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adetula148:
There is this lady I love so much, we work at the place, and we were good but she happens to be a Jehovah witness.

We have been dating for a year and half now but most times I have issues with her texting other guys and she kept saying they are just friends.

You can call me a fool but sometimes you love someone so much that you don't want to loose them.

Anytime I try to tell her about how I feel about her texting other guys giving them impression that she is single and always looking out for someone who happen to be a witness but always tell me it's me she loves and those guys are just her friends . Going out to see other guy's on a date and sometimes lie to me , she get mad and never for once say sorry . And when she says sorry, the same thing repeat itself.

Then I just let go and assume those guys are just her friends and I can't stop her from texting her friends but there is something within me that keeps telling me something is wrong. Like I love her so much but I still have this trust issues ,like I want to be convinced that I am wrong and try work on my trust issues.

Just yesterday I just login to her Facebook because she gave me her phone sometimes to help her format it and restore her apps back but she could not remember her password, so I had to reset it and get them working.

So I login to her Facebook then I realized she has been sneaking out to see another man who happens to be a witness because my place of work . We spend 2 months in and 2 weeks out , even her time off she plan on going to see him yet lied to me she wanted to go write exams and look out for other opportunities and she told me we would see when we out and spend time together .

Like we go on leave and off days same time ,for me we were so close and we even kissed and hugged that same week. Like she was already certain to end up with this guy yet she still call me and tell me she loves me . But one thing about me is I can't keep things to myself I got mad then I texted her .

She greeted me well then I suddenly asked her about the guy . She denied it totally and asked if I had a prove . Then I sent a screenshot then she said "did I not tell you that I can't marry someone who is not a witness then I was like Bleep". This same person we talk almost everyday , see everyday , kissed and do crazy stuffs even at work now say all these to me. Like I almost died yesterday. I told her all this then she said " I just love you as a friend and you are my best friend" .

Then I asked since when ? She just ignored me all through then line busy. I just blocked her and delete her number because she was not even sorry .

Here is my question, why are witness like this ?

This will be my first experience with them and I will say this really hurt me. Like I can't even think well. So a relationship of almost 2 years just a waste?

So all those I love I love you were just jokes? I just pray God heal me fast .

Like I really loved her. Now I don't know what to do. The job I am managing for now we both work there. How do I face her? Like am still looking out for another job but now I just have to leave this job and move on.

I just decided to share this with you all so you can learn from my foolishness and advice me on what to do.

Do have a nice day .

you are a sissy jare. I admit it's not everybody that can be strong emotionally. Your story kinda pissed me because I don't like people taking advantage of people.
That lady is a manipulator. She sensed ur weak character and she doesnt regard u much. You might just be fine and nice to be around with but she doesn't even see u as strong enough to marry.
Sit up. Dont take shits. Don't lie to yourself or go into denial when u see red flags.
God help u

Sammydanny:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ts5X3RseHPk

A Nigerian lady has been nabbed after defrauding people with fake alerts.

The lady who was seen being confronted after being apprehended disclosed that she had no other accomplice.

She also revealed that she had already duped 6 people before being nabbed. The lady went on to list the amount she got from her victims.

This girl has her videos everywhere. She has been caught in this same act at least three times. And everytime she puts up this crocodile tears. I am afraid for her oh. She might not get lucky with people's sympathy everytime

StarchAndBanga:
Hello,

Created this thread to share my side of the story regarding this thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/6968649/customer-blocked-me-after-making

On Wednesday last week, I contacted Xcelinteriors cos I wanted to buy wallpaper and carpet. We agreed on N90k as the amount for the items (excluding waybill). I had every intention of paying for these items as I requested for her to drop her acc number for me to make payment more than once (u can see that from our chats) but she suggested she would first go to the park to confirm how the waybill would cost so I send everything including the money for waybill at once.

She told me she would leave her office to the park when she closes for the day and when she gets there I would talk with the park ppl to negotiate for the waybill and send the full money including the waybill to her.

After our last conversation, something came up on my end so with remorse, chatted her up to let her know she should not bother going to the park anymore as I won't be able to pay for the items any more.

I 100% had no idea she had already gone to the park (according to her) cos we talked on video around few minutes to 3pm.

Around 4:41pm, I messaged her that she should not bother going to the park again and something came up on my end so I won't be able to pay for the items again (as at when I sent this message, she did not tell me she had closed for the day already and was going to the park to waybill the items).

