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Before this can be answered at all, how old are you and how old is she? How long have you been going out together? Do they have any discrimination as to who she can marry in their family? It takes more than love to make marriage work, it dwells on a lot of factors, love, taking the front seat but not the most important.

I will prefer the boot. I love playing most especially the scoring part. Now, I'm not a TuFace. But to be keeper get him own wahala sha. You go dey stretch stretch up and down, all for wetin? for nothing. You no fit score you no fit dribble. Where the fun dey abeg?

ebinom:
she has "skid marks" in her kitten area pantie because she doesn't use a tissue paper to wipe herself after peeing.the pee stains the pantie and causes discolouration.as for me i use tissue paper whenever i pee and i take a shower whenever i do "number 2" so am always smelling fresh down ther

Why are you telling us? Do you have a potential boyfriend on here whom you're trying to impress? I don't see why you're posting the details. The poster asked, what would be your reaction if you see one, not if you have it. Go back to the reading board please  . I meant no disrespect

agabaI23:
Some clean chica is talking. If I see this is in the undies of a girl i wanna get down with. She has missed the heavenly part of the journey. No head for her. And that will be the end of anything serious between us except . . . .

Except you try to lick and it smells good?

Outstrip:
Women do not get skid marks. Men do. A skid mark is when a man does not wipe properly and then there is a line of poop in his underwear. Nasty men. PS my husband does not get skid marks. Every other man does though.

And why is your husband not one of those other men? Those other men are some girls' men you know? Oh I get it! He is a model working for Sean Jean or Louis Vol ton. Puuuuleeez!

I am sure you didn't grow up in a foster home(there aren't many in Nigeria). Your mom is definitely a wife and a prostitute I am sure you may have been with but most affirmatively seen around. Look at both of them, your mom and one prostitute and tell the difference. If this comment upsets you, then you know the difference, if you have any rant to make about my comment, shelve it please cuz this thread makes no damn sense.

justkunmi:
Girls.are.so.double.sided. . Most.times.they.just.do.things.without.clear.reasons.

There.was.an.instance.where.a.girl.was.talking.with.an.old.friend.in.the.presence.of.her.boyfriend. The.guy.was.very.mature. He.didnt.even.act.jealous.at.all. The.girl.was.angry.cos.her.boyfriend.WASN'T.jealous. . .so.she.started.flirting.with.this.other.guy.just.to.get.out.jealousy.out.of.him.

When.it.got.too.much. .the.boyfriend.blurted.out.and.sparked. .Can.u.imgaine?, the.girl.got.angry.again.that.her.boyfriend.was.too.jealous. That.he.took.it.too.far!

Women.are.just. . . .

You are just so right. I have had a girlfriend who asked me one time if I ever got jealous and I told her "No". She practically did everything within her emotional hurt arsenal to bring me to the table of jealousy but each time she tried, I laugh. Honestly, I've been in love but I choose not to be jealous by simply overlooking whatever they are doing and not having the time to read meaning to any of their reactions, some girls broke up with me on an account of not being jealous claiming that doesn't show enough love. If it comes to the worst, I'd just tell her to check what she's doing and see if it's right, if she tells me everything is up and up, boy oh boy, I ain't gon' do na'in. Imma just look str8 up in her face and put up a blistering smile. It's not really right for guys to work themselves up over girls' issue. However, I do have a few tips for people who are distressed, but personally I am unavailable to be concerned. Go on and flirt all you want, I don't care.

Druss:
For her to be telling you means - nothing dey happen ,

Lie. Call a spade a spade.

@Poster

From my experiences and things I've seen, it's a two dimensional thing. When your girl is on about hating a guy so much that she talks about that guy all the time, she is on to something, she either surreptitiously loves the guy and is jealous of other girls flocking around or just want the guy for some reasons and she's not having her way.

The other dimension when your girlfriend is so comfortable talking to you about another guy and is so excited about it as you have pointed out, more so he's a guy she had known before she met you. Now that's a big difference - KNOW AND MEET. It means she had been relaxed with the guy before she met you at all and probably she had feelings for the guy then and both weren't able to start off a relationship because the guy was busy with his educational pursuits.

I am sure in their latest meeting, he had asked her out for a relationship or appreciate how more beautiful looks since he left at the least(I would do the same if I was the guy and interested in her before I left), and now your girlfriend's ego is being upped and the romantic paparazzi from the guy is hitting her real good. My opinion is for you to be patient but prepare your mind to be worst, I hate to be an advocate of negativity complex unfortunately that is what we have here. The girl has suddenly developed interest in the guy all over again and it feels to her like she's been linked up with a lost lover. She might be telling you this out of being open to you and all and what we don't usually know is women themselves fall for a guy without them knowing it.

If she was such a damn good girl, why hasn't she talked to you for 8 hours? And you guys talk every time on the phone? I mean didn't she miss that about you? Isn't the relationship worth for her to answer your phone calls? Oh I guess the Singapore returnee is filling your spot now otherwise she will have talked to you even if she has to be upset which I don't believe she has a right to for expressing your jealousy. Don't be too quick to forget that the God said "I AM A JEALOUS GOD" If he wasn't jealous He wouldn't have said "we should serve no other god except Him". Stop making an effort to call her and you will see she will predicate her opting out of the relationship on your actions and then you'd know she is not really worth all the stress you're putting yourself through. And to answer your questions, you weren't wrong for being jealous and you never over reacted, she would do worse if she was in your shoes given that she allows you to meet up with her in the first place.

