₦airaland Forum

SimplyFacts:
Easier said than done.

It can be done, as i wrote, it is about the mind-set but i think one also needs some level of emotional maturity to do it.

This is why you see all these immature guys crying when a lady leaves them cos they feel they have spent too much for the lady and the same reason you see some men taking back gifts they bought a lady after a break up...does ot mean they were expecting a forever after cos they gave them gifts?

Even Jesus that died for the entire world made it clear that salvation is not a must for everyone and only those who appreciate his sacrifice will be saved but he still loves us genuinely so much that he died for us.

With this mind-set you will do whatever you feel you want to do for your significant other without bothering if she walks away latter but these days, people are so careful to help the person in their lives just because they ''Don't want to lose at the end'' and we even tend to destroy things the more.

denjjy:
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I swear Your chance of making heaven will be as low as Arsenal winning the Champions League before 2050

Sorry Mr God Wey dey judge.

Cos she mstrbates?

MadamVanessa:
It seems in America pedophile women outnumbered men. Because there's no single week i do not read of women raping young boys in America.

It's always shameful as a lady reading stuffs like this. Having a Love Machine within one reach is far more better than this disgraceful act. If i am horrrny i use my dillldo and masturbate. Na masturbate i masturbate i no kill person.

Also, i can't imagine myself leaving a monster looking dicck with veins allover it, and play around a boy of 15years old.. it's not my portion.

Diccck is sweet no doubt, but not a toddler's own.

I'm not supporting the act but let me correct your notion.

In the western world, 15 year olds are super developed both males and females.

This age fixation of adulthood sometimes can be misleading.

A 15 year old abroad is more developed than an 18 year old in naija. I saw a 14 year old girl that is way taller than me and Infact she has so much intimidating look that she can be mistaken for a 30year old.

The whole age fixing thing should be reviewed.

As I wrote, I'm not in support 9f pedophilia but I'm just stating some things I have observed.

MHBNeiman:
You can't love your partner and don't expect to be loved back. We're all selfish.

Read again

I have meticulously observed the reason why many people have avoidable heartbreaks and strong feeling of disappointment in human relationships and I have come to this unsavoury conclusion.

That the only viable panacea to any form of heartbreak and disappointment is to love genuinely without having any expectation of equal reciprocation.

This will make you psychology prepared for any possible outcome whether good or bad.

You will be able to give without bothering your head if the person latter leaves you and no matter the sacrifice you make, you are ready to see it thrown back at your face and if the person eventually leaves, you will smile and just walk away rather than sulk, beg or worse still do something terrible to yourself.

It is not a difficult thing to do, it's all about the mindset.

My opinion.

I hope its not what I'm thinking...

Mercychen:
E don red for this one.

This is what happens when you chose to change the natural law and order of things. It will backfire!

Now, imagine what it will take or cost you to regain your friendship and closeness back with those you've lost or chased away with your redpill attitude. Something that could have been avoided.

I always view this redpillers as men who have been starved of the female attention hence making them resolve to redpill as a way of consoling themselves.

Martinez, how far?

Don't mind them ignorant folks. Becoming a redpiller at 19 when he is not even mature enough to be a bluepiller.

Creativeace:
First of all i aint no simp and never will be, i have always been a person that respects myself a lot before men and women, but everything escalated when i encountered the redpill.

I was 19 when i was exposed to TRP, out of academic and hustling stress i started reading threads on nairaland and i no time as a lover of knowledge became hooked on ubunja's miseducations and after practising TRP for two years going now, i cant really say it has won me favour in the eyes of people, especially women.

I broke up with the first and only girlfriend ive had, because i changed drastically over night because i was high on the pill, my circle of guys started leaving me out cos i suddenly became the odd one out.

Girls started giving me attitude, cos i reduced the attention i gave out, so i decided to take it to the extreme and went all out ignoring all of them.

Lets cut the story short, am toxic, alone, with no female attention to validate my ego, so i decided to fuel my ego some other way, by making money... typing

A redpiller at 19 habba.

Adeshina I know you or someone you know is reading this.

Let me ask you one question? After Buhari leaves office how will you face your people? See it is one thing to accept a n appointment but another to use your brain and be guided in what you say.

I am a Yoruba man who has respect for his elders else I would have written what is on my mind. I only pity your unborn generation cos the way you are destroying your reputation is of epic proportion. Equating Buhari to the founding fathers of Nigeria . No be juju be dat?

Akalia:
So appreciating your breast is canality ni? But you were the one that made me know that your breast is still firm because you use Vaseline on it.

Ekun! I sight you. Nothing do you.

Odewaleadesoye:
I have the following to share with everyone:

1. So many people who are feeling like giving up on life should come and see this and know that there is a better future for any man. NEVER EVER GIVE UP.