I appreciate you came to explain. However, you should have calculated that she will want to be at the park around that time latest. It wont make sense if she went later. And the period you chatted her last till the time u called her which is almost 2hours is enough for her to get to a park

klas:
Senegalese are many in that Harlem.
Any cornershop you turn to, na dem own it.
Even their local foodstuffs are likely to be more available there than in Senegal

Wow...ok. from readings I learnt Harlem na like one ghetto like that

damilola4162:
Some Senegalese nationals were spotted celebrating in the streets of Harlem, New York after their national team won the country’s first African Cup of Nations on Sunday, February 5.

Newspremises had previously reported that Senegal won the Africa Cup of Nations for the first time in their history after beating Egypt on penalties on Sunday February 6.

Sadio Mane, who missed a penalty in the first half, scored the decisive spot-kick as Senegal triumphed 4-2 in the shootout. The final had ended 0-0 after extra time.

The Senegalese nationals who were celebrating in the streets of Harlem, were seen with their country's flag and were heard shouting "champions".

Watch the video below:
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BHU3W7gIHP4][/url]

Source: https://newspremises.com.ng/senegalese-nationals-celebrate-in-the-streets-of-harlem-new-york-after-their-national-team-won-the-countrys-first-afconvideo/

Na nigerians go be half of this people celebrating. Nigerians just like anywhere wey noise dey.

eduj:
go back to your bible and correct your misinformation. The apostle Paul wrote that the Israelites had to reject the gospel of Christ for it to reach other nations (Romans chapter 11 emphasis on verse 25).
He admonished the gentiles not to think themselves superior based on the fact that the Israelites rejected the goodnews- he said it was all plans of Jehovah.He made a prophecy about there acceptance during the end times.

God's blessing to Abraham and his offsprings where forever and bases on no condition.Go back to the books of Revelation

Note again the discussion between Jesus and the Samarian woman at the well, how he claimed he won't give food meant for children to dogs and the woman replied about the scraps falling from the table. It simply means that the children had to reject the meal so that outsider's can now partake of it.

There are other examples even in the old testament. From the prophecies of Isaiah and many more-speaking to events of today.

it spoke of the restoration of the Jews to there homeland, the destruction of the abomination sitting on the temple site,the gathering of world powers at a site Armageddon to challenge Gods superiority,it spoke about the last great power that will pitch his war tents in the middle of the great oceans, it spoke of the great false prophet that has lead many away and many more. We think most of those prophecies haven't happened ,bit it has already occured. The ancient christian cities of Antioch, Ephesus and many more have been lead astray and the world left with an European version of the faith .

And by the way, Judaism isn't a modern invention,it still keeps strictly in line as much as possible with the ancient practices of Jews of old-correct that your fallacy.

