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Deltafynest:
I have been dating this girl for more than a year now. We have been committed even with travails here and there sometimes.

I'm a student, she also and she's an orphan. My intention boarded on the idea that she would understand me knowing fully well where i was coming from.

Every week, i began to discover new stuffs mostly on the ground that she has slept with all categories of people in the past including cripple, pastor, someone she's older than, and even her uncle, her former boss too and her boss's brother. Even with all these revelation i was still willing to stay with her. There are secret stuffs that i can't share online about her.


Her ex boyfriend has been a bone in the neck since the start of this relationship. He didn't want to let go so i learnt and the girl has expressed total hatred on the guy. She doesn't even want to hear his name at all.

So she recently travelled and was calling me. One day, she called me that she has something to say, she said she would come to town to tell and because of the intrigue i was able to get her to talk on the phone. She said she has slept with the ex boyfriend since we started the relationship.

Now the main thing is, a pastor once told me that my gf's glory was used for rituals which we suspected the dude being that they dated for over 9 years plus and she was certain it was the guy due to some factors which i can't say.

Things hasn't been easy whenever she is around me mostly when she spends time in my house. Things will just go bad and terrible, doors will just close...

So, when she told me about the guy. She said she did it because she was looking for 20k. I was angry because the period she said she took the money, i remember i had $4500 sent to me and she never asked me for any money.

The matter has been on ground and i have been so pained since cos i know she must have done it with someone else too.

So i travelled to Portharcourt to see her today from Warri even though i was short on cash and had to raise the money to see her. On getting there we trashed the matter out and her sister said i should forget the past so that we can move on. I agreed, i was already getting tired of her shenanigans, so i decided not to be used by this id#ot again. The bit*h even mentioned that the guy has been disturbing her life with calls to come back.

I took the guy's number and called him like a guy man. We have actually related in the past before so we needed no too much introduction. The guy said they are not dating but he is only having time with her and that she would call him to ask for money almost all the time. This girl never told me she was looking for money and i refused. I have always tried my best for her.

After talking, i and the guy agreed to just use her. The guy said i should not take her serious and should just enjoy myself with her. That whenever she go back to town i should call him to take over from that side. So i agreed.

Bit*h will be shocked if she thinks i will take her serious. We will just useless her for years and waste her time. If you see the way we agreed to use her ehn, you will know the hatred is real.


Don't trust these girls.

You sleep with a babe wey dem don use then it means you are also been used.

And one Maryjane001 wrote that the value of a lady is not tied to sexuality in anyway.

If she has a son let him marry this lady that is so reckless to the point that she even confirmed that she has been used. Goddemit!

JESHAL:
A man can never be held to the same standard as a promiscuous woman, women just exist and get sexual access, it's unfair and unjust to judge one gender when majority can't get it, as an individual a woman's intelligence, degree, career and income is ok for her but when it comes to the inter-gender dynamics between men and women from a relationship point of view men don't care about any of that especially men of her caliber,as women typically don't date downwards they want their equals or superiors for relationship , these men want youth, beauty, fertility,chasity and feminity,


And yes I will train my daughter to be a feminine woman that would attract an high valued man and aid him in his mission like Mrs Oyedepo, Mrs Adeboye, Mrs Osinbajo

You even have time explaining to her for making the lamest post ever...equating sexual chastity of a man as equal to a woman.

Very lame. God forbid I teach my daughter what she postulated.

Maryjane001:
That only works in your family bruv. Maybe you can tell your mother and sisters that their value depends on their sexuality.
By the way, as for your married sisters and cousins especially the ones past bearing age, that means their value should have gone so low according to your ratings....lol

I will be very stupid to drag this with you.

Maryjane001:
The value of a woman does not depend on her sexuality. I hope u don't teach your girl-child this shit.
If a woman and a man are promiscuous, they commit the same sin and should be judged accordingly. Not hailing one and thrashing the other.

The dumbest post I have seen in a long time.

Keep justifying nonsense. Can you imagine what you just wrote?

THE VALUE OF A WOMAN IS LARGELY DEPENDENT ON HER SEXUALITY as well as other things.

Stop justifying rubbish.

Omicron007:
I have heard about Body Counts before but I did not think it was that serious until I met one girl recently.
She wanted something serious between us but she said she can't date me unless my Body Count is less than 5.

