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Christianity EtcRe: A Christian Dad Discussed Homosexuality With Son by tobechi74(op): 3:46am On Dec 20, 2020
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Christianity EtcRe: The Danger Of Believing Too Much In God Will Save You by tobechi74(op): 3:44am On Dec 20, 2020
ABOVEDELAW:
UNLESS THE LORD BUILDS THE HOUSE, THEY LABOUR IN VAIN THAT BUILD IT...........THOUGH IT MAY BE DIFFICULT FOR YOU TO UNDERSTAND.
Explain
Christianity EtcRe: Why Serious Christian Ministers don't Get Married by tobechi74(op): 3:40am On Dec 20, 2020
jesusjnr2020:
Just for the sake of unassuming viewers.

This is a thread of a homosexual/gay advocate.

https://www.nairaland.com/6131188/christian-dad-discussed-homosexuality-son

So be warned.

Address the issue not the speaker

Thanks.
Christianity EtcRe: Reason Why Some People Prayers Are Not Easily Answered by tobechi74(op): 3:39am On Dec 20, 2020
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Christianity EtcRe: Spirituality Vs Religion: What Is The Difference. by tobechi74(op): 3:38am On Dec 20, 2020
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Christianity EtcRe: My Journey From a Bible Believer To A Jesus Follower by tobechi74(op): 3:38am On Dec 20, 2020
In summary, reading the Bible alone leads one away from Christian Religion
Christianity EtcRe: Why Do Atheist Believe There Is No God? by tobechi74: 3:31am On Dec 20, 2020
Why do you believe Buhari is not dead
PoliticsRe: Buhari Regime Treating Bandits With Kid Gloves Because They Are Sunnis by tobechi74: 3:29am On Dec 20, 2020
Religion has entered. It is finished
PoliticsRe: First Nigerian Professor Of Computer Science, Olu Longe, Is Dead by tobechi74: 3:27am On Dec 20, 2020
BlackfireX:
Are you sure he was a professorhuh Was there computer in the 1920shuh
Professor of Typewriter
PoliticsRe: Bandits Abduct Students Of Islamiyya School, Katsina In Fresh Attack by tobechi74:
Source of revenue.
Abduct
Get paid
Release

forgive the region whose people are like working robot

I forgive the region that would happily praise foreigners who invade her land to rule her.

I forgive the region that hands over her thinking ability to its foreign leaders

I forgive the region whose foreign leaders control them easily like a remote.


I forgive the elite who readily swallow the lies propagated by her leaders

I forgive the people who allow himself to be cajoled into submitting to the will of its Invaders in exchange for eternal reward

I forgive the region whose community leaders are threatened into silence by the powerful elite

I forgive the region whose Religion leaders refuse to speak against the atrocity of her political leaders


I forgive the region whose Religion leaders with the political oppressors against the mass

I forgive the region that knows no other language and culture besides its own and that of its oppressor

I forgive the region that allows it’s people to be used to give more power to its leaders

I forgive the region that surrenders its right and freedom to its oppressor in the name of religion

I forgive myself for being connected to this region
https://tobechispeaks./2020/12/19/manipulated-by/
RomanceRe: Five Reasons Why Thinkers and Philosophers Struggle In Marriage by tobechi74(op): 1:27am On Dec 20, 2020
(4)Great thinkers possess unique philosophy. His views are in minority. ..Most great thinkers are on a mission to spread her ideology. First he needs to find a mate who thinks  the same way as he does. Since his ideology is mostly his, the odds is less than one in a thousand. Most times, he had to choose from female  disciples. Secondly, she ought to find him attractive enough and thirdly she needs to share in his mission to move from one place to another to share his those . She should understand that she will always fall behind his love for intellectual pursuit. He will gladly divorce her if she becomes an obstacle.
RomanceRe: Five Reasons Why Thinkers and Philosophers Struggle In Marriage by tobechi74(op): 1:26am On Dec 20, 2020
3)(3)Great thinkers do not have a life like the ordinary person.They can be boring to an average lady. They live in their head. They care little for personal appearance. It is common to see him with unshaved beards or torn clothes.He spends time thinking that he forgets about food. His body looks worn out. He spends less time doing and more time thinking. The world pays for your skills not for your thoughts. He thinks out loud while talking.He is easily mistaken for a mad man.Some of them got dismissed for deviating from the norm. Bertrand Russell remained unemployed for supporting gay marriage in 1929..They are  jobless. He has no defined source of livelihood.Which lady will happily settle down with one?

