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It's a trend.

The problem is not masturbation, the problem is pornography and erotic contents.

CaveAdullam, when I read his post, I don't even know the kind of response to give him. He fvcked up big time!

When will Men know that not all pussy is to be fvcked, even if that said pussy can be gotten easily?

SEX have always been used in destroying Men's lives since time immemorial and the trend will still continue. Men are just too thirsty. Control your sexual urge. You will be doing yourself a whole lot of good.

Dpsychologist:
WOMEN'S NATURE

1. KNOCK KNOCK
This thriller is about a married man who welcome unsolicited 2 female visitors into his house. They seduced him into having sex with them only to turn around to use it against him. Unknowingly they have been planning this for a long time to destroy him.

The lessons from this movie is to be able to decode the reason a girl wants to fvck you. Not every pvssy is to be fvcked.

I watched this movie some time ago and it gave me chills.

I think GLYCOLYSISS should modify the first post on this thread with this warning to avoid another person making the same mistake:

DO NOT REPLY OR QUOTE (f) MONIKERS OR IRREDEEMABLE SIMPS

prodige001:
Please elders in the house help me... I just hope am not going extreme

It's being a while since I came accros TRP after taking plenty dose and reading books I decided to go on my way (MGOTW) coz I need to work on been a better man one whom upcoming boys can learn manliness from... I'd been a monk for like 6months now (zero affair, zero intentions for any affair) all this while ladies make passes at me but I decline...

Now the problem

This lady... We know each other from a while... Ever since I became a monk twas like she was cursed... She won't let me be... I'd been rude to her unapologetically yet she won't let me be...

Did I tell you I was crushing on her b4 I found d redpill? ... Well I was

LOL! This story really made me laugh. Ahaha.

Well no one is blaming you for letting your guard down and answering the call of pleasure. I once talked about this on the 3 great test that can be used to test, manipulate or bring a man down. The Love of Women was the first on the list.

If they see you as a well principled man, a woman (femme fatale) can be used to determine if you truly stand on your words. Seduction of a very attractive lady is very hard to resist. So many people will fail also just like you did. It's not an easy task especially if you've avoided contact with women for so long.

One of the most important lesson a redpilled man has to equip himself with is the control of sexual urge. It's very important. Most of the wrong decisions we make with women is because we can't control it. We quickly do what they want so as to get sexual with them. It's a trap.

SOZINN:
So that means knowledge of all these female traits (red pill) is no guarantee that you will select the right woman, you know cuz knowing about team stats and performances and what have you but it's no guarantee that you will win your bet.
So you can vet all you want with the red pill and still end up with the wrong woman or right woman maybe she changed after marriage (I mean people change na)
Ur favourite defender might get a red card, the best striker on the team might get injured. You no budget that one na
Changes will be made by the coach and the team will end up loosing
And some guys are like, once she start behaving in a way I don't like or acting abnormal I'll just dump her and start searching again for the right woman.
People win ooo. Don't get me wrong
My question is
What are the chances? Look around
Then ask yourself. As usual I wish you the best in whatever you choose to do.

Being redpilled doesn't mean you'll be perfect in your dealings or all the choices you make will be a good one. Remember the Red Pill Philosophy is amoral, what you do with the knowledge is up to you. In as much as TRP is concerned, we are still human also and we are prone to human errors/mistakes. BUT;

Being redpilled will give you the right solution to problems where it seems to be no solution. Being redpilled will make you calculate your steps 10 times ahead. Being redpilled will make you aware of the decision you're making and the consequences. Being redpilled will always make you see things with Red Pill lenses and also stop you from taking the wrong turn.

Once you start seeing things with Red Pill lenses, you can't unsee it. You can only pretend not to.

Nice one, we move!

Skepticus:
I understood the position of some men here and Ubunja complaining about some guys being "emotional" about certain issues. I believe that it had to do with their "zombie-like" immersion in the blue pill when they were SIMPs which made them take very extreme "emotional" positions when they swallowed the Red Pill.

The problem is that some men let their emotions (which they mistake as "discipline" ) prevent them, learning from the experience of others. I once shared the link of a guy describing his "escapades" with married women here. A lot didn't react to it. On that thread, I saw two confirmed female monikers talk about how "common" cheating, happens without their husbands knowing about it. These "husbands" are the bulk of Nigerian men who "always" think they "know" women (but in fact, they know nothing, even about the women they married as wives). I see them all the time.

