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I have been cheated on once, but most times I have been the cheater with good reasons though. When I want to cheat, I always have my reasons and I let you see them before I start, but you will neither know when I have started or when I have stopped.

Cheating is one of the sweetest thing! You surreptitiously make phone calls, send text messages, see each other, have sex. But to be cheated on, man, it's a blow on my personality. I never was a cheater but when I was cheated on once, I thought I'd give it a go and hey, it's become a habit I wish I can drop overnight.

Not to deviate from the question, she was pregnant for someone else and was attempting at having it expunged when I caught her conversation over the phone. Confronted her and she denied, so I told her we should go to the hospital, when I asked that she refused and confessed to me. Although asked me to allow her have the abortion so we can continue the relationship. Me "Allow"? Did I put it there in the first place. Cheating is a rampant thing among women because different men satisfy different wants and that ranges from Money to Sex.

brein:
gbam!!

If Sarah could have been pregnant at 90, in the world we are now where everything is technical and technology has taken over, I would think girls can have boyfriends at 99 given all the DR. 90210 shitz

There are still good guys but the more desperate you appear, the most lousy the guy will act. There are good guys but sometimes we let the good part of us go on a sabbatical leave.

ThiefOfHearts:
tranquillizer gun just like an animal

Seems to me like it can control it for a little while. What happens when it's lasted?

It has appeared that almost all men have added violence no matter how little to their order of peccant acts. How do you think a violent man can be controlled, given that he can be controlled? If you think he can't be controlled or curbed to a considerable length, why do you think so?

platinumnk:
Show me now, I want to wow my yoruba friends

Awujo ------>>>> Society pronounced as A--whu---jho

Opolo ------->>>> Brain (O-po-lho)

Orire -------->>>> Fortune (Oo-rhi-rey)


Need I say more? Ask me I will give you answers.

platinumnk:
dont have to, type ur full name and I can pull ur account.

On a second thought, do you work with Chase?

The world is turning out to be in the same district as the Biblical Hell Fire.

ibkaye:
Bleh

Then I wonder how far your free lesson will take Platinum

@Platinum

I think you know better now. Ask us both for an exhibition, I am up for the challenge.

platinumnk:
dude ur distance is super far, im at the bottom south and ur def n the west, u can tutor me online o, and I send u payment via paypal.

Hmmmm!!! OK. I don't do paypal, too many spammers are on to that. I can give you my Chase Bank digits in Hindu Do you understand Hindu?

ibkaye:
@Plati
$20 ko, I'm here for you, my husband can teach you igbo, I will teach you yoruba, both for free and just within one week you will be a pro  

Free version is never a detailed type of ware as much as I know. OK, th'ow me three proverbs in Yoruba language and I will give you ten. Shall we begin?

platinumnk:
chai I cant afford those rates, can we work on a payment plan, Im serious o

OK. Come up with a plan. However, where do you live? I'm located half way between where Biggie was crucified and where the 21-year old rapper, Dolla was murdered. I see you shivering _{or am I dyslexic?}

UrDreamGal:
uju I KNOW THAT HE WON'T STOP BUT I KNOW BY NOW THAT HE HAS LEARNED HIS LESSON. I'M BAD BABY

What lessons might you think he learned? Be realistic to yourself. You just let him in on his flaws and I bet you that he'll be better next time.

platinumnk:
are u availble for tutoring?

LMAO!!!! Of course I am. $20 per minute. I'm shipping my resume off to Harvard!

You are too horrible a cheat. If you exhibit these traits to the knowledge of my 12 year old younger sibling, he will smack you in the face and Bleep your best friend. How old are you anyways? 8, 10? REMOVE THIS THREAD PLZZZZZZZZZZ!!!!!!

platinumnk:
oh ok , . but it is still uncanny how they are soo similar. . .

There lots of them.

Ego ====>>> Money(Igbo)

Ego ====>>> Stupid(Yoruba) but the E there is pronounced ae. Want more?

justwise:
Yes i saw the headline but did u also notice his first line?:My fiancee sister living abroad want my fiancee to come abroad

Is not like her sister in Abuja inviting her over, she is going with visitor's visa, meaning that she will come back after 6months or a yr depending on her visa, so i don't see the Greener Pasture thing there.

