Romance › Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by Tobest94: 12:44pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
Samantha124: Is there a section within the Nigerian constitution that states that it's gross wickedness? madam too know, is there a section that supports this? |
Family › Re: Please Married Nairalanders, What Would You Do In This Situation? by Tobest94: 10:25pm On Apr 24, 2023 |
I know it’s nollywood sha but any day my wife lay her hands on my mom, I’ll beat her enter coma. Fir your information, I no Dey best woman but I can start that day sha |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Which Of These Jobs Should I Go For? by Tobest94: 11:21pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
Kubin: My brother any job that can't pay upto 500k.is determine to keep u poor and less than average,try save and start business, u gonna be reach forever,if you put the same energy and commitment ur putting in your current mfb job mumu, Mk person wey dey collect 48k try and save to start a business? Na pure water selling business or what? |
Family › Re: I Don't Want My Mother To Come For My Omugwo by Tobest94: 10:54pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: Sorry, but this sounds funny. Why does she make you drink hot water? Any reason? And why do you drink it?
When guests enter the pots and kitchens of Nigerian women they pick offense. They mark off their territory. My husband, my home, my kitchen, it's my rules, my this and that. At least that's the impression one gets from general posts here, so it's surprising you would want her to cook for you. Would you feel she were meddling in your marriage under other circumstances? Why don't you employ a certified person who can care for you since she's not ideal?
A lot of parents hate the child that takes the best care of them. It's a thing where they can turn round and accuse that child of all but murdering them. Nobody knows why.
Talk to your mother. You alone know why she's hated you. Maybe it's a misunderstanding. But it probably has something to do with your childhood and your father. Perhaps she hasn't gotten over not being loved by you as a child as much as you openly showed you loved your father. Find out from her. it’s normal to drink hot water post delivery so the injuries can heal after from inside tummy |
Family › Re: I Don't Want My Mother To Come For My Omugwo by Tobest94: 10:47pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
Rokiat: Even if the husband works he should take some time off work when his woman puts to bed to help her. you’re funny. You think a man has privileges to take time off work anyhow like woman? Your employer won’t take such excuses unless it’s your personal business |
Crime › Re: Policemen Who Flogged & Slapped Man In Emohua, Rivers Arrested by Tobest94: 10:37pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: I Finally Rented A Room After Years Of Suffering.thank God by Tobest94: 11:32am On Apr 07, 2023 |
Canniggia: Ah
Thank you oo I'm in Lagos.I don't have access to my mail i used in opening this account but this is my account number:7039786816 Palmpay
Thannk you very much.I appreciate I just sent too small thing via this info. I’m happy with your little success and I’m sure you’ll have your own mansion one day . |
Romance › Re: Why Do Men Hate Women Who Love Or Respect Men? Some Suggestions. by Tobest94: 11:24am On Apr 07, 2023 |
VeryKindHearted: The male gender use to astonish me.
Even before today, I use to wonder how I find myself sharing the same gender with men.
Just watch it, any woman that says anything positive about a man online, any woman who tries to defend a man, any woman who tries to show love/respect to a male, such woman would be tongue lashed and Insulted by the males online. They would call her ashawo, attention seeker, stupid woman, evil woman etc.
It's baffling. Infact, I swear if there's another world where I can run to which does not have the kind of men we have in this world, I would run to such a world.
I read in a book that most women are the way they are because they have come to the conclusion that men do not understand what love and respect is.
A woman who insult and hate men could even have more male attention and admiration than a woman who loves and respects men.
That's why at the end of the day, every woman ends up offering nothing except sex, because she has seen that love, respect, gifts or money cannot win most men.
God will surely help the few men who groan and weep for the evil brought to this world by the male gender.
Although someone suggested that so many profile with the male gender tag are actually women out to discredit any show of respect and love towards the male gender.
They make it appear as if men hate any women who tries to love and respect them.
Because if a woman loves a man more than a woman or if she supports a man against a woman, most women will not like it. So they hide under the male moniker to insult the woman. It's like saying: You see men whom you are defending/respecting/loving are not worth being defended/respected/loved. They are even abusing you for showing them respect or love.
Even at that, I know so many men who hate women who respect or love them.
That's why someone said that if a woman wants to fight another woman, she would use a man.
For example, a woman came and said something good about men.
