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#Goodbye my lover,goodbye my friend
You have been the one,you have been the one for me#

#Goodbye the hardest word i'll ever give...#

There you have it..goodbye is probably the hardest word to say.

Fourcade: ^^^Back to sender

don't take it p now ..anyway I'm just recuperating myself..was ill all week.

Fourcade: Welcome backkkkkk




who is next

probably you

Accept my heartfelt sympathy.May the souls of the departed rest in peace.You need at this trying period to surround yourself with people you love who love you aswell.The temptation/urge to retreat to a secluded area and just live in solitude would come but you'd need to fight it off and try to constantly be around people.Also its time for you to look up to God,have a relationship with him cuz he is the only one that can heal you of the pain and hurts.Take heart dear.The lord would continue to strengthen you.

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o boy una the vex o
poverty stricken maggots thinks every girl is poor like them[/quote]You are just a retarded fool who was opportuned to get #200 to go browse in a cyber cafe.I was questioning your level of intelligence when I saw the post but not anymore because it's so glaring that you're nothing but an empty barrel upstairs..I have no doubt that the ladies you claim are falling for your sorry arse are classless fools just like you probably because of the #100 you entice them with..no sane woman with class would ever fall for a bigoted fool like you.

omg!and this made the front page smh
Anyway poster,the girls flocking around you(if they really are)are doing so for what you have to offer,which I guess is money.So get over the whole 'why do girls fall in love with me'

Talking about favourite seasons,mine was 'Omoye'..I loved that season.Don't know anything about the one that's being aired currently cuz the last time I watched superstory was 2007

Cuz men like to form macho ..the general belief which in anycase is untrue is that men that cry are either sissy or weaklings.Most men grief though, ,unless ofcourse the relationship never meant anything to them and they couldn't be happier having a break up.Overall it depends on the emotional level of each person.

Idowuogbo,naijasexy,freecocoa,killz and rokiatu..Idowu is a clown,girl cracks me up everytime..and to have such character with intellect embedded is hmm.girl you too gbasky

awww!welcome back darling..We all missed you.make sure you recover fully before you continue..much love.

Harbioollah: exactly what am thinking bt dnt u feel if i threaten to expose her,she'll come after my life

Can it get that bad..I guess you'd have to intimate someone older about it then.In the mean time,leave it to rest and see what happens..She might have repented and might even be seeking your forgiveness.

lol..what won't I see on nairaland..op,even tho the option isn't there..I would give you a -1

@frank 3.16 what an advice!smh.I just hope you mean nothing of what you typed.

Poster,I feel your pain and I know how difficult this would be for you..these women have caused you so much psychological trauma and it's time you stood up to them and say NO!enough is enough!If she crosses your path and tries anything funny,prove to her that you're a man now, no longer the little boy they took advantage of..threaten to expose her if she doesn't desist..It would be her loss if she's exposed .you have to heal yourself of this trauma and the time to do so is NOW!How? by facing the giant(the woman).I pray you overcome this soonest.The lord is your strength

hahaha.I used to call it 'aji lo moto' when I was a kid thinking it was a yoruba word which translates 'we woke up to use a vehicle' .funny enough that's the only seasoning my mum used to cook back in the days..She's graduated to knorr now

Fashola it is..

[quote author=Killz.][color=#000030] Ok. You know what. Wherever you are right now, fall asleep. I'm coming in your dreams to pay for the software. . .

WTF. Relationship is not by force. If i cannot trust my girlfriend, i have no business being in a relationship. Imagine a situation where a boy and a girl dating each other are on Nairaland, without the other knowing. And they both come across this nonsense of a thread and software. And then, they both buy it secretly, without the knowledge of the other and they muguciously install it on each other's phones. . . What does that make them? it makes them what? FOOOOOLS!!!
Trust is a vital ingredient to the success of any relationship. . . It is not a business relationship dammit! [/color][/quote]My thought exactly!!You couldn't have said it any better.trust or (better put) lack of it is the reason many relationships have crumbled.Not saying one should play a fool all through but it pays to play a fool sometimes to avoid unwarranted suspicions that could otherwise be seen as insecurity.

'I love you' isn't a word ,it's a three word phrase.It's a pity your friend is going through what he's experiencing at the moment.It isn't the end of the world.I believe his own woman who would love him whole-heartedly is out there...as for you op,stop generalizing..not all women are like that.

DONkollione: why are only female nler in total support of dis boy?

Maybe because you guys are too envious of him to see him for who he really is.