I saw the thread you were talking about and how female monikers but mostly male monikers were trying to shut the "adulteress" OP from saying much. Some said it was fake. Others said it was "copy and paste" but I swear, all the story shared by "adulteress" whether it was fake or not, are tales that are very capable of happening. As a matter of fact, it is highly capable of happening within the "Nigerian Context" as Nigerian men have proven themselves to be irredeemable SIMPs going by the very high rate Nigeria has featured in, concerning all popular researches and statistics on Paternity Fraud.

I shared the posts of confirmed female "f" monikers who had supported the Adultery OP story to prove how women were better cheats over men in the hope that those who followed me get the message. Women know a lot that men do not know.

I "Follow" a lot of "f" monikers than "m" monikers since I joined Nairaland for a reason. It's not fool-proof though, but I understand the intricacies from experience. Those "f" monikers include your popular feminist monikers, attention-seekers, female clowns and the ones run by men. Also, I know some "m" monikers with females behind them. I use it to guage the mood of the females (pussy-cartel) and their "private" judgement of serious issues on this platform. I have never been disappointed. I even saw one on a thread on paternity fraud. The last 5 pages of that thread had popular feminist monikers here (Nigeria and abroad) discuss on how to handle "slut-shaming" techniques used by nairalander males on them. It was very detailed. Most male monikers wouldn't notice it because they were either "stupidly" trolling, fighting silly "gender supremacy" battles or being "foolishly" moralistic, that they didn't notice the intricacies of manipulations "planned" by these women. I've been studying women "remotely" and I've been "awwed" by all I have learnt from them concerning "male" manipulations. One with "m" starting, and two "a" ending her moniker is presently studying everything we discuss here. She had made an "attention-seeking" comment here recently and it was rightfully ignored. On the Internet, Popular Gold Digging females are noticing the red pill and discussing on how to manipulate the so-called red pilled dudes into becoming their slaves and SIMPs. These bitches aren't slacking. Use your head, dudes.

While Men were busy preparing for war and thinking about bringing civilisation, the Women were busy studying about Men.

In this gynocentric society, Women are always one step ahead because they keep inventing new manipulative techniques. It is our duty to fight this system.

You saw all these red flags and you still went on with the relationship? Some men are just evolutionary DUMB!.

emmaodet:
Even though this advice is good, it is kind of bad. Why? because most guys are going to be naive in relationship and marry hoes.

There is a reason why we do notice a common trend - good guys marrying hoes/damaged women while bad guys marrying good girls - EXPERIENCE is what happened.
Over the year of dating, a womanizer has gathered a lot of experiences and had his fair share of heartbreaks, so when he sees a reserved good girl, he can smell, fell and notice such girls but an unexposed/inexperienced love starved man will quickly fall for a lady with wide experiences in past relationships.
The care, foods, mind blowing sex, knowing what to do at the right time, buying gifts and showering fake loves just to secure marriage.
That is why it is common for such men to marry over 30 years ladies, ladies with baggages(kids), washed-up / worn out ladies and these men will say - This ladies are different, they show them love unlike younger ladies, makes him happy and gives him rest of mind. Of course, why won't they? they are all DAMAGED GOODS looking a foool to pick up a cheap good at an exorbitant price and high maintenance.

Thanks for the explanation but you just didn't get my point though. It's no problem.

ElasmoBranchii:
This is not a curse but this man's marriage can only go downhill from here.

SMH.

ArchiPelsx:
I'm glad to have been able to read to this point, I had to open an account so as to be able to comment.
Thanks a lot psychologist for the eye opener, a lot of things I read in this whole thread just describe what I experienced in my last relationship, Thank God I was smart enough to walk away early enough.
But I have a simple question, I'm not sex freaked and based on my personal decision I don't engage myself in any sexual relationship with ladies so even if I ask a girl to date me, it's never because I want to get her laid. So now, reading this I feel I really do not need to keep friendship with all these ladies. What advice will you give someone in my shoes? Ignore the opposite sex entirely as they are basically of no use to me or one can still maintain a healthy 'friendship' kind of relationship?

Do away with relationships with women until you're fully ready to settle down. In most cases, there's nothing to gain in keeping female friendships.