Another woman doesn't like it, so she uses the power of her mind to make men attack the woman. I think every woman has some subtle part which enables her to control men's minds and use them to her advantage.
That's why men behave the way they do. you can always run to hell |
Romance › Re: Nice Looking Female Caregiver Needed by Tobest94: 11:09am On Apr 07, 2023 |
Berrityga: All the female members of your family are they not good looking?? does any member of his family fit the description he put up? Why una Dey read without sense to comprehend? |
Food › Re: Picture Of A $25.75 Rice That I Bought In Chicago US by Tobest94: 7:03am On Apr 07, 2023 |
irumole1975: May you met untimely death for saying things like this to someone u don't know I wish your whole family what you wish me |
Travel › Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by Tobest94: 5:20am On Apr 02, 2023 |
1Sharon: You messed by getting rude to her. Now she'll cling onto that and use it as an excuse to not refund your deposit.
If there's a way to leave a review do that.
Edit. Here's the logic behind my comment:
Have you ever watched crime documentaries before? Even detectives know not to get rude to rape and murder suspects at the start. In interviews they ease them into it. And they eventually snitch and implicate themselves. They pretend to be their friend and make them comfortable to open up.
Same concept here. Same concept with kidnappers and their victims. Complementing and pretending to befriend your attacker helps keep you alive.
Being rude to that thief of a landlady is understandable. But it's just gonna give her an avenue to refuse refunding him.
I know it's hard to understand because nigerians are easily led their instincts and emotions. very funny girl. Because he’s rude doesn’t change the fact that she must refund him |
Politics › Re: Court Awards ₦30M Against Marianne Ahmadu Ali For Locking Up Aide In Dog Cage by Tobest94: 4:58am On Apr 02, 2023 |
nedekid: Jail? Don't think the lady is interested in seeking jail term for her madam after such cash out, besides that is not listed in her statement of claim. I think jail term is in criminal prosecution by police. This one seems to be civil. the lawyer should have filed for battery and false imprisonment |
Politics › Re: Court Awards ₦30M Against Marianne Ahmadu Ali For Locking Up Aide In Dog Cage by Tobest94: 4:49am On Apr 02, 2023 |
ganisucks: You think it is easy to cook, clean, take care of the children, watch your husband perambulate with his male appendage to and fro, take condescending insults from male staff and people around, keep the house steady, and after all that still keep your sanity.
You should try be a woman for a week, and see if you wouldn't want to lock someone in a dog cage too. do you even have sense at all? Are you justifying her barbaric act or what |
Crime › Re: Begging For Sex Is Rape - Nigerian Lady Argues (photos) by Tobest94: 4:28am On Apr 02, 2023 |
When you ask your boyfriend for money and he says he doesn’t have and you begged him to give you is what too? |
Crime › Re: Ogun Landlord Dies After Tenant Grabbed Manhood Over Bill Disagreement by Tobest94: 4:15pm On Mar 14, 2023 |
Jennyclay: She might be innocent. Nobody knows what really transpired.
Who knows maybe it's was a self defense.
Most of these landlords are fond of harassing and fighting their tenant over little amount.
Maybe during the scuffle, the landlord almost took her life reason she have to defend herself.
It's not her fault!! Let her get a good lawyer. Follow her to court to testify na.. shebi you wise pass the culprit after she already confessed to dpo, na you wan prove self defense |
Politics › Re: Emefiele Denies Plotting Against Tinubu by Tobest94: 5:48pm On Mar 13, 2023 |
CBN doesn’t do politics but CBN Governor bought APC primary form while still heading CBN. Just dey mumu una selves |
Romance › Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Tobest94: 4:47am On Mar 12, 2023 |
EriMma1: No no no... You tell me?
A man who cannot meet your needs should not be anywhere around you because he'll only be a stumbling block to your progress and cause you to miss out on great opportunities that would have come your way through those who understand the assignment. Don't ever let such men around you.
I've never been an advocate for starting small with a man after my past experiences even before the economy got this bad not to talk of now that it has plunged deep into meltdown.
A lot of ladies who went into such mess in the early 2000s are still carrying the family till today while the men are struggling to meet up with no headways or hopes in sight. This takes me to the next point.
