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His 6th. child!! You guys would have us believe this only happens in the U.S.

Guess not.

Whoever asked her this question should have been fired!

How come rich guys (especially in Nigeria) hardly get dumped?

The answer is found in your question? Because they are 'rich guys.'

African Americans insisted on the name themselves so I don't think you're referring to them.

Blacks outside of Africa

Where are these Blacks located?

People commit crimes where opportunities present themselves so there wouldn't have been a need for him to make this kind

of attempt in Nigeria? His only receiving 2 years makes me think he gave up the names of a lot of his co-conspirators.

I'm sure he was singing like a bird once they slapped the handcuffs on.

A 21 year old is not a boy! He's a full grown man!

You mean men have gotten so lazy nowadays they don't even want to approach a woman??

Sad!

Some people have difficulty accepting success graciously. They feel the

need to make friends feel like lesser beings. The woman's just an a*sshole

It's possible the so-called friend was lying on your girl. Perhaps she's jealous of your relationship.

As far as her past, she really doesn't owe you an explanation of what's she's done. Everyone

makes mistakes. Is your past clean? Oh yeah, get tested.

Well, look on the bright side. The man should have an incredible

savings account.

I just rem i never got a b'day, xmas or vals gift in 5yrs. Droppin him just because he's stingy is hard

So you'd like a solution to get the man to spend, I get that. I'm sure in 5 years you've tried everyting imaginable.

Still hasn't worked. If the man doesn't even give for Christmas and your birthday perhaps he has someone else

he cares for more. Is he married, sounds like he could be.

There's nothing you should do. It wasn't your home.

Perhaps the man was disrespectful and deserved to

be slapped. Ever think of that? The man being rich

does not insure he's a good guy.

The man wasn't really interested in you. He just wanted to see if

you'd do to him what you told him you'd done to other men.

You did, now he's gone. End of story!

Any better clues to make him change

Yes, make him change girlfriends. The man is cheap! Drop him!

If the guy feels he is being taken advantage of by these women all he has to do is say NO!

It's not his responsibility to meet all of her financial needs.

If she leaves him, then fine. At least he knows what was most important to her, which wasn't him.

He should also start dealing with a better class of women. I'm not a Nigerian woman but it's

difficult to belive every Nigerian woman's sole intent is to use men for money.

he has forgotten how to relate to nigerian ladies

It's odd this guy was raised by a Nigerian woman and grew up in a Nigerian home, but since

he's become successful he's unable to relate to them. He should just admit women from

Nigeria no longer interest him.

This is the 3rd thread I've visited today where men are asking for advise on holding

on to their lady friends. I agree with 25omega, stay and put up with the b.s. or

find another woman. Even though she's been caught, it's very unlikely she'll stop

cheating. Not until she wants to anyway and who knows when that will be?

People stray in relationships when the one they're in is no longer satisfying

or is not meeting their needs anymore.

The woman is weighing her options. Trying to decide who's a better fit for her.

Perhaps you should do this as well because I have a feeling once she finds

someone who she feels is more appropriate, you will be history. All the signs

are right there in your face. And you know this as well or you would not have

created this thread. No offense intended.

Some do, some don't. In my lifetime the women with the sweetest dispositions I've ever encountered

were Black women. But, of course, that's not true for all.

This is a very foolish thing to do to a child. And what if the child

has allergies that have not yet surfaced due to the baby's young age.

It's sad some people cannot see the beauty in a darker complexion.

Why do some people only associate beauty to a lighter skin tone.

I'm afraid to think what the Mother would have done had the skin

lightening process been ineffective.

A german woman by the way might make a better date with a black american than an african because all the blk american man wants is nothing more than just casual sex

ALL the black american wants is casual sex, REALLY, ALL? Please include the word 'some' in your statement. Along with some

Asian men, some Russian, some White men in general. Because ALL black american men wouldn't even date a white woman to begin with!! 

Trust me on that! This is an African man she is complaining about, she's been with UNMARRIED for 6 years and has had 2 babies with, REMEMBER

THAT! African, not African American. That portion of your statement is just plain ignorant!

Fox News is against anyone Black! Just watch and determine for yourself!

You may as well be watching the Ku Klux Klan Network. I prefer CNN.

People who get wedding planners are just making the statement, "I can afford to

hire a wedding planner." No more.

Lil Wayne probably pays 5M a month in child support!

Is HE complaining, 'cause he'd be the first man in history to do so!

You're embarking on a whole new life. It's not unusual to be a little

anxious. Goes with the territory. I'd like to see a wedding take place where

the families DIDN'T disagree. Quite normal. Just take a few deep breaths and PRAY!

don't wink at me unless I'm close to you and that depends on the relationship I have with you,

Some Americans will wink to solidify a point. As if to say, "Told you so!" Some will wink rather than give a verbal 'hello.'

The girl has to be fine to try that.

So true!

Good looking men want good looking women, someone to be a compliment

to themselves.