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hmmm. . .good points you gat up there.

It depends on the level of your relationship with him. . .if you are both engaged. . .then its ok. . .at least you get to know where your husband to be is from. . .

But I think for a dude to take you to his hometown to meet his people. . .it means he's pretty serious with you. . .just my opinion. . .

Then I must be in love. . .oh puhleasee. . .you can be infatuated and still feel the same things up there!

I don't use lipstick. . .mostly lip gloss. . .and my lip gloss smells and tastes fruity. . .so he loves to kiss and also suck on my lips. . .

Godmother:
English, please

Wicked!

debest1:
and wat is wrong in drooling over a good looking gal? women sef!  they spend hours on end dressing up hoping to turn heads, now when men's heads are turned they complain again that they are ogling them,  Na wa

Mr, there's certainly a difference between admiring and ogling a lady!

some men just stare like they wanna rip the clothes off the ladies! now that's annoying!

warbrain:
am just scared she meant dunmp me some day for a reason[b] i know
does'nt worth it.but.[/b]

There you go. . .you got your reason why she would dump you!

sheesh. . .not when you ogling at them n drooling at the same time!

[quote author=Kenny_G link=topic=332485.msg4669734#msg4669734 date=1254739494]lol
lexi might actual see it as a chance to rub it in ya face sha ooooo, better just stay off[/quote]Excuse me. . .Who was talking of him? 

Fysat:
My sister came home last week fidgeting and was musing to her self through out lastweek when i walked to her and asked her what the problem iwas, she said she saw a message on her boyfriend's phone sent by his ex stating that "if a lie goes fof twenty years the truth will surely meet up with it." And she asked him what was the meaning he said that when he went home for Ramadan break he said he saw his ex whom the dated for five years and wants them to start the relationship again. The reason for there breakup was that the guy who was in final year' his school department got burnt and they couldnt trace his document he had to start all over again from the scratch. Now he has enrolled in a private uni back on his two feets and in 200 level now his ex wants him back. Now the guy wants to pick his now six years relationship and throw away a six month relationship with my sister away. She desperately need advice though i adviced her to throw it in is face first b4 he breakes her heart or what do ya think?

You can't make someone stay. . .if they wanna walk out on you. . .she can't force him to be with her if he wants to go back to his ex. . .she just got to be thankful that this shit happened in the early stages of the relationship. . .she had better walk now that its early. . .

It won't be long before the fool is dumped again by his ex for failing year 2!

Sorry but my love hasn't gotten to that point yet!

Not really even though am cool with them. . .but there's one ex I would really love to attend his wedding. . .just for no other reason but to see who the unlucky woman is. . ."cus dat one. . .she don enter one chance"

Not really even though am cool with them. . .but there's one ex I would really love to attend his wedding. . .just for no other reason but to see who the unlucky woman is. . ."cus dat one. . .she don enter one chance"

Not really though am cool with them. . .but there's one ex I would really love to attend his wedding. . .just for no other reason but to see who the unlucky woman is. . ."cus dat one. . .she don enter one chance"

The simple truth is. . .check them dudes who come unto NL complaining of girls flirting with them. . .in reality they don't get a lot of girls attracted to them. . .so once one girl says hi. . .they simply think the girl automatically likes them and wants to be involved with them. . .and then make it such a big deal. . .so plsss don't blame them. . .na condition!

@Topic


I also have to ask you why girls like you do this to yourselves?

A man does not respect you enough but gives you the phone to speak to a girl he said he had a fling with. . .and your still waiting for his call?


Pls keep waiting!

Is it every thing you buy when you go to the market?    

Well based on my experience(friends, female family members and acquaintances) I won't say your entirely wrong. . . I've come across a lot of females that would choose to date a Dr above any other profession. . .

But if I were to choose any profession it would be a Pilot. . .just something so sexy about them. . .  


And Yes most doctors can be boring( apart from my bf  ) cus all they do most of the time is study. . .even when they graduate. . .they still keep studying to stay current. . .and most of them aren't even current with social news. . .but the interesting ones. . .are really fun to hang out with.  

Macgreat:
Why would you spend all day shopping? A-ro-ro too much

why carry a big bag when you can use a small one, abi Una dey carry Standing mirror?

Wetin Una dey wash for bath room,  you sh!t for body and even if 

I'm guessing you think you made some sense right there? 

Atreus:
Ok,how about what's not wrong with the highlighted part? First of all,the bags. It doesn't make sense to carry such big bags. Are they travelling bags? What on earth do you people keep there? Then why do you spend so long in the bathroom? Are you having a baby? When i was younger we had only one functional bathroom and the rule was that i had to wait for all my sisters to finish before i could enter,and boy did i wait. Then the shopping,haba,if you like something why don't you just buy the bloody thing and move on? Must you spend all day walking round the market?

First of all I love carrying big bags. . .cus my planner, some course files and other things can fit in there. . .Its also trendy and fashionable at the same time.

I do not spend a whole day in the bathroom. . .but I certainly do not rush my time. . .

