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Christianity Etc › Three right and wrong reason why pastors leave former church and open a new one by tobechi74(op):
Every week , many  new churches apply  to the Cooperate Affair Commission (CAC) requesting to be registered. Many letters are rejected for repitition of names. A report by       reveals that the number of churches are over.       . Every founder claims the holy spirit  sent him to create a new church.  Surely, God cannot be the author of confusion. Some of these founders are personally motivated. How then can we differentiate the genuine God sent founders from  the self- sent ones . Three major ways of identifying self sent founders are


Fame : self sent founders love to be the center of attention. They would do anything to be popular .He hardly allows assistant pastor to preach cutting him off from members so he does not take outshine him. The little time he preaches,he must mention pastors name so many times so pastor does not feel jealous. Such pastor will empty the church finance to pay television station to show their service. They can pay actors to stage miracles to increase their popularity. They speak eloquently. . After Jesus healed a man, he said ” tell no one,”. His desire to eradicate the suffering of the man was Paramount not Fame Our glory searching pastors would announce a miracle before performing one. He would find it difficult to minister before a small group of listeners. Qualiity of members mattered more than quality.They can ordain any person a pastor as long as he can bring more members. Jesus would leave ninety nine in search of one lost sheep. Fame founders would leave one in search of ninety nine. He spends more time building his influence.Their mission is to build and their branches through each street . There is nothing wrong for one to desire to be famous but there is something wrong if one pursues Fame and recognition at the detriment of God’s word


Power: Some pastors leave their previous church over disagreement on certain issues. They wanted things to go a certain way. The senior pastor rejected and they angrily left to form their own church where they would be the one taking decision. These want to be in charge of every decision making process. They appoint the choir leader, welfare head,drama coordinator etc. They will tell the leader the song to sing . Whoever disagrees with him is removed and replaced with a O-Yes members who agrees to all he says .. Questioning them is the same as challenging their a ithority .


They hardly take correction.Criticise their action and they curse you and your generation. Insult them and get beaten .They are easily identified by their tendency to shout while preaching despite the numerous microphone and loudspeaker. They love to issue command..They are annoited and you are not and that makes them superior to you.They can be proud ,pumpous and boastful.. Their favorite Bible verses are Touch not my annoited and do my prophet no harm and The kingdom of God suffereth violence…….taketh it by force. The first verse prevents you from criticizing him while the later gives him licence to be violent.
Politics › Re: The Average Nigerian Voter Is A Fool – A Zombie! - Dr David Olufon. by tobechi74: 11:03pm On Sep 26, 2020
Made some sence
Politics › Re: "Put Your Energy In A Productive Activity" -Matawalle Stops Man Trekking For Him by tobechi74: 11:02pm On Sep 26, 2020
He has no job.
Politics › Re: Is Nigeria Secretly Funding Unrest In Ghana? by tobechi74: 11:01pm On Sep 26, 2020
What a wish
Politics › Re: Questions I Ask DSS Officer. by tobechi74: 11:00pm On Sep 26, 2020
Your right no dey constituction
Education › Re: Umahi Inspects Ebonyi State University College Of Medicine (Photos) by tobechi74: 10:59pm On Sep 26, 2020
Umahi for Pres
Christianity Etc › Re: Fisayo Soyombo: What Does A Country Do With All These Investigations? by tobechi74: 10:58pm On Sep 26, 2020
Are you Fisayoare you advertising yourself) do you want to contest election
Christianity Etc › Re: Could This Be The Way God Almighty Will Save Some People?? by tobechi74: 10:54pm On Sep 26, 2020
And let others die smh
Christianity Etc › Re: Will We Ever Feel Safe And Secure? What Does The Bible Have To Say? by tobechi74: 10:53pm On Sep 26, 2020
World governor is good. Cooperation. Do you want division
Christianity Etc › Re: What Does The Bible Say About Self Confidence by tobechi74: 10:51pm On Sep 26, 2020
Bible called it pride I guess
Christianity Etc › Re: Breaking: Please Circulate This News, This Is Happening In The Church by tobechi74: 10:50pm On Sep 26, 2020
Why didn't the pastor hold crusade in sokoto. Why dubai
Crime › Re: Court Martial: 4 Airforce Officers Sentenced To 21 Years Imprisonment by tobechi74:
AArmy.. navy,airforce. Kill for national safety


The image of a foetus

stabbing a helpless woman

keep playing on my head.

It was all my fault.

If not for me

She would be alive today

A choice had to be made

My life or hers

I lived she did not.

I took her life.

She gave me mine

If superstition were true

The circumstances surrounding ones birth

Gives a clue of his mission.

I took a life the day I was born

She died during child birth

Each time my birthday draws near

My soul is filled with guilt

Reminds me of my life purpose

I am born to kill

https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/10/born-to-kill/
Sports › Re: We Made 'clear Mistake' - Chelsea Boss Lampard After Come Back at WBA by tobechi74: 10:48pm On Sep 26, 2020
Taking responsibility
Foreign Affairs › Re: Breaking :Trump Nominates Amy Coney Barret To Supreme Court by tobechi74: 10:45pm On Sep 26, 2020
No abortion..no gay marriage
Celebrities › Re: Top 10 Most Beautiful Nigerian Actresses 2020 by tobechi74: 10:44pm On Sep 26, 2020
Where is bobrisky
Romance › Re: Nigerian Actress Said Her Husband Washes Her Pants With Assurance (video by tobechi74: 8:15pm On Sep 26, 2020
Ok
Romance › Re: After 15yrs Of Barreness Kidnappers Rape Ur Wife, Got Pregnant What Would U Do by tobechi74: 8:14pm On Sep 26, 2020
Rape is a sensitive message to ladies
Please do not use it carelessness lu. It brings back old memories
Romance › Re: Do Women Find Guys Bottocks Attractive Too? by tobechi74: 8:12pm On Sep 26, 2020
Women are attracted to words and touch.
Men are attracted by sight.
Romance › Re: It’s Hard To Forgive A Mother Who Encouraged Her Husband To Abuse Her Daughter by tobechi74: 8:11pm On Sep 26, 2020
Terryishere:
She hated the daughter because she hated the girl's father for marrying someone else.
Transfer anger fom girl father to girl
Romance › Re: Guys, avoid any lady that fits in this categories by tobechi74: 7:58pm On Sep 26, 2020
Each person is different and unique in his wants and desire. What one man want is what another man can do
Hates. We should not rate a girl based on her relationship taste. Marriage is not for everyone