Just focus on yourself now. Keep toiling. There's time for everything.

okrikaboi:
We are still together though I pity her she might still get heart broken cuz I'mma end up marrying a 17 year old reserved girl when I'm ready.

Please, Men needs to stop doing this. Let's not string women along when we know we are still going to end up leaving them. It's bad. In as much as we know how women can be bad, they are still human also. We feel pain. Heartbreak is perilous. In as much we are redpilled also, heartbreak is not something you joke with. Not everyone can handle heartbreak lightly. You can't ruin someone's life because of your own personal desires and expect peace of mind.

It's better to define the relationship you are having with a woman from the onset. If it's just FWB, let her know immediately. Don't let her put all her hopes on you when you're still gonna disappoint her. Refrain from it.

This is why I say some Men can be very dangerous as much as Women. You keep ruining other girl's lives and you're also one of the masses still calling those who you ruined their lives "damaged women". Isn't that hypocritical?

samuelpeters:
Yes. I believe something must kill a man. But men usually use that statement when they are rejecting sound wisdom.

Something must kill a man doesn't mean the man should die for something that's not worth it.

©️2021.

I wanted to reply him with this exact same comment, but I'm glad you did. Thanks.

I wanna recommend this movie "Fatale (2020)" for you guys to enjoy and for those who haven't seen "Gone Girl (2014)" movie yet should try and watch it.

CaveAdullam:
In addition to your wise saying:


DAY 12, REDPILL 2021

As usual, the redpill is amoral, but people fail to juxtapose long term goals with short term goals. That's human nature, always graving for short term dopamine pleasures. We want to satisfy our animal instinct in whatever way, and method without first knowing its outcome---wear, stagnate or elevate us.

My senior colleagues that were into spinning plates thinking that's all about life have nothing to write home about. One even died of HIV. All of them frustrated! They thought life was all about women, booze, drugs, and party. These were men with money, but as the sunset, twilight came, and the demons started crawling out of their shells. Felix Dennis in one of his books said he lost good allies because of drugs, booze and wh0res which caused a serious damage to his health of which he is still bearing the scar. He even had not less than fourteen mistresses who he placed on monthly stipend. He had the money, fame, and popularity. But after he was able to snatch his life back from death, he dumped all wh0res, and gave up bad habits. Are you tempted to call them simps? Except for Felix Dennis, those colleagues of mine are women magnet, many girls, ladies, baby mamas put their lives at stake for them. They were pure players.

This is not a matter of morality or immorality, it is simple common sense! You will observe that great men who striked great chord in history were aloof from women. This is not to say a man should clip his d!ck or not do whatever he chooses to do with his reproductive organ, but that in every dealings he has with a woman, he loses, whether he likes it or not (except for Leverage, p!mp!ng, gold digging or other machiavellian purposes which must be done with caution, and a high degree of smartness). Even if reproduction doesn't occur as a result of sexual intercourse with a woman, he loses semen, and energy, while she protects her limited eggs, and profits more from the sexual exhibition because it takes a longer time for women to reach orgasm, and as a man in order to boost his ego, he must definitely try to bring her near sexual satisfaction but meanwhile, he experienced ejaculation hours ago. What if she reproduces? Then, he has mother, and child, to take care of. Same thing, he lose! Therefore, a man must be wiser than a serpent around them.

What about our biological nature? That's why we are not like other lower animals, we have willpower, the ability to know what is good for us, and what will help us survive in the long run.

The only way a man can smother his lose is to ensure that in his pursuit for pleasures he must endeavor to build a strong legacy that will stand, and speak for him when he's no longer alive. He doesn't know when death will come knocking on his door. It is good he make good use of his time, and the little opportunity he has. Women come, and go but if the time he ought to use in doing relevant things is trade off for women, regret it will be at last.

Men have difficulty conditioning their time with women; an hour always seem like a minute with them, and they expend more hours because romance is sweet to a man. If a man is not selfish with his time, and attention around women, he will miss out in life.

Yes, some men can still have the upper hand no matter their escapades, and that I know. I'm aware of this exception but the rule as it is observed among majority is what I just explained.

Authority: whatever it is about women around you, be very careful, and wise because to catch a thief you must think like a thief.

Thanks for this addition Sir.

mattfeuter:
Or do we have people that were born redpilled?

I guess what you meant to type/ask is "Do we have some people that were raised redpilled?" If that's the question, then the answer is Yes. Some people had Red Pill instincts without coming across the term Red Pill.

