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EconFinance:
Why ?

Japa means to run away, escape , flee for dear
Life.

Advertisershubs:
You are quite right. Women should be submissive to their husbands. That's The Way The Family And Wealth Grows!

Ephesians 5:21-

SUBMIT YOURSELVES ONE TO ANOTHER because of your reverence for Christ. Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For a husband has authority over his wife just as Christ has authority over the church; and Christ is himself the Saviour of the church, his body. And so wives must submit completely to their husbands just as the church submits itself to Christ. HUSBANDS LOVE YOUR WIVES just as Christ loved the church and gave his life for it.

How exactly shoUld she submit by accepting that she offended him just because he feels offended? Should she Submit to his tantrums and childish feelingsz

It’s so easy to say a woman should submit. But the scripture says we should submit one to to another and husbands should love their wives as Christ loved the church, you cannot love as Christ does loves without submitting your self, Will and ego . Is the OP being loving to his wife by letting his emotions rule their relationship? No!

SayNo2SmallPrik:
See rubbish wey you Dey type

What is the rubbish there? He clearly did not have a superior argument to his wife’s point. But rather than accept it, he is offended because of his fragile ego.

If you are offended , it is your fault and not that of your wife, especially if she did not say something to deliberately offend you. But you want her to take responsibility for something she did not do, which is to deliberately offend
Or insult you.

You need to ask yourself why you feel offended and take responsibility for your feelings as a Man, rather than blame how your feel on someone else. Especially a woman. Are you sure you are not feeling that way because she spoke an uncomfortable truth? Ego is not very good in relationships , you need to learn to put your ego aside.

If you and your wife are not communicating well it is because you are relating with her as an offender based on your feelings. You need to start relating with her as normal.

You need to snap out of it. Leave tantrums for
Kids.

If you
Must tell her anything, Just tell her that you felt offended that’s why you were not communicating normally with her but you have decided to take responsibility for how you feel rather than blame it on her. Then move on. Don’t let a small issue fester and become a big deal. Good luck .

Sirianese:
Yeah, cry to the mods Mr. Shít-for-brains

Like I wasn't simply expressing my opinion before you chatted shít at me

You were expressing an opinion. But he was expressing a fact when he said it was above you, cos you clearly did not understand the post. Yet you jumped to insult his Father. So is it you that has home training?

Sirianese:
Clark need to stfu, shameless old man

And you need to $&@& , clueless young man.

Yeah, blame it on God. The easiest way to avoid taking responsibility or becoming responsible.

Soon they will tell you the high cost of living is the will of God, if not it won’t be happening.

WhisperedNoise:
Imagine a whole governor quaking and quivering because of some entities. Goes on to show you that most politicians only want to retain power any way possible.

Where did you see “quaking and quivering” ? Certainly not in this article.

Kloenboi:
But leaders we elected whom we think they have the capability and the willpower to liberate the country started running away from Nigeria even before it's independence and till this moment they are still running away, they all have their families there, they have beg mansions all over UK and US.

If poor man see small road to better their lives then you people will start discouraging them.

I have not discouraged any one. Rich people don’t Japa. Otedola and Elumelu are not thinking of how to Japa, and both of them became rich on this Nigeria, like many others , including the likes of Portable , so let’s not make it sound like anyone who lives automatically has a better life. There is always a trade off, but many don’t count the costs. A clear example are the many who die in the Mediterranean Sea heading to Europe, or those who have ended up as slaves in Arab countries or families being torn apart by the pressures of Japa…

Anyway, I encourage young people ,especially, to travel and explore the world, but I will never encourage them to run away “Japa” from challenges but to look for opportunities in them, whether within Nigeria or outside.

Reading some of the reasons, I want to believe the OP is just being sarcastic.

[quote author=UcxVkf6zSUvP post=127414402][/quote]Recruiting for what roles, exactly.?

fergie001:
Aliyu Samba
Personal Assistant on New Media to the Deputy Senate President

How many times will they donate?

And why do they not donate a percentage of their salaries, except of course they don’t need their monthly salaries.

Kloenboi:
He said that when you have fully settled wherever you find yourself, you will realize that Nigeria needs you.

