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Look, all this talk about getting a wife in church or wherever, does not appeal one bit.
No one can tell where you meet a life partner. i have seen couples who met in the most oddest places but are still going strong. so restricting yourself to a particular place in search for a life partner only restricts your chances of getting your destined life partner.

HHHmmmmm. May God have mercy on some people.

shoooo are you for real or just one of the usual jokers?

3rd april

tell him to move on with his life jare. she's not worth it.

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i have seen some posts here, those ones who want to go on campaign or fight, lmao . fight now lets see.
abeg make una sit down, make we here beta thing.

i think its a great idea and not to great idea.
but there is nothing that cannot be tried.
if it works out well, some of us against the idea would be the ones proud of the development. which would be a real boost to Nigeria as a whole.
if it does not work out,then that would be too bad. as said above, i know nothing of these stuff so i can't support or be against.

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k0be:
wouldn't you ladies agree with me that majority of the guys on nairaland are fine gentlemen , gentlemen whose hands you'd love to have in your lives.

i beg to defer did you use the word gentle?

i second that.

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guys is it possible to ask you about your past?
how about that.

@otuonye

lol. the word oppressor you used, makes me laugh.

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nothings wrong with the girls, it you. you don't display enough self confidence. you got to believe in yourself before others can believe in you.

@olanajim
hhmmmmm
@ poster
As someone said above, depends on the kind of relationship the couple had before getting married. if you truly love a woman from the depth of your heart and she loves you, then no reason to lose interest in her after marriage. there might be troubles, the good and bad times. but never loosing interest.

Professing love within two days. thats funny , watch your back bro.

iice:
what a thread! BTW why do you guys always say, i did everything to satisfy her. . .did you ask her if she was satisfied or just went on presuming like ya'll always do

Word!

nope.

lol.

i can't remember my first time experience on a plane, i was pretty young. but i can remember my last domestic flight in Nigeria. was a chachangai flight, because we missed the virgin Nigeria, i was quite skeptical using this airline. i was scared stiff, because it was a quick flight back from Abuja to come catch my intl flight the next day. there was a storm, i kept on praying and could not sleep through out, even though my dad kept telling me not to bother myself. i have never liked takeoffs and landing kind of creates this funny sensation in my tummy.

But if am talking of the worst flight i ever took it was an ADC flight, in fact to be precise it was the adc air plane that crashed, and it was a few weeks before the crash. i almost passed out because the take off was really bad, in the air, the plane kept making a lot of noise, the weather was not so good a lot of fog. i kept on praying, i usually eat what am given on the plane, but i could not eat, when we were about to land, the plane banged with a heavy boom on the run way, i almost passed out and said my last prayer, everyone on the plane were all panicking, the flight attendants had to calm fliers down. i thought we had crashed. from what i heard i think one of the wheels had problems. immediately we landed, even before the plane came to a final stop, i had almost removed my seat belt, immediately the plane stopped, i jump from my seat and did not even wait for those in front to leave i rushed out, a lot of fliers were struggling to rush out, it was obvious a lot of people were scared stiff . my dad came down later and kept on laughing at me . whenever i think back, i remember anything could have happened that day. and i thank God for his grace and mercy upon me.

The pleasure is all mine.

heh heh heh, what a challenge, looks like its gonna be fun.

Amen. tell her that even though the hospital gave up on her, God would never give up on her. nothing is to small or big for our God to handle.

whats your position got to do with your relationship. where you not aware before you proposed to her?

CALABAR.

No, because i try to empathize. i would not be happy if its done to me
so why do it to another person?

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i think it all has to do with affection and loyalty. to be sincere women have a lot of issues, especially when two women are involved fighting for one thing, which is unnecessary but cannot be avoided most of the time.

to the both women it has to do with struggling for the upper hand where the guy is concerned. the mother wants to prove he is still her little boy and should always obey everything she says. which gets the wife annoyed most of the times, the wife wants to prove its her husband and partner and she holds a place in his heart, so she can have a say in the decisions he makes.

it also has to do with each woman thinking the other woman wants to take the whole attention away from her. because when the man gets married, his attention becomes divided, there is competition for attention, which creates a feeling of insecurity. usually it starts from the mother in law's end. because she realizes it not her alone again. her son has a wife. and so he has to dedicate his time to his wife also. which makes her feel a bit annoyed and jealous.

sometimes its just a play on the imaginations of the both women, they create an unsecured feeling that the other party does not like her, once this feeling is created, it makes it difficult for an effective communication to take place.

its a silent battle that has been there and would be there for a long time to come.

He's being insecured.
I think he still belongs to the group of men, who believe women are very vulnerable. such men it would take the grace of God to change their thinking. but i suggest you don't loose hope, keep doing the things you do, to make him feel more secured where men are concerned.

Pastor Sly:
@ThoniaSlim What do you mean hhmmmmmmmmm let that be the last for you, question you none fit answer talk you none fit talk come here dey tell me hhmmmmmm, be carefull OK

Whatever that rocks your boat, pastor.

PTBNaija:
You are normal, there is nothing wrong with taking time to look at who you want to go into a relationship with. As in you don't want to make a mistake, don't rush into something for the sake of having it. You'll find someone in due time.

Word!

Seun:
@Christino:
If God can talk, why does he conveniently only talk to pastors and prophets who want your money? Why can't he show up on CNN (or the sky) if he really wants people to believe in him? It makes no sense! If God is real, let us get some solid evidence of his existence. Solid, reliable, consistent, objective evidence!

Thats why its said, His ways are not our ways and His thoughts not our thoughts.
God does not force anyone to worship Him or believe in Him
its a personal decision
thats why i avoid all these arguments on why worship God, or is there God.
because to me it simply makes no sense.

We all have freedom of choice, you choose the part you seek and follow it, and leave others to follow the part they seek.


the likes of reverend. its just such a pity the length you go to prove there is no GOD. if you know there is no GOD, why struggle so hard to prove and make a point about it. sounds really funny to me.

I have read your post, reverend, and one thing i can say about you, i see a defensive guy who is so scared of the truth, that he struggles so hard to fight against any thought that would make him accept the truth.

heh heh heh , he must be there na do or die affair. he must help complete what he started.

what has wearing trousers got to do with morality. please they should face better issues at hand.

hhmmmmmmmmm. pastor?

pls what did she say, because she's made the page private.