Francis95:
I greet you all. Please I have got a question regarding the issue of having an abundance mindset. Having an abundance mindset is being posted almost daily on this thread.

I am a Course rep in one of the federal universities in the south south part of Nigeria and because of this position I have so many girlfriends both in department and other departments including the ones that asked me out by theirselves. I am also a body builder and I look cute too so I think that's the reason.

Atimes, I do forget their names that I had to write their names on a paper. And I have sex with all of them nd with protection of course.

I have an abundance mindset at the same time I am cheating on all of them.
The girls are up to Six nd more still crushing. I'm in 200 level.

Women have a propensity to distract you from your mission. Do not permit this.

I won't say much about this so I won't be termed as too stoic or too serious about Life, but if you keep doing that because you think you're kind of amazing or something else hmm... I leave you to it.

Many Great Men have fallen through that path. When they were in the act, they felt they were on top of the world; but when reality dawned on them, they wished for a second chance to make things right which they will never get.

A man that can't control his sexual urge won't go far in Life. Don't damage future opportunities because of few minutes of pleasure today. There's more to look forward to. At the end of the line, you have absolutely NOTHING to achieve on that path, but you definitely have A LOT MORE to lose.

Men should learn more about the Pareto Principle. You can't be 100℅ Alpha or a 100℅ Beta, in due time you'll fail.

Men need to learn how to maneuver between the two to navigate through Life. You can't be too strict all the time.

Bankalert:
If roles were reversed i wouldn't give a damn. I know the moment i release a lady's number to a guy, anything is bound to happen. Well, not everyone is like me.

He never told me he is trying to have something with the girl.He should have marked the territory officially and not expect me to assume since i know he has a girlfriend. But i still wouldn't have had anything else to do with her. He was now telling me how i should have acted with the girl. Even when i met her, i shook my head at his standards. Kind of guy that runs after everything in skirt.

I was surprised too when you said he has a girlfriend before all these saga. Just sort things out among each other bro since he didn't tell you anything detailed. I thought he would have expected you to know what to do. It's nothing that serious. #Peace

Bankalert:
Judge this case for me.

So my friend who has a girlfriend got this random girl's number and asked me to help him get a job for the girl. (obviously she is one of his side chicks or one of those he is trying to bang outside his girlfriend).
He should have kept the number to himself and gotten her a job. Some guys are just born simps in this life and nothing will change that.

Hmm, you can't really blame him though. He's just being insecure. He should have let you finished your explanation to him, but his emotions was at work then because he sensed some foul play. The current world situation made him think like that. You know how we hear stories of cheating, betrayal and stuffs like that nowadays.

What I will just chip in is that, don't let the dissolution of your friendship be caused by a girl. That's the worst thing that could happen. Women are manipulative and calculating, if you let a girl be the cause of you guys not relating with each other again, you guys will regret it later. You should sort things out like a Man without involving the girl in the issue. Just try to explain things better because he flared up when you said to him that you guys met each other.

Let's be real, if the roles were reversed you would have flared up also or sense some foul play. It's just intuition at work. Just settle things among each other.

Evolutionlove:
I will try and make my sentence as simple as possible. You sound and reason like a Kid who doesn't really know much about life and haven't seen much about life as well. I'm 1000% certain you and so called ubunja are still under 30years. I can easily deduce comments made by under 30years peeps on here. Although "Age doesn't equates Intelligence In some cases" but believe me Age Is very Important, The Importance of AGE cannot be overemphasized.

Please don't let us start this again now. Let's bury the matter, please.

CaveAdullam:
It is at the heat of this ex topic that those in desire of their ex e.g Ubunja, gold360, softguy1 etc. started mentioning gifts, connections as a reason to still maintain friendship with an ex. Meanwhile, 1/3 of my posts in regards to the topic was when gold360 insists on going back to his ex when he's in "dire" need of sex and food. And of course going back to your ex for "sex and food" still remains absurd and stupid! Why because there were reasons you choose to dump her regardless of the professional sex and savoury meal she once provided you. If she was good, you would have ignored her foibles and continue with the relationship. But no, you ended it on your own terms. (Except this was not the case, that's both of you strolled out of the relationship without official breakup. And if this is the case, she's not your ex. Considering this, your ex is an ex for a reason.