For some who haven't come across the term before.
Simply put, body count is the number of people you have had sex with. It does not matter how intimate the make out was, or how much stuff you have done with someone, if there hasn't been penetration, it does not count as sex in this context.

Body count here refers only to the number of people you have had penetrative sex with.

So my question is this.
Is it necessary to know your partner's body count?
Do you know your Body Count?

What is her own body count?

Only a virgin has the right to ask such question.

WriterNig:
World's richest man, Elon Musk and girlfriend Grimes have reportedly broken up.

In a statement to Page Six, Elon said, “We are semi-separated but still love each other, see each other frequently and are on great terms"

“It’s mostly that my work at SpaceX and Tesla requires me to be primarily in Texas or traveling overseas and her work is primarily in LA. She’s staying with me now and Baby X is in the adjacent room,” he continued.

The artist and the billionaire were together for three years after Elon slid into Grimes' DMs, apparently over their shared sense of humor about AI. The two have sparked breakup rumors before, based on their repeated unfollowing of each other.

Of course, the pair welcomed their first child together, X Æ A-Xii Musk, earlier last year. It seems like Elon is in the background of Grimes' most recent TikTok video, where she's trying to get X to call her "mama" after she revealed he calls her by her real name, "Claire."

I'm Africa we practise polygany where we still keep the lady in our lives and also be with another but in the west they will prefer to breakup and then start with a new partner just to break up again and start with another person and the circle never ends until they get old and lonely.

E don red for Nigeria.

Chai!

thrillionaire:
There's underaged porn mr. Na you gotta update your knowledge.

You scare me to the marrow to even reiterate this.

Please let it slide.

RALPHOW:
Almighty God will bless this wonderful Dad.
You are an hero!!
All those useless Paedophile deserves such type of death.
The case must be dismissed.

Nobody has the right to take the life of another person especially if the crime committed has nothing to do with killing someone.

Let's be guided please before it becomes the norm and they start killing even innocent people under the guise.

Buildingplug:
A 6 year old girl? HOW DID WE GET HERE?!!
Pornography is deadly. If you're addicted, seek help FAST

How is this related to pornography?

Is there any porn that shows underage sex?

I'm not saying porn is cool but your allegory no make any sense.

The diseased is an animal. Period

Decentdave:
The guy is saying the truth from an intelligent angle
Most commenter here won't understand because they are OND holder

No because they are so daft that they only read headlines before making comments.

To read and comprehend is like a curse to them.

ijustdey:
https://punchng.com/forex-average-nigerian-can-feed-with-n500-naira-still-strong-cibn-ex-president/

Very true but what is the value of a currency that is strong locally but weak internationally?

salt1:
Isn't he too short?
Not hating but Ebuka beats him hands down

He is short though but very cute.

Celebrityblog:
Source: https://www..com/2021/09/my-experience-as-mr-ideal-nigeria-2020.html

Fine boy.

Nah so me sef fine at his age sotey I won most handsome corper in my camp then and I refused contesting for Mr Campus.

Ladies no allow me rest chai!

Iyaebe:
Enjoy your life dear,you dodged a bullet with these young men

Serious dodging.

Decentdave:
Nigeria still carry this wickedness go abroad

Chai
Beware of Nigerians Abroad .if u see any Nigerian Abroad suspect before u greet

Lame!

Was he killed by a Nigerian?

NwekeUG:
Reno Omokri has stated that God will not save Nigeria unless Nigerians come together to save the country, IgbereTV reports.

In a post shared on his Instagram handle, Reno stated that Nigerians are ready to sleep in churches for prayers but are not willing to sleep in polling units during elections. He also stated that Nigerians are willing to cast their votes during BBNaija but refuse to do the same during an actual election.

His post reads


https://www.instagram.com/p/CUFeXfTsIof/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Coming from Reno makes me wonder if he is thinking smart.

ELECTIONS DON'T COUNT IN NIGERIA.

Until we have a viable and transparent electoral process he should just forget this crinkum crankum

wanderingsoup:
Who get answer to this kweshion

In Nigeria, a man considers the right lady as the one with the type of sweet body he desires.

For the lady the right man is the one that is financially stable first before any other quality.

Argue with your keyboard.

