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PoliticsRe: US Panel Terminates Gbajabiamila's Law License For Stealing Money - Gazette by TheGift: 3:35pm On Sep 18, 2023
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PoliticsRe: US Panel Terminates Gbajabiamila's Law License For Stealing Money - Gazette by TheGift: 3:33pm On Sep 18, 2023
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CrimeRe: Police Refund ₦810,000 Allegedly Extorted From Victim In Delta To CDHR by TheGift: 9:59am On Sep 18, 2023
Thonyb:
https://.ng/2023/09/17/breaking-police-refund-n810000-allegedly-extorted-from-victim-in-delta-to-cdhr/
That PoS that belongs to that Police Woman, would contain a lot of forensic evidence. It needs to be confiscated and investigated!
PoliticsRe: FFK Blames Peter Obi & Obidients For Obasanjo's Disrespecting Of Yoruba Monarchs by TheGift: 8:00pm On Sep 16, 2023
DamnnNiggarr:
Femi Fani-Kayode (FFK)
Atiku is requesting BATs records, it is Obi's fault. Obj is "disrespecting" Yoruba elders- it is Obi's fault. INEC did not follow their own guidelines , thereby leaving room for all kinds of claims and counter-claims, but it is Obi's fault. Atiku did not win the election, but it is the fault of Obi and Obidients.

Shameless clowns, Obi is obviously living rent free in their shallow heads.
PoliticsRe: FRSC: We’ve Stopped Our Personnel From Entering Vehicles Of Offenders by TheGift: 1:02pm On Sep 15, 2023
dre11:
https://www.thecable.ng/frsc-weve-stopped-our-personnel-from-entering-vehicles-of-offenders/amp
I remember many many years ago, when A Lastma official jumped in my car, at Oba Akran, and I carried him all the way to Ogba-which was even away from my own direction- until their bike guy and pick up ( with oga) caught up with me. Lol. I was lucky to escape without any major issues with them, especially because of the hotheadedness of the one who jumped in my car. Those were my much younger days, I wouldn't try that again.
CelebritiesRe: Your Son Forgets His Lyrics After Taking Drugs -Naira Marley Tells Mohbad's Dad by TheGift: 7:10pm On Sep 14, 2023
NwekeUG:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-uk_aUCfAn8

What Naira Marley Told Mohbad's Father When Mohbad's Father Went To Beg Naira Marley Over Issues Marley Had With Mohbad (Throwback Video)
Is this a full grown Man, begging His sons mate like He is a Houseboy? Because of Money?

Thank God I was raised in a Family where we bow to no Man. I would rather go hungry, until I make a new way.
TravelRe: Nigerians Abroad Should Stop Advising Nigerians NOT To Japa by TheGift: 7:06pm On Sep 14, 2023
Realguyman1:
Most of them who couldn't make it there are the ones doing themselves looking for white-collar jobs, or looking for something to do that will fetch them money instantly (like pushing drugs). Africa education don't count over there, one must go through their educational system before one can be considered.

U can't have a skill ( especially vocational skills) in US, Canada, Australia or Europe and not been employed "It's impossible". And those guys with skills are making it big over there because they are well paid for their services.
This is a very vaiid point you have raised here. I know this for a fact.
PoliticsRe: Durojaiye Ogunsanya: Purported Tinubu Classmate Doesn't Exist —David Hundeyin by TheGift: 5:43pm On Sep 13, 2023
Gossiphub:
They keep adding more lies to the ones they already lied…. When will it stop?
It's one of the characteristics of lies, you tell
One lie, you will need to tell more lies, especially when people question your first lie
TravelRe: Nigerians Abroad Should Stop Advising Nigerians NOT To Japa by TheGift:
Fab21:
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This is one of the reasons why people should think twice before japa.

I can't sell my house, cars, and other properties to Japa. No!

Atleast, if I've my 🏠 and car that means I'm still doing a little bit better I just need to double my hustle.
True.

I Don't discourage people from wanting to travel and explore opportunities. What I discourage is

1. Japa mentality- Japa means to run away, which is such a cowardly mindset. Many assume that they will stop facing challenges when they Japa or that the challenges will be easier. But overcoming challenges begins with your mental and internal environment not your physical one.

2. Even if you must relocate, never totally uproot yourself. Don't sell your inheritance or all the stuff you sweated for, just to transport yourself. Don't burn the bridges that where supporting or sustaining you. Have investments here that you can come back to or can even support you over there in that country where you will forever be a second or even third class citizen.

