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Anyways on a serious note... Don't abort the baby and he must cater for the child and you cos he can't abandon you at this time.

If he refuses then tell him you have no option but to inform his family and there is nothing to be ashamed of cos ladies marrying married men is a norm in our society.

Finestgal:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-EKez_TroGE


Dj Cuppy went on a blind date to look for a life partner and was surprised


https://www.instagram.com/p/CUdCck7r2IL/?utm_medium=copy_link

I doubt if she will settle for a whity.

Black guys are addictive.

Darhmmy:
We used to be lovers back in uni , We broke up at some point and lost contact. Earlier this year we reconnected at a party and it was obvious we still had feelings for each other.

We started dating and everything seemed nice at first. He never told me he was married. After months of dating , i started to get suspicious as he wouldn't let me visit his home , instead he was always coming to mine and meeting up at hotels. We had a big fight about it and he finally told me the truth. He kept on pleading and asking that we continue dating. I couldn't even leave if I wanted to, I was in love with him.

I am 2 months pregnant and he has been avoiding me. He calls just once in two days and has told me to do whatever I want with the pregnancy , that he is fine with my decisions. I want to keep him and the baby and I'm scared he may ghost up on me. Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this.

Eyaah sorry.

Tyranny:
People are currently arguing heatedly about the best between this two. Matter of fact, this argument had created a lot of chaos and unpleasant scenes, just 'cause the people involved couldn't come to an understanding.

Over this argument, I've seen a son drain his father's bank account; I've seen a wife divorce his husband; I've seen friends disfigure each other's faces with bare knuckles; I've seen a boss put one of his employees behind bars; I've seen a Colonel riding on the back of a 2nd Lieutenant like he was a horse 'cause both sides couldn't reach an agreement.

I know most of you were unaware, fine, but I put it to you right now that people are in the middle of this argument, they're caught up in the heat of the moment and if the air is not cleared, could lead to a war.

Please, let's settle it once and for all. Which one is better?

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I will prefer sugar free Pepsi

Octopusssy:
Oga, what is the measurement of the said oversized preek? I want to check something

The truth is that an average dck size for one lady can be big for another lady and a very big size for one lady is seen as just OK for another.

It depends on srxual exposure.

Freelane33:
My grandpa always say this to me when I was young .. FREELANE33 if u love your wife marry one wife but if you love yourself marry two wives . The ball is in your court brother .

Gbam!

Ynix:
Play a simple game...

Write this word on paper and say,

I CANNOT TAKE THIS ANY MORE, BYE BYE WISHING YOU ALL THE BEST IN LIFE

Drop it and travel to a friend's place

Notice her reaction, if disturbed, don't come back until she begs and after that prepare a written agreement. Also be an alpha man

Not a good decision to make by my reckoning.

It's not worth the stress.

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

Try to work things out with her but if she insists tell her you will get a second wife if she does not change.

And incase she says no wahala, You don't need to do any big wedding, just find one lady from your village, pay her bride price, rent an apartment for her and enjoy your life. We only live once and no man should suffer sexual deprivation in matrimony.

Alfamann:
Reminds me. I need to buy some ogbono ingredients tommorow.

Ogbonno is different from okra.

I have heard this several times even from deep spiritualists.

And trust me, I have come to understand that life is a mystery.

For me I love okro but I can't debunk the belief

Sold my properties.

Offpoint1:
I honestly hate making calls, I hardly call ANYONE, in fact the last I spoke with my mom was 6 months ago... Is worse with my siblings and relatives. I can go a year or more without calling them.

I don't pick any call I didn't expect, neither do I return missed calls.

I hate sending people wishes, be it on social media, text or physical.
All my social media handles are in ghost mode, except my business WhatsApp.

I hardly reply messages on my personal WhatsApp line.

Although I get really busy most times, but I don't
think it's an excuse enough. I've tried changing, but it isn't working.

It seems the only place I reply to people is on Nairaland, I've never clicked a "Like button" on the internet before... I have phobia for it.

How can I adjust? I spend 99.99% of my free time Alone in a quiet place soul traveling to universe.

This is a clear sign of depression.

Topmaike007:
so she will turn the kids on there innocent father abi?

Which is what many ladies do.

They will so much poison the minds of the kids in a way that they will hate their dad with serious passion.

I have written before and I will reiterate...

Guys DO DNA on your first child or any child you are not too sure of especially if the child has no striking resemblance with you.

Many ladies usually have their first child for their ex.

Tokskob2008:
Single to the extent that she can sleep around right? Well that's good too whatever makes her happy.