Nnemuka:
I am earnestly praying they field a northerner
That way, this restructuring and separation will come swiftly.

Nigeria shouldn't have been!

Walahi

AutoChick4U:
Most times those who love me genuinely, I don't love and the ones I love don't love me back genuinely. Wo life no balance las las, if I see d one that loves me genuinely, I go manage.

Nah to manage sure pass.

SimplyFacts:
Go for whosoever appreciates you genuinely.

This one no be my type, that one no be my type,,,, na im make Pocohantas settle for an ancestor las las.

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InvestorO:
Poverty ya were gaan and the fact that shame and ego no fit let me ask people for help & favours

Who person wan even ask for help these days when everybody eye dey red.

Even Dangote sef dey owe money.

constance500:
Why is "TYPE" so much in this post

That is the message in the thread.

Hunger

Barcelona2021:
I replied your mail

Check your mail

Ikillbrokehoes:
I remember vividly how i lost alot of money back then in a joint business, I was so depressed, I couldn't tell my parents what transpired, infact I didn't talk to anyone but commiting suicide didn't cross my mind because I knew that I still have alot to achieve despite the predicaments I was facing, fast forward to now I've made alot of millions for myself and living my best life.

no matter what you are facing suicide should never be an option for you, some people might even be facing worst than what you are facing and they are still hoping for better days.

The OP should just ask GOD for forgiveness.

I have seen people carrying their hearts about in a bag as in their heart.

Bellotelli:
In other words, stay with someone that loves and appreciate you more.

Gbam| And you go experience unequivocal marital bliss.

Wettin be the use if you are with your type wey dey do like sey e dey do you favour by being with you?

Lilsameey:
,..Go baff abeg,..this thread to dey smell ,..no forget to brush oo.

LOL| It is so amazing how effortlessly you do the things you love doing.

Woke up, this funny thread came to my mind and it was no issue for me to quickly drop it.

Playloaded:
My Husband Wants To Marry His Side Chic After I Reported Her To Her Husband – Woman Laments, Seeks Advice

A woman has sought advise from the public on how to find a solution for the problem currently bedeviling her marriage.

She revealed that her husband wants to marry his side chic who was recently chased out of her home by her husband after he uncovered her infidelity.

Sharing her story with a relationship counselor on Instagram, she distraught woman revealed that she had gone through her husband’s chat and messaged his side chic, who was also married.

She then contacted the side chic’s husband and gave him proof that his wife was unfaithful. .

The narrator said that her husband then came home and said his side chic’s husband sent her packing, and if they don’t reconcile, he would have to take her as his wife.

Read her write-up


https://playloaded.com.ng/my-husband-wants-to-marry-his-side-chic-after-i-reported-her-to-her-husband/

I honestly don't understand how some men will find it cool dating a married woman. This is satanic and all shades of terrible.

Adultery is a grave sin and incase many do not know, GOD personally wrote with his hands talking about the 6th commandment if im right...''Thou shall not commit adultery'' Now wait for this...

He had to reiterate again talking about the 9th commandment ''Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's wife''

Adultery is a serious sin capable of destroying the life of the people involved. LET PEOPLE'S WIVES BE BIKO. Any man who wants to be unfortunate in lives should desire how much more sleep with another man's wife.

The irony of attraction is so intriguing and a mystery at the same time.

You come across someone who sees you as the type h/she will love to be with but you say the person is not your type...then you start looking for your type upandan and when you eventually find your type, you get to realize that you are not the type of your type. No be juju be dat

This is the situation many find themselves but the heart wants what it wants so the never ending crazy circle goes on and on. And this is also the reason why many people especially ladies remain single for a very long time cos their case is even more complicated. In most cases, a lady will see her type of guy yet will only wish, hope or pray he approaches them and when a random guy who is not their type approach them, nah wahala.

One thing i know for sure is that only very few people come across their type who also see them as the type they desire and many marriages out there are combos of someone marrying another who is not really the type they desire so i strongly believe that it is better to accept the person who sees you as his or her type and configure your mind-set to see such as your type than to be with your type who is trying to configure his or her mind to see you as their type .

Am i even making sense this early morning? Abeg make i go baff commot.

mamagee3:
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You will always look unattractive to certain people while some will see you and say WOW| Nobody is ugly and nobody is too attractive, it all depends on individual's spec.