What is so special in monogamous relationship? If monogamy is natural, why do we struggle at it? No one teaches fish how to swim? Why do we have books on how to avoid cheating? To answer this question,we look at what researchers revealed

Evolutionary scientist David Barish compared monogamy among various animals.

Only 9 percent of mammals practice monogamy

29 percent of primates are monogamous

Before westernisation, 86 percent of indigenous society are no monogamous

Overfamiliarisation with a partner kills a woman libido

30 percent of women have extra-marital affair despite being happy with their marriage.

The numbers are against monogamy. One advantage of monogamy over polygamy is the assurance of a mate for every male. No group of wealthy powerful men can marry off all the women leaving the non powerful men single.. AThe spread of Christianity could be be a dominant factor. Monogamy offers an exclusive sence of ownership each woman on the man rather than having to share him with other women.

Monogamy restricts each party from love and sex with another. Are these two not one of the sweetest feelings? Limited my experience of them should be seen as punnishnent and not something to jubilate to.

In casual friendship, my friend could have other friends beside me and I am cool with that. But in monogamy, It is me and me alone. Any attempt to share love and sex with another is considered cheating. A woman should only love one guy but she can share her love among her children equally. Why can’t she love six men equally? Is this not hypocrisy? It means the heart is capable of loving many but man Jealously choose to limit it to one. In some cases, we argue over what constitutes exclusive acts? Holding hands, seeing one another naked,sharing a bed, kissing etc.

Before we say monogamy is natural, think again.
https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/19/why-is-monogamy-considered-natural/
Crime › Re: Metromoney Ritual: Man Arrested With Fresh Human Parts In Ogun by tobechi74: 7:53pm On Sep 26, 2020
Born to kill
Crime › Re: Nigerian Soldiers & Civilian Who Wears Their Camouflage Crying For Help:video by tobechi74: 7:52pm On Sep 26, 2020
How fake or stage d
Crime › Re: Have You Ever Been Arrested For Crimes You Didn't Commit ? by tobechi74: 7:51pm On Sep 26, 2020
Sorry bro
Romance › Re: Igbo Man Is Proud Of His Wife Big Back Curve Shaking Like Generator:video by tobechi74: 7:49pm On Sep 26, 2020
Goof
Romance › Re: It’s Hard To Forgive A Mother Who Encouraged Her Husband To Abuse Her Daughter by tobechi74: 7:45pm On Sep 26, 2020
Women hate themselves
Romance › Re: Guys, avoid any lady that fits in this categories by tobechi74: 7:43pm On Sep 26, 2020
The wonderful ones nko
Romance › Re: Shocking: See What A Nigerian Found In His Girlfriend’s House When He Visited Un by tobechi74:
Society forces her to pretend to be a virgen to the man she wants to marry. But she stylishly had sex with whom she doesn't want to marry. We should let people express themselves without any judgement. If you want monogamy,be monogamous but do not imposd it o. Others. If u want polyamory, be polyga without doing it secretlu


What is so special in monogamous relationship? If monogamy is natural, why do we struggle at it? No one teaches fish how to swim? Why do we have books on how to avoid cheating? To answer this question,we look at what researchers revealed

Evolutionary scientist David Barish compared monogamy among various animals.

Only 9 percent of mammals practice monogamy

29 percent of primates are monogamous

Before westernisation, 86 percent of indigenous society are no monogamous

Overfamiliarisation with a partner kills a woman libido

30 percent of women have extra-marital affair despite being happy with their marriage.

The numbers are against monogamy. One advantage of monogamy over polygamy is the assurance of a mate for every male. No group of wealthy powerful men can marry off all the women leaving the non powerful men single.. AThe spread of Christianity could be be a dominant factor. Monogamy offers an exclusive sence of ownership each woman on the man rather than having to share him with other women.

Monogamy restricts each party from love and sex with another. Are these two not one of the sweetest feelings? Limited my experience of them should be seen as punnishnent and not something to jubilate to.

In casual friendship, my friend could have other friends beside me and I am cool with that. But in monogamy, It is me and me alone. Any attempt to share love and sex with another is considered cheating. A woman should only love one guy but she can share her love among her children equally. Why can’t she love six men equally? Is this not hypocrisy? It means the heart is capable of loving many but man Jealously choose to limit it to one. In some cases, we argue over what constitutes exclusive acts? Holding hands, seeing one another naked,sharing a bed, kissing etc.


https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/19/why-is-monogamy-considered-natural/
Christianity Etc › Re: Summary Of Humilism, The Religion Of Truth by tobechi74: 7:13pm On Sep 26, 2020
Humiliz waoooow
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor E A Adeboye Free Messages by tobechi74: 7:03pm On Sep 26, 2020
Paid for by tithe payrers
Christianity Etc › Re: WHOSE child is acting like this by tobechi74: 7:02pm On Sep 26, 2020
No one own a child. we are medium through which people come to this world.

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