As a single man still struggling, don't ever brainwash or be brainwashed by any girl to go into marriage and manage with you until things get better. Y'all have seen that e go better has become the prayer of a poor man. So run away from such trap. Make it to a reasonable level first before going for a woman.
I don't want to begin to go into details of the eventualities that may likely occur and become very grave due to inability to tackle them financially. Use your tongue to count your teeth.
I remember a long time ago when I was dating one struggling guy. The aunty asked him a very good question I'll never forget in my life and that taught me a lesson I've been applying in life's situations.
He invited me to come spend the weekend with him that the aunt was around so I could feel relaxed. When I got there and the aunty saw me, she called him aside and asked him the following. You know we are struggling to eat in this house. Your salary is not enough and you brought in a young girl. What if there's an emergency in the course of her stay, what will you do? How will you go about it? When he told me, I became scared and thought the aunt was right. I now remembered one certain time I visited a friend. So that night we strolled out to buy suya. I don't know if it was from the suya paper or the unhygienic environment it was prepared that gave me food poison. That night, I didn't know where I was. Serious stomach cramps and I was just coiling up in the room that day holding my stomach. Again this lawyer guy no get shishi to even take me to the nearest clinic. In his confusion he gave me garlic to chew. That seemed to help a little but omor, I broke up with him.
So, with this few points of mine, I believe iv been able to convince and not confuse you on the need to stay away from a man that cannot cater for your needs.
If you attack me, it shows you're a struggling guy or dating a struggling guy. Una eyes go soon clear. My own don clear tey tey.
Enjoy. you should ask your mom why she stayed with your dad despite his financial shortcomings |
Family › Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Tobest94: 4:37am On Mar 12, 2023 |
He can endure anything. No food, he will lay down there till there's food. Once there's raw food, he will go to kitchen and prepare and eat, but he can never buy them. He know no matter what, I will buy few things in the house to avoid going to buy little little food items from neighbouring shops. No close up, bathing soap, cream, everything, he will endure, till I replace them. He's really annoying. money don finish now your husband don become annoying.. ok o. Woman, seat him down and ask him to tell you his plans. Tell him you know he has plans and you want to hear them. You’ve right to know your spouse’s plan as regarding the family |
Romance › Re: Lady Left Heartbroken Seeing Her Once Wealthy Friend Working As A Bus Driver by Tobest94: 1:29pm On Mar 07, 2023 |
AbdulMagaji: Bitcoin loss I never even recover my own loss.. I just dey face am anyhow |
Food › Re: Picture Of A $25.75 Rice That I Bought In Chicago US by Tobest94: 3:12pm On Mar 03, 2023 |
irumole1975: May you met untimely death for saying things like this to someone u don't know your family go die untimely not me |
Food › Re: Picture Of A $25.75 Rice That I Bought In Chicago US by Tobest94: 6:50am On Mar 03, 2023 |
irumole1975: Now you can see how you're stupid right? $300 for goat, that money will buy two cows in Nigeria. But then you chose to compare $300 can not even buy just one big cow.. do you think a cow cost less than 300k unless a small one? |
Food › Re: Picture Of A $25.75 Rice That I Bought In Chicago US by Tobest94: 6:24am On Mar 03, 2023 |
If e sure for you post your receipt. I wonder what’s your gain in lying to others so they can feel it’s not easy abroad. May they deport you soon if you just lied about the price of your food |
Food › Re: Picture Of A $25.75 Rice That I Bought In Chicago US by Tobest94: 6:22am On Mar 03, 2023 |
1stGenAmerican: First, you posted only a small container of rice then said $25.75 for only rice in both the title and the post. When challenged, you switched it to rice and a little bit of sauce. Now, it’s rice and potatoes. Goodnight Sir. don’t mind that bloody ass liar. A petty liar trying to make it seems hard to survive abroad because we’re in Nigeria |
Sports › Re: I'm Being Undervalued Because I'm A Nigerian- Dozy Mmuobosi Cries Over Sheffield by Tobest94: 7:48am On Feb 22, 2023 |
KosiGee: If I was in his place or had his money and passion for sports, a BIG yes, I’d invest in Enugu Rangers. I’ll build the club up like no person or corporate organisation has ever done in Nigeria. I’ll run it like a sports club instead just football.