First I have a feeling that its Righteousness speaking here with me with another moniker or an associate of his.
We have to agree to conform only to the bible. You haven't conformed at all and I will show you out.
Romans 11 explained very well the situation with the jews. The jews were people constituted to be a blessing to the whole world. They have achieved that in the sense that the messiah has come through them. But like that Romans 11 clearly states; they have denied this messiah and the old way has given way to the new--christianity. There aren't 2 ways again. There can't be! Jesus is The way the truth...salvation now is only through him. There is no preference to the jews like I early quoted from the bible, "in every nation, a man doing the will of God is approved".
Furthermore, Roman's 11, made us know there will be a remnant like the remnant during Elijah's time when he told God that his people, the jews have killed all the prophets, but those remnants can only now be saved if they are regrafted back to the tree Roman's 11:23.
Being a jew is no longer by works or following of some traditions and rituals, like Judaism. Roman's 11:6. Who are now the jews? "But he is a Jew who is one on the inside, and his circumcision is that of the heart by spirit and not by a written code. That person’s praise comes from God, not from people."
Romans 2:29. This are the Israelites now! The new Jerusalem! Will there be reason for a new Jerusalem if the old was still there?
And stop being either a liar or an ignorant by saying the promise of God to Israel was not based on a condition. Let me show you here a the condition; At Exodus 19:5, 6, God promised them: “If you will obey Me faithfully and keep My covenant, . . . you shall be to Me a kingdom of priests and a holy nation.” Thus, the Israelites would become a ‘chosen people’ (THE REAL CHOSEN) to serve God’s purposes. However, the fulfillment of the covenant promises was subject to the condition “If you will obey.”
Like you pointed out, God said he will gather them and bring them back to their homeland. Yes, God fulfilled this promise several time. From the captivity in Egypt and the mass exiles during the time of Assyria and Babylon. However, Jesus said eventually that he will stop gathering them like an hen gathers her young. That he has left their house to them but now opened the chance for some new people. This is the situation of the present day political israel. The Christian organisation is the one fulfilling the role of Gods israel now. It's the one being a blessing to every nation. If people from the modern day nation of Israel (infact there have been many) accepts christ and become Christians, they will form the remnants and be regrafted. Simple! There is no two provisions to salvation.
Now, I suspect you are short of knowledge. I will help you describe the modern Judaism. Put in mind that soon when God constituted the ancient nation of israel, he gave them some totem to signify his acceptance of them and presence with them. Chief among these was the ark of the convenant which was first in the terbanacle then in the two subsequent temples. True to God abandoning them, they don't have this ark again and no temple or terbanacle. But new ark (Jesus) and temple (Christians) have been raised up to God now. Now to describing the modern Judaism; JUDAISM (Juʹda·ism). The Jewish religious system. (Ga 1:13, 14) In the first century C.E., Judaism in its various forms was not based exclusively on the Hebrew Scriptures. One of the most prominent divisions of Judaism, that of the Sadducees, rejected the Scriptural teaching of the resurrection and denied the existence of angels. (Mr 12:18-27; Ac 23: Although the Pharisees, who formed yet another important branch of Judaism, sharply disagreed with the Sadducees on this (Ac 23:6-9), they were guilty of making God’s Word invalid because of their many unscriptural traditions. (Mt 15:1-11) Not the Law, which was actually a tutor leading to Christ (Ga 3:24), but these unscriptural traditions made it difficult for many to accept Christ. The Law itself was good and holy (Ro 7:12), but the traditions of men served to enslave the Jews. (Col 2: It was an ardent zeal for ‘the traditions of his fathers’ that caused Saul (Paul) to be a vicious persecutor of Christians.—Ga 1:13, 14, 23;
Judaism has over the years gone beyond the Torah which is the word of God and formulated some talmund, which involves inventions and fables, coupled with hedonistic philosophy and Hinduism believes. Many don't believe in resurrection but believe in reincarnation. They think the soul survives in some animals. All claims in stark difference to the Judaism moses introduced. What more? They don't believe in the messiahship of Jesus or are even still expecting any messiah. They have given up!
Think. Why would Jesus need to preach to them and introduced and try bring them back if their religion was still acceptable? Think. Would there have been need for Paul's conversion from Judaism (he was a dutiful zealots, seeking to please God in the supposed way if his fathers, remember) to christian if God still look favourably to that Judaism?
I will continue by introducing to you one other moses from the 12 century ad that has influenced to a very large extent the modern day Judaism; Moses Maimonides writes: “Can there be a greater stumbling block than [Christianity]? All the prophets spoke of the Messiah as the redeemer of Israel and its savior . . . [By contrast, Christianity] caused the Jews to be slain by the sword, their remnants to be scattered and humbled, the Torah to be altered, and the majority of the world to err and serve a god other than the Lord.”​—Mishneh Torah, “The Laws of Kings and Their Wars,” chapter 11. This man thinks christianity is actually something causing harm to Judaism. Some jews blame and hate Christians for the holocaust.
I know this things because I take time to study and make researches myself like the Beroens. I don't just take what some daddy G.Os or church founders says. Go and study too.
You also mentioned the samaritan woman, good! Jesus explicitly told her that no one will need to go to some mountains or temple (in consequence, no one have to be a jew. Because that woman was saying the jews discriminates against them) to offer God an acceptable service, but one that must worship God must worship him in spirit and in truth.
There can't be 2 Israel of God or 2 Jerusalems. Jesus is the only way. He is the heir of David, hence he is the King of this new Israel of God and Jerusalem. Everybody can join this Israel, even the people now in Palestine.
Study my brother, study! And be courageous to change and uproot old but wrong beliefs. Let all men even GOs be found a liar but God true. I hope you will be humble and responsible enough to read this through and respond. I have only responded to you by the bible. The one authority over our shared faith.

Mineralzz:
Hello everyone.
Am an active member on this forum, I've have my main account but I wish to remain anonymous, i just want to hide my identity and i will deactivate this account as soon as I get a solution. I'm so heartbroken right now

I thought my fiancée was different from every other guys, despite his gentle and innocent face I never knew he was a liar and a cheat

He's fond of connecting his laptop to his smart TV (65 inches). What displays on the laptop automatically displays on the smart TV screen. See what happened, he went downstairs to pickup something, So I wanted to see a movie on Netflix, while I was looking for a suitable movie to watch, a message popped up from Facebook and it stated "Whr are U? Check ur phone...6 missed calls "

At first, I wasn't triggered to open the msg but what drew my attention was the "cry emoji". When I opened the msg my heart melted, I was crying . Their secret affair has been going on since April last year. A married woman with 2 kids, I checked her profile I saw her kids and husband photos everywhere, she has visited my fiance at home several times, I saw lot of romantic messages.