190:
rubi
wen we were supoosed 2 meet didnt u foc.k up

No take lafff kill me here oooo

SeanT21:
NOOO. They can have opinions but they can not tell me who to marry.

Since they can't have you marry who they want I see no point in them being opinionated.

ebumowa:
@poster:
Because one man toasted you, that means Nigeria is coming to the edge of destruction? This question would make sense if homosexuality wasn't presecuted in Nigeria and homosexuals were allowed to live freely but that isn't the case.
After you see the first PRIDE parade with same sex loving people allowed to freely express themselves, then your question would make sense.

It's not a question of whether they are allowed to express themselves, it is more of the younger generations going into these immorality - going gay, launching lesbianism. I believe we are coming to having a parade of same sex loving people who will mount the streets in protest, maybe we will have a hotter demonstration that the one we have in California.

When you're old enough to choose who to fall in love with, I don't think it's any of their gaddamn business to nose into your affairs.

walestar:
I have dated a girl that once said she was once a witch before, she said she got sick everytimes which made her Parents spent a lot on her, she said. her parents knew she was a witch when they contact pastor and then she was taking to Cele church where the witch was taking away from her, she said, they seperated her away from the members 2 times before they left her finally, I got scared then but the relationship goes on. I always afraid to hurt her and can't say I will never date her anymore but she told me not to accusses anybody or discuss about witched outside as she was once a member before. I SWORN TO GOD with my life. this is true story but this girl is sooo beautiful, very yellow which every man will like to have. Don't just say bad things about anybody my nairaland people because I have got involve with their ex member before

Shout Halleluyah y'all!

edogram:
men this must be a big lie.

witchs never tell any one about been a witch,

well if it's true, my guy run for ur life oh. nothing good come out from the pocket of a witch , there must be  bigger prize is return to thier power. fuckkin blood suckking

You get the logic, but if he has to leave he should be more diplomatic about it or he will face terrible things.

She want to ride on shotgun and make an advantage out of your comment. In my opinion you shouldn't have said she was stupid, you should have been quiet and she will be the one begging for you to talk then you can say whatever you want afterward. They always offer you what they can't take. Yesterday someone posted that her girlfriend got mad at him and quit the relationship because she hugged his ex girlfriend. How senseless!

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=283409.msg4061660#msg4061660 date=1245510352]hey u, i am oppose to any common sense here! lets stick to the old dumb argument, they were it so that players can be kept a bay (like players care what u wear on ur finger) [/quote]That is even if they can identify a true player. Players actually don't care even if you're just coming out from the within the gates of your husband's(and I mean legally married ones)premises. They don't care if you wear wedding ring, even wear your wedding gown, they don't give a flying Bleep.

scantee:
hmm guy your funny (laugh don kill me)


i think so
so will i call it quit or what

Don't call it quits, you should either be open about it if you're serious about each other or keep it on the LOW if it is all about Bleep because any shortcoming from the relationship, it's a fresh scandal.

Outstrip:
Why? Because he asked the poster to change the topic. Do you really know who sounds crazy here? Aside from the topic and the fact that he is essentially saying that God killed all those children that died in the tsunami I sincerely hate when you talk to people and they cannot form one logical response and anything aside from what they believe means that the other person is evil.

Even if I have to change the topic, he should at least be polite about it before spewing his abusive venoms.

SeanT21:
WOW~~That guy is a fool. Take time who U talk 2 mehn!!

There ya go girl.

Hossein Moussavi has declared he wants to be a martyr.

http://edition.cnn.com/2009/WORLD/meast/06/20/iran.election/index.html?iref=mpstoryview

Hollysmile:
Onenaija, desist from dis ur 'homo' lifestyle, cos u sound like one.
Lawd have mercy on ur soul. Amen!

He is a delusional and misinformed idiotic piece of crappy shit.

Hollysmile:
@poster, i've had similar experience 2, wit dis fool (yeah! A fool) i once respected as an older brother.
He always raised discussions regardin anal sex (not really specific as to whether a guy and gal or whatever), and how pleasurable it feels.
We usually exchanged txt mssgs, tho platonic, but what amazed and got me in2 suspectin him was a day he had a seminar and was lodged in a hotel, he asked me to come visitin which i did,  After spendin some hrs wit him and was about leavin, he requested for a close hug instead of the normal handshake. I reluctantly did.
After den, he started pesterin me 2come spend a nite wit him (4wetin?), which i neva graced, until he 'stupidly' started sendin me very romantic txts, tellin me all sorts of trash - you know amean! When i called him to question what warranted such crazy txts, he blew-up narratin how he feels about me, Bla bla bla.
That was d end of our friendship cos, i sounded him a deafenin warnin & stopped seein him.
Honestly, naija guys & gals don dey tire me, oh.

