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You had the solution before, but you dropped the ball ... Go back to getting Her used to sleeping in Her room.

If She's wakes up scared like you said, take Her back to Her room and stay with Her until She sleeps off.

Good luck!

members of the current cabal led by the perpetually narcotized and incompetent Abubakar Malami

Ouch!

Hmmm… first of all, give Her sometime.

Please give me some time, I’ll come back to finish.

Viraltrends123:
Zazuh zeh crooner, portable, angry as insInstag restricts his account.

In the video, he was seen complaining angrily, while people around begged.

Watch video here;

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IPyuJ2-1yfs

This one done run pass Terry G ooo!

There are a couple of issues here,

There is your wives natural behavior , which I’m surprised you didn’t notice before now. Then there is your Wives behavior due to Her pregnancy. Then there is how you are reacting to both.

As per the latter, it’s normal for Women to exhibit such irrational behaviors like cravings, when they are pregnant. Just be ready for anything and see it as your own contribution to carrying the baby.

Still it is no excuse for Her not taking care of Her home and business but spending all Her time on Zeeworld.

However, how you are reacting to it doesn’t seem to be working.

You need to be gentle but firm.

Ask Her to choose between keeping the house clean or getting a maid. Because a dirty house is not good for both of you and your child.

Or ask politely to change the channel don’t just snatch the remote and change the channel. If She still proves stubborn go out and watch the match. Next time, when it’s you that paid for the DSTV , let Her know it is only reasonable that you watch it for a few hours in the weekend when she has been watching it all week. Thank Her for understanding, and change the channel.

If She doesn’t want to cook. No problem. Get a cook or get a maid who can cook or eat out if cooking is too much trouble.

If you have spoken to Her about Her eating and putting on weight and she isn’t listening , then try something else, leave Her alone.

Whatever you do , don’t give room for resentment. Especially now that She is pregnant.

Let Her give birth first, She’s the one that will be begging for a maid.

This angry and impatient generation again.

All of the people He mentioned all have some thing in common that Tinubu doesn’t have. They are all current Senior officials in government on the Executive and Legislative side.

Jeez, we really need to calm down with this reading between the lines and jumping on the bandwagon.

This is clearly a sponsored and not so well thought out protest.

The clown spent so much time telling us the different ways in which the North is bleeding � to make His point that “the North is not bleeding”

Where are the Police, when you really need them to stop a stupid protest?

Thandiubani:
A Nigerian man has raised alarm after he was reportedly chased away from a branch of the Redeem Christian Church of God (RCCG) because of his full beard.

The incident happened in Aba, Abia state.

It was gathered that the man chased away was supposed to be the best man of another member of the church holding his wedding ceremony in the church.

Explaining what happened in the video, the man in the company of a woman said he was chased out of the church because of his beard.

He even mentioned that he was once a leader at another RCCG branch and they did not discriminate against the beard.

Watch the video below:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m9uscE6R6Q8

Hypocritical pastors mixing their personal preferences with scriptures. He should first chase away the God that invented beards.

Asgard63:
If they open osibanjo looting profile .. some mouths go AH.. forever.

Nice PR..

No be everybody dem go fool

Where is His looting Profile? Since you know so much, why don’t you open it for us? Ever distrusting, suspicious and see-nothing-good-in-anything-nigeria, Nigerian.

The simple answer to your question is , Yes! A Man can give a Woman 400k to help their education with no strings attached.

Maybe 400k for the man is like 400 naira for you.

Some things that seem too good to be true are actually true.

peacefuldude:
Shut the hell up,so the man is Saint obi akwaya ,do you live with them to know who is wrong or right or you just want to show solidarity to guys and get likes,any way we know as e dey go down when Una they find husband enjoy the likes.

Why do so called civilized people reason and speak like Barbarians? Always quick to insult and slow to reason?? Why?

I like Sanwo-Olu’s temperament. He listens and is more likely to calm tensions than aggravate it.

We need such leaders in this over heated polity of ours.

I wonder how elrufai or oshiomole , when He was gov, would have handled this.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
You have no right whatsoever to tell a woman what to do with her hair...if you think you do you are nothing but a blockhead..

Her hair her rights..I wonder how most boys here dey think..you come online to dictate according to your likes and dislikes.. nonsense misogynistic attitude.. *spits on all wannabe redpillers..*spits on all women bashers..

Mind how you spit. This one that you are spitting all over the place.

The guy is just telling us His preference, you have turned it into Him dictating how Women should wear their hair. Sounds like you’re spoiling for a fight.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Imagine what's happening to women on a daily basis..later one Wannabe redpiller will start screaming on my mention insulting women..
Blessings to all women out there..stay strong and never give up..