3. Instead of Japa, from Naija to another country, I prefer to be a global citizen. Make the kind of money and status that can allow me to travel to any country I wish anytime I want. And come back home whenever I want.
TravelRe: Nigerians Abroad Should Stop Advising Nigerians NOT To Japa by TheGift: 11:20am On Sep 13, 2023
They are telling you people from experience but you won't hear. So go and see for yourself.

For those asking why they don't come back, some do, but many don't because they can't. They sold everything to Japa. There is nothing to come back to. But bills from
People who expect that they should have become multi millionaires in Naira, by now.
PoliticsRe: Uju Kennedy Threatens To Jail UNICAL Student Over Sexual Harassment Allegations by TheGift: 10:13pm On Sep 12, 2023
nlfpmod:
https://saharareporters.com/2023/09/12/women-affairs-minister-kennedy-threatens-jail-university-calabar-female-law-student-over
There is nothing incriminating in this call, rather , Her message was that the young Woman should not go and lie against somebody.
FamilyRe: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by TheGift: 5:11pm On Sep 12, 2023
ADURA123:
Good evening fellow NL members,
My story may be long but pls endeavor to read to the end so that you can make proper suggestions or advice.

I have been married for more than 10yrs now with beautiful kids, my marriage is one that many Young guy will wish to have, but along the the line I don't know what happened things begin to nose dive. In the last 6yrs I discovered that I struggle to make love to my wife, she will either tell you ohh, she is tire or she don't like sex much..this I have endured for all this years with no cheating.
Her qualities are
She can cook
She can keep the house clean
She can manage resources
And she is accommodating to my people
In all this years I have never cheated on her, proudly saying it coz my dad warned me of cheating on my wife rather I should divorce her and go for another wife.

My qualities are
I work and earn like about 700k net a month.
I give feeding allowance and personal total of 100k a month while I invest the rest on a project which she is aware of.
I don't drink or smoke
I don't keep late night
and I am the best friend to her and my kids.
Honestly having talk to her for over 5yrs on this issues of love making and she refused to change, then I have decided to yield to my dad advice and ask her to leave...she is not aware of this plan, but trust me it will hit her.
I allow her to do little job to have her own finance is not as if she contribute anything in the house, but she is claiming stubborn, I love her so much, it will hurt me to cheat on her, something I have not done since I got married to her.
I plan moving to a new place in February, and she doesn't fit into my plans.

My decision between now and December is
1 Avoid asking her for lobe making
2 Continue taking care of her so she won't suspect anything
3 when she comes close I avoid her.
4 February I issues divorce papers and give her like 1m to go get her life back

Is there anything more I can do for her?
Advice me pls...
Why ask Her to live? Just get a second Wife that loves sex and will commit to giving it to you whenever you want.

You allowed it to fester for too long, and you guys got into a rhythm. If someone doesn't enjoy sex it may most likely be the way they where introduced or the way they are having sex. You guys need to switch things up one way or another, but first you need to talk, it's Her duty to satisfy your urges and you hers, but it's never going to be by gra gra.


Meanhwile, you need to increase that monthly allowance to like 300-350k esp in this economy. Abi no be you and your children go still chop the food?
EducationRe: First Class Graduate by TheGift: 3:59pm On Sep 12, 2023
EmdRizy:
My name is Gba Peter Ternenge, I just graduated with a first class in Industrial Physics. The only student with a first class out of over 200 students in the department.
Congratulations. 🎉🎈🎊🍾 Industrial Physics, your brain dey work.

May God grant your more success without sorrow. Amen 🙏🏽
CelebritiesRe: Moyo Lawal Leaked Sex Tape: Actress Reacts by TheGift: 9:57pm On Sep 10, 2023
carl90:
A.I is to blame.
Someone can put my face on a IndecentStar making it look I was the one in the porn.
Let's move on from all these celeb porn and leaks.
A.I is taking charge
Do you still think A.I. is to blame? In which case you know more than Moho Lawal Herself
RomanceRe: I Regret Having Sex by TheGift: 3:16pm On Sep 10, 2023
Proverbs 5:3-22