Yes I noticed that but I think the intention is the header not the conclusive body of the post. Seeking a GREENER PASTURE may have had her sister work out a few logistics for her overseas, I guess that totally depends on what she's going there to do. However, talking about visa requirements, I totally agree with you that she will definitely be on a visitor's visa first. But maybe her sister has a business overseas or is an influential fellow, do you think about that too?

platinumnk:
so the yoruba ppl see us as bush ppl! thunderfire dem

The spelling is the same but the syllabic stress is different.

PS: Block letters connoting higher stress and small case letters lower stress.
I-gbo! ------>>> Tribe

II-GBO! ----->>> Bush

I understand Yoruba from the first to the last letters but I'm Igbo!

tubabie:
Did I imply anywhere in my post that it was a deterrent? I only stated that i found the action of the OP funny!

I found it very amusing too. But was that really necessary? The OP sounds to me like she's 17.

sistawoman:
Another tip:

If your OW is trust worthly introduce the OW and Wife/GF so that they can be good friends and then your OW can tell you if the wife is suspecting anything.

For instance wife needs a new computer OW works with you and is great with PC introduce wife to OW for PC shopping. Women will be women and they will hit it off. And your LovePeddler can tell you when you slipping.

I have done that before and I tell you the escapade lasted for as long as we wanted it to until we got tired of each other. It's the second sweetest thing to do next to making love with your girlfriend/wife.

sistawoman:
I agree with you 100%

You don't say!

platinumnk:
I never understood why they called it igbo either, i think its kinda insulting.

"Igbo" as they call it isn't referring to the tribal clan. It's the Yoruba pronunciation of weeds! In Yoruba language, BUSH = IGBO

tubabie:
Now i find that emboldened part hilarious!

Why am I surprised? I wonder if he has stopped cheating since then.

99 years.

spikedcylinder:
@ topic

Attach a micro (by that I mean invisible to the naked eye) camera to their body. That why you can decipher through millions of satellite images and advanced technology what your partner has been doing.

On the other hand, you can use plain 'ol magun.

You're a bad girl! Sowwy but I don't think 'ol magun works on males. Satellite images won't work baby, is she Sarah Palin?

MrCrackles:
Poster

It will be written on your partner's forehead!

And on his manliness too?

sistawoman:
A couple of more good tips:

Have your wife/GF wear the same fragrance that your OW wears or have your OW change hers so that when you have your LovePeddler in your bed your Wife/GF wont smell a different scent.

WTF!!!! I never thought of that. Maybe I will try that in my future escapades.

justwise:
If her sisiter lives in the USA or UK and she is invited then she can't stay as long as her visitor's visa will carry her, she can't work or study with that visa, only if she is going to do some dodgy business there,

Doesn't seem to me like she's invited. My Fiancee Want To Travel Abroad For Greener Pastures. Note that header

It's been a while she's been smoking weed so don't buy the crap that she "suddenly" started. I will like you to try and understand why she lied to you in the first place. Is it out of fear or respect? Or because she thinks she can take you for a bum?

I don't think leaving her is the next thing to do. I had a girl who once was a strong blazer, I tell you, it took a lot to get her off the stings but that came with a lot of patience, disappointments and quarrels. Good thing is she quit. If you know you can wait for as long as 3 years for her to totally be rehabilitated from the spell then do it, it's all for the best. That can work only if you both have a committed relationship but if it ain't no committed relationship, bounce!

I want to think everyone has the right to do whatever they want as long as they feel comfortable with it, but I don't suppose there is anyone who will actually teach their kids or younger siblings how to puff. Is there? Her kids(if and when she has any at all) can't emulate her habits, I am pretty sure she will want to hide it from them not because it's certainly unacceptable in the society but because it's a stigma she wouldn't want her kids to be involved in. I don't puff but I have lots of my friends who do, can say 98% of my friends puff, but I have never been tempted to do it. It helps them a lot, really. Not trying to be sanctimonious but I am not a good fan of weeds.