2. To the ladies reading this, please note that good woman works together with the man to help him grow and not be a liability in his life.


3. And for those guys hoping to troll women who refuse to build with men, note that Sir Tony obviously had potentials he was working on and actively developing himself.
Don't ask woman to stick with you when you don't have a blueprint to elevate yourself to begin with.

What about telling women to be self sufficient so that they won't need to be looking for a made man or a man with so called potentials.

Some men can be unfortunate in this life no matter how hardworking and smart they may be hence remain broke all their life time.

Oyindaberry:
Àyè wá dà?

O le manage la ti se 10 push ups every morning.

wrongnumber:
I know of the pushups. it works well but boobs job is the best. I was with a lady and I would never had known if she did not tell me she had a boobs job cos it looks perfectly natural and she said she could breast feed with it.

Interesting.

The truth is that no matter how we want to be hypocritical about it, a firm boobs is the joy of every woman at least before children start coming in.

The way ladies care about the size of a man's dck is just the same way men care about the beauty of the boobs and buttocks of a lady. It is what it is

Blackdisciple:
With all these therapy no matter how some girls do their boobs will never come back...


I remember the 21 years old girl in the just concluded BBN house mate...

I think boobs job is the most ideal solution and these days the risk is very minimal and a lady can even breast feed after the surgery.

There is no sentiment to it. If a lady can afford a boob job let her go for it

mimee9:
True causes of saggy breasts include:

aging
collagen deficiency
estrogen deficiency
gravity
high body mass index
larger breast size
menopause
multiple pregnancies
rapid weight loss followed by weight gain (or vice versa)
smoking

The loss of skin elasticity due to aging is the most common cause of saggy breasts. Another factor is smoking, which accelerates aging and thus contributes to sagging breasts, sometimes even earlier in life.

Multiple pregnancies are another cause, though breastfeeding is not. Hormonal changes shrink and expand milk ducts with each pregnancy, which can lead to sagging tissues. Rapid weight changes pre- and post-pregnancy can add to this.

Large breast size leads to a higher chance of sagging, solely because higher breast mass is more vulnerable to gravity.

However, choosing to breastfeed one’s child has no effect on breast firmness. Breastfeeding is commonly thought to stretch breast tissues and lead to sagging

I heard that abortion also sags the breast... How true is this?

PeaceJoyLove:
In fact you are jobless. Without even mentioning you and I am on page 3, you still found my comment. Guy, you need deliverance. ha ba! You cant make yourself useful to the Nigerian situation, but girls boobs are your concern. Bring your head....let me knock it for it. You m.umu. Chai! So, you have the time to read all the messages on this thread. Hurray!!! You made front page. Hurray!!!

Eviana, come and see one of your boys ooo. Na so you people dey follow me? I will deal with all of you.

I will employ your entire household and pay you all salaries just for doing nothing.

See you may think its a joke but I have interacted with people with mental illness and what you just wrote up there is a clear sign that you are suffering from chronic depression which is a serious mental illness.

Where I live, people like you get medications on a daily basis to prevent escalation.

Can you just read your comment and compare it with several others on this thread?

Normally I ignore people like you but I chose to respond cos I feel sorry for your situation.

Your user ID is PeaceJoyLove but judging from your melancholic attitude you obviously have no joy let alone love and peace but I will always remember you in my prayers.

Now run off and stop mentioning me. Cheers.

Sterope:
Since you are comparing apples and oranges, please explain how women choose to make their breasts saggy? I dey wait for you.

If I say what is on my mind it will look as if I'm condescending.

Please go back and read with clear understanding. Ma yo mi ni enu

PeaceJoyLove:
Is the OP jobless? A grown man woke up to write 5 ways females can firm their breasts naturally. It is funny at the same time.

Do we really need long life to live a meaningful life? Na waooo. The focus is now on breasts, stomach, legs, beards, facial hair, and bla bla bla. Those who are determined to leave a legacy do not go after this kind of rubbish. If her breasts sag, and so what? If her tummy grows big, and so what? This is how ladies have made themselves so insecured.

A grown up man posted this rubbish cos he wants to be on front page? Lord, have mercy. Wow!

This is a clear sign of depression. Go seek help FAST. No pun intended but I just feel it is wise to let you know.

Sterope:
@toks2008, it is impossible to firm up the breast with oil, cucumber and every other things you have listed. Exercise can help to give an appearance of a firmer breast but it won't give you an actual firm breast if you don't have it. Surgery gives the only practical and realistic solution.

Women should ignore deprecating posts like this. Saggy breasts are very natural at age 16 and even for a small breast.

