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Could you plsss rephrase your question. . .cus It makes no sense!

. . .going thru the garbage. . .that's way overboard. . .

Been thru that also. . .when a man truly loves a woman. . .he'll go an extra mile for her and never wanna let go. . .

There is no difference between both!

So far so good. . .

Its difficult to say If I can learn to love someone. . .but I guess it isn't still impossible. . .

Whatever. . .just stop boring peeps with your pointless topics. . .

YOu again? Honestly. . .don't you get tired?

slap1:
Guys what would you do if another guy buys a phone for your girl. Meanwhile she has no phone, has complained to you and you tell her to wait a bit. Finally, she tells you she loves you and won’t return the said phone upon your request.

So what's the problem exactly. . .Is she romantically/sexually involved with the guy? Is he a guy trying to ask her out or he's just a friend?  

Lol, I guess the nigerian gals over here dnt suffer from this problem, chinko/Asian food wnt allow you get fat except you just love eating Mcdee and fast food everyday. . . Instead it's the nigerian dudes you see with their fat beer bellies around the whole place, disgusting!

I think the question here should be why women run from boring guys. . .

because my definition of a nice guy is a man who respects, loves and treats you well. . .and you can't tell me no woman with a sane mind doesn't want this. . .

So to answer the question I rephrased. . .because boring guys bore you to the point of death. . .most women want a man who's funny, entertaining, charming,loving, easy going and someone you can share a lot of things with. . .

And from experience a nice guy can be all these too. . . So women do not run from nice guys but they run from boring guys. . .

Nope. . .some things are best left unsaid and kept to yourself. . .

Now that's an eye sore. . .

Just because a relationship with someone didn't work out doesn't mean he/she becomes an enemy automatically. . .I've come to realize some exs make really good friends. . .you just have to work out which one is worth keeping as a friend and which one needs to be discarded. . .

some exs though didn't work out. . .but contributed something meaningful to your life. . .and when I mean meaningful. . .they helped you grow as an individual. . .Yes you can keep these ones as friends. . .


some exs did nothing but contribute trouble and take from it. . . . .you discard these ones. . .because they just bad news with a capital B.

Such men don't know what they want. . .and so come up with such excuses. . .if you wanna save yourself from future heartache then do what's right now and MOVE ON!

I think two years is a hell lot of time to still be stuck on the past. . .I think your problem is not about you having the inability to move on. . .but its your unwillingness to open your heart to something new. . .you probably feel you can't love again or be loved (fear of the unknown)

The moment you decide to clean out your heart of all that is pasts(obviously you haven't done so) and open your heart to something new. . .then you'll see you'll get over him in a jiffy. . .

bashybabe:
wondered ow others cld endure 2 a b.f/g.f dat nags a lot or insults u at interval.strted dis r/ship not mor dan 3mnths ago and broke up d 3rd mnth just becos i cant help it anymore,d last which really gut on ma nerves was he calling me stupid and[b] b4 den he sent sms telling me dere r girls out dere mor beautyful dan i am waityn 2 be showered with love and care and dat my leaving him cant jeopardyz his lyf.[/b] i felt sober he apologised and i felt 4 him so i took him back 2 my suprise its 4 d wrst 2 happen we talked and chat lyk b4 and d nxt wk called me tellin me am very stupid,i almost went crazy cos no guy as eva insulted me b4 so w/out askin 4 wat i did i just ignored his calls and he sent an i.m telling me i was a cheap haul so i told him he was a failure.he couldnt't take it cos i neva said things lyk dat 2 him so he called me repeatyn d wrds i said 2 him and later begging.
decided not 2 take him back and saw d lenght of our r/s it was just 3mnths i laughed and wondered ow som people kept up with dere b.f/g.f dat insult dem 4 yrs w/out complain.
nairalanders keep it comin am waityn

Where have I heard this statement before! Trust me check such dudes they got the lowest count of self esteem. . .

I wonder how some peeps also put up with a dude insulting you? Emotional abuse is as bad as physical abuse and should not be tolerated!

You did a good thing girl. . .Good riddance to bad rubbish!

candylips:
my side . . work work work

Awww. . .Kpele ohh. . .at least na only you dey chop pay check at the end of the month. . .

Ebonyeyes:
Girl this may be the best decision you have ever made. Its a jungle out there with liars, schemers and guys who just want to mess you over.

Erhmmm. . .sounds a bit harsh. . .

Can't count. . .

Now why would a self respecting lady want to confront another girl over some dude? especially if she's his fling/friend?

Mehnnn some ladies are just crazy and sometimes I dnt blame thESE ladies. . .cus the guys also encourage them or lead them on,

As for the lady going all the way to threaten me over my own man especially when I'm certain he did not encourage her in anyway. . .well lets just say. . .she'll be handled appropriately!  

Banjilara:
Hello house?.ve bin nursing a fellings for my run-away gurl.she got married last 3month and still wants me.can i go ahead?NO.no cos ce bin warned by my brother.she cant do without calling a day.is it adviceable i change my no cos i dont wants to break the home.,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
an advice pls,.A gurl of unda 22 i need now.any interested maill or call
jos2certain@yahoo.com
019570565

Is this the new style of self advertisement?

So what happens to french kisses?

I really do not see how getting a manicure and pedicure done at least once a week, and looking good is high maintenance. . .

Looking good should be something a woman takes pride in doing not for others but for herself. . .cus when you look good you feel good! 

I think there ain't no rules involved. . .If a dude wanna love you. . .he'll do so. . .

And its better to allow a dude fall in love with you naturally rather than making/forcing him to fall in love with you. . .

izeek:
tudor,
what she is saqying is there are certain amount of responsibility that is expected from some1 who claims to care abt u.
and with what @post here just stated is far from expectation.
no fighting pls.

I'm not fighting. . .just the manner he made his statement was rude. . .

The highlighted part was what I meant. . .If the man loved her at least he would try as much as possible to see her frequently especially since he visits her location frequently. . .

Pataki:
Haba! A brother must at least try innit? Give it to him for walking up to you with his legs clattering together and still opening his gob to say something.

Which kind trying be that? abeg if he likes a sister he should just say so rather than coming with all the Lord ministering thingie. . .that's just so old. . .

Pataki:
@ topic,

I wish the Lord would minister to that usher in my church. Or is it only brothers the Lord is ministering to?

    . . . I was wondering the same thing. . .but the sisters must have their own scope?  [quote][/quote]