What was Jesus Job since he turned 30 by the way?
RomanceRe: Five Reasons Why Thinkers and Philosophers Struggle In Marriage by tobechi74(op): 1:24am On Dec 20, 2020
2)question these codes. Great thinkers have their own view of relationship . His idea of a perfect marriage is wierd.e.g non-monogamous marriage. Cohabitation without marriage. This could be illegal in some society. Others perceive marriage as a prison one should be free from.  Many thinkers priotise friendship over marriage.They can see beyond the illusion of happily ever after. They dislike the drama that comes with two strangers with different upbringing living under the same roof. He can see the flaws in each  woman the same way he sees flaws in the world. Scholars perfectionist nature makes him seek the ideal woman to marry. Unfortunately, such woman does not exist. He will not settle for less.
RomanceRe: Five Reasons Why Thinkers and Philosophers Struggle In Marriage by tobechi74(op): 1:23am On Dec 20, 2020
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Great thinkers are super introverted. They need time alone to think.He dislikes noise. Thinking involves great concentration on an issue His focus is on the subject on his head and not any lady. After spending time outside, he comes back home to reenergize in silence. Women on the other hand prefer to talk about her days activity. He would rather spend his time alone than listen to the endless tale of a woman. Rationalisation is the defense mechanism that helps him  cope with life stress. She will never be number one in his priorities.
RomanceFive Reasons Why Thinkers and Philosophers Struggle In Marriage by tobechi74(op):
History tells us that great thinkers whose thought changed the world never got married. Jesus of Nazareth whose philosophy gave birth to one of the most populous religions in the world abstained from marriage. Immanuel Kant never married. Isaac Newton remained single. John Stuart married very late . Few who married were involved in divorce cases. Did they take an oath of celibacy? Others got married but divorced along the line and yet another group had over one wife depending on the law of the land . The concept of monogamous marriage did not suit them.
FamilyRe: Can You Get Married To Someone Who Stays In Such An Apartment? by tobechi74: 1:13am On Dec 20, 2020
There are some girls that their family house is worse than this .
This house is like heaven for them.
Shoe get size
FamilyRe: Did I Do Anything Wrong ? by tobechi74: 1:11am On Dec 20, 2020
Yes. You were wrong to get married in the first place. You are not matured for marriage bringing little issue here and she is not matured enough to apologise.
Christianity EtcRe: What Is The Role Of Santa Claus In Christianity And Christmas? by tobechi74:
Entertainment.

We become do serious with Religion that we forget the fun part of it
I know man u fans who knows little about Liverpool players.
But in Religion, it is difficult for a Muslim to wear Santa clause uniform.
Difficult for Christian to eat Sallah meat

Religion stains whatever it touches. Religion has caused division among senior advocate of Nigeria. Ignoring the problem of religion in this country never manages to push the problem away. Ignoring the problem often compounds the problem until it grows into a mountain .

. An average Christian wishes  everyone is a Christian. An average Muslim wishes everyone becomes a Muslim. Each tries to project his desire to the other. Whenever a Muslim is in power, Christians fear he is on a mission to islamise the country.  Whenever a Christian becomes president, Muslims fear the same.This fear makes it difficult for them to cooperate amicably . Christian trust Christian leaders, Muslims trust Muslim leaders.


Our education system is fueling this saperation.  From primary school, children learn mathematics, English language, Basic science and other languages together. But when it comes to religious studies, Christians are divided from Muslims. This continues until the child finishes secondary school. The school saperates the children as kids and expect them to miraculously work together as adults.

The academia should develop a general religious knowledge curriculum. At an early age, children ought to be introduced to all form of religion outside the religion of their parents. A growing child should have basic knowledge of Christianity, Islam, African Traditional Religion, Buddhism etc.  Limiting him to one knowledge alone create a narrow mind and makes him difficult to tolerate and work with another Religion for which he never knew existed. When we delve into other belief, we become intrigued by the similarities. We become more accepting .