Ok shopping is one thing you can't take away from most girls. . .I don't visit the malls every time cus I'm always busy with school work and all that. . .but when I do. . .I certainly take my time. . .cus I ensure that whatever am getting. . .fits and suits perfectly. . .

Now you certainly don't expect a girl to just dress whatever way out. . .I take my time. . .cus at the end of the day. . .I wanna definitely look good. . . 

Atreus:
I figured since we had a thread about what ladies hate about us,we should have one about what they do that we hate. I'll go first:
some of them sleep around.
They carry bags big enough to hide a baby inside.
They spend hours in the bathroom.
They spend forever making up.
They spend forever and a day shopping.
They waste too much time getting ready/dressing up.
Some of them don't know the difference btw sexy and slutty,and that gets them into all kinds of problems.
They are amebos.
They are desperate nd gullible-they let us get away with so much crap.
They are lazy thieves-rather than thinking of how to work and make money to take care of themselves they go around looking for a man to spend money on them.
Some of them have whored for one man or the other at different times in their life.
Note:Before anyone gets worked up and accuses me of generalisation,please know that by 'they',i meant 'some women'.

Ok. . .what's so wrong with the highlighted part?  

Naijagirly:
@ Ebony He knows everything about me and himself and my family are best of paddies, The only person in my house who does not like him is my father.
@ Noetic the guy and my brother are 2 close for comfort and my brother will never turn a gun on him

Many people have this kind of problem and if restraining orders works here in Naija then maybe it will end.I just kind of keep praying that he falls for someone else and leaves me alone.[b]Have tried dating other guys but it does not last more than a month cos the guys leave me cos of this guy.He stalks me and embarrases the person am.[/b]If wishes were guguru and groundnut the relationship will be over, 

Ok that's just way overboard. . .since your in Naija. . .why don't you tell your dad about it. . .and get some peeps to put him in his place once and for all. . .

hamilton12:
simple tell him 2 stp, nd tell your new guy abt him

Its not about telling him to stop cus that has been done a couple of times and I'm not dealing with a normal guy here but a psycho case!

I've told my bf about it. . .but he simply says I should ignore him. . .and I don't expect my bf to go start confronting him cus he's way matured n better than that!

But it seems this dude is so bent on being a nuisance. . .I mean if we both in different relationships and doing fine with them. . .then what's the issue here?

Ok I need to know how do you handle an ex who doesn't want to understand that its over. . .

What do you do to an ex who takes pleasure in stalking you? especially when you both dating different people and the ship has sailed. . .yet the person doesn't want to let you be?

I knew it was over when I found out he wasn't who he claimed to be. . .but actually a mental home patient !

Well I guess it depends on the girl and man your dating. . .whoever am dating needs to understand me. . . I do not necessarily dress anyhow but I love looking good. . .not because I wanna look good for him or anyone. . .but because I know when you look good. . .and you know you look good. . .you feel good. . .and luckily my man understands this. . .Also I believe there's a difference between looking sexy and classy. . . and a difference between looking sexy and trashy. . .

So a lady doesn't have to be trashy to look good and sexy. . .

OgidiBoy:
Keep wondering nah, yes I'm desperate to get your number, no shame in my game

Hehehe. . .

THE AMAKA:
dont you have a girlfriend? lol  

Please help me ask him?

xynerio:
When a guy post a topic that he needs a gal for relationship not a gal will be interested. The replies does not exceed two,and those replies are guys abusing the poster. But if a gal, fine or ugly ask for just a friend and mistakenly ask for a date, in 5 seconds 25 guys will reply posting their phone numbers. Dont u people have girlfriends?

. . .I wonder 2?

Interesting topic. . .

I've met guys who would prefer a dark skin chocolate beauty any day. . .while others would prefer a light skinned lady. . .

SO different strokes. . different folks. . .

ebila:
No,your situation is dat bad!
She actually doesn't really make silly posts,i fink she was high or somefin!

lmao. . .look at this one. . .don't go and find work to do. . .be there dreaming of one billion dollars. . .


"NO FOOD FOR LAZY MAN"

Au Revoir!

faakay:
I'm tired of seeing your silly comments I swear! You annoy me! 

I have notice most of your posts, you are always criticizing people or insulting the original poster indirectly.

Bullshit! 

What's your problem?

This is a public forum, we need good ideas

Be nice to people, but  if you don't have good comment to contribute, is it by force?

Please CHANGE!!!!!!!!

ROTFLMFAO. . .      . . .whao you must be really burnt! 


long yawnnnnnnnn Got anything new in the book? 

Spiffyhot:
My boyfriend is a nice guy but the only problem he has is jelousy,[b]he also has a temper.he doesnt allow me keep other male friends,[/b]he gets angry and shouts at me whenever he reads a text from anybody evn if it is a girl,his excuse is dt he doesnt want me to b a lesbian.[b]sometimes he beats me up.[/b]he is always talking about marriage but i am scared,[b]we are nt married and he treats me like a prisoner,when we do what will i become.[/b]I ve been dating this guy for over two years nw but he is frustrating me, should i quit

And Your still asking if you should quit? 

No please stay ohh. . .when he kills you. . .then you can quit! 

Gush do you peeps have to be in love and be stupid at the same time!