Not sure if this is a good example of what happens to Women daily. These particular Women are doing it for money, either by choice or by coercion / force from a fellow Woman.

okoroemeka:
beauty is in the eye of the beholder,but seriously I don't think I can marry such a woman or less my father in-law will be dangote or bill gates

This must be the height of SIMPness, to marry a Woman you ordinarily wouldn’t , just because of Her Father’s money.

Fedrick100:
You no go church Pastor. Today na Sunday

I hope you got the Pastor’s message sha, this one that you are digressing.

Christistruth00:
Why do you think Anyim is not good he used to be Senate Leader ?

And what exactly did He do as Senate Leader?

Christistruth00:



I knew there was going to be trouble the moment SE PDP announced him as their preferred Presidential Candidate

Plus Anyim is a good and capable Candidate though

Hopefully IPOB won’t get involved so that it doesn’t become a shooting bloodbath

What makes Pius Anyim “good and capable”?

I think our standards for Leadership,in this country, are too poor.

onthehill:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=467656084735076&id=100044720640997

When folks from His own home town reject Him; Proof He is not President material?

madone:
First pix involves addition and multiplication rules
13x2=26
2+13=15

Second pix involves multiplication and division rules
4x5=20
20÷2=10

Third pix used or involves multiplication and subtraction rules
2×5=10
7-2=5
So the get any end just revise the rules or Interchange it.

Wow, some people are just brilliant.

I am not bad at QR but this was tough

[quote author= post=109170518]https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/1/two-suspected-phone-thieves-beaten-to-pulp-in-jos-2.html[/quote]Beaten to a pulp, for real.

Simeonee111:
You no get tv for house?

Believe what you see on TV at your own peril.

If you really want to know what’s up, ask people from Kongo state.

They will tell you about the governor who re-election El-Rufai felt the need to kneel down to beg the people for. He literally apologized for Yahaya’s first term.

Iretii0511:
All of the epistle above does not invalidate the fact that it’s good to marry early.

Imagine having your last kid at 34. It’s beautiful. I envy that. Doesn’t mean I’m competing. But it really is a good thing.

Yes It is good, assuming all things are equal.

What if I don’t want to have kids? Or what if I don’t want a battalion of them?

It is best to have kids when you can afford them and afford to spend time with them.

And if it’s all about kids, you don’t need to get married.

Iretii0511:
@34, he was done having kids. Why some of us don’t even have a stable relationship yet.

Look at that.

It is not a competition. Some people married early , they still don’t have kids. Marriage is not just about having kids, even though they are a good icing on the cake. The focus should be on the cake , on the true companionship which is the purpose of marriage ( for it is not good for man to be alone)

There is nothing like early or late when it comes to marriage, the best time is when you find the right one.

If you don’t have a stable relationship, enjoy your singleness until it comes, focus on becoming the best you for that is what will help you in marriage

Life out there for you will depend on you and what you make of it, not what anyone here or elsewhere tells you it will be like.

The shame is only there when you care too much about what people think. They have not walked in your shoes.

The mockery is only there if you are listening to judgers and haters, or imagining what they may be saying to mock you. STOP IT!

Coping with kids:

I hope your husband will be contributing significantly to their upkeep. Still you will need to get a steady source of income.

Be patient with your kids, as even they are dealing with the separation/divorce and they didn’t ask to be born by you both.

Find periodic times for rest and to take care of your own self. Daily, weekly, monthly , yearly. If you are feeling stressed, stop and rest and find a way or someone to which you can express. Nothing wrong with seeing a therapist like the emotionsdoctor.

Believe that you can have a whole new life full of love , fulfillment and happiness.

Your Divorce does not define you!!!

May God grant you strength, courage and wisdom for this new season and beyond. ��

onthehill:
A bride has been spotted pushing away a member of her bridal train who was twerking on her husband at her wedding.

See video below.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3q50L-LkxR8

What about the husband that was shamelessly enjoying the twerking?

Iretii0511:
It’s good to marry early really.

Why? What is early?

Is is 500k naira and 500 dollars, kind of money that is shacking this boy like this ?

It wasn’t handed over to Olu Jacobs and His Wife Joke Sylva. It was licensed to a company , Lufodo, to manage for a period of time.

Lufodo is a Corporate Legal entity, separate from its founders, board, management and shareholders.

Zamfara state, the pioneer Sharia Law State.

One would have thought it would become one of the most peaceful states. Alas, it has become a breeding ground for extremists and terrorists.

This particular story still needs verifying though.

nwekeugochukwu:
https://www.instagram.com/p/CYapkLUo09D/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

So that's how Olamide just gave this non-sense a platform?