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Now i don't call this love, but plain stupidity and in my dictionary love isn't stupid instead it allows you to explore your dreams and passions.

Still makes no difference to me. what isn't meant to be would not be, not matter the tricks applied.

Its amazing how, after being away from Nl for quite some time, everyone seems to have gone into the business of research and drawing up silly hypothesis and conclusions. mchewww,

what people do all in the name of "so called love" is sickening. may God deliver us.

Hannibal:
Are u taking vengeance into consideration?
Some men stick to this rough weather to win the confidence of a woman and HIT her HARD w[b]hen she lets her guard down.[/b]
So when u bang doors on a man's face and he still comes back. . . .BEWARE!!!!

A reason why if you play the role of being strong and bad, then play it to the end and never let your guard down!

chika98:
Submissiveness get levels oo. I mean you ain't gotta be a slave all in the name of being submissive!

that's right. but playing dumb sometimes, doesn't necessarily mean your stupid. you do what you need to do to get what you want. so if being submissive would get things done most times, then you play along. but as everything has got a limit. so should you also apply wisdom and try not to loose your individuality.

nope.

ima1:
marrying a pastor is like a days job, and don't you have to be called by God to be a pastor, or do we just decide ourselves.

Interesting observation, being a pastor has become so commercialized, that just anyone can decide to go and start a church. this is so sickening.

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Please its her personal decision and not that of any other person!

Yes women love,but as some posters have mentioned, it all boils down to individuality. some individuals tend to heal faster than the others.

This doesn't really mean they did not love the other person, it simply means that they accepted that it wasn't meant to be, and decided not to dwell too much on the past.

As much as i agree it pays, it can also be annoying or hurting when it isn't reciprocated.

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I really can't understand where such conclusion arrived from. I would never raise my hand against him, so i also demand and expect such respect. infact i wouldn't hesitate to end a relationship based on this.

When it truly happens, would inform you.

lmao, couldn't control the outburst. i guess the only way to curb the problem is to tell her how you feel.

Let the time come, then i would probably know what to call him.

interesting post,

The things we do today, comes back to hunt us tomm.

lmao, , geeez am feeling you simply means he admires either your style or any other characteristics. If a guy wanna tell you he loves you, he would simply say it,

it depends on the kind of crime, , but i don;t wish for such.

This ain't a case, if he knows he's innocent then i don't see any reason to be scared.

You dumped him, realized your mistakes and now he's trying to move on with someone else, you want to split them up. what sort of a human being are you?

you had your one chance and messed up, so leave the guy alone and let him move on with his life, mchewwwww

exactly they would be the same peeps to say ohh, women are so cheap. mchewwwwwwww

Once bitten twice shy, now why would he do that?
she cheated once, she would do it again. duhhh,

He cheated on you once, he would do it again. choose the one you trust most.

Pray, God would change your genotype to AA. geez what a joker. .
Sorry girl, he simply confused and probably waiting for an easy replacement before he shows you the door.
i suggest you both have a heart to heart talk, and tell him to tell you where the relationship stands. if after this he's still being all hanky panky about the situation,then show yourself the door.

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whether you male or female, i don't care. but going back and spending the night with an ex,ain't a wise decision. the guy seems to be catching fun to have the guts to even say when its your turn. Exs are past and should remain in the past, this does not mean you can't say hi, but just keep it short and simple. no lovey cuddly.

I think thats like going over board.

And what facts have you got to back up this generalized statement?

this ain't something to deliberate on, the evidence has been provided? so what else is he waiting for, some double confirmation? geez she should be shown the door out.

jisted with friends late into the night. came back and cuddled up with my bf till i slept off.

I guess it varies in society. where i stay it ain't a big deal. there more girls than guys here, so if you busy hanging around waiting for someone you think you deserve to approach you, then you might just hang around for ever.

First i don't see any big deal with marrying your age mate. or is it a crime again?

@yemi

who, me?