Christian should not wish everyone were a Christian. If everyone thinks alike, the world would be bored. God created us different for a reason . Muslim should wish every Christian develop a greater understanding and acceptance of Islam while remaining firmly within their own Religion.
https://tobechispeaks./2020/12/02/creating-your-own-religion/
Christianity EtcRe: To Those Without Religion, How Do You Deal With Depression, Adversity Etc. by tobechi74: 1:00am On Dec 20, 2020
Rationalisation
Christianity EtcRe: Did God Disappoint You? How Do You Feel? Share With Us Your Experience by tobechi74: 12:58am On Dec 20, 2020
Many people were disappointed this 2020. This led to anger.Anger flows in the land. The people are walking like a ticking time bomb waiting for any little fuel to ignite the internal flame. . The citizen stayed at home in an empty stomach to comply with the COVID-19 lock down order. The government wants her citizen safe from the virus. The citizen is threatened by hunger. A hungry man is an angry man. After the lock down, the organization laid off her workers. The hungry citizen are jobless. Anger is doubled. Officers of the Nigerian police force continued to be brutal. A joyful person could tolerate a certain percentage of pain. An angry person already feels pain. He seeks to eliminate the pain on the stomach and the pain of joblessness. He needs no physical pain from the local authorities. One little trigger was sufficient to ignite the pain he has been repressing. The youth protest began. It spread from police brutality to bad governance and then looting of warehouses.


Some Christians diverted their anger to God. They felt a sense of betrayal for not being protected from the massive job loss despite obeying all his commandment, rules and ritual. They felt used and dumped by the creator. Staying at home without going to church did not end their lives. So why bother going? A gradual loss of faith.

Others diverted their grievance to the clergy. Few church leaders launched an online platform for tithe collection. A hungry and jobless Christian threatened with eternal punishment for not paying tithe is the last thing an angry person expects from the religious leaders. Members expected the church to feed them the way Christ fed the five thousand. Their disappointment led them to swear not to go to that church again.

Anger like Joy, hunger, or sadness is neither good nor bad. It is an emotion to be felt. Anger can be a fuel for transforming one’s life. We need to be angry at our present circumstance before we can act to change them. Righteous anger is when we feel the pain of the oppressed and try to stop it. when we are angry, we feel it calmly to understand its source. Impatient anger could lead to violence or Hasty decision when we lash out instantly.


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RomanceRe: Mod please delete by tobechi74: 12:29am On Dec 20, 2020
The girl Invedted the money but doesn't want the guy to know so he told the colleague to pretend like he is the one.she may even give her money to pay to make it look legit.this is why she doesn't want any direct communication between both colleague and him . She assisted because it is her money that is involved
Now, she wants all her money back. Lost confidence in the investment

She is a wonderful friend.
RomanceRe: Redpill/alpha Male: You Are Not A Man But Male Version Of Nigerian Feminists by tobechi74: 12:24am On Dec 20, 2020
I love this .
Alpha male are dominant in other aspect. Of their lives.
Here, redpill teaches them to treat ladies ins particular way . They remain like nerds in other areas of life. You cannot hide it too long.

Ladies can tell the difference between a real Alpha male and an Alpha male in bed matters. She will see how you react amidst your fellow guy. That is the real you.
RomanceRe: Have U Ever Mistaken A Female 4 A Male Or A Male 4 A Female B4? by tobechi74: 12:19am On Dec 20, 2020
Ladies that don't have breast should avoid low cut. E get why
RomanceRe: Single Mums, Hold Your Head Up High. by tobechi74: 12:18am On Dec 20, 2020
Single women are courageous enough to admit their hidden act to the world.

Other women commit abortion, tighten Virgina, hide the deed from the world.

Single mothers are authentic, other abortionist are hypocrite.

I will rather marry a single woman than one who vomits abortion and hides it.
RomanceRe: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by tobechi74: 12:15am On Dec 20, 2020
I love the way you present this .evena 7 yr old will understand
PoliticsRe: The Minister Of Communication Is A Joke And Nobody Is Saying Anything by tobechi74: 12:08am On Dec 20, 2020
Any organization headed by an Alhaji. Expect slow work
PoliticsRe: See The Price Of Fuel In All Neighboring Nigerian Countries by tobechi74: 12:04am On Dec 20, 2020
Govt want to increase fuel to #560 so they pay online millitant to come here and give them a gentle landing.

When Jonathan said the same thing,we wanted to crucify him
RomanceRe: Can You Leave Your Phone Unlocked With Your Partner? by tobechi74: 11:48pm On Dec 19, 2020
As a rule, I do not password my phone
PoliticsRe: 2021 BUDGET:: Zamfara Govt To Spend N1bn On Mosques, Islamic Schools, Others by tobechi74: 11:46pm On Dec 19, 2020
Abdullah36:
What is #1b out of # 145b
Do you want the entire 145 million for Islamic school
PoliticsRe: 2021 BUDGET:: Zamfara Govt To Spend N1bn On Mosques, Islamic Schools, Others by tobechi74: 11:44pm On Dec 19, 2020
Which one is Islamic school again

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