I videoed their chat conversations as evidence, thank goodness his TV screen is wide enough for the blind to see. The moment he came inside he noticed my mood has changed, he was smart enough to know I opened his msg. He's started begging me, he said he can explain. Explain what?

Am on my way home now feeling devastated, heartbroken and sad . I plan to upload the video on Facebook and tag all the woman's friends until her husband sees it. I will also send the video to instablog, Linda ikeji.. Honestly I feel dejected and heartbroken. Help I don't know what to do .

Leave the woman. Deal with your fiance. Most times na guys dey toast women, even married women. The woman hasn't offended you. Probably she doesn't even know you. She has only offended her husband and God. Meanwhile, your Man is the real evil. ..he has offended you, the woman's husband, her kids and God.
Deal with the guy...be grateful to God for the information. ..Don't disappoint God by what you do with it...so later in your marriage you won't be jumping from one church to the other seeking Gods intervention, whereas he has intervened now.
Besides, realising those contents may have legal repercussions.
Chaii! good advice scarce online oh

Righteousness2:
These are the End of Endtimes and GOD is making Israel the Center of World politics because HE wants Deal with the Nations and make them understand that the GOD OF ISRAEL is the one that Runs the earth.

It will be very Foolish of African leaders to put themselves in any form against Israel because of some disgruntled elements.

You Grant Isreal Observer status or Not is Irrelevant.

Israel is a special Nation that the whole Earth will bow and Submit to. You like it or you don't is irrelevant.
Israel is GOD ALMIGHTY Personal project! She is a Covenant Nation. It is through Isreal that all the Nations in the world are Blessed.
Putting yourself against them in the name of this or that is putting yourself against GOD ALMIGHTY. It is Disaters and Disatrous!

By the time GOD is through with Nations, those alive will run and Embrace the GOD of Israel

Watch yourself! You are proving to be an antichrist and you are oozing illiteracy.
It's the ancient Israel that was an israel of God. They knew God, built a temple for him, had the ark of the convenant and had kings that "sat on the throne of Jehovah."
This present israel doesn't serve God...they have invented a religion called Judaism that is totally different from the religion moses gave them. What more? They don't even recognize the chief messenger of salvation, Jesus christ. They persecute Christians even. They are just mixtures of people that can't really trace their genealogy. In Ancient israel one could tell the tribe he came from and even trace down his roots.
Didn't you hear clearly where Jesus told them he has left them to there house, that he wont gather them again. They killed the chief servant of God! Jesus said he has given their rights to other people. These things are in the bible. Why are you always blabbing out of ignorance?! Where are you allowing sentiments to cloud your mind?!
Who are this new people that have the rights now? They are the new israel of God. The Christians. This are Gods people now. They recognise and associate with his Son. And they are not limited to just one location but are in every nations and cant even be counted like God promised abraham. Glory.
Are we related to Abraham by blood, may be not. But we have been adopted by the shedding of the blood of the lamb. We have been grafted to the tree. The original branch (israel in the flesh) that wasn't bringing forth good fruits has been cut off.
Read your bible really bro. Spread accurate knowledge of God. All these things I said are clearly in the bible..u should know. Let me quote one bible again. Its says; "God is not partial but anybody in any nation fearing him he gives approval."
You anger me sometime but I will always love u.

Winningbot:
Congratulations mane

The best goalkeeper must be that egypt guy. The guy na wizard.

Righteousness2:
Masturbation whether inside or outside Marriage is Evil. It will reduce you Spiritually, mentally and physically.

Sexual Intercourse outside Marriage will not prevent Prostrate cancer, it will Promote Prostrate cancer, cripple your life, Destroy your life and Destroy your soul.

Bro, I just hope I meet you physical to really analyse you. I started having questions about you when you defended mummy GO that has been rubishing Gods name in one of your comments.
My point is that, I agree with you that masturbation is bad and sex outside marriage is a sin, however, stop using scare tactics or even trying to lie in defence of God. You are not different from boko Aram when u try to invent things or deny facts to support God.
There are more than enough proofs for God in his word and world.
I said this after I read where you said masturbation cannot reduce chance for prostate cancer but will only increase it. You have here mixed truth and lie together and resort to using scare tactics.
We can agree that masturbation cannot reduce the cancer, but where you hear say e dey increase am?
If you have no enough reason to proof something, go and study more. Don't become too emotional and sentimental. Don't become a mumu daddy G.O.
Support your claims and God by only verifiable proofs. Don't ridicule God like that mummy G.O unwittingly.
May your knowledge of God increase. Grace to you

Righteousness2:
You are Decieving yourself!
I Admonish you to Drop the little sense you think you have and Obey the Word of GOD.

