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madambini:
the thumb aint for searching

1st finger is for searching
middle finger is for engaged,
3rd finger is the wedding finger
and the pinkie is for divorce or death.

Are you a ring expert? Or oh a beautician?

tiniyata:
Her name was augusta,though i never told her till graduation,but the feelings lingered on.I was in secondary school then,guess i was too young and afraid to tell her.She was my dream maker.

Do you still see her?

sistawoman:
Ok for starters dad is Italian (need I say more)
Brother is Fed police
other brother is gangsta (for lack of a better word)
Nephews - One pro ball player with lots of conections The other just a tall negro with lots of strength.

They all love me to bits and were a little upset when i called the cops on one of my bfs that put his hands on me, they wanted to handle it.

They also paid a visit to another ex that threated me after I kicked him out and made it clear that he should not visit my place again.

They also paid a visit to my ex husband explaining him the need for him to be nice in the divorce and give me what I want.  I never really told my exh how close he came to being six feet under and that was just cuz my dad did not like him.  He had actually sent the word down for the hit but my brothers told me about it to be sure I was cool with it.  I pleased with my dad not to leave my children w/o a father.  In hind sight I wish I had not stepped in on his behalf.

There are other examples but I cant share them on a public forum.  Left a few mamas crying.

Nice one right there. That quickly reminds me of one of my friends. His dad is a Mexican drug baron(cocaine dealer), his mom is Russian deals in all kinds of ammo's. I am very close to him and I know a few things that runs in their family and tell you what, I have never seen a family that terrifying not even in the movies.


Dad(Mexican) ------>>> Cocaine dealer
Mom(Russian) ----->>> Ammunition
Brother ------>>> All in the family crack business line
2nd brother ----->>> Is a love-vendor.
Sister ----->>> A classy sex worker.
Lots of Uncles who are ex-military(all served with the US Army)

From my experiences and things I have seen for myself, Fed Police can easily be subdued by drugs and ammunition dealers because their bosses are on their payroll. No drug or arms enters a state without the knowledge of police bosses. If you happen to marry this friend of mine, your family won't do nothing because if your Fed police brother wants to make any move, he'll be curtailed. Your dad being Italian don't mean nothing because Italy, Cuba & Mexico to the best of my knowledge all have mafias running every nooks and crannies.

Those people your folks terrified are weak people who have no back up. My friend's family is the deadliest I have seen. Maim, kill, do whatever they want at will. Some words are better left unsaid. When you think you're on the last inch limit of the scale, some other people's limits on that same scale are just beginning to count from where yours had stopped. Feel me?

sistawoman:
For every action there is a reaction.

I would have warned him and would my family as my father did my present husband.

They simply told him if you hit her please make sure your bags are packed and you are walking out the door as you do it. Because you will pray that the police get to you first before we do.

If after that warning he still chooses to lay hands on me then he gets what he gets.

Some men love challenges that he'll do it on purpose just so he'd see what your folks will do and trust me, if your folks make a pass at him they'd wish they never did. Some men can be unscrupulously violent and some don't even think of the outcome. Some folks have said the same thing you dad said and the man tried it, his in-laws came looking hungry for a fight, well, guess what, he dashed a bullet into one of them legs! Now thats what I'm talking about! First things first, that was his house they went too, secondly, they are not the police. You might want to retract that statement a little.

JJYOU:
can any good come out of people like these? worst of the worst  i say.

not my portion as they say in naija.

No one wishes that you'd be caught up in such drama but if it were that you got involved with any of these two kinds of men, which will you choose?

sistawoman:
He did not say that.

since you have added this condtion I would choose the beater.

Because I can call the police and have him locked up.

Or I can call my family and have him put 6 feet under.

Either way the first time he hits me will be the last.

With the cheater my family maybe less inclined to help because they would sugest divorce.

Now you understand where I am coming from. I have to ask you though, wouldn't you be guilty of accomplice to murder if you have your family put him 6ft below? Can you live with that guilt despite his peccant attribute? What are you going to tell your kids, that you killed their father because he beats you? I slightly incline to the police meddling into such matters regardless - but answer my questions phulezzzzzzzzz!

[quote author=frank3.16 link=topic=288531.msg4088147#msg4088147 date=1245942732]naturally women are always confused, thats why always make so many mistakes.

U ladis are asked to choose one out of the two bad situation, not to reject all two[/quote]Thanks for the reminder bro. I think they need to go back and read again.

sistawoman:
Ask yourself is it better that your sister stay with her husband and let him beat her and beat her and maybe kill her or she leave with her life and her children and rasie them alone in peace?

Ask yourself if it is better for you sister to have the heartache of finding out she has HIV/AIDS and may never get to help her son or daughter prepare for marriage or hold her grandchild or enjoy her life with you because she stayed with a cheating spouse.

I dont mean to be personal but sometimes we have to look at this in a personal matter as if it is one of our family members that is effected.

I know I would none of the above for my sisters or my daughtar.

I quite understand all that and I'd rather not have even my foe be entangled with such men. I'm a kind of guy who even looks out for his exes much let alone my relations. But the poster is stating here that, given these are the two types of men available and divorce not being an option, which would you choose?

Who was the first person you ever had a crush on? What was the relationship with you two? Did he/she know you had a crush on them? What was the distance? Give your details here please!

Women are reading this post and overlooking it. I guess they don't know which to choose! Pathetic enough!

sistawoman:
Divorce


I would never advocate for a woman to stay with a man that is beating her because it may cost her or her children thier lives, not to mention the effect it has on the children.