In 2/3 of my posts on that same topic, the first 2 carries leverage purposes or Machiavellic purposes as the major reason for you to maintain friendship with your ex, that's if you perceived she's way better than you and has tighter connections which you can use as an opportunity to upheave yourself. But you must also know that your ex doesn't have the monopoly of helping you in life. Help from other sources is far beyond help from exes. But this is life, life is a game, and you must accept help whether it comes from your exes or allies.

I'm stating this because of the subtle remarks like forming alpha, forming redpill, anger phase, been emotional, dating trashy women, level of redpill bla bla bla that's flying in the air. And if the persons I mentioned has seen the nuances they would have understand that we all are making same points. It is good we have proper comprehension and understanding of nuances.

And by the way, who said you should cut your ex completely and dump her into the lagoon?No! Never!

But if your coming together with your ex is to quench your "dire" need for sex and hunger as at when due, sorry, she's not your ex but your old time f^ck main chick/buddy. She's not your ex, you're only spinning plates. Lol!

I still shalaye why?

Thanks.

Exactly the summarization of my point! Thanks.

4ckz:
Dear men, that you can afford more pvssy now doesn't mean you are winning, it might actually be your main distraction from winning.

This is the real point here. Some Men thinks because they keep getting girls here and there then they are actually winning or doing some worthy job just to bolster their self-ego. LOL!

The real alpha doesn't work towards increasing his self-worth through having so many sex mates or sleeping around; the real alpha boasts with developments, achievements, assets, power, status and all of that because he knows if he works towards these, then bragging about sleeping with girls will be his least problem because he won't find it amusing. Only SIMPs brag about worthless things.

LOL! The comments up there still proves that even if we continue discussing/arguing about this ex or no ex matter, it will continue to still get mixed up!

Anyways, I don tire to dey shalaye. RTUTS!

CaveAdullam:
But your ex was once a new girlfriend.

Ejaculation is the apex for sexual pleasure for men, every other thing is mere formality and since I'm putting myself first, why should I dig deeper when I've achieved my apex?And why should a man be bothered about sex with an ex somewhere when he can get it through game, pick up artistry, seduction or worst case scenario from prostitutes?

My nigga, it's not a matter of getting burnt or her choosing you. It is a matter of keeping your sanity and reputation intact. Sex, is the least thing that bothers men. So, getting it from other islands is not a big deal not to talk of f^cking an ex.

Ubunja, please calm down. And I mean it.

No more shalaye.
We move.

Thanks for this input. I feel he's just too egotistic.

ubunja:
we will tell you how the game goes. Take it or leave it. Iron sharpens Iron. But if you want to learn by experience it's cool also. When we tell you there's no reason to cut off an ex, there's really no reason to cut off an ex.

Stop thinking with your emotions and learn how Women do. There's a reason women always ask that you both remain friends even after a breakup. Because life is way too unpredictable to burn bridges. If you date trashy women of course you've nothing to gain from them. But when you start dating productive women who have their own you'll realize there's more a man can get from a woman besides pussy. Now take you ego of "I'm the man" and put it aside. And start winning.

That ex will hook you up. Use your head. Not your heart.

LOL! Who's talking about ending all communication with an ex after a breakup? Winning what exactly? You have totally mixed everything up.

If you know you're still going to be intimate with your ex, why breakup then? I only talked about establishing boundaries when dealing with an ex. No one said you can't gain anything from your exes. Not every relationship ends in a bad way. I ONLY TALKED ABOUT BOUNDARIES, THAT'S ALL.

Like I said, someone cutting off an ex is a personal choice. Sometimes you have to do it. There's a reason for every action. If you decide to stick to exes that's your own choice. You can't shove your personal choice or desires on someone.

ubunja:
redpill is simply putting yourself first.

Seems like most guys here are just flocking after something they have zero understanding of.

No, it's not that they lack understanding. It's because you don't accept any points or views contrary to yours. You always want people to shove down whatever you say. I find that egoistic.

4ckz:
First, I believe she always had marriage in mind before helping him, but I can't relate this to any ulterior motif. For all I know, the lady would have endured shit a lot last year and still was able to beat out a man from him.
What can be worse than he going back to his former self?

That your friend is not manly at all. A woman showing a man how to be a man? SMH.

Visit the RED PILL thread and change your orientation. Focus on what's important. You still have a lot to achieve.