JuanDeDios: El oh el Well, that's a tough one. There are Bible verses that say God is one and appear to repudiate the Trinity doctrine. There are also verses that appear to support it. But, yes, on a scale, the argument against the doctrine appear to weigh more.
Chai...I just like you more now. To be honest with you, there is not verifiable bible verse that supports it. It is against every fabric of the bible. The verse in John or thereabout that talked about three bearing witness in heaven, that is the "biggest" verse that trinity proponents use is a forgery. It was fixed inside the bible a long time after the bible was written. You can research my claim easily. This forgery on it's on should tell you about the deceit in trinity. Plus JW are almost the only organisation that has revealed and is using Gods name. This vital vital details are to their immense credit my dear. They are different just like christ and the holy men gave us hints that true religion will he different. Or can you explain based on the bible why the name of God, Jehovah is not taking prominence in other Christian denominations like Jesus's? You may not even here it being spoken within the walls of some churches for months. They instead say God that is not even a name.
JuanDeDios: They do apply logic but with a lot of fallacies. Phrases like "every honest-hearted person will agree that..." are not logic - they're meant to prevent oxygen from flowing to certain parts of your brain. Think of it like a conjurer's trick in which you're shown only what you're meant to see. If you give some examples of things they've taught you with Bible and "logic", I will explain further.
Trinity...the one prime example. Oya dispute (or explain) with the bible
That idiotic fat pig call asari cannot capture a genuine ESN member. So this is so fake. Believe this at your own peril.
Like u were born yesterday. Asari was the very top militant commander before even Kanu ever dream of becoming one or even before Boko Aram grew teeth. He was one of the pioneer of militancy in the present democratic dispensation, hence he is very courageous.
JosephXavier: Because of money, person wey her Papa na national symbol of democracy dey compare her Papa to a political hoodlum who has failed his state
I no blame Dem, they Don finish their Papa money and are looking for desperate ways to out food in their table
But upon how rich Abiola was, why is it that none of his children is doing very well unlike Femi Otedola
Simple answer my dear - POLYGAMY. Destroyer of assets and future
These were the responses i got from a Nigerian man after calling out a rapist on my previous thread.
- A woman shouldn't visit a man when he is lonely. - A woman shouldn't sit on a man's laps if she isn't in for sex. - A man should rape a woman if she seduces him.
O my God. So it actually true that men do not have self-control
My dear don't visit a guy you wouldn't want to be intimate with in a secluded place and don't get too close to him while in such places. Especially guys you haven't come to know well overtime. These are common knowledge that safeguard one
Thinkfree: Good evening everyone, Can i retrieve a gift i gave someone? Is there any legal justification for that?
A gift you gave out is no longer yours. Unless you didn't really completely give it out- say maybe you held on to the documents you used in procuring it and those documents carry your name as the owner
My dear, I am not a witness. The only thing I have not come to terms with is their issues with blood. However, in all cases, they have logical bible based reasons. It will be heard for you to accept if u are the type that have preconceived ideas. But if you are open minded enough, to allow the bible be the sole adjudicator, then you will agree with them in almost all issues
Yhungsarm: This incident happened last week Thursday. Am a 300L student of Unijos and the girl happens to be my coursemate.
Normally, me and these girl no dey the same level, she can't even talk to me in school but ASUU break happened and i didn't want to go back to Lagos so i stayed back in Jos.
One day i was chatting with her friend who happens to know her and he told me she is still in Jos, so i chatted her up since i was bored and i didn't lie to her, i told her i was bored and i needed someone to talk to for the main time. she accepted quickly and even told me why i didn't chat her up sooner than this. she promised to come to my place and on Thursday she finally came through.
This is the most astonishing part, she knew i had sex with her best friend so she asked me about it and i did not lie about it cus i know she knew and we talked about some nasty stuff related to sex. i was seated on a mini-cushion chair and she sat on my laps literally dropping her boobs in the middle of my face.
As a guy i thought that was the signal, so i carried her straight to the bed and i wanted to gain access and she denied it so i just stood up and left. After a short while she came back again now saying if she handles me and all those stuff, i tried again and she denied i was angry and i wanted to tell her to start gping but i calmed down. she started seducing me badly and i was confused so this time i dropped and dragged her jean with her, we started dragging but she was just saying am trying to rape her and it is unfair, if it is what i do to girls all d time.
i was fingering her at the time but i did not penetrate and i felt it was tense and if i penetrated then what she is saying is true so i stopped and controlled my urge.
She zipped up and started crying, I was like but i didn't do anything and she was like i did everything i want to do with her and it is fault bcus she came to my house.