You can twist the word to suit yourself but remember you will stand before GOD and you won't say you didn't know.

A man putting on skirt is an abomination!
A woman putting on troseur is an abomination.

You have obviously come to know me. I have come to know you too as somebody with zeal but lack of accurate knowledge. I have expressly explained everything clearly from the bible.
There are trousers designed for women that would be strange if men wear them- because they are women's wear.
Bible never mentioned trousers or skirt. What it clearly says however is to not wear that that pertains to a man. That is, don't wear things that the culture and society understands to be mans.
Men in israel then wear clothes like blouse. It will be strange for men to wear them these days. Women can not wear traditional Scottish skirt that is made for men in Scotland, it will look strange.
I also know you to be so engrossed in the tradition of men that you interpret bible through it.
Would you say a female engineer that wears trouser in the field is a sinner?
If your clothings is not so tight that it provokes, if it covers you and if people do not mistake you for the other gender (in the case of so called Tomboys and crossdressers), you have obeyed the bible regard dressing.
Or will you wear a trouser designed for a lady to work, because that cloth with two collapsible tunnels called trousers, was from heaven given to men? Because at the time of moses, there was a trouser moses held up and said, "this here is how a man's clothing will look like forever". How about those cultures that the men tie wrapper?
Study my brother to really really show thyself approved.

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WHAT IS YOUR DRESSING CALLING ATTENTION TO?
IF YOUR CLOTH COVERS YOU AND SHOWS CLEARLY YOUR GENDER, THEN YOU HAVE OBEYED THE BIBLE.
The followings are my reactions to a friend that condemned wearing of trousers:
I am reacting because of the love I have for God and because I want people to really understand the bible. Not to be bogged down by some inventions and traditions of men.
The bible, the word of God is alive and useful for all ages. However, its systematic in its guidance.
One can say that the idea behind the regulation at Deuteronomy 22:5, was to protect the Israelites against the openly immoral way of life of the nations around them. The law showed Gods strong feelings against clothings that feminize men, or that make women look like men. A practice that might open the way for immorality, including homosexuality.
However, we should be sincere enough to know that, like in the examples of those images I gave, wearing a garment that looks like a blouse but that the prevailing culture can readily tell is a man's cloak, doesn't make it a woman's dress, in the same way as a lady wearing a trouser that people, even when they look at you from afar would still be sure you are a woman doesn't make it a man's cloth.
Infact the whole dynamism behind this is beyond just trouser, it has to do with the whole appearance. It has to do with a woman not trying to pretend she is a man or a man trying to look like a woman. Or it would be leaving what is natural and taking on that which is in God's word is called unnatural. (Roman's 1:24-27). Inline with this guidance, Paul tells the Corinthians church that the way a woman wears her hair is a reflection of God's order, and therefore a woman who cuts her hair to appear as a man or a man who wears his hair long to appear like a woman brings shame to them (1 Corinthians 11:3-15).
Moreover, many of the mosaic code I earlier told you, was to make the children of israel distinct from the godless nations around and hence preserve them till the coming of the messiah. The code like many you will find in Deuteronomy 22, as a legal system, as no bearing on Christian's today ( Colossians 2:24-17). Examples of such regulations are the ones you will find in that same Deuteronomy 22 verses 9, 11 and 12 that says one should not plant two different seeds on a land, one must put fringes on ones garment and that one should not mix woollen cloths and linen cloths together. Should we still obey these regulations? They were for a time like I pointed out. They were till the time of Christ (Galatians 3:24).
The laws of christ which Christians follow now are hanged on two major principles, which we know as the golden rule. "LOVE/FEAR GOD AND LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOUR AS YOURSELF". Inline with this rule, every Christians must consider their dress and judge if it provokes, alarm or offend others. As a Christian, you might be wrong to wear some western dress in some Islamic countries. As a Christian, your life isn't just about yourself alone. Your life and life choices must be made in consideration of others and in honour of God. You are not just allowed to dress because it makes you feel good. "To the Jews I became as a Jew in order to gain Jews; to those under law I became as under law, though I myself am not under law, in order to gain those under law." 1Corinthians 9:20. "That is why if food makes my brother stumble, I will never again eat meat at all, so that I will not make my brother stumble. 1Corinthians 8:13."
Lastly, you won't be fair on me and in the front of God, if you say I haven't shown you bible verses pertaining to this matter to guide your conscience, choices and conviction.