Nigeria needs help oga

You are right. That is what he said.

I only paraphrased “realise” to “when their eyes clear”

The truth is that Nigeria needs them , whether they realise it or not.

But I wont argue against the argument that one may have to solve his own problems before he solves that of His country.

But those who are thinking of what they can do for their country or communities, above what their country can do for them , don’t think of “Japa” as in running away, escaping to any and everywhere, without a sense of purpose.

slaawomirr:
Damnnn niggar
There is no imaginary being up there in the sky answering your prayers
Stop being stupid
The stupidity of our fore fathers is enough

The same white that deceived our fore fathers just to get what they wanted from them as at then are not the ones sacking a Nigerian nurse in the UK just because she was praying for a patient

Same man of God called suleiman that could not rely on God's prayer for his protection and hurriedly jump into a bullet proof car

Do your investigation and research on top ten countries that believe in prayers, God and spirituality and also do another research on ten countries that doesn't give a fuckkk about God, prayers and spirituality you will see that those countries that does not give a fuckkk about God are progressing and developing.
The human mind can be conditioned to believe in what does not exist and the mind will adapt to it..that is exactly what the white men did to our forefathers. But now we this smart generation reject those rubbish


I know stupid people like you will pop up and quote me. Please before any one quote me again ensure your brain power is top notch

Christianity, religion and God is an embarrassing human practice of convincing the mind to ignore common sense, logic, reason and evidence while blindly believing in ancient fairy tales.
It encourages it’s followers to value faith over facts and reality. It makes it’s followers proud instead of being ashamed of their ignorance.

Let’s leave Christianity and religion aside for starters.

1. Are you saying there is no creator? Or source of all creation?

2. If yes, to “1”, do you have proof?

3. If yes to “2”, please share.

Then we can take it from there.

Omooba77:
What Are your prayers God have answered in year 2023?

Ordering my steps.

The headline is highly misleading and most likely written to sensationalize his statement.

He neither endorsed Japa syndrome nor encouraged them to leave.

On the contrary, he says that Japa will create opportunities for those left behind to even compete globally. He also added that when the eyes of japa-items clear, they will realise that back home is where they are needed.

Change this irresponsible headline

Some people here will still blame it on Peter Obi.

GOTVee:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, I don't support her release. Next time she will learn to act like a Roman when in Rome

"act like a Roman when in Rome" abi? No wonder you are talking like someone who is not born again, because you are in an unborn-again world.

Believers are meant to stand for justice, that is what the Woman did, and for that she faced injustice. She sounds more born again than you, to me.

omoadeleye:
Na Tinubu prepare the budget?

What kind of question is this? Who presented the budget to the Senate if not the president?

The ministries, departments and agencies prepare their various budget proposals. It is for the presidency to review, probe and prepare the final budget for presentation.

Nonny95:
How it started Vs how it's going.

Nobody wants to stand on Tinubu mandate again 😭😭🤣🤣

He is probably talking about running across the border, to Niger Republic or Benin Republic.

Meanwhile, I will never understand people who tell other people to Run away from , without telling them where they should run to. Just run away sha. Such a cowardly and/or purposeless thing to do. That’s how many are jumping from frying pan to fire.

Fighttillvictory:
https://dailypost.ng/2023/12/07/i-wont-support-bombing-wives-of-ipob-members-gumi-on-kaduna-airstrike/

Glad the article began with “Controversial Islamic Cleric”. Sheik Gumi has an agenda informing his controversial and mostly illogical statements.

nlfpmod:
https://www.thecable.ng/shettimas-aide-n15bn-for-vps-residence-not-wasteful-obi-trying-to-score-cheap-points/amp

So simply because the project was not started by your administration it should be completed by your administration?

So even if the project is of no real functional value or economic significance it must be completed simply because it was started?

So even if there are more pressing economic issues , the project must be completed now now, in 2024?

Na wa!

Pakute:
This is one of the people PitObi is using to distract this govt. Ararume go collect very soon.

It is obvious that Peter Obi is living rent free in your head. You see Him everywhere, even in a case that does not concern him and a judgement that was delivered long before the elections.

lexy2014:
is he the 27-year-old suspected cultist called Ahmed Ololade aka Small Mercy?

