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Very good

Trump does not think failure. He always thinks success

The same day JalC will be on strike

Akwaibom governor's always do well

Laycon will win this

was a shock to many Nigerians that a priest would mention the names of Big brother Naija house mates while preaching the sermon. Someone said “he should be preaching against it rather than talk about it. “

That means he used to watch it

Religion leaders are perceived as the Hallmark of Holiness and sex related crimes are regarded as the highest form of sin in Nigeria. For a person that is highly regarded as an icon of morals to be associated with immorality is a scandal. Let’s examine the underlying assumption

Big brother Nigeria is a reality show and not a porn show . BBnaija as it is fondly called is a live reality TV show like Ultimate search, where young men and women share a flat and are asked to work together. Psychologist have suggested that when persons come together to perform activities together, a bond is likely to develop. This bond can lead to love or lust and consequently sexual activities. This sexual activities make up a little percentage of the entire activities in the house. But because the average Nigerian is obsessed with sex, we often exaggerate a minute sexual act .To classify BBNAIJA as porn show because of a minute sexual act is like throwing away the baby with the bath water . There is no Hollywood script today without an erotic scene. The popular James bond movie showed traces of nudity .

We can learn life lessons

https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/07/so-a-priest-should-not-watch-a-reality-show/

South south governor's United. E remain south east

we try to evaluate the person in terms of our perception. We try to see what we share in common. The more similarly,the tendency to open ourselves more to friendship. We reserve a space  for those who share our family, language, ethnicity and expand it to those who share our hobbies,job, religion etc. This  common trait enable us build bridges beyond ourselves and those outside of us .

In the same way, when the dissimilarities are more, we create a barrier . We do not include them in our circle . We create imaginary wall. We hold our emotion so tight .

We are consciously or unconsciously connecting with people or saperating from them.The boss who isolates himself from the  workers treating them as  human machine  is building a wall of saperation . The master who offers a word of appreciation,, ask how the children are doing  builds bridges of connection. Every wall we build breeds a new wall . 

Whatever keeps us from reaching out to people is a wall. It could be sence of superiority, wall of selfishness, intolerance, group,fear etc

To curb this, we should see ourselves first as human and admit that the other is a living being like us. Developing closeness to the entire human. Seeing ourselves in terms of this group or that group obstructs us from a wider identity as human beings. We should refrain from getting so attached to our religion or group as that would blind us from seeing the value of another religion. We can take a cue from doctors and red Cross members who offer assistance to injured without inquiring about the patient group. Our motive should be universal compassion and desire to alleviate the suffering of others.

https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/07/of-walls-and-bridges/

But Akara na Igbo food na. Anyway,what do I know

There should be an evidence that compels police to think the accustomed want to commit crime

Very good

Perhaps he was invited to an occasion by Ndiigbo .this is commendable.bYpriba and Igbos can unite


we try to evaluate the person in terms of our perception. We try to see what we share in common. The more similarly,the tendency to open ourselves more to friendship. We reserve a space  for those who share our family, language, ethnicity and expand it to those who share our hobbies,job, religion etc. This  common trait enable us build bridges beyond ourselves and those outside of us .

In the same way, when the dissimilarities are more, we create a barrier . We do not include them in our circle . We create imaginary wall. We hold our emotion so tight .

We are consciously or unconsciously connecting with people or saperating from them.The boss who isolates himself from the  workers treating them as  human machine  is building a wall of saperation . The master who offers a word of appreciation,, ask how the children are doing  builds bridges of connection. Every wall we build breeds a new wall . 

Whatever keeps us from reaching out to people is a wall. It could be sence of superiority, wall of selfishness, intolerance, group,fear etc

To curb this, we should see ourselves first as human and admit that the other is a living being like us. Developing closeness to the entire human. Seeing ourselves in terms of this group or that group obstructs us from a wider identity as human beings. We should refrain from getting so attached to our religion or group as that would blind us from seeing the value of another religion. We can take a cue from doctors and red Cross members who offer assistance to injured without inquiring about the patient group. Our motive should be universal compassion and desire to alleviate the suffering of others.



https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/07/of-walls-and-bridges/

Duty to fish out those who speak ioo of Buhari and arrest then

He is build a bridge among yei country to d

Is this true

Igbochief001:
They had more quiz in BBN than sex scene ...infact 10 times more

But u chose what u want to see n remember ...are you a virgin ? Don't u have sex ?

USA , British and Canada all have big brother but
Are developed ....bbn is not our issue

Do u vote , who did u vote

tell him ooo

goodmorning40:
Erica and Kiddawawaya will go life on national TV romance and fuckery themselves throwing all our cultural, social, spiritual values to the mud and the youths hail and applaud them.

Imagine go fund me account for Erica the shameless girl running into millions of naira.
While hard working youths who need support wallow

We are promoting indecency and bad behavior

how is this related to yopic

I do not believe this

Sex has brought down many prominent people. Men be careful. Control your self

I discovered that Nigeria now manufacture helicopter brake. Congratulations

Buhari is better than Jonathan

Buhari is better than Jonathan

Love your neighborhood

Apc itself is a gang. To gang up against any group comes with consequences.

This millennium has witnessed the rise of many groups fighting against what is perceived as injustice. First was the Niger Delta  millitant . Then came the bokoharam and finally  the indigenous people of  Biafra.   Each group believe they are fighting a good cause. The millitant do not want their natural resources exploited and environment destroyed without compensation . The  bokoharam are against Eastern education while IPOB want independence. In a nutshell, one is environmental and financially motivated, other is educational and religiously motivated and the third is tribal and politically instigated.

Each group believe they are the victim . The other group is the aggressor.The use of threat of violence is also a common attribute of all group.  When we examine the world crises, we see a similar pattern. Adolph Hitler believed he was on a mission to eradicate the Jews from the map so as to make the world a better place.  Osama Binladen believes the United States are forces of evil bringing corruption and domination to the Islamic world.

Each group sees the other as evil and desire to make the world a better place by eradicating the evil . The main cause of violence is the desire to eradicate evil. Let us assume the other party is as evil as potrayed , Is punnishnent the best solutionl



https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/15/crusaders-fighting-for-a-cause/

Oshiomole was autocratc ouegun I'd democratic. One brought cooperation among various groups.the other brought division



https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/15/crusaders-fighting-for-a-cause/

Good. Cooperation

Nice letter

Before Tinibu promoteed you and became your Godfather. You obey him with hesitation don't you?

https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/09/how-not-to-obey-your-parents/

She will be strong and powerful like biblical samsom

U want stranger to give u help but u don't want to show them your face. Some people hate giving ghost

Fg should issue licence to people before they can get married