Speaking of Americans and Europeans blazing is totally different from talking about African blazers. Even if the weeds are the same everywhere, the context is always different. For instance, in Nigeria, there have been reports of people gravely affected by this habit most especially psychologically and mentally but where do they get help? No where! Unlike in the United States and Europe where a mentally malfunctioning lad gets help immediately and can be successively rehabilitated. In Africa, it's either the mental problem becomes so inevitable that the whole scenario turns out to be a public disgrace or the victim is hidden from the society. I don't advise it to be taken by Africans unless they can know their limit and no go beyond it.

sistawoman:
there is a suka born every single minute.  Please dont hip your friend to the game, those girls need those things.

Eminem couldn't have said it better. Your right they need those things.

tkb417:
the more u give, the more u receive
its a divinely appreciated!

he will sell his personal effects soon. mungo park!!!

God loves a cheerful MAGA!

shope:
I think The guy be the maga.

A bucked up MAGA at that who pays as long as you slide the bill down his pocket.  _{Men like this put a dent on our image}

ibkaye:
And then he will complain that he is broke

He'll soon put up everything he has for sale just so he can "belong" to the female clan with "respect". He's an epitome of total stupidity

We guys can be very good players if we want to and can do just about anything to cover our tracks. The best method is say or do things that will make her think you're kidding or just testing her trust level, after a while she'll dismiss your actions on basis of jokes. But when a guy finds out she's the jealous type, you will more than you have wanted to, show her love and express it in a way that flatters her. If anyone lets her in on any of your escapades she will find it hard to believe. However, smarter guys won't show you any kind of signs. We can always password our text message compartment or create another folder where we save these "special" messages and put a lock on it. It's a little complicated for a guy to put into practice let alone for a woman to detect. _{Guyz! Stop the cheating now, will ya?}

justwise:
Onething we are 4geting is the fact that, she may not make it there, it all depend on the visa type, if she is going as a visitor then she can't work, so where will the money come from? If she is going with student visa then it will take yrs b4 she settles down.
For the fact that her sister is inviting her over doesn't mean that is going to hit it out there, in the case of UK or USA.

The bf she is leaving behind maybe better off if he gets a good job in Nigeria.

You're right with that observation. But with what the poster had said I don't think it's for visitation reasons. Seems more to me like she's going there to stay or something. But in the event of she trying to settle down, she will forget the guy using "settling down" as an excuse to stash him in her history box.

Your fiancee is smiling all the way to the bank in your face. Kiss her goodbye at the airport because the most she'll do is contact you for a year before she forgets about you. There are lots of hot men over here and when ladies from Nigeria arrive here it's always different. They fall head over heels and guys down there in Nigeria are considered inferiors _{not all nigerian guys are inferior} . You don't say you are trusting her to come back to you after she's gone, now I'm not saying keep her from leaving for another country but let her go and you will find out if she wants you, but don't dwell on that too much, however, do your best to remain faithful to her while you look out for potential replacements.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Ahhh well
Never been a problem for me though.[/color]

I figured that.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]You know kickin it.  .  .relax.  .  .watch a movie or a game or a fight.  .  .have some beers or eat.  .  .chillin But my exs are cool or maybe they are used to me [/color]

I am sure there are cases like that. I know of an ex of mine whose husband I am not friends with.  But I will not take the chance of being left alone with her.

whitelexi:
Even if there was no infections or permanent dysfunction of any sort. . .  It would be a reference point. A point of malicious attacks when there's a disagreement or quarel as there will always be in a relationship. Imagine u as the guy in question, having to react when she says something like "It seems that gay session u had yrs ago has made u incapable of seeing reason". I still think, even if the woman stays, it will affect the relationship and eventually cause it to crash. Because most women as we know them, speak first then reason later.

I think the insult might come into play where there's no respect for each other. I do know there are rough times in relationships but are they all insulting? I still think it'd be easier on the man than a woman in such conditions.