3 For the lips of a harlot are like a honeycomb dropping, and her throat is smoother than oil.
4 But her end is bitter as wormwood, and sharp as a two-edged sword.
5 Her feet go down into death, and her steps go in as far as hell.
6 They walk not by the path of life, her steps are wandering, and unaccountable.
7 Now, therefore, my son, hear me, and depart not from the words of my mouth.
8 Remove thy way far from her, and come not nigh the doors of her house.
9 Give not thy honour to strangers, and thy years to the cruel.
10 Lest strangers be filled with thy strength, and thy labours be in another man’s house,
11 And thou mourn at the last, when thou shalt have spent thy flesh and thy body, and say;
12 Why have I hated instruction, and my heart consented not to reproof,
13 And have not heard the voice of them that taught me, and have not inclined my ear to masters?
14 I have almost been in all evil, in the midst of the church and of the congregation.
15 Drink water out of thy own cistern, and the streams of thy own well:
16 Let thy fountains be conveyed abroad, and in the streets divide thy waters.
17 Keep them to thyself alone, neither let strangers be partakers with thee.
18 Let thy vein be blessed, and rejoice with the wife of thy youth:
19 Let her be thy dearest hind, and most agreeable fawn: let her breasts inebriate thee at all times: be thou delighted continually with her love.
20 Why art thou seduced, my son, by a strange woman, and art cherished in the bosom of another?
21 The Lord beholdeth the ways of man, and considereth all his steps.
22 His own iniquities catch the wicked, and he is fast bound with the ropes of his own sins.
CareerRe: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by TheGift: 10:49pm On Sep 08, 2023
Oyerinde16:
In all, it boils down to a dysfunctional system...

A functional system will detect issues like this almost immediately... but once the system is faulty... that's what you get...

The Nigerian system is so faulty, it will take a miracle to fix...
I agree with your point.
CareerRe: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by TheGift: 2:11pm On Sep 08, 2023
Oyindamolah:
As an entrepreneur trying to build something you cannot pay that high for the first 1-2 yrs
What about the overpaid politicians that are still looting underpaid workers salaries?

These things usually come down to ones fundamental values. He that is faithful with little will be faithful with much. Thieves dont automatically stop stealing when they have stolen a lot of money.
CareerRe: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by TheGift: 2:09pm On Sep 08, 2023
Khallicopyro:
Stop it now that you can. Invest the one wey you don achieve so far. If e cast later money go dey to solve am
If He likes He should invest, Ill gotten wealth will still find a way of blowing an ill wind. What we sow we reap, one way or another. May we find mercy.
PoliticsRe: Power And Money. Which One Is Greater? by TheGift: 11:01am On Sep 08, 2023
DaveHarry:
Between power and money which one is greater. For the deep thinkers!
Go and ask Putin and the Russian Oligarchs, they will tell you that it is Power.
PoliticsRe: Power And Money. Which One Is Greater? by TheGift: 11:00am On Sep 08, 2023
DaveHarry:
Between power and money which one is greater. For the deep thinkers!
Power!

Go and ask Putin and the Russian Oligarchs, they will tell you that it is Power.
FamilyRe: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by TheGift: 6:40pm On Sep 07, 2023
gentposh:
Pls married men in the house help him out here...

My friend just called men to as me . I am yet to reply him
Why does he not ask His Wife? Is She a foolish Woman? Or is She an untrustworthy Woman? Or is She a Woman that doesn't know how to cook? Or is it just the fact that She is a Woman?

If yes to any of the above, then why did He marry Her?

He should give Her enough to make a soup that is befitting of His clueless "alpha Male" self.
TravelRe: First Time On A Plane Where Did You Travel To? by TheGift: 5:40pm On Sep 06, 2023
Visman:
Myself i traveled from Abuja to Lagos in December 2011
1988 Warri to Lagos, Aero Contractors
PoliticsRe: If You Sell Handkerchiefs/Tissues Expect To Profit From Obidients Today - Omokri by TheGift: 11:21am On Sep 06, 2023
Peterobiisathie:
https://twitter.com/renoomokri/status/1699333169143509040
What is Reno Omokri's job again, apart from whipping up sentiments in the most unintelligent ways?

Somebody that started kissing Peter Obi's ass when it looked like He might win, before INEC came and did their thing.
PoliticsRe: LP To Odili: Your lavish praise On Olanipekun, Fagbemi Is Undignifying by TheGift: 9:58am On Sep 06, 2023
fergie001:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pv3aYzIgtu0

Olanipekun SAN and Fagbemi SAN (AGF) are Senior lawyers representing Bola Tinubu and APC respectively, at the PEPT