As badly managed as most football clubs are in Nigeria, if some of them are set up and managed properly, they’d be making profits and lots of it from marketing shirts, souvenirs etc. A club like Rangers of Enugu or Shooting stars of Ibadan would make money from their shops alone...Classic IICC shooting stars Shirts or Old Rangers shirts, the types won by legends like Segun Odegbami, Ogedengbe, Christian Chukwu, Okala brothers would sell like hot cakes, I’m a collector and I’d spend some good money to buy old Rangers shirts and there are lots of people like me who would spend money to do just that. Under Jim Nwobodo, Rangers had a games village at Awgu. It was well built back in the day and well managed.
I’d replicate Orji Uzor Kalu’s Enyimba and I’m sure I’ll be rewarded being involved with the club. The club will attract talents from all over Africa to start with and local talents would flourish, the academy would supply the national age group teams who would graduate to the Super Eagles. I’d start a female team as well....As talented as South East women are in sports, Enugu has no female team. long and unnecessary epistles!! No rational investor will invest in npl clubs currently due to insecurity. Sports need security to survive |
Sports › Re: I'm Being Undervalued Because I'm A Nigerian- Dozy Mmuobosi Cries Over Sheffield by Tobest94: 7:00pm On Feb 21, 2023 |
cunny88: He should invest his Nigeria. The British has to make rules which suit there citizens more. He shouldn't expect equal treatment if na you get that kind money you go like invest in Nigeria club? Una go just dey dish out advices you can never take |
Crime › Re: Okada Ban: "Police Are Exploiting Us" - Lagos Residents Lament by Tobest94: 10:19am On Feb 15, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: All Eyes On Supreme Court As Suit Against Banning Old Naira Notes Resumes Today by Tobest94: 10:07am On Feb 15, 2023 |
blazesam: Am not bothered. CBN has it right to decide when and what is to be issued as legal tender and when to remove it from the economy.
Supreme court has no rights of telling CBN what to do in terms of currency.
Those supporting this are fools. We have been gradually goin through the process and becoming use to it. Do you even know that CBN should not make any decision without carrying ministry of finance ahead? Do you know that CBN is just like Naicom, it’s just a department heading monetary policy and can be challenged? You need to read more before talking
Another thing people fail to understand about this regime is the man called Buhari, his decisions before coming in public are irreversible. Look at border closure on rice, Bvas and some other crucial things. This policy has come to stay. If you like die, the short term suffering can not be more than the long term enjoyment this will bring in the future.
Remember what CBN brought up yesterday |
Properties › Re: Prepaid Meter: How Do I Handle This With My Landlord? by Tobest94: 5:46pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
I can’t blame your landlord. It’s a theft strategy by your electricity distribution company. I applied for one myself only for me to discover it came with a lot of debt. I vented anger on their manager but at last I was asked to be paying periodically till I offset everything. My question is how can new bill come with so much debt ? |
Properties › Re: How ‘yahoo Boys’ Influence Skyrocketing Rent In Cities by Tobest94: 7:29am On Feb 06, 2023 |
Bag of normal cement is now 4700 from 2500, other building materials have gone up in prices . Is it yahoo boy that caused this increase too? Abi how come no one is talking about Cost of building and maintenance |
Family › Re: I Am Depressed by Tobest94: 12:19am On Jan 15, 2023 |
Bros make we no lie you bleeped up. Those words are too heavy. You’re directly telling her she’s the reason you’ve not been progressive in life, that kind words can make someone commit suicide self . Just try persuade her for another chance because clearly, you’re the one at fault |
Family › Re: Every Woman Needs A Husband Like This (photo) by Tobest94: 11:44pm On Jan 14, 2023 |
siofra: God! I love this man so much for this. He's one of the last brave ones we still have in this world.
He knows what true love is and I respect that.
Such a supportive man. God bless you, sir.
Modified;
It seems my post is annoying some people, well, they can die for all I care.
I see topics all the time on front page telling a woman not to leave her husband just because he cheated on her.
But here I am praising a man for being brave enough not to divorce his wife for cheating and they are coming for me like I'm the devil?
Fūck all of you insulting me, what's good for the goose, is good for the gander.  ok your son will be this kin of good man when he gets married. |
Romance › Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by Tobest94: 9:21am On Dec 01, 2022 |
Another beggar spotted. Why be say some girls beg pass Fulani children |