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Lamanii22:
I didn't sleep with of them.... Oh so anyone you sleep with, you've been married to them automatically or spiritually or what

Spiritually, physically, emotionally, mentally and everythincally

Lamanii22:
One out of those four oooo.... And it's the last one... Should have been the first but I never trusted him as he was in uni, a private uni, I was still battling jamb then... I loved him but I was guarding my heart...

I talk am!

They will always narrow down the body count to just one or two so what happened to the first 3?

Just oral sx. I know I be agbaya but make i talk my mind..

Lamanii22:
Looool... After the first, I kept giving love another chance
..

This is the problem with ladies...

Several sexual partners in the past and then they can't help comparing sizes of dks and how good they are in bed with any new guy they meet.

See babe incase you don't know, sex is marriage so if you slept with all of them then just know you have been married to 4 men.

I'm not judging you o... Just stating the obvious.

Lamanii22:
Heeey guys! So how many persons have you dated or kissed in your entire life(s)...….


Me: thinking �.... Four I think.... I planned on just dating and getting married to one poo but life happened... I thank God I found the one though... Wished he was the one I met from the beginning sef....


Y'all be honest!

Many ladies will lie.

E no dey ever pass 3 and nah only one dem sleep with.

Daughters of lie Muhammed

Tolerance and forgiving recklessly.

asunmoGGMU:
You're very right. I don't even understand how most give their submissions here. They just give some people unnecessary pressure and give them low self-esteem. People collecting 50k salary are even getting married and they are doing very fine. We've students into business nowadays. The potential wife can be supportive. It's all about plan. If you look at it well, it is those that don't even know what it takes to pull money together that say these things the most.

Very true.

Most of these male nairalanders are still under the tutelage of their parents and still collecting money from them.

The way they make comments here is so worrisome.

Snitch24:
The beginning of your problem bro
Ur earning below 70k and you still want to settle down with person wey wan do sici
What you need is a better paying job bro
I just hope you're ready for the consiquences of the actions you're about taking

Why are you people reasoning from your anuses?

Or is it not the same naija that getting even a 50k job is a miracle.

Please you guys should stop this lopsided reasoning.

A guy can start a family with 50k a month if he has a supportive wife, they only have to live within their earnings and if possible delay having kids but they can start a life together.

APCNig:
Wretched lazy youth wants to get married with 70,000 salary. You want to start breeding like the Northerners and turn your kids to Almajaris. God will not gree.

You are not ready for marriage, your dicck just dey hard, so you dey look for who to fuccck everyday without hinderance.

You are not making any sense.

Wealth is progressive and a 70k earner today could earn 700k tomorrow and the fact that you earn 1M a month today does not mean you can't be jobless tomorrow

If the lady is supportive I believe they can build a life together.

Stop reasoning like a toddler.

Kadejo:
I meet this lady during COVID-19 pandemic period which was last year May 2020. She is still a student in a reputable University here in Nigeria, 300Level to be precise. She is 25years old.
She has insisted that until she finishes her school, gone for service and do what ladies call "Sisi" for at least another one year, she won't get married. That will be about 4years to this time.

I am in my mid 30s already, working class, earn below #70k per month, also into IT business, willing to get married now because I feel lonely, also need to build a family of my own before I turn 40yrs.

This lady in question appears to show me love, that's to her own way, my orientation is a bit different, I love her too anyways.

But would you advice I wait for her till she is done with all she has said or should I leave her and look for someone else to get married to?

Please, no insult, advice needed from experienced person.

Thank you.

She is not sure she wants to spend her life with you. Be guided.

A lady of 25years will run to the alter with a man she truly desires.

The sad truth is that everybody will die at a point but taking the jab still remains a matter of choice.

Vaccines efficacy does not end in preventing an infection but it is also about the long term tolerance in the body and that is the issue with the vaccines.

The recipients are used to test the king term tolerance since it is a new vaccine and has not stood the test of time.

So please take the vaccine of you want to but it remains a matter of choice and no one should be coarse or compelled to take it.

micko93:
I'll be Taking a 72hours Break Off Instagram"- Tonto Dikeh


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vKH7wbYYCYI

Funny enough I just love this lady.

arcahmad:
Fasto yemi osinbajo and Babagana Zulum as vc are the best candidates for 2023, they have human feelings. Osinbajo will be the best president ever made before in Nigeria. God knows best.

Behold the Chosen ones.

GOD will incapacitate some people so that Osinbajo can prevail

The greatest footballer ever

Zuchey91:
I need matured inputs please.

I am a married woman, with a child.

My Marriage has been really rocky. Quarrels every now and then.

What basically causes the problems is our differences, we just don’t understand each other, it wasn’t so visible during dating.

Although we did not date for long....but being married, it has been from one issue to the other, right from a week after our wedding.

I have always contemplated leaving, but I am yet to be fully independent.