SOURCE: LP

Previous Thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/7827401/dont-blackmail-judges-losers-should#125558953
I watched Her speak and as someone who is trained in and appreciates such aspects of the Law as the Independence of the Judiciary, it was shameful and embarrassing to watch.
PoliticsRe: I’ll Break All Bottlenecks — Investors Will Make Profit In Nigeria - Tinubu by TheGift: 9:50am On Sep 06, 2023
PoliticsRe: Strike Flops In Lagos As Workers, Banks Shun NLC by TheGift: 9:47am On Sep 06, 2023
Melezenawii:
https://guardian.ng/news/strike-flops-in-lagos-as-workers-banks-shun-nlc/?utm_term=Autofeed&echobox=twitter_post&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Twitter#Echobox=1693973005
I guess people in Lagos are not feeling the economic heat? Or the cartel-like powers that be have threatened workers? Or people are just so beat down by the stress of living in Lagos that they don't have strength for such.
PoliticsRe: Presidential Election Tribunal Judgment Won't Favour Peter Obi – Primate Ayodele by TheGift: 10:15pm On Sep 05, 2023
thegeniusmedia:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/dailypost.ng/2023/09/05/presidential-tribunal-nigerians-must-lower-their-expectation-primate-ayodele/%3famp=1
Primate Ayodele, the forecaster, Guess master, estimator, the Guesstimating Prophet. Back with another one.
PoliticsRe: Bola A. Thubv: Farooq A. Kperogi, & Body Filling Of Rusted Image By Barth by TheGift: 10:13pm On Sep 05, 2023
complexstuffs:
You go dey alright las las
I am already alright, thanks.
FamilyRe: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by TheGift: 10:12pm On Sep 05, 2023
If you were a little more sensitive to the needs of Women or your wife, you may have educated yourself on something called Post Partum Depression. it has the capacity to bring drastic changes to a Woman's personality.

But you are more caught up in you false sense of Manhood, which is tied to your ability to tame a Woman into submission, as if She is a wild animal from the Bush, or a Pet dog. Rather than a fellow Human Being ,a partner, friend and companion.

Now, the child birth experience has broken the hold of your forced dominance , and She is showing you shege. And you the Man, who was able to tame Her, cannot tame Himself, or His emotions, cannot realize that right now what His Wife and the mother of His children need, are not is frustration fuelled angers, but His care, patience and understanding.

Drink, to forget your sorrows, for the night, you will still wake up to it tommorow. I dont think you should drink and brainstorm with your alcoholically enhanced furstration and anger though, so you wont go home and make things worse.

The first battle you need to Win , is the battle with yourself. Put your ego aside, and take responsibilty for building and keeping your family. Be a Man, your Children need you, your Wife needs you, and you, need you. All the best.
FamilyRe: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by TheGift: 10:10pm On Sep 05, 2023
thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.
If you were a little more sensitive to the needs of Women or your wife, you may have educated yourself on something called Post Partum Depression. it has the capacity to bring drastic changes to a Woman's personality.

But you are more caught up in you false sense of Manhood, which is tied to your ability to tame a Woman into submission, as if She is a wild animal from the Bush, or a Pet dog. Rather than a fellow Human Being ,a partner, friend and companion.

Now, the child birth experience has broken the hold of your forced dominance , and She is showing you shege. And you the Man, who was able to tame Her, cannot tame Himself, or His emotions, cannot realize that right now what His Wife and the mother of His children need, are not is frustration fuelled angers, but His care, patience and understanding.

Drink, to forget your sorrows, for the night, you will still wake up to it tommorow. I dont think you should drink and brainstorm with your alcoholically enhanced furstration and anger though, so you wont go home and make things worse.

The first battle you need to Win , is the battle with yourself. Put your ego aside, and take responsibilty for building and keeping your family. Be a Man, your Children need you, your Wife needs you, and you, need you. All the best.
FamilyRe: My Woman Wants A Blood Covenant by TheGift: 2:15pm On Sep 05, 2023
BItt:
I had this girl I met in year 2020 during the covid period. It was hard to get her. She was much younger and had more attention.

During that period I was out of jobs and was struggling. I hardly had enough to take care of myself but she did not trouble me much. She was in the habit of buying things for me no matter how little it was. I was also reasonable enough to buy her more.

At a point in 2021 I got a job in another state. It took a while before I could save up and asked her to come.

She's asking us to get married but I am trying to explain to her what I am earning is not enough to start a home yet. Apart from that what she has is an olevel and some business she does online. She is still dependent on me for alot.

Yesterday, I took her out to an eatry and when we got back home, she suggested we took a Blood oath. Blood oath that neither of us will leave each other.
How do girls get to know and believe all these stuff?

She said we will pierce each other's left thumb, press it against each others thumb and say the oath. I don't know if it works but I feel strange about doing it.
Tell her you don't believe in that type of none sense.

Tell her that your future together will be better if you focus on nurturing it today than if you focus on meaningless oaths.

Only immature people want to demand that the future plays out exactly how they want, even though we all know it doesn't happen that way.

If you like go and do blood oath, that you don't believe in. Na you sabi.
PoliticsRe: Bola A. Thubv: Farooq A. Kperogi, & Body Filling Of Rusted Image By Barth by TheGift: 10:40am On Sep 05, 2023
lolu2019:
if I tell u my story,u will know that anybody can make error.
And if you follow Tinubu's story, you will know that almost nobody makes the kind of fundamental mistakes that Tinubu makes

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