Yes or Maybe, but the emphasis is on “suspected”.

When he is charged to court, he becomes accused. Only after the trial MAY be be found “Guilty” and then sentenced to become
A “Convict”.

OlujobaSamuel:
It's illegal to expose face of criminal suspect in Lagos, as they are not yet convicted nor even an accused till charged to Court

Yet, until he is charged to court , he is just a suspect.

MadamVanessa:


Lock up ke

No skull miner disguising as a thief deserves to live a second. The dirty lowlife thief should be hang on his saggy smelly scrotum immediately.

You sound like the type that will join a headless Mob to beat or even kill an alleged criminal on the street without finding out the facts; Many innocent lives have gone this way, a. k.a Jungle Justice. Remember the Orlu 4?

lexy2014:
why blurring his face? if he is a criminal, his identity should be made known to the general public

What happened to innocent until proven guilty ?

nairalandkachy1:
Lagos State Police Command

Please correct the spelling of the location in Lagos, it’s “Orile” not “Orlie”

BananaPeel:
Tithing is a commandment and others such as offering,giving to less privileged etc. is a proof of your love for God. Only tithe has a formula and that's the reason a lot of people talk it down.

I know that this thing you are saying is not based on personal study but what your pastors have said.

It has a formula that was under the Law. Believers in Christ are not
Under the law. And if we claim be following the formula, then why are we not
Paying tithe as God clearly laid out in Deuteronomy 14 and 28?

As believers in Christ , we are not our own, that is to say that even what we have is not our own but we are stewards to use as pleasing into the Lord. Now if I decide that 100% of my
Money is available as God wills for me to use, will you still come
And ask me for a tithe ( 10%)? From where.?

Tithe is based on the Law, and any one that I still under the Law is under bondage, for by the Law shall no Man be justified.

CoronaVirusPro:
Bunkum and balderdash!

Did he replicate same gestures in Anambra, and what was his achievements and legacy`s?

Coming from same man who stashed money in safe havens to avoid taxes and investigation!

Anyone can scribble the gibberish he put up there.

From the way Peter talks, one would think he has some outstanding legacy`s on ground which puts him in position to make such composition, but the reverse is the case. Even the present Governor of Anambra attested to the fact that, poverty increased in the state during his administration, and here we have same Peter oinking on what's not!

It is clear you did not read before you wrote your response “ bunkum balderdash”. Don’t let your hatred for one Man translate to a fear and hatred for the obvious truth- assuming the number of FG delegates are as high as they say.

And Whatever you want to say about Peter Obi You can’t say he was wasteful with state resources- especially traveling with an entourage , so the answer to your question is YES, he replicated same as what he preached When He was in government.

jesusjnr2020:
Will A Sinner Who Pays Tithe Make Heaven?

If we go by the teachings of Jesus, he certainly won't make heaven.

Jesus said "unless you repent, you shall likewise perish!" Luke 13:13.

He also said no sinner shall make it into heaven. Matthew 13:41.

So do not deceived by those church leaders who preach tithing above the most important things in the law, such as, repentance of sins, that have made many sinners in the church think that it is more important to pay tithes than to turn away from their sinful ways.

They are blind leaders of the blind just as the Pharisees in the days of Jesus who did the same thing, but Jesus called them the "children of hell" regardless of their paying of tithes because inwardly they were full of iniquity. Matthew 13:15,28

So although paying of tithes is a good thing, if you don't repent of your sins, it cannot save you from hell!

You need to repent of your sins!

God bless.

This question is irrelevant, because contrary to the prevalent false teaching, believers in Christ are not under the Law the PAY tithes, rather they should give freely as they have received freely, each Man should give as He has purposed in His heart. Not under compulsion, but willingly and cheerfully for God loved a cheerful giver.

sylve11:
Kobo, If any oyibo company wants to do dam work in most river, they usually offer sacrifices.

They hire a spiritualist who understands the gods present in that river.

I have seen this before, not once or twice.

Is it that they believe in such practices or they are just respecting the beliefs and values of their host communities?