At least you agree to exercise and boobs job as mentioned in the write up.

Akalia:
My love for big firm breasts knows no bounds. I can't be sexually attracted to a woman that has got not big firm breasts.

For me I don't care about the size... As long as it is full and firm, I am good.

But as I wrote on a thread, I won't mind getting my wife a very good boobs job when she is of age when her boobs have seen better days.

Sterope:
Well, I pray that for you. For me, it is better to be practical. There is nothing wrong with a saggy breast. Don't let these useless men tell you otherwise.

Sis stop deceiving yourself... This is not about body shaming anyone but let's say it as it is... As there is a lot wrong in a guy or having a big tummy same it 8s with saggy boobs.

The only ladies allowed to have saggy boobs are ladies who have breast fed at least 2kids but not when a young unmarried lady has it. Be real abeg

Evercurious:
I pray mine remains the way it is. I dont need stories of sagging... God abeg help me and the breats ooh. Lol...

I'm tempted to say *Pictures or I don't believe it* but make i no turn myself to agbaya on Nairaland.

Just do pushups to firm the muscles underneath and you are good.

Pushups work so well

Mr100Dollars:
I don't know what is wrong with our girls this days, but no more firm breast, girls this days lack standing br@ast. I don't know if it's this latest bra that is causing it.

I broke up with a girl i was dating because the current state of her br@ast can't sustain a family 3, my self and 2 kids, she's beautiful no doubt, but her breast is just the red flag.

Nowadays most girls don't wear bra because of the flaccid nature of their breast.


Girls child should protect their breast from those imbeecile br@ast sucking demons, we need real br@ast not silicon.

Wereh ni boboyi...

@Can't sustain a family of 3

Kog45:
Den go see a promising young man with Toyota muscle but dem one ride range,gwagon and follow money man but at the end na unhappiness go full their mind.

Better go an hustle and stop ranting.

Men will be men whether he is an okada rider or jet owner.

Mercychen:
You better don't resort to a lifestyle that will destroy you, because of a man that doesn't have sense. He's not worth all the troubles you're putting yourself through.

This is not the time to get drunk because it won't solve anything as the moment you're sober, your problems will still be there staring you in the face. Rather, take this period to get closer to God and serve him with all your heart and life. He alone can turn things around for good for you.

Don't lose yourself because of someone else.

Aproko who asked you?

Wentworthorg:
Na you dey talk about boobs like this?I saw a post where you were telling people how not to miss heaven.Its also not good to lust after boobs coz that's what's called"lust of the flesh".One ofthe major sins

Who be this alien? How does my love for boobs translate to lust?

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drimzsmoke:
"And this is why I must make sure my wife does boobs job when she is of age when the boobs can no longer withstand the force of gravity."....Yes sir,I did
Have a lovely night rest

And what the heck is wrong with that?
Does Common sense not tell you that a time will surely come when the boobs can no longer maintain the firmness?

Why not go quarrel with those doctors doing the surgery?

Your case is beyond you. Cheers.

drimzsmoke:
Women are meant to age and boobs are meant to fall....if you continue with this mentality,you will have eyes for 16 year old girls and below...At what age do you recommend penis job for a man

So in your head you are expecting a firm boobs forever... Did you even comprehend my first post?

Guy or lady biko stop mentioning me or twisting my narrative.

Good night.

drimzsmoke:
Sir,please what's your definition of a beautiful boob
Everything that God created is beautiful!!!

Beautiful boobs to you may not be to me. Nobody is playing down the beauty of GOD creation so no twist matter.

Even monkeys are beautiful in their own way.

TarOrfeeek:
Western Society and their isolation.

If it were in the SE and SS, immediately after child birth as a RULE. The Mother of the Mother, permit my tautology. She comes over for the Omugwo, that stay helps the woman mentally and socially.

How can the Army not give the husband pass to go and see his wife. They all contributed to this very sad news.

I feel so angry and sad right now.

You are so spot on.

The isolation is killing for many people and even the Married ones are not left out cos couples hardly have time for themselves as the man goes to work at certain times and as he is coming back, the wife is leaving the house for work.

Single mums just live their lives totally dedicated to their kids.

But in Naija, people wey you no invite sef go come knock your door.

helinues:
Jesus, some breast are like flat slippers.

John Thomas would have no reasons to erect.

Honestly speaking, firm boobs are very rare to come by.

I remember watching this Reed dance on YouTube.. The south Africa virgin dance where topless virgins come out in large number to dance for the zulu King.

I was so amazed to see many less attractive boobs on virgins...

This is not about body shaming anyone but I was expecting to see firm boobs on them but only very few have perky firm boobs.

Born2winKingOG:
simp dey smell for your body

Be using grammar wey you no understand.