After a shortwhile, she stopped crying and asked me if it was sex i want or friends with benefit...i was very confused at that point like wetin bring all does one enter so i didn't reply then she said she knows am a rapist and i just want to sex and all dat shit.
i kept my cool after some time she started saying am not normal at all and she jst can't believe what happened, she also said she will tell me something when we she is out of my house.
So i paid her Tp and she went home, i did not chat her up at all. fastforward to Saturday i saw her message saying her forcefully had my ways wit her and jst ignored her so she will deal with me and i will pay for it.
i won't lie to you am very scared, i don't even know what she wants, i started asking her what she wants from me exactly but she is not replying at all. I seriously don't know what to do am very confuse, I don't even understand why i fell for this plot of hers. What do you think i shud do
Note: I did not have sex with her at all and i never wanted it, she was jst all over me and doing all those stuff. Sex isn't my problem on a normal day bcus am a handsome guy and i get it most time.
Ladies are very complicated you must know that. You can't be sure of what they want. She obviously want you, but the matter is that you don't seems to know to what extend and what you should give in return. I credit you for being disciplined enough not to go all the way, but you must know too that fingering since its penetration is also a form of sex, so its rape. You should have called her that day when she got home and speak consolingly with her and reassure her. What you do after sexual contact with a lady is probably more important than what you do before. Its shows your civility. Its the point were their ego and dignity is down and they will be looking for sign to see if they haven't miscalculated. You might not mean all the good things you will say, but it's the act of diplomacy. Respectadies enough to do this everytime. Its failure to do it in the case of a amnom and tamar, Absaloms sister in the bible, that really pained the girl and messed up everything. I will advice you go see the girl and settle with her fast. Make her happy and if possible get down with her. This will calm her. Never underestimate any lady. You may then keep record of your conversation. I have given you real street wisdom
Kdon2: So why critisize those who choose to wear what they like then.
Because some doesn't satisfy the requirements of the bible. I stated two in that comment; 1. Covering of unclothedness 2. Showing clearly the gender one belongs to.
There are tactful misrepresentations in this article. The article slyly has painted Putin as an irrepressible aggressor and west has an all righteous, good meaning democracy. I saw through this
Nothing my dear. Come in. Na dress. And it satisfy everything a dress is supposed to be in the bible-it covers the unclothedness and shows your gender clearly
Here's where I drew that idea from just so you'd know:
Mark 4:24 (KJV)
And he said unto them, Take heed what ye hear: with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you: and unto you that hear shall more be given.
So if you are yet adamant, it obviously means the wise Sayings of Jesus is human wisdom to you.
My dear, bible is a chain. To understand a subject you may have to check what related topics or situations have to say about the subject. You don't just take out a verse in isolation. God performed miracles even for the undeserving and unbelievers. Gods works aren't based on merit many at times. Great judgemental acts are also miracles. If Christians are not behaving like Gods people of old then from your rationale we should have been seeing great judgemental act like those that happened in sodom. God have ceased those miracles based on his wisdom and timetable. We still expect earthshaking miracles in the very bear future.
ikorodureporta: Why? Do you think they really happened in the past?
Those miracles served a purpose. God has really paused performing miracles. Somewhere in Corinthians said miracles will cease. There is also a place that states that vain generation ask for signs God does things according to his timetable and wisdom. Most of the miracles of old are verifiable, the death and resurrection of christ especially. Since creation to moses-thousands of years- there were no records of miracles. After malachi, there was as pause of 400 years. So it's not unusual. Great and worldwide miracles are still going to happen soon.
One major reason is because God cannot commit to the church more than the church commits to Him.
It's the measure one uses that would be used to measure back to him.
Those in Bible committed everything, more or less, to God, hence God reciprocate the gesture and committed much to them.
But today it's very different as people in the churches, including the leaders, don't commit as much to God as they did in those days, hence God measures back sparingly to them.
God bless.
Human wisdom. Dangerous wisdom. Illogical. Please don't over try to support God by bringing up concorted reasons.
Selfish and entitled guy. He doesn't mind burning down everything just because he isnt satisfied. I believe the allegations about drugs. He needs help. No be everybody suppose marry. People that can handle marriage aren't rushing into it, it's those that doesn't have an idea what it entails that seems to rush into it. This guy here have done serious damage
lilvicky68: You better stop checking your husband's phone unless you want to lose weight.
Terrible advice. Typical advice of this senseless generation. If refuse to look, she probably will still loose weight through STD and or in the future when she will have to be contending with a rival and her children
Cheerycherry: Good evening family landers, I created this account because of this and I need advice from people that have been married for a while.
