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RomanceRe: Why Do People Commit Incest? by tobechi74: 3:07pm On Dec 25, 2020
Charity begins at home ���
Christianity EtcRe: Most Nigerian Leaders Have Expired- Catholic Bishop by tobechi74: 11:00am On Dec 25, 2020
Nafdac did not put expired date
Christianity EtcRe: Why Was Jesus Born? by tobechi74: 10:59am On Dec 25, 2020
The same reason aMubarak Bala was born.
To question the teaching of his people
But both were arrested
Christianity EtcRe: Why Do Atheist Celebrate Christmas? by tobechi74: 10:56am On Dec 25, 2020
They are tolerant .do not discriminate
RomanceRe: Nigeria Ranks Top Users On Grindr, A Gay Dating App by tobechi74:
It is legal over there

Son: what does the Bible teach about homosexuality and masturbation.

Dad: I do not know and I do not care to know

Son: But you are a Christian

Dad: yes, A Christian who follows the teaching of Jesus. Christ alone and not the Bible.

Son; But Bible contains Jesus teaching

Dad: true. It also contains the teaching of Paul,the teaching of Moses , the teaching of Elijah and many other teaching. As a Christian, I accept the teaching of Jesus Christ.

Son: Ok, Now what did Jesus teach about masturbation and homosexuality.

Dad: Jesus never mentioned any of them literally but he showed us with illaustration how to treat those whose views are different from ours.

Child: How?

Dad: He never condemned the adultrous woman, he visited tax collectors, he dined with sinners. He showered them with love.

Son : does that mean they won’t go to hell?

Dad: would you derive Joy in Watching your loved one in hell?

Son: No I won’t

Dad: good.

Dad: sex is a way of expressing Love. There are different stages of love. The first is love directed to oneself. A child grows up loving himself.Using sexual analogy, the child derives Joy playing with his body, his genital. Jesus said Love thyself.


Son : hmm

Dad: The second is Love of similar specie.The child begins to extend the love to those of closest to him+ family, friend,tribe etc. A boy plays with a boy.A girl plays with a girl. Using sexual analogy, this is homosexual. Christ preached Love your neighbor.


Son : I see

Dad: The third stage of love is where one loves those different from oneself .Jesus said Love your enemy.your enemy is your opponent, opposite,one with a different view. Sexually, one is attracted to the gender different from him.A boy is attracted to a girl and vice-versa.

Son :

Dad: One who hates masturbators and homosexuals and love heterosexual is no different from one who loves others over himself and his peers.Such person is in a third stage of love.


Son : which is the best.

Dad: All of the above.The fourth type. The pansexual. The attraction to all . Self, male, and female. It is universal love. Agape love. Love without condition.


https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/20/a-christian-dad-and-son-conversation-on-homosexuality/
RomanceRe: New Nigeria Madness: Right Or Wrong? by tobechi74: 1:38am On Dec 25, 2020
Is it your body
Christianity EtcA born again Christian Should not support The Killing Of Boko Haram Members by tobechi74(op):
Did Jesus clearly tell you to kill these people?
In the New Testament, Jesus repeatedly instructs his followers to avoid violence and promote peace

2. Do you believe your enemies are created in the image of God?
Genesis 1:27 (ESV) tells us thatGod created man in [God’s] own image, in the image of God [God] created him; male and female [God] created them.

3. Do you believe your enemies are irredeemable — beyond God’s power and ability to save?
As brutal as are enemies are, with God all things are possible — even miraculous changes. If we take up the sword against our foes, what if we’re preveng someone from becoming the next Paul — who was once Saul — the man who once feverishly persecuted Christians (Acts 9)?