Happy platinum jubilee Queen Elizabeth. You have been a beloved leader to billions of people.

nancyofosua:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oIyAUKrCrRU

Nigerian man has been spotted using an expensive G-Wagon to display and sell plantain on the streets of Owerri, Imo State.

A video which was shared on on Facebook shows the moment an unidentified young man was seen marketing his plantain business using a G-Wagon.
The young man could be seen ringing a bell as a business strategy to attract customers while the boot of his car was wide open with bunches of plantain displayed in it.

Many passersby went to patronize the trader while some who seems to be surprised and watched him display from a distance.

The young man didn’t relent on his business as he took some bunches of plantation and moved from one place to another in search of customers.

We should learn how to smartly access videos. He is chasing clout. He planned the video even with the person recording and probably with that woman that bought the plantain.
How did I know? First everybody na looks to the fame and monetary reward they can get from huge omline followership. 2, the woman that was buying from him was negotiating so loud the guys camera recording picked her voice. Who negotiates loudly like that? She must have spoken loud just so the camera picks it up then

Cityboy08:
Good evening everyone


Pls mind my errors it’s my first.


So my mom and I haven’t been on best of terms when I was staying with them, my mom is a kind of person that if it doesn’t go her way or if you don’t do what she wants you are her enemy.

I left owerri march last year to come stay with my parents and since then it’s been hell, my moms urge to control everything that happens in your life is too much if you don’t do it she removes you from the circle of her children,

What do I mean by that let’s assume they don’t have food in the house n you have 5h with you, you go to buy something to eat cause you didn’t eat since morning after coming back from work n my mom sees you she I’ll pick offense won’t talk to you for a week, saying why during you bring the money let her cook for her children, and mind you we are seven boys in the house.

Now to the main part, her younger sister that died 2018 and the husband got married to another lady that ended up maltreating the kids The elder sister which is my cousin was always in battle with her step mom spiritual n physical, she says she wanted to leave the house n come to my moms place in Abuja which the dad was happy s was bout cause he was tired of her.

Her dad called my mom she picked her up n brought her to Abuja to start a new life, fast forward to recently the dad chased her younger brother too out of the house he had to sleep on the street and in the morning we boarded a bus to Abuja for him he came with no cloth or bag just how he was, then after that he and my mom started having issues. Mind you me n my cousin and mom have already started having issues but let’s skip that for now.

The boy is 15 years old, he said he saw my brother peeing on the ground in the toilet which is my younger brother who is also 13 they are age mates, so he said he told him to stop peeing on the ground and pee in the wc that what if another person comes now the toilet wil be smelling then that he (my younger brother started shouting at him), saying it’s his toilet he I’ll pee where he wants to.

So they had an argument and my cousins brother went to report to my mom, my mom started shouting at him that why would he tell him not to pee on the floor that is he mad like that like that, The boy was shocked at he response n said he wants to go back to his house in Lagos where they just chased him out from mind you this was just 3 weeks after he came,

Then my mom started ranting and saying that it’s my cousins that’s eating all of my money in this house mind you I was at work I was ent home,

My cousin didn’t utter a word too she was avoid the trouble that was brewing the, Dad came back the boy told my dad I was crying saying that he wants to go back to his house the next day he boarded the next bus and left till the date of typing this my mom hasent called him a 15yr old boy that lost his mom n took you as his mum,

So back to me from there you could see the trouble at home it got to a point my mom was saying I was sleeping with my cousin which came as a shook to me cause I’m never home anything to just stain my name or get me angry so she planned with my dad and they started telling my cousin to pack her things and leave the house someone that came to you for shelter cause they said her stepmom wanted to kill her my mom got a revelation that was if she goes back she’d die.

My mom played deaf to that one and kept on insisting she should go back and leave her house and being I was already planning to get an apartment for myself December my cousin called her dad her dad sent her half of the rent and we paid n moved in together since we left the house my mom has been calling all my uncles and aunties telling them that I’m sleeping with my sister which is absolutely wrong on all levels spoiling my name here and there, honestly I really couldn’t care much bebut I’m just disappointed is this how a mum should behave, it was from me not going to church on Sunday to her having issues with my dog saying we were too close or I was to close to my dog then to this now pls someone should just analyze this story and render your advice,

Now they are calling me threatening me that they I’ll use police to arrest me n my cousin n send her back to her fathers house not knowing that her dad was the one that sent her part of the payment, I’m not scared of anyone really cause the useless uncles I have haven’t sent me a kobo since my lifetime then they all want to come n start spilling trash now.

Sorry for the epistle if you made it this far I love you.