I've been married for almost 3 years now and we were in a relationship for more than 6 years before then.
Since I married my husband, I've noticed that he's an emotional cheat so to speak. One time I stumbled upon a chat with a girl saying things like if I catch you I will wound you with d ick.
When I bring it up he will tell me he was joking and even swear with his life that he will never cheat on me he's just joking.
Earlier this year, I stumbled upon his chat with a girl who I happened to know as well, a very young girl sending his shirtless pics and asking her if she knows how to ride d ick well if she can kiss and suck his whatever well.
Asides this, he sent her money up to 13,000 in the space of a week while he kept telling me he had no money and I was managing my personal money to run stuff.
He apologised and said its because I don't kiss him when we have s ex and he didn't even intend meeting the girl that it was him catching cruise.
This week again I stumbled upon his chat with another girl, he has known this girl for a while tho and I've met her too. He sent her a message saying Je ki n do e kara e bale in yoruba which means let me f uck you let your body calm down. I've been mad since I saw this one cos he apologised and afterwards said he was just joking.
I'm tired of the disrespect the whole nonsense brings to me and I'm considering leaving. I have a well paying job, I take care of my personal expenses and send money to my parents and siblings myself and we have a child together.
It's not s ex cos we have sex not less than 2-3 times a week; very satisfying s ex.
I need inputs from married people please. We have an ongoing building project together which we are both sponsoring 50:50. I'm not an uptight person at all, I talk, I make jokes, I'm not boring!
Speak to him and beg him to see that he is being selfish. Show him that he isn't disregarding you alone but that he is disregarding your kid also. Let him know his pervert ways is going to ruin any trust between you and that its naturally going to inhibit you from rendering assistance as you are going to be thinking that you will loose out. I will advice you too to spice up your sex life. Try and never say no. KISS EVERYWHERE MY DEAR. Become a bitch of a wife. It has a way of conquering the guy. Do this not only for your marriage but for your kid.
ExAngel007: A Nigerian man shared a screenshot of message he received from an audacious debtor who gave him conditions on paying back the money he borrowed him.
@senibobo said the debtor borrowed N750k from him in June 2021 and has only paid back N300k. From the message received, the debtor demanded for an agreement to pay back the remaining sum in batches.
Proudpolygamist: My first wife got pregnant for me when she was in the university and i had just newly secured a job with a high paying firm. She was the daughter of a big businessman at the time and we were from a conservative society, so we had to sharply perform the marriage rites and settle her family handsomely because they accused me of impregnating their daughter before marriage and sought compensations. Fast-forward to our marriage life, she started making life hell for me after the birth of our first son. Hadiza was a real trouble maker and I was beginning to think I made a mistake marrying her, she would nag all day when she was pregnant and won't cook meals at home or do domestic chores. In fact I spent most of the nights on empty stomach, my consolation being that she would put to bed one day. She would only have sex when she felt like doing it and it must have been after a good treat.
Things got worse after she put to bed. She complains that she spends the whole day caring for our young son that she can barely think about anything else. She prefers to watch TV all day and spend her whole time on social media instead of cooking, doing dishes, , domestic chores or getting a job. She once asked me to prepare breakfast in bed for her on a Monday morning when I was supposed to get to work early for an appointment. I returned home that day hungry but she had refused to prepare food because I didn't make her breakfast in bed. She was so engrossed in telemundo fantasies that she thought she could dictate what direction our marriage swings. I got tired and decided to teach her a lesson On this fateful night, she snored irritatingly like a pig in my room and accused me of snoring like a pig, stressing that I need urgent medical check up . I told her she would know who was snoring like a pig, and who needs medical checkup after i'm done with her.I left my room and went to sleep in the guest room. The following day i left home for work without taking breakfast afterwhich i went to see my lawyer. I issued a court summon to my wife through a court clerk. I was told, She couldn't believe her eyes after she read through and discovered that i was seeking a divorce She Refused to sign the papers and told the court clerk that i should kom and tell her with my mouth, stressing that she didn't marry me through a letter. She said i should kom and give her the papers myself if I was man enough. The court clerk said he tried cajoling her into signing the papers peacefully but she screamed "He is my husband, I can't divorce him" and ran away with hot tears rolling down her cheek. You know what happened next, i went straight to area command where my good friend works and left for home with 5 armed policemen. In quick strides we searched for her and found her in her bedroom upstairs. She sat in the bed looking morose and jumped up fearfully when she saw us. I pointed to her and told the men to escort her out of my house. Before she could say pim, one of the policeman a corporal, clamped handcuffs on her hand and told her to be cooperative as to follow them to the station. She protested very loudly and struggled to free herself, but it was too late, my mind was already made up. She ended up in tears making strong appeals to me but I kept a stony face. The policemen dragged my wife into the waiting van.