Almost like my experience but this guy never asked me to a hotel. In fact he had a beautiful sister I was eying to see if I could slide through, he made sure he distanced us which I thought was part of being a protective brother but that wasn't the case. I had no option but to spend the night there as I didn't know anywhere around, I tried finding a hotel but it was too dangerous to walk around because it was when Adedibu and his cohorts were busy destabilizing Ibadan. This is absolute disrespect to human nature. Imagine, man dey follow man talk anal sex? If I woz am slap him go die straight.  

OneNaija:
@Poster Change your Topic Does not Sound Nice. Have you ask yourself Is America Or Canada Coming To The Edge Of Being Another Tsunami or Sodom and Whatever? Better Change the Topic Cow

I thought you were making sense when you asked for a change of topic, but in the end you called me a cow. What are you? A stupid hopeless cunt? Mind how you talk to people p.u.ssy

I think Ayatollah have failed the Iranians yet again, first of all, he backed Ahmedinajad. As if that wasn't enough he went to the pew on Friday and made a blunder blaming UK and I wonder what they have to do with this and sternly warning protesters. I wonder who he thinks he is even when he can still be removed. I honestly, think the man was of high morale but I now see he has none otherwise he won't have come openly to back a failed election. A kid born on the morning of that election knows it's a total fraud. There are no leaders anymore, people seem to always deviate from the truth just for reasons of favoritism.

I just learned Moussavi says he wants to be a martyr, that is how far he is willing to go to support his cause.

First of all, you're just so young prolly just made it out of High School and a guy who's twisted wants to twist your life? There is no two-way about it, he's a bum, he fake, a pussy. He just want to use you maybe push drugs, anything goes in the society these days. You just don't know what is going on and I bet you don't know what love is about let alone marriage. My advice is, don't go anywhere near him not even if your dad is going with you. You hear? Face your book and concentrate on being another Hillary Clinton, Okonjo Iweala, Oby Ekwesili, maybe even Sarah Palin(I have low opinion of her), Condolezza Rice, Onyeka Onwenu. Be a good girl, it's time to hit the library.

Eslopy:
I bet you bro she wont hurt u if u dont hurt her jst attend church services and pray hard 4get! Either she leaves u! Or the stuff leaves her! U feel me!

It goes beyond that. I don't mean to be atheist but sometimes before God intervenes things may have gotten out of hand, however, I believe HE has the power to turn the wind wherever HE wills, that is my GOD for you.

StephenP:
And how exactly is she going to do that? Oh right, she's a witch Why is she more interested in making others rich though? Shouldn't she help herself first?

Frankly, I don't believe in witchcraft and all those other make-believe creatures.

Go to www.7witches.com if you are not satisfied, I have hosts of their websites, that is the "learned" witches if you choose to call them that.

platinumnk:
I have a Haitian friend (who is now a Christian) told me that back in haiti they used to have spirit sessions as a class and envoke them. She even told me she could kill me by using hair if she wanted to. trust me witches are very real

Tell 'em momma. As far as I know, there are lots of scary creatures in the world and witchcraft is just so one of them unfortunately even in Science, they do exist. I have read books where I almost lost sanity as I got too deep. They don't exist in the imaginary, they are in abundant existence. Even the ones in Nigeria can hold back anything and set anything free. There are numerous examples to be mentioned.

StephenP:
And how exactly is she going to do that? Oh right, she's a witch Why is she more interested in making others rich though? Shouldn't she help herself first?

Frankly, I don't believe in witchcraft and all those other make-believe creatures.

I used to not believe in these things, I called them made-up superstitions. But I have witnessed several actions from these so-called underworld witches, man, they exist for real even in United States they do. There are books you read about them and the next thing you're in another realm, I've got a testimonial about that one.

I don't think there's anything bad in it. However, it depends on the context of your relationship and where your heading to. If it's for real, go on and get down to the groove. If you know it's just for Bleep's sake, keep it on the down low because right now you're timid, when y'all break your status will have deteriorated although you can still get a piece of her ass each time you want to

StephenP:
Isn't it obvious that she doesn't like you and she is nudging you to leave by scaring you?

She is merely letting him know that if he cheats then he will be back to ruins

platinumnk:
but why would a yahoo boy know witchcraft?

He didn't recognize her witchcraft. She told him, but before she did he had noticed his booming financial status by virtue of the babe's presence in his life.

fntekim:
No mind me jare, I just dey listen to one badass lyrics. This witch bizniz de spoil ma mood.

What kind of music? Hubert Ogunde? 50 Cent? Fela?

platinumnk:
fntekim:
Check my pocket, pieces of paper all na control number.

what does that mean?

Sounds like a Yahoo boy to me!

fntekim:
Check my pocket, pieces of paper all na control number.

You got swagger man. No Reference numbers?

She's a witch yet your things got better and she revealed it to you and you wanna bounce? Oh come on, you should know better. If I were you, the fun had just begin, I will capitalize on her witchcraft and ask whatever I want, the thing is don't ask too much until your mom and dad dies so they don't ask you to bring your parents for sacrifice and stay away as much as possible from having kids until you have achieved almost all you wanted. Bad Boy, husband of the witch! What a lucky lad you are.