Update: guys she my mom came to my house this morning just this morning and saw my cousin I didn’t even know why I let her in in the first place, she saw my cousin and started dragging her cloths almost tearing them and making her naked in front of my younger brothers she brought to my house and was shouting chewing a nuisance even went to all my neighbors knocked on their doors and was shouting to them that I’m sleeping with my cousin tho she spoke Igbo or was speaking Igbo and there are calabar people guys pls what kind of life is this I have left their house still they don’t want me to rest, went to report to my dad and all he could say was and so,

I’m thinking of reporting the case to a police station first then next time they come here to cause a nuisance in my apartment they’d be arrested.

I will advice u bring that 15year old cousin to join u people asap. Your staying alone with your female cousin may not put you in a very good position to fight your fight. Try and be as transparent as u can.

BadRadio:
To be honest... I will beat her like crazy on the spot... I won't even wait for us to get home... the beating will start immediately

That last is wrong. Beating her up-somenody you were obviously in a relationship with- shows maybe the girl had good reason to pour you the drink.
If life balance, the 30 plus people that liked ur comment and the few that even shared it no suppose marry. Marriage is not for people with ur type of mindset. But life no balance

BadRadio:
To be honest... I will beat her like crazy on the spot... I won't even wait for us to get home... the beating will start immediately

U don't have business getting married in the first place.
But men, people are not trained well oh

safarigirl:
How is Nollywood broadcasting anything?

There is no logical argument to support that Nollywood is the reason for your perceived increase in ritualism.

I have never seen anyone who committed ritual saying it is because he watched Kanayo O. Kanayo make money from the act in some Nollywood movie. Never.

The same Nollywood also shows that people who commit such heinous acts almost always end up dead or mad, or some truly tragic thing occurs to them. Do those people not watch till the end of the movie?

At what point do we begin to talk about how society glorifies wealth above all things? All the Nigerian musicians that make songs to glorify fraudsters and the likes, when do we mention their own impact? All the HypeMen in clubs that say "Dorime no be for civil servants", when do we call them out?

When do we call out those who shout down people who ask for the source of wealth? All those who say, "Una no ask where the poverty come from when he poor, why you wan know the source of the wealth?" When do we call them out?

When do we condemn the comparison syndrome that has parents putting unnecessary pressure on their kids because "...my colleague's son just bought her a car...."? When do we speak on all of that undue pressure society heaps upon young people to achieve immediate wealth?

Why do we think an entity as small as Nollywood is to blame for a virus so massive? When will we blame family structures, peer pressure, and the ACTUAL causes of ritualism?

The nollywood and media in general are all vital elements in a society that has gone bad. They share the blame. Like the guy pointed out, our value system is in the trash. We have become very materialistic subsequently selfish, insensitive, irresponsible inconsiderate and unaccountable.
The problem is irritratable. However, media which nollywood and music is part of, have unwittingly by their exposure of this thing push more people to think more of going the dark way and actually disregarding whatever nollywood later says it's the bad consequences.

Jubilancy:
Somehow a part of me blame Nigeria movies and music's for this growing virus amongst our youth

U are right. See, this culture of thinking people have the right to say, show or do whatever causes harm unwittingly.
This movies and music have a way of exposing one to some vices

insidenaijasblog:
https://newspremises.com.ng/arsenal-cancel-aubameyangs-contract-ahead-of-barcelona-move/

This clubs are devilish and petty. How do you treat a guy that sacrificed a lot for u and even signed for you when lots of A stars thought very lowly of you?
My respect to Ronaldo always. He doesn't deceive himself with any vain idea if loyalty to club.

Beautifulearth:
Met my girl 2yrs ago and we apparently love each other but I’m worried due to some factors I noticed…..

She’s from a dysfunctional family (Mother is a single mom who left her home because her husband married another wife and Her Sister is currently in her third marriage with 3 kids from 3diff men).

She’s insisting on doing things we agreed she wouldn’t do, she was using leg chain when we met and she stopped it because I told her I don’t like it(I don’t like ashawo vibez like 2-3neckchains, leg chains and piercing) now she’s insisting on doing some of them which led to a great misunderstanding between us which we still trying to resolve.

And lastly we do have little quarrels a lot even tho most would be settled because we both have anger issues and sometimes get physical with each other because she will lash out and will try to want to stand up and fight you like a man and my mom really doesn’t like her because of her quarrelsome attitude and only support me because I love her……..we stayed this long because I never suspect or caught her guilty of infidelity(I go through her phone unaware and she never gave me a reason to suspect her) which is a trait I always wanted above others in a woman.