One of them came to me and asked to take her things along with her. I was shocked, because I bought everything in the house with my money. The sergeant kept his mouth shut when he saw the look on my face. I gave him an address and asked him to drop my former wife in that address where her father lives. Then I locked up the bungalow I bought for my 1st wife and joined my second wife in the estate.
I suspect u must also have big issues. You already have a second wife? Please gettat
DatoDatuk: Tips for sharing the road with large trucks.
The large truck is a special vehicle. Its motor is not much larger than a large car engine and yet the load it carries can be 50 or more times the weight of a car.
When accelerating up to speed, truck drivers use up to 18 gear changes. Once they get into top gear, they do not appreciate having to start again. Therefore, avoid forcing a truck driver to slow down. Large trucks will decrease speed when going uphill. You can expect truck drivers to pick up speed when going down hills to help them get up the other side. Plan your passing manoeuvre accordingly.
It takes longer to stop a large truck than a car, so a truck driver needs a longer following distance to be safe and in control.
Do not cut in front of a large truck immediately after you have passed it. Truck drivers have problems seeing smaller vehicles. Although they have mirrors that help them to see each side, you may not be visible to the driver if you follow too closely. (Besides, you can’t see anything yourself.) Realize that in poor weather, exterior mirrors become spotted with rain and dirt and the truck driver does not have an interior mirror. Be sure to make yourself visible. Drive with your headlights on.
Truckers sit up high and the hood of the cab obscures part of the road ahead. This is why when drivers in a car are passing a large truck, they should make sure they can see the entire truck cab in their rear-view mirror before pulling in front.
If a car cuts in too soon, truck drivers are forced to react with little time or room to spare. Large trucks also have deep rear blindspots.
A good car driver's rule is that if you can’t see the large truck’s mirrors, the truck driver can’t see you.
We are our own problems. We deserve everything happening to us. The attack on trains and the bad results we get in sport (even though we know very well we have potentials), are the sum results of the seemingly small small decisions we take. Bad government reflects on every sector of a country. Keep making decisions based on ethnicity and religion and be sure to be getting heartaches every now and then. WE DEY THERE TOGETHER. SHIO!
Little things give joy in this country this days. If u want to small joy, get a good partner. We seem not to be able to do anything. It's been one heartache and disaster after another. Imagine nigeria with those promising name not making the world cup? Approach and attitude was terrible. No sense of urgency. Nothing learnt from the outing in the last nations cup. Good teams shows urgency from the first half or first leg as the case may be. U make sure as early as u can.
FalseProphet1: My own experience happened in 2010. I was traveling back to Awka (unizik) cos school has resumed.
I boarded PMT at Ojuelegba, and that was during the era of ore road, we've all heard nasty tales about how dangerous and notorious that road was. The road was an eyesore and was littered with hoodlums and criminals who rob passengers with reckless abandon.
We left Ojuelegba by past 7am to and got to ore by 9pm cos of the traffic.
The driver now decided to park at a local motel so we can pass the night there and continue our journey at first light the following day. We all agreed cos we knew how notorious that area was especially at night.
By 3:am this silly PMT driver started horning for us to board that he has to be in Enugu by 7am cos it's his turn to load Lagos.
We told him it's still very early and dangerous, he rudely told us that he doesn't care that if we want to remain at the motel he would leave us and go.
So we boarded back the bus and continued our journey, to be honest, I was scared. Very scared.
We passed through ore and entered Benin, as we got to the benin bypass, I heard 3 loud gunshots, the worst had happened.
The robbers blocked our way with planks, tires and fired sporadically into the air to scare off anyone around.
Our driver halted the bus and they asked us to alight and lie on the ground, they ransacked everyone, phones, cash, shoes, wristwatches...etc were all taken.
My only joy was that the bus was filled with female students in fact more than 80% of the passengers were girls, yet no one was ràped.
After robbing us, they left us lying face down on the road and made they way into the bush. We go up, counted our losses, insulted the living hell out of the driver and moved on.
We got to unizik junction by 9am, that was an experience I will never forget.
Ur story vex me. Wetin be insulting living hell? So u mean u didn't slap the driver at least? If una join hand burn the the bus set, una no overdo. Very vexing conclusion.