Not been around for too long but in the short while I've been,I can say that Killz 's got the potential of being a good mod.He clearly fits into the role outlined.His contributions to topics are so mature and concise..just on point.I believe he would (if elected)moderate the romance section maturely and not run on sentiments but base his decisions on facts and Objectivity.

andy1: hmmmmm!!! ***cloggs chin*** y do i get d filin alota ladies in dis forum aint being truthful??

That all the ladies you've dated or been around are 'demanders' doesn't mean all girls are.your sample size is too small to draw conclusion(s) from(statistically).
Btw what have noticed bout nairalanders(girls)is that they speak their minds.so this notion of yours that ALL girls are gold diggers needs to be done away with.

@op,that could be her nature,she could just be an 'independent lady'.some ladies are just like that.you could ask her why she doesn't make demands someday if it's bothering you so much.

Yea!your manner of approach is most important irrespective of where and when.you could consider what slimyem and Reanna said.

2buff: First let me state that I'm a supporter of abstinance in an unwed union. Now on to it...

I don't understand this logic of yours. Is he the only one enjoying Le Smex?
I believe one of the best wools you & your fellow naija women pulled over the eyes of your more st[i]u[/i]pid naija brothas was giving them the impression that you don't enjoy sex and that you're "doing it for them" and so they have to make it up to you afterwards.

It has been a most effective lie, leading to much in restitutive gain over the centuries I'm sure.

...But that ish doesn't work on everyone . You need to first look at the nigga's face before you determine if that foolish logic works with him.
Not everyone is a maga. But the OP clearly is...

Why are you making a big deal outta my post?if you had read well,you would have noticed that the phrase 'gives him sex' was culled from the op's post,he clearly stated it himself.secondly if you had not been out to condemn my post you would have seen also that I added 'so in THEIR own case(based on what the op said) maybe it's trade by barter'.Quit reading stuffs superficially so you can see what a writer is inferring before jumping into silly conclusions

You obviously never deserved her and you still don't.reason being that you stated that you liked her a lot then,yet you treated her like sh.it which according to you was due to the fact that you had many options.Now you claim you love her so much..what guarantees that you wouldn't treat her like garbage if she decides and indeed comes back to you..if your initial reason for treating her like a scum surfaces(ie you are presented with many options once again).the saying that 'you never know the worth of what you have until you lose it 'clearly applies to you.The best way you can prove your love for her is by letting her to..yes!let her get a real man that surely deserves her.

:Dlol @post, poster and comments excluding mine...but seriously poster,do you really mean all these questions or you just bored and trying have fun on nairaland ,cause if these questions are true.I smh for you

domwas2: 1)Firstly, Does dating a lady means you have to be in charge of paying for her feeding allowance?.

But for me i thought when a lady visited her boyfriend/fiancee home she should be able to help in the house by washing the guy's clothes, cook and other while in this case giving the lady money or anything she asked for won't be a problem. i have no experience please help me on how it works

Now the guy was asking me last night that his girlfriend never contributed any thing in his life, she comes around on her wish, no washing even when there are lot of clothes to be washed, the only thing she gave him is sex and collection of feeding money (if marrying her won't be a problem)

Feeding allowance is no duty of a boyfriend but if a man puts it on himself to give,fine!
Talking about the girl,your friend said she's not contributed anything to his life,right?what of the sex she GIVES him?you said it yourself that she gives him sex..so maybe in their case it's trade by barter... I give you sex you give me money.lol
Now you seriously expect a girlfriend to be washing her partner's wears..like seriously?what stops the guy from doing that himself?the guy himself appears to be a lazy man...lol.


Ok,on a more serious note..if the guy loves the girl,he could talk to her to change.If she budges,good for them.Though I'm still of the opinion that the duties listed above are more of a wifely duties than a girlfriend's with a few exceptions .But again you can tell the kind of wife she would turn out to be from her behaviour during courtship.So I understand your friend's fear.

She should be able to see beyond her nose.The guy obviously doesn't mean well for her..all he wants is to get her to bed and that's it.If the guy is already nursing the thought of settling down with her neighbour..he would definitely cheat(that's if he doesn't dump her) on her even after giving in to his intimate nudge.By the way she's just twenty, she's got many years ahead of her to build new relationship(s).She should get over the guy..he's not worth her tears..

naijasexy: I've not been feeling well...

...Been sleeping all day and could not write anything.
Sorry guys.

Wait!there seem to be something about your stories.I can't really decipher the connection between them and ill-health(and I refuse to accept it as a coincidence ).First it was freecocoa,then myself now you.hmm
naijasexy o
get well soon dear.