Sometime this year, I found out he has been cheating (I was not surprised, but I was heart-broken) my discovery strengthened my resolve to leave the union.

In the process of nursing my heartbreak, I reconnected with an ex, we got talking and he helped my heal. I did not tell him what I was going through at the time...I was just enjoying the attention he was showing me.

I should state that I did not tell my husband about his cheating, I held all the emotions back, it was a very difficult period for me because I am usually the outspoken type.

My ex is not based in the country where me and my husband reside, we just communicate on phone, he says he misses me and would want us to meet when he is in town.

I should also state that my ex was married but divorced.

I would not deny my having feelings for my ex, and I also do not want to believe in a fairytale ending, I am just confused.

You never loved your present hubby.

Cheating is no excuse cos your ex will also most definitely cheat on you. And mind you, it has always been on your mind to have extra marital affair regardless of your hubby cheating on you cos nobody can make you do what you are not capable of.

Don't disturb our space, do whatever pleases you. Cheers

lawkenoz:
Bro you are very on point....take it from someone talking from experience....it's emotionally draining and damn complicated to date them. The majority who have tried have the same story that's evidence enough by itself.

You scenario was exactly my experience, she hid the kids existence from me cuz we were in separate countries. I only got to find out months later after we got serious. When asked of the kids father you can guess the response she gave....same line you
Typed in the original post.....this women never disappoint like clockwork!

I said okay not bad, lemme try getting to know the kid and make it work. I live in the same country with her parents so her mom brought the kid over and I went visiting to get to know the parents and my prospective step child. Everything went well, I loved the kid even discussed a formal adoption for the child after the nuptials since the father in her words abandoned it.

Few months to the engagement and set date for return to naija to conclude the traditional rites, Babe went AWOL. Stopped picking my calls, her parents as well. There was no way I could reach her, plus I couldn't just travel to her location due to I
Being in a different continent and my job demand.

To Cut the long story short, I had a friend who stays I. The same country to help me check up on them, turns out baby daddy showed up, somehow they made up and had a short lived rekindled love affair. I was seriously vexed but what could a brother do. Madam just ghosted me. I had to let it go ultimately.

Now here comes the interesting part, the baby daddy knocked her up with twins and vanishes again. 3 months to her EDD and 4 to my wedding she calls me up out of the blue and starts pontificating. Sounds like a movie but I was living it in real time.

Single moms? Hell no to any young single man. If you don't love drama stay far away.

I agree most of them are very very confused regarding where they place their baby daddy.

But if you meet a reasonable one you won't regret it especially the one that has a child who is Less dependent on her.

And let me bust your bubbles, even the single ladies are no exception, they usually have strong emotional bonding to their exes so whether you go with single mum or single lady it is still the same story.

Just make sure you know the story behind their breakup so you will have an idea of how strong their bonding is.

Easy5265:
The calming down to reality na pretense. I doubt if you can ever meet a person as liberal as I am. I say unequivocally that single mothers are a no go area.

See guy, I'm in my 40s, when I was in my 20s and early 30s I shared your view but right now i see absolutely nothing wrong in marrying a single mum as long as she is still hot and she adheres to the advise I gave on that thread I created about 6years ago.

AfroKnight:
Parts of the story have been altered cos affected parties might be nairalanders.

A while ago, I met a beautiful woman. She carry front, she carry back. Both in desirable proportions. I got her number and we got talking. We soon advanced to long calls, flirting and risqué jokes. Then she posted a boy on her WhatsApp status one day and the caption rocked me to my foundation. I asked and she confirmed that the little boy was her son. Okay.

“Where is his father?”

“He is not responsible. He is not involved in his son’s life. I take care of him alone.”

“Well, no problem”, I thought to myself. I reminded myself that it is not my dream in life to deal with the complications of raising a son who is not biologically mine, especially one whose father is still very much alive. So, I slowed down. Reduced calls until we drifted apart.

I told a female friend of mine about this and the way she looked at me ehn, I was wondering what I did wrong. She was so disappointed in me for refusing to date a single mother.

Well, I gave that friend of mine a piece of my mind. She had no right to project her concept of right or wrong or even chivalry on me! I am nobody’s saviour. I cannot pick up the responsibilities of another man who is alive and well. It is not only unfair but incredibly unjust to put a man on the spot by letting him find out you have a child after you guys have started flirting and even advanced in the talking stage of a budding relationship. I don dey feel you to the point of starting a serious relationship and I discover this? It is wrong.

And it is even more offensive that you would expect a man to just take it in stride.

Guys do not be shy to refuse if you don’t want.

Some guys are cool with it and that’s fine. If I’m not cool with it, don’t demonise me. It’s my choice.

Share your thoughts please.

Single mums are sweet to be with cos they have seen it all and most of them are compelled to calm down to reality.

The problem is that they are their own issues.