4. Do you believe Godcan’tachieve justice?
Even though Jesus continually warns against judging others — we often use any excuse to exact revenge and inflict pain onto our enemies.
Foreign AffairsRe: See Reason Why Twitter Will Wipe President Trump Followers Before Handover by tobechi74: 12:38am On Dec 25, 2020
Trump followers mostly insulted him
RomanceRe: Why doesn't she Want A Second Round? by tobechi74: 11:37pm On Dec 24, 2020
thesilentman:
I don't think so.while we were dating,she told me en passant that nobody has given it to her better like i do.But am now interested in seeing her get to orgasm.Do you of any sign of orgasm?
That is what every girl days to someone they like to save his ego
RomanceRe: Marriage Adds Honor To A Lady by tobechi74: 11:36pm On Dec 24, 2020
Without marriage she has no honour
RomanceRe: How Will I Tell A Girl I Want Fvck Her by tobechi74: 11:35pm On Dec 24, 2020
I want to overshadow you like angel Gabriel did to mary
Christianity EtcRe: What If ! Philosophical Questions Theories And Answers by tobechi74: 11:34pm On Dec 24, 2020
[quote author=HellVictorinho post=96788554]What if we don't have to ask unnecessary or/and dumb questions?[/quote

What if what we think is necessary is unnecessary and what we think is unnecessary is necessary
Christianity EtcRe: Biblical Traditions In Igboland Before The Missionaries, What Do You Think? by tobechi74: 11:31pm On Dec 24, 2020
Some people will start claiming Igbos are descendants of Isreal
Christianity EtcRe: Nurse Receives Covid19 Vaccine And Faints On Live TV, Then Lies. by tobechi74: 11:28pm On Dec 24, 2020
Did you notice that covid 19 pandemic has increased since vaccine came out.
Christianity EtcRe: Religious Books Were Translated But Books On Science And Technology Were Not.why by tobechi74: 11:26pm On Dec 24, 2020
Economics. There are no demand for them
RomanceRe: Why Do Parents Protect Kids From Sex in media And Not Voilence? by tobechi74: 7:28pm On Dec 24, 2020
Symphony007:
It is now common knowledge that parents protect their kids so much from sex on the media. Infact sex in a taboo, any parent will fume with rage if they walked in on their kids watching a movie with a sex scene but when it comes to violent movies, it's not the same, parents watch violent movies with their kids and even take them to cinema's to watch them, they buy games like call of duty, homefront,medal of homour,etc..which allows this kids to kill and kill in front of a telly for hours. And research has shown that kids who watch violent movies and games are more likely to be violent.

But sex is a part of humanity. Your kids will surely do it someday and without even watching sexual movies, when they get to puberty. The urge comes. While violence is not a part of humanity.it is learned. So why do parents protect their kids so much from sex but violence is allowed?
As long as parents are violent to children, they will permit violence.
When Parents are permitted to have sex with children, they will begin to allow sex

We codon what wi do
RomanceRe: 50 Ladies Code by tobechi74: 7:25pm On Dec 24, 2020
Good.
But ladies are emotional creature, once they get in a mood, they forget laws
RomanceRe: What's The First Thing You Notice In A Woman As A Guy? by tobechi74: 7:23pm On Dec 24, 2020
Her sense.
RomanceRe: Why Do Men Marry Poor And Jobless Women, You Will Only Die Before Your Time . by tobechi74: 7:22pm On Dec 24, 2020
Poor women will never divorce you even when you beat her black and blue. You may be poor but you are richer than her dad.

Guys who love to command respect and loyalty and power from girls see poor girls as easy prey.
RomanceRe: Court Jails Man For Defrauding Ladies Of $166,000 In Fake Romance-Sahara Reporte by tobechi74: 7:18pm On Dec 24, 2020
Things people do for money
RomanceRe: by tobechi74: 7:17pm On Dec 24, 2020
Making fun out of people predicament ......I am guilty too
RomanceRe: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Leave A Toxic/abusive Relationship by tobechi74: 9:47am On Dec 24, 2020
Since I gave birth, my husband no longer give me the attention he used to. He spends more time at work. When he finally gets home, he quicky goes to bed to prepare for the next day. We engage in superficial discussion-the bills, our son, the neighbors, the house etc. He rarely comments on my outfit. There are times I would move around naked yet he would not mutter a world. He would be physical present with me yet thinking of his work. Sex was mechanical. He did not care If I cummed.He would sleep off afterwards. I cannot bear the neglect. I have tried to give him subtle hint as a woman. He is unable to interpret my signs. I have come out openly yet he plays it down. I got no choice but to proboki him The other day, I nagged bitterly. He walked out of the house. Every attempt I make shuts him down.I just came back from work and he did not bother to ask how work went. He fixed his eyes on the television screen watching a soccer match. I tried initiating a conversation with him but his eyes are fixed on the screen while giving me monosyllabic reply. I couldn’t take it anymore.