Why you come use moniker wey resemble my own.

Pashara nagi

J2381:
quotes like that are usually said by people who are trying to console themselves. Most times they still fail at it.

What now baffles me is the entitled mentality some of the posters have. Like what toks2008 posted. Imagine the narrow mindedness. "Any married woman who pays her own bill is single". Like her husband is suppose to do everything for her, even pay for her undies and menstrual pad.

Well opinion like this are usually spread by people who have little or nothing to offer in relationships. It's almost same with a whatsapp status I read from one of my female contacts who posted "if I ask you for data and you say no or you post me, I'll block you from viewing my whatsapp status sharp sharp".

Men I really laughed when I read it. I'm waiting patiently for her to ask me for data.

You need to see the way I lashed out at her but at the end she still held on to her stance.

jaelz:
So I met this girl sometime back in March in Abuja she was very beautiful and was working in a spa back then, I approached her and collected her number after which she never picked my calls or replied my chats after I tried contacting her afterwards.

Fast-forward to last two weeks she contacted me out of the blues that she was sick, didn't have transport fare to work, she was broke and didn't have any money for food as she hasn't eaten in a days.

I got dressed and meet her in the location she gave me and bought her some little foodstuff and provisions then gave her 3k to hold for transportation to work until they pay her at work.

Guys could you believe that this girl blocked and deleted my number the next day? I tried calling and she it was telling me busy till I used another phone to call it and it went through, I asked her why she did that after I revealed my identity and she couldn't say a word she was just mute on the phone for about 30 seconds till I cut off the call.

I am still so shocked as to why some women behave they way they behave atimes.

If you try to be smart with a kind hearted person, nah you lose.

So please free her. She is only acting foolish.

lajid:
It’s from a TikTok video. A quote by X Gilham

Gbam!

The way that video annoy me ehn... I just had to refrain myself from writing my opinion cos e go dey too harsh.

Let me just leave Nairalanders to do their thing.

Wey lalasticlala sef?

Btw: this was my response to the status. My posts are in green.

Check the images attached.

Saw this title on the WhatsApp status of a lady and that quote is from a TikTok video made by one white guy.

In my opinion, by extension, this simply means any man who can't foot the bills of his wife should just consider himself single.

Let me throw it open to Nairalanders...

What is your take on this?

MrSamsung:
What do you mean by the bolded? Some of you don't really know how you sound.Someone is directly and indirectly involved in running the affairs of this country and yet you are still saying he has an independent mind.

In what way(s) is he having independent mind? Is he vocal about the many misdeeds of this administration that he is part of?
If he is of independent mind and would not want to share in the blame of this regime, why is he not resigning?
Why are we not seeing the resultant effects of his independent mind since the past six years now getting to eight?

It is just like saying someone who is STILL part of a cult group or fraternity group or cooperative society has an independent mind why he is still there carrying you out the deeds, errands and policies of the group.

Look here boy, not all of us here are zombies because if Yemi clearly stands out as an independent mind( antagonist not a snake), then even a child that can barely speak will know.

All you wrote up there is indicative of the fact that you are ignorant about how these things work.

Speak out against his principal like seriously!

Asking him to resign also shows that you know nothing about politics.

See boy, politics is not sentimental but a delicate game that needs to be played cautiously.

TheNature:
For achieving what as current VP?
Tribal politics is virus in Nigeria and will continue to deal with us till we have sense.
He should as atiku hw far.

Another ignorant fellow.

What are you expecting a VP to achieve?

Is it not even laudable that since independence, Osinbajo happens to be the only active and vocal VP Nigeria ever produced?

Forgodsgrace:
You dey sleep when he ordered the sack of Daura due to the invasion National Assembly .What about his intervention and impact in Niger Delta millitant crisis when Buhari was AWOL?

Exactly my point. In those few instances where he was given the power to act, only a dumb person will overlook what he did. If Nigerians truly want to move ahead, it is better we let this guy handle the job.

MrSamsung:
You downplayed the power of the office of the vice president because it involves Yemi. So that is why I gave the examples or 'drag'(according to you) of vice presidents before him.

See you guys don't know the danger of electing or planning to elect anyone who is part and parcel of this evil administration. How much more then a vice president who is directly involved than any other citizen of this country. That means PMB, his co, his cabals and his supporters will still be the ones managing the future of this country.

And if you know these things and are still supporting this man, then I will say that Nigerians are thier own worst enemies.

Understand this fact. THE VICE PRESIDENT IS ONLY AS POWERFUL AS THE PRESIDENT MAKES THE OFFICE TO BE.