I created a thread years back about single mums so that is my stand view.

https://www.nairaland.com/2532999/8-words-advice-unmarried-single

HenryThegreat1:
https://punchng.com/passengers-strangle-lagos-doctor-turned-uber-driver-steal-car/

A very young innocent man trying to make a honest living.

Rest in peace bro.

Death sentence should be the only judgement...

Totilopussylick:
One of the most sophisticated culture of our generation

The most sophisticated in Africa.

Adultery is a serous sin and sleeping with another man's wife is a grave sin.

Any guy who wants to be unfortunate in life should sleep with a married woman especially when you know she is married

wallstreetnews:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u4Wf9ZXJpkA

BBNaija: ‘Boma and I crossed the line’ — Tega apologises to husband



https://www.instagram.com/tv/CTh0E6Jogq0/?utm_medium=copy_link

*Spits*

But laslas nah the husband get the final say.

But as a guy I know for a fact that things will never remain the same again between them.

It is OK for a guy to imagine another man sexng his wife but to view it.... The psychological damage will never ever go away.

Wettin I dey even talk sef... In short, the marriage is over.

Toeze:
Ooh. Now I'm truly understanding why even Afghanis were deadly desperate to run out of their own country. I must say America messed them up big time. You went to their country uninvited, stoked up a war, radicalised and armed their rebels, then ran away, leaving their helpless civilians in a worse state than you found them

See talk.

Do you know how much the west spent over the years on improving the defence mechanism of the country in order for them to wade off talibans?


But at the end all the president did was run away to Dubai with looted funds.

Don't blame the West at all

Matheusmartin:
..
Tooks2008..

Be like you sef go like bosom

I no dey joke with bxxbie o especially a very fine one not necessarily big.

Fine bxxbs dey hard to Find and I wonder why it is so.

I no like big ass at all... Just have the moderate well rounded back side and I'm good but that front ehn... They fit use am kidnap me.

Matheusmartin:
This is Pero,one of 2baba baby mama.
In my humble opinion, she's more qualified for the position of a wife, if nothing, at least by virtue of her fertility and breasst..

Seriously Sha, there's no way 2baba will not always go back to her..


And she's also very rich too.

Honestly I won't be surprised if it is the fact that she has enhanced her boobs and ass that is paining Annie o cos ladies don't like it if their rivals hot pass them lol!

No mind me... I be agbaya

Mikecold:
Na this kind matter Dem dey see this fool

Tuface that didn't do polygamy you think he is stupid

Polygamy would ruin him more when anie and Peru are under same roof

Peru won't lie low with anie when she is a legal wife too, she won't see Annie as senior wife, yet one wife has to coordinate

He is on the right path but na Annie no wan understand, Peru too should either get married or accept 2face has a wife already

And who says polygamy is about having many wives under same roof. You can have 10 wives and each one will have different apartments far far away from one another.

Stop being naive.

Timetravel88:
To see this report came out in 2019 shows how recent this matter is and this brother was able to shelf this away from the eyes of the public

Nah man e be walahi.

wwwihy:
https://punchng.com/comedian-nedu-says-ex-wifes-alleged-infidelity-exposed-by-dna-test/

DNA result posted by Nedu on his instagram handle

I know Nedu to some extent and I can say he is a perfect gentle man... Nobody is perfect but he is a very calm guy.

I wrote a thread about why every man should do DNA for their first child cos in 70% cases, ladies usually have their first child for another man probably an ex.

https://www.nairaland.com/6348679/why-must-dna-test-first

HedwigesMaduro:
I didn't single any hat would stand. I singled out those that sounded dodgy. If someone listed sins out and put something as dubious as "drinking coffee" as part I'll definitely call the person out for it. You can wear long skirts for the wrong reason and it would be a sin. Doesn't mean generically wearing long skirts is a sin.

Interesting.

FuturelsFemale:
Lol
Seems he has experience a little of what churchill passed through. That can be the only reason for the praise. Tonto is toxic!

See any woman can be tamed if you really love her.

Nobody is perfect. But if you can't cope, just leave quietly without any unnecessary drama.

Iamagoodgirll:
This man is shameless is it necessary coming to istagram to write this even mentioning Churchill

The thing weak me o.

southpole:
He is not preaching pastors but Jesus Christ, next time call him out on threads that has to do with ills perpetrated by Jesus Christ if there will be any then he will reply you. As I stated he doesn't preach pastors but Jesus Christ.

Soro niyen.

Mindless Sheeples every where.

SUCKCESSFUL:
I'm impressed with how you are always able to connect every life event with Christ.

If I can't do it myself, I will be supporting you with likes and shares.

Don't mind people criticizing you, kingdom advancement should be every Christian's business.

Nobody criticises him but he is the one who is intentionally selective especially when it comes to threads that point to the ills perpetrated by pastors.

I personally called him out on a thread but he refused to comment.

That is high level hypocrisy.