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depends on what you refer to as being romantic. it differs for different people.
some people it could be buying gifts, flowers, and catching fun. i remember i had a friend, who saw any guy who could buy her a flower as being romantic.
while to others, it could be sitting and watching the sun set, taking a walk down the beach in a quiet evening, composing and reading poems to each other, just holding hands.
i think it just depends on the person's view. so try to see what your partner sees as being romantic and work on it, but note it does not have to involve money. so you could do little things that would mean more than buying her a diamond ring or necklace.

What makes you think he won't leave you again. if he said it was over between you both. take my word he would say it again. if he could leave you for another woman, he does not deserve a bit of your love. i suggest you move on girl and pray you meet a man who truly deserves your love.

I dread heartbreaks. though i have never been a victim and do not hope to be one. i have been through it with a few friends, and i know a mess they turn into during such period. i suggest you just forget about it and move one.

first let me correct you, one you don't love both of them.
you love one and just fond of the other.
its obvious for you to see, the girl in the states did not show you she loves you before she left Nigeria. then its when she is in the states she would start showing you she loves you. Lol.
my advice for you is to concentrate on the lady in Nigeria you know who loves you.

i don't blame those that think they are in love because they hear a certain voice. some voice can be really captivating an crazy.

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gush went to command sec sch jos and later transferred to an all girls school.i remember there was this terrible house captain of octopus house, back then. she was so wicked. unluckily for me i fell into her trap and she gave me serious punishments to do. after sometime i claimed to have fainted, there was so much panic it was so obvious she was so afraid, because she could be expelled if it got to school authority, with the help of the health prefect they tried to revive me after sometime i pretended to wake up, they were all so relieved, she cooked for me and pampered me inside me i kept on mocking her. this incident really protected me because all the prefects were afraid of giving me hard punishments.

i was really stubborn so i got into a lot of trouble in junior classes, i played a lot of pranks in junior school, it was fun though. i look back at the memories and wish i could experience it just once more. i remember planning with my other partners to put a bit of cow trash in the soup during visiting day, this was a target meant for those greedy seniors who stayed at the dormitory entrance to bully junior students of the food and provisions brought for them. we hid our main foodflask and provisions in our class locker and planned to sneak it in later during the social night event. when we approached the greedy seniors did not even waste time, they told us to bring our food over, they ate the food, and gave us the plates, we kept on laughing as we moved on. it later got to their ears we put cow trash in the soup, we were seriously punished, but most of them were so uncomfortable for days. since then all of them refused to eat our food.

when i got to senior classes, i was somehow wicked i guess this was due to the way i suffered in junior secondary school. junior students use to run and avoid my group of friends then, i remember making a bow leg girl do pick pin and other hard punishments, i felt really bad after this, but the girl was so rude and saucy and refused to turn up for labour, so to prove a point i made her pickpin and other punishments, after that she got the message and never missed any labour i supervised. and so many other terrible things i did. but i look back and see it as part of the fun that made a boarding house interesting.

very hilarious.

gush, nigeria still dey suffer ohhh. that price for a 64kbps speed.

As much as i don't agree with the issue of telling lies to get something you want, especially lying to your partner concerning your age. let's be realistic here. we all tell lies at one point in our lives. sometimes we do not want to tell lies, but we have to,especially when we are caught in a tight corner. and just have to do it to get out of the fix. as my grandmum would say, if you know your not innocent of something,never condemn someone else who does that same thing, because you would be cheating,lying and harming your own self.he/she who has never lied should be the one to judge.

@tectona
yea, am cool buddy.

am so glad we won. Congrats Nigeria.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hhhhmmmm, i suggest you take it easy and don't get your hopes to high. he might just want you to drop him off, but come to think of it , why would he suggest you pick him off to his mother place. it could be he really wants you to meet her, never say never.

what a stupid and dumb girl. she just infatuated, and the guy does not love her one bit. to allow her do such a thing.

ok, well understood, but note that there's a H before the o in my name.

no need stereotyping here, a lie is a lie. there's nothing like a big or small lie.
and as for the gender issue on girls tell little lies, is totally uncalled for because both genders lie.

Never underestimate the power of a woman. ever heard the song More than a Woman.

None.

i saw a post saying they are paid a little amount thats why they act the way they do. excuse me cut me some slack, there are police men in other countries paid lower than the nigerian police but they don't act the way they do. the nigerian police is just so dirty and polluted, may most of them rought in hell, ass holes.

Yea can be really tough, am glad am not an As or SS. phew,

hhmmmm, mouth sealed.

he's just some guy trying to get to the states through you. at least you should be glad he showed his true color in time. well just believe and see it this way certain things are not meant to be, so move with your life and you definitely will meet the right guy someday.

i second that.

Ohhhh yuck. a big turn off.

take my word a possesive man is worse than a possesive woman.

your kiddin rite?

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thats bad. well i suggest you just move on. see it as a good sign. a man who dates your friend behind your back, does not love you and is not worth a single of your attention so just allow it pass and go on with your life. as some1 said above, what goes around comes around.

@zukkie4eva

Word!

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lol. well you need to see a guy who's deeply hurt cry, meeeen, dang!!! its worse than a girl cry.

@bibi4u
Word Man.

Don't make assumptions that might boomerang back against you.