLY money and needs drive your decisions.
There is dignity in Labour, every where. I have artisans who work for me in Nigeria, that carry themselves with so much dignity , I can send them to a Bank Manager. And they are collecting thier money.
They don’t need to run to the USA to go and do what they are too ashamed to do here, because they are not confident in their self worth.
The problem is not so much location or environment, as much as it is our mentality.
So are you telling me that Bethel school and families are completely on their own in this situation? I read that whole thing and not once did I read , “police”., security agencies, dss, governor, local government chairman etc. We are our own security.
babzo: Big mistake. And I'm not talking about London. Topic says USA.
The vast majority of houses in America don't have fences, talk less of gate, so such job as gate man doesn't exist. Gates are usually in large industrial complexes and homes of the wealthy and famous.
Most millionaires who are not famous don't have fences.
2 weeks training is not sufficient for security, especially if you are handling guns which in all likelihood you ll be required to know how to use.
The idea of a gateman in Nigeria is a jobless half educated man earning barely enough to survive, so depending on Dash and gifts from. Visitors and Oga and food from Madam; that concept doesn't exist in the USA. Every job is paid well enough to give you dignity and afford the necessities of life.
Everything in life is not just about making money to survive the necessities of life.
What happened to your sense of purpose and self worth in life. How about working at a job, not just to feed your stomach but to feed your hunger to live and fulfill your dreams.
Thinking with your stomach alone doesn’t allow one really achieve their potential, that’s why people would e willing to ignore their passion, talent and opportunities, to go stand at gate.
Beyond survival, let self actualization be your guide, only then can you make the better choice.
Rossikk: Bank manager in Nigeria is a far more sensible option than working as a gateman in the US.
In 5 years' time where will you be by working as a gateman in America, versus if you were a bank manager in Nigeria?
Unfortunately, there are many Nigerians who have made or are willing to make similar decision of gateman, store keeper, taxi driver, security man, dead body washer in the USA, all in the name of japa-ing “abroad”, where everything is perfect.
Oh ungrateful generation; if your spouse no give, you will be lamenting. Now that She is giving it to you very well, instead of thanking God and giving Her well in return, You are here creating inner confusion by dwelling on baseless suspicions.
Beebah2000: When u start to dey make money, them go talk say u be ritualist or Yahoo boy. Politicians dey steal money everyday, them no talk anything. Nigerian people dey very funny
A lot of the politicians are ritualists, and some of us are talking.
Esseite: Let's hear the man's part of the story..... please take note of the "she feels" in the attached picture... even if she does not carry out the action, the feeling is always there and most times the man feels that feeling she feels. The feeling of "worthlessness"... peace.
That’s mostly because the Man based His capacity to conquer the Woman on Money , which is something any fool can get .
And in an age where Women are more financially empowered, they are learning that it takes more than money to keep a Woman.
Women will mostly treat you as worthless when it is clear you don’t value your own worth.
Johnpele: Lady Shocked After Discovering a Waitress Tried to Steal Her Man
According to the lady, she explained that she and her hubby went to club to get some stuffs, On getting what they went to buy, the waitress attached her number alongside the receipt.