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NigerianDigest1:
Female Miseducations : The Manipulative Man
Hey mi ladies , this is ND1 and join me for another round of miseducation, this time we will really be giving hot drills , check out my other miseducations for female if this is your first time here.

The Crazy Female
Now we are going to be looking at how girls can be literally crazy , I have seen many crazy girls and what do I mean by crazy , this girls are stuck with this guy , who everyone thinks is shit ( because he is really shit ) , but she keeps on harboring and condoning all his mishaps , this makes her really crazy , and as a lady you can't go anywhere being stuck to this kind of men, you're totally helpless once you have fallen for his cheap scams .

You cook, wash , pay bills and do a whole lot more for this guy , but still he still cheats and will never be loyal to you, he is the definition of a player , you just keep wasting away until you realize you were just used to fulfill his Sexual and Financial needs , you keep hoping he will change but the truth is he will never change.

THE ONLY WAY A CRAZY LADY ESCAPES A MANIPULATIVE MAN IS BY WISING UP.

A player is not and will never be tired of using you , you are the one that must run away , you have become a fool even in the eyes of your friends and really you can't help it. The crazy females begins to think he will change , her self craved ideology , she keeps getting sad , angry and all that but she will refuse to leave .

The Gentle Guy

Now admidst all this there is always a gentle guy around the corner , who is highly familiarize with the relationship going on between the crazy girl and the player .He is seriously crushing on the crazy girl , he's angry how she's being treated , she confines in him , she knows he has feelings for her , but she never reciprocates , she just uses him to lean on during hard times . The gentle guy will be like ," leave that guy nah , I don't even know what you see In him .

She continues giving her wealth, strength , energy and body to the player , who continues to treat her like shit , he never stops .
Then mr. Gentle is still on the sidelines watching his crush getting bashed up and down , when the crazy girl realizes time is not on her side , she regains her senses and she has no option than to quit and go with the gentle guy .

She is emotionally bashed, crushed and wounded and leaves for option. B , which means she will never be fulfilled in life , she married an option ( a weak man :according to her vocabulary )

This totally destroys women , as a lady , never be a fool to a player , he will finish you , give you a bigger hole , drain your finances , makes you worst off, and he won't leave you , he keeps threatening to leave , just to keep you caged .

You have become a low value woman , it will be very hard to rise up after this .
My advice to women is this : there are other high value men out there ( I will make a post on how to get high valued men ) who are not players and are very responsible,also has cash.

The player uses you . The high value man completes you, a higher version of a player only he is responsible.

If you see a player run for your life, health, peace of mind and your hole .

You have to pay a price to get high valued male ( we write that in another article)

For the crazy woman I say sorry

For the manipulative man I say welldone

For the gentle man I say simp on

For the crazy woman I say Woman Up!!!

#GGTOW
#G.rules

There have been lots of female bashing threads on this forum but you have taken a better route. Advice like an elder brother. Keep it up

I round is ten seconds

Some men tolerate nonsense from The wife because they of their children.
If your dad should MAN up, he would have divorced your mum.

Go ask him why he let his wife treat him in such manner. He will mention family unity.

Thank God for him. If he were childless, he would have been more Alpha

You benefited from his simplicity

Type BDSM.

Marriage is not an achievement

Who Dem epp

GirlCalifornia:
stop using Christ's name falsely. Becareful of God's wrath

Jesus was twelve years when he was discovered by Brazilian Football Club
Anhanguera before he signed for them one year later.
Today, he plays for Manchester City Fc ��

Jesus was twelve years when he...

Congratulations

ehinmowo:
Somebody will just sit down in his or her room and think what he felt would work for married people.

If you don't have experiential knowledge and you arw not authority (studying research based approach or study materials that have proven to work emperically), you are just a gambler. The problem is you would be gambling with people's existence.