Her quarrelsome attitude is bad. But you standing up and being physical with a woman is worse. It gives ur psych out. It may be better you just call it quite now, because this kind of things get worse.
You are not ready for any girl if you ever consider being physical an option. Please safe society and do not get married yet.
Besides, I really wonder why you people associate any ornamentation as bad. So far she deck herself moderately, leg chain is only evil to people that aren't very much educated or that have the wrong Christian indoctrination

Echoban:
Can u vote those who hasn't declared running Intention or those who aren't going to win party primaries?

There is obviously a problem. And these good fellows too are aware.
However, shouldn't we relax, stop marketing this questionable characters and hope good candidates gets nominated?

Holywizard:
na gameboy my papa no gree buy for us. He bought Sega and Ps1 for us, we used our hands buy PS2, PS3 and Xbox 360 after.
Game na everything oo.
I prefer games to wide Toto

Bros, I for ask ur address now come sornd weekend with u, but as u done rate game pass toto (wide or narrow), I think say we no go fit move much. I go dey my dey

Echoban:
Tell us why she shouldn't vote for Tinubu and who she should vote for instead.

I see better people with less stain on their reputation.
I see Yemi Osinbajo, I see Babagana Umara Zulum, I see Peter Obi and I see Kingsley Moghalu.
Can you argue against the competence and pedigree of these people.
Why must it be the risk that Tinubu presents with the many question Mark's he Carry. Why must we use our hand do ourselves again.
You can be excused if you are Tinubus son though

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
I saw this news yesterday

I think her ATM was swapped

Maybe she needed the assistance of someone at that ATM machine...then the person swapped the ATM card...inserted the swapped one and entered the pin....so the machine swallowed the card

Whereas the real ATM card is still with the person....after that the person walked to the nearest pos and withdrew all the money

Because you can't use ATM machine to withdrew more than 150,000

hmmm

WBworldwide:
I have been dating this girl for more than a year and she has been nice to me. But things hasn't been fair to me. She's an orphan, same thing as me.

I am a street boy and we are both in our final year in school. I made some money before she came into my life and then I went broke ever since, i am not blaming her or something but there are some things i can't share here about her.

So she travelled for the holiday for like three months now. She has changed, she told me her cousins are doing well and that their boyfriends' bought cars for them and that she has tried for me.

I really feel for her. That was one of the reasons I didn't want her to go home at first, negative influence. So, she told me she needed space that i have not been trying financially.

I told my friend and he said i should forget the girl for now. The thing is, I don't even blame her, I wouldn't stay with myself if I was her.

I'm just heart broken not being able to do anything.

I'm not simping o... Things are going well for me this period without her being here, i just feel for her that's all.

I'm a full stack hustler... I believe myself die... Even area believe me too

My brother, you and that girl na the same type of person. You sef talk am with your mouth. So I don't really understand this your piece.
Besides, what do u mean by u are a street boy?
Give her space and when you have money to but her car, call her back.

obembet:
The Atrocities Wike committed in Obigbo RIver state is 10 times worst than Tinubu but people never talk about it. People that die during EndSars in Lagos is not up to half of Obigbo. Wike imprisoned many youth, starve adult for 4 months, no moment in Obigbo for more than 2 months. people never talk about it.

Anyway This thread is not about Politics. kindly use your No. 6 next time

Igbo and smoke are dangerous. One can be more dangerous than another though.
But the point is that, after this your acceptance, you are still going to vote for Tinubu. Abi?
Moreover, everything is interlinked my brother

DispatcherLagos:
Why do people still campaign for tinibu after all the atrocities he has committed and still committing in Lagos?

Hmmmm, I will go back to the bible. It says human being cannot help themselves.
U spew points my brother

Holywizard:
don't u know about Sega,PS1 and 2?

Oh sorry, if na me that time sef, I go still they follow the boy go house even though they said his father na murderer say e dey chop small boys. Game? Ah, that time that I was young, I go follow u reach anywhere oh.
But u sef no know who dey dey call gameboy ni? Aba!

Bluntguy:
I pray it ends up as mere accusation and not true. E get maka why.

Somebody close to u don feature for hom skit?

Holywizard:
When I was in junior secondary school, my friend's dad was caught at his place of work stealing big iron bars and rods as he was working at the welding department, the news went viral because he claimed to be a christian.
The following day, his son who happened to be my friend visited me and I followed him to their house and I stayed back very late. When I came back, my mom flogged me as if I was a thief for following a thief's son. She was like, since his father was a thief, he was likely to teach his son too. From crying, I started laughing but I still couldn't stop following the guy as we were game lovers

Ok, I get now. You guys were also a thief. Abi wetin game boy mean again sef?