Any sound mind will see the body language of Osinbajo to be that of an independent mind which is why the cabals are trying their possible best to block him by all means.

He believes in economic retstructuring and has fought the matter up to the supreme court when he was AG in Lagos.

He is the best man for the job.

fergie001:
BREAKING: The jury found R. Kelly guilty of racketeering in a sex trafficking case involving a scheme to recruit and sexually abuse women, girls and boys.

He faces up to 20 years in prison under the racketeering charge.



SOURCE

Sa way to go for a legend.

neonly:
Am not good writer please trying to make it short

Everything just falling apart in my house
Sometimes I hear some folks saying I will tolerate rubbish in marriage but honestly it easier say than done if it actually happen to you
Where did I get it wrong sef
We use to be good friends before church matter enter
Now she does nothing in the house
I go to work come back to go to market and cook clean the house wash the children uniforms for the younger ones

All she is interested now is her own career
What my fate when I grow old
Is this not a red flag for me
What will be the fate of my wonderful innocent children how will they feel not growing up with their mother and father together all these are pounding in my head
the issues are too much I can't type it all am really depressed but sha life goes on
But my children what will be their fate

Which can talk be this?

Is this coming from a man or woman.

This is the definition of gbewu da ni husband.

Anyways just sit her down and talk to her rather than rant here. Discuss the possibility of getting a maid as that will help both of you.

Her career is important and your own well being also so get a maid and pay her good money to do the job.

E never reach to leave your marriage so remain there bro.

Cheers

Omihanifa:
Must everything be on social media

That is her way of fighting depression which is therapeutic so I won't blame her.

Leetika:
Nigerian fraud. Made me lost my 6million I suppose use do wedding... how do you let A cruiser weight that just came to heavy weight school you like a child.. they beat am like pounded yam. A.J is just a celebrity boxer . E no sabi fight after his first loss with Andy Ruiz. But because u be naija guy I say make I get hope for you. Now 6million I no get, marriage I no get, fiancé go leave me too .. no I am not crying o chai

No be juju be dat?

You can't possibly be serious except village people gather for you.

David, I will never link any death to you but I'm sure you are a yoruba boy so go to daddy and ask what akufa means.

Sometimes it does not always happen within the family but in a circle of friends.

Do something about this so that the occurrence within your circle will stop.

NaMe4:
It won't even get down to the region of 20k as earlier speculated.
Fundamental factors have come into play and the bearish correction is in the final phases.
This implies the BTC is a strong digital currency.
The next drop should take it's value to the region of 33k - 34k before a more steady bullish price movement.

The aim of this sort of news (timed before the next drop) is to trigger panic for sell offs, then they invest at relatively cheap prices.

Well I have given my analysis, it may not get to 20k region now but eventually it will most likely get there and that is the safest point to buy back.

post=106147671:
Nairaland.com Rule 16.

Emphasis on Word in red.......

No mind Seun and his double standard.

You han fx and crypto yet the advert dey your site dey give you money.

izubext007:
Thank I never learn this stupid business

Sorry to say but nah you dey stupid o.

The way people like Seun tag crypto fx trading a scam whereas people are raking in legit millions from it every day.

That your brain dey too low to comprehend a business no mean sey the business nah stupid business.

OK let me help your ministry...

Bitcoin is still going to rise as high as 200k to one bitcoin but it is presently in the correction phase so once bitcoin gets to 20k or thereabout please go and sell whatever you can and invest in bitcoin. Then wait for a year or two and come back to call it stupid business.

Aburo Seun ara oko

insidenaijasblog:
Source: https://newspremises.com.ng/bitcoin-value-falls-drastically-after-china-declares-all-crypto-currency-transactions-illegal/

Weee you keep quiet.

This has nothing to do with China.

I have done the analysis on my YouTube channel months ago.

And mind you, it is still crashing down more to 20000 or thereabout and it has nothing to do with any crazy news but it is only a simple correction cos by the time it bounces back, it will go as high as $200k to one bitcoin.

Watch the latest video I made where I takes about this present crash and more to come.

China ko! Chinko ni!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YsGj4ZedXL4

Gadafii:
God knows how I instantly like girls on simple cornrows


First thing I do when my girl visits is to pull her yeye wig and fling it away, cos I like to see that cornrows, run my fingers thru them


If you are presently on cornrows hair style as a lady, God bless you and more beauty to you

I thought I'm the only one in this boat o.

Infact I get turned on just seeing a lady on simple cornrow or African braids but I detest wigs and all these crazy human hair, Brazilian perruvian nonsense.