Now in your analogy (which is bullshit), imagine that mechanic whom does not have a car and does not have emperical knowledge about cars started working on your car. " Oga I think if we can reduce the holes supplying fuel to your cabrator, your fuel would last longer", he said. Is that not suicidal?

You get the message, a mechanic does not need to own a car but he has to spend time studying and working on other people cars .

The person I quoted did not dismiss the Op claims in the book for inaccuracies or wrong. He just wants to know If she/ he qualified to even speak on the subject matter and his basics of qualification is the person must have been married.
Does marriage alone qualify a person ? No

1) education does too. . personal education and certified education e g psychologist, counselor
2) divine knowledge (e g ) Jesus spoke on marriage without getting married

Tell her the truth. She should learn to handle it

By playing victim, they have power

ehinmowo:
Are you married?

Nigerians think only married people should write about marriage book

See, most mechanics do not own a car

I love your story. I need the wassap chat between you and him as evidence

Polygamy to the rescue

How would you react to this from someone you perceived as your future partner

wanted us to be just friends and I told you from the very start. Some how we got closer.You began to feel something for me. I did not notice at first. Your jealousy increased I played it cool. Now you have opened up. I know Iy must have been difficult for you to . Now I cannot pretend any longer. We need to talk about it .

I do not have to pretend to feel the same way as that would be dishonesty on my part. I do not want to turn you down abruptly. For that would bring an end tovthe wonderful friendships.The awkwardness is what I am trying to manage now so we need loose everything.

I am sorry If I gave you any signal that I would be interested in taking decision is to the next level.

I need your affirmation that you can handle and accept the situation without feeling embarrassed and return to normal friendship without avoiding each other.

I promise not to tell any third party about this disclosure.I would tune down any flirting signs I might be giving unknowing

https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/23/sexual-imbalance/

Free society

There is a region where men cannot finance wedding despite lowest bride price.

Govt sponsor mass wedding. Man cannot take care of family. He will marry another woman with free govt sponsored wedding.

The women there secretly do the do outside to fend for themselves despite covering her face and legs and herself in full uniform.

Do you know the region

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Nairaland should have a sence of humor and I love op for this

Do nice guys finish last, No?

Fearful Guys finish last.

Be Confident, Be Nice when she does something good
Be harsh when she does something bad.

Be in charge of yourself
Have self power
Be ready to walk away

AASU can remain on strike until covid 19 finish

Devil is from the region that colonised you and gave you Religion

They want l nation's to massively order for the covid 19 vaccine.


Forced into a second wave of Isolation

To prevent Covid 19 extension

News sends ice down my arteries

Endless thirst for water to refill sweaty skin

Fingers vibrate in perturbation

Over analyse Government instruction


Recall previous periodof hunger

Moments of tears inside my locker

Push it beneath my awareness

Deny its existence

Believe I will cope once more

As I anticipate the cure

https://tobechispeaks./2020/12/21/what-is-it-telling-you/

Jesus was not valued when he was on Earth, he was lynched.

Edochie of all people

Forced into a second wave of Isolation

To prevent Covid 19 extension

News sends ice down my arteries

Endless thirst for water to refill sweaty skin

Fingers vibrate in perturbation

Over analyse Government instruction




Recall previous periodof hunger

Moments of tears inside my locker

Push it beneath my awareness

Deny its existence

Believe I will cope once more

As I anticipate the cure

https://tobechispeaks./2020/12/21/what-is-it-telling-you/

coolsegun2002:
Where did u get this information from?
..first u said Jesus was a carpenter
Then u said he only assisted
Then u said the Bible didn’t tell u what Jesush did.......seriously I’m not getting you

Jesus's father was a carpenter. It is expected that he would run one or two errands for his dad while young. Joseph died at an early age.( If not Jesus would not hand Mary over to John).
That might have brought an end to his carpentry vocation.


At 30 yrs when Jesus started street preaching with his disciples, what Did he do to earn money? Arms ? Begging? Bible did not tell us.