I would never advocate for a woman to stay with a cheater, AIDS/HIV is real and does kill. You might live a little longer but you will die from it. Who wants to be visited by one of his way ward hoes because she now has pinkin from him? Who wants to sit at home and wonder which LovePeddler he is sticking tonight. And we know how 9ja men love head like any other men, who whats to be licking another womans puzzy juices off her husbands privates or wondering if he bothered to bath before leaving his LovePeddler.

Striking thought! Do you believe the saying that the devil you know today is better than 10 angels you'll know tomorrow?

touchmeder:
Does pre nup hold sway in Nigeria?

I doubt if a lot of people know about it.

sistawoman:
I pick neither.

Why do I have to pick the best of the worst.

Well, there are many people faced with this situation, what would you advise them to choose?

Women are in the best position to answer this.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Even if she doesn't like the mother.  .  .if she loved him, she would have tolerate the mother because she is his mother [/color]

That is what I thought.

Go back to him and tell him you can't let go of him.

Secretz:
In cases like this, I can never really blame a guy for introducing a pre-nup. It's not about trusting the person. Some people are very good pretenders and would bleed you dry in the end. I am not saying she should leave completely empty handed, but not half of his money and assets, especially not after just a few years of marriage.

I dig you

ammamat:
The guy telling him he's a player and that he's ready to be with the girl, is section 25, sub-section 1 of being a PLAYER CONSENSUS CONSTITUTION.

@ Theseeker,
My prayer is that God will change things, coz if my friend is heartbroken again, she will never hook up with any man,

Can guys go this far ?
AM REALLY SCARED

Believe me baby! We can go this far. I have gone as far as meeting a girl's family, from the youngest to the their oldest great grandfather just to show her I was serious which I wasn't, so you see that is a far cry from what I did.

sistawoman:
I know child is Omo
what is senior child
what is senior son

Senior child ------>>>> Akobi (Ae-kor-be)

Senior son ------->>>> Arole (Ae-ro-ley)

A friend of mine is in a relationship with a certain beautiful lady. He loves her so dearly. But the lady doesn't like seeing his mom. He has effortlessly tried to convince her to at least see his mom and subsequently like her but that led nowhere. My friend as much as I know about him loves his mom more than anyone I have ever seen. He talked it over with me so I advised he talks to her and find out why she doesn't like his mom but the lady had no answer to that. She said "I don't just approve of her, I don't like her to be honest". Isn't that a cold truth for him to deal with? Well, he wants to continue the relationship and doesn't know what to do. His mom doesn't know already if the lady likes her or not as such she is totally ignorant of this whole scenarios. What do you think he should do? Should he go ahead to continue the relationship and get married to her? Do you think she might change her attitudes towards his mom over time? Should he leave her? If you were the guy in this position what would you do? If you were the lady what will you plan on doing? NO INSULTS PLEASE!!!!!!

Kinda hard to choose but I'd prefer to at least be registered on the pages of wealth to have been rich even if I don't live to spend it I have kids who will.

anobscase:
There was a typo error on the bathroom door,instead of WOMEN, I sa Men, Maybe the WO was erased by someone.It wasnt really my fault

I doubt if Seun did that to make you look bad. Must have been your typo. No one removed it.

ammamat:
no be small thing my dear, we ve talk and talked

My frend call yesterday , saying before she return from work he had prepared meal and keep for her, it is well oh
We are waiting to see the end of this love coz my advice to her is not to give in all.

Your friend is on a roller coaster ride to "HURT-VILLE"

What sounds too good to be true usually is. From my experience, being a player means you go the extra mile to sway someone else, particularly someone who thinks they are smart, to your side by exhibiting daunting and almost unbelievable acts.

The guy telling him he's a player and that he's ready to be with the girl, is section 25, sub-section 1 of being a PLAYER CONSENSUS CONSTITUTION.

Spare me the details, he's playing the girl on a different level where she'll be hurt and dropped like a bad habit.

scemchee:
you can control a violent man by only one way. which is by telling him dat his long dead mum is alive. LOL.

JEEEEZZZZ!!!!!!! Now that's the best solution to it.

anobscase:
i found mine in the bathroom

You found her in the bathroom doing what? _{You met her there or you both went to the bathroom?}

I met her over the phone. I called a wrong number and fortunately the lady on the other end had a very sweet bird-like voice. That got my head spinning. I couldn't stop calling for a month until we finally hooked up. Turned out she was as beautiful as her voice.

v3nom4eva:
@seeker

no wonder she declined doing it all those years

Just kidding. My first kissing was as if I was being electrocuted! The babe sentenced me to an electrical kiss from from electronic lips. I went gaga. Need details? Imma tell ya.

LadyT:
My first kiss was amazing.  He was a fantastic teacher.  It was slow and soft and I thought I was going to die. He made love to my mouth with his.

JESUS!!!!

yommyflo:
the different is clear between a mother kiss and G**D kiss, kiboshi pass kiboshi

i am an IZANGA candidate!

Abi ooooo!!!!! Tell him

kola oloye:
@topic
both of you are not in the same class why don't you change the frequency of your radio.

I wonder

What you can't see doesn't kill you.

v3nom4eva:
@the seeker
u don't say. . .ur momma no kiss u wen u small. . . ?? , dat means your "blowfish lips" na die

The hymen on my lips is almost as massive as PONMO!

patwhizkid:
Tales by moonlight. . .

Point of correction! Tales by Igniting the Candlelight.  That was Candlelight Kissing Lesson 1.

biola44:
as yaba left joined ASUU strike?

She needs help!