“GBAM”

I hit the television screen with a kitchen pistle until it blacked out. For the first time, he gazed his eyes toward my direction. He rushed me like an angry lion pouncing on its prey . I was unable to count the series of slaps and punches that landed on my face. I passed out and found myself in the hospital. I was bedridden for three days.

I came back home and met a changed man. He apologized for laying his hands on me. I still felt pain from the beating. He served me breakfast in bed. He would call me thrice while at work to know how I was faring. Knowing he was thinking of me while at work made me blush. He reminded me of the days we courted. I felt desired once again. I continued giving him the silent treatment for two weeks. I wanted to enjoy his affection while it lasted. I finally accepted his persistent apology.Our made up sex was fantastic. My satisfaction was his concern. He cuddled me afterwards. I have learnt that damaging what he cherishes most and receiving the beating of my life was the only way to get back the love we once had.It is a matter of time before he begins to ignore me again. Next time, I would break his car windscreen.
RomanceRe: Ladies How Comfortable Will You Be Wearing This On Your First Date.? by tobechi74: 9:42am On Dec 24, 2020
Some girls we say, all he wants is sex. What was she thinking
RomanceRe: Nairalander's Pls What Type Of Skill Will You Advise Your Junior Bro To Learn by tobechi74: 9:41am On Dec 24, 2020
OGWILLS123:
Am just I confuse on which skill to pick sir cry
Give us five option,based on your likes, we will narrow it down
PoliticsRe: Covid19 Vaccines Are Released And Suddenly Cases Begin To Rise In Nigeria by tobechi74: 7:24am On Dec 24, 2020
Welcome to world politics
FoodRe: Christmas Chicken! Have You Noticed This Increase In Price? by tobechi74: 1:58am On Dec 24, 2020
When many people become vegetarian, this would not happen
FamilyRe: The Unjust Feeling Of Entitlement From Family And Friends by tobechi74: 1:55am On Dec 24, 2020
Some redpillers would call you a simp.
FamilyRe: I Am Scared Of Chicken by tobechi74: 1:54am On Dec 24, 2020
If you had posted this on romance section some redpillers would have called you a SIMP
RomanceRe: My Husband Set Me Up And I Fall In by tobechi74: 10:36pm On Dec 23, 2020
Don't tell me you are sorry when you are not
When I know you are only sorry you got caught
RomanceRe: Nairaland Redpillers Come In !!! by tobechi74: 10:32pm On Dec 23, 2020
Pinkpill, simps love kindness. He is kind to you because he loves those that are naturally kind.
He is gentle and peaceful because he values them too.

Ubunja advice is for Alpha male who love power, to be in charge.
Simp is not Interested in control. The way to his heart is via gifts and that is why he is doing it for you. So you are in the right path, buy gifts for him.

What should you buy for hi

What does he value? Is he a nerd? Bookish type? Buy him a book.

Does he like arts, get an artist to draw a painting of him and present it on new year.

Is he Into music, a CD of his favorite artist is ok.
Is he an arsenal fan, an Arsenal jersey will do.

Gift denotes that you are atentive to his likes .
RomanceRe: Nairaland Redpillers Come In !!! by tobechi74: 10:24pm On Dec 23, 2020
czarr:
Buy him these books

1. The rationale man by Rollo Tomassi

2. The manipulated man by Esther villa

he'll thank you later trust me.
He will dump you later,trust me

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