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BabbanBura:
Why is it only me that see that this lady might have being truly pushed to the walls to di-exhale this way?

Everyone is looking at it from the tradition role of a woman never to disrespect her husband and his family the way Annie did, I totally uphold this.

But do you know what deep frustration does, especially when you have no listening ears? It leads to build up of lots of negative energy that affects mental health and leads into depression if not released. With probably no one to reason with her, she must have being pushed to vent out on social media (she shouldn't have) since that's her only listening ear. The backlash must have reset her brain and then she realised her mistake by not dragging her husband and his family to the muds.

My point here is, this lady needs someone to listen to her frustration, albeit self inflicted, but it must have taken it's root, like she said, from her husband's affairs with his ex-baby mamas - she must be so daft not to know that this will happen.

People let's learn to listen to people, put ourselves in their shoes and listen up - it will help save lives.

I think it boils down to orientation.

Today's woman is fed with the lopsided idea that A MAN MUST STICK TO THEM ALONE IN MARRIAGE... and they carry this lies from from the pits of hell into their marriage

All those confused relationship experts also add to the lies teaching monogamy..

But if every lady is made aware that men are generally polygamous in nature and it remains the choice of the man to choose monogamy or polygany and which ever choice he makes, the lady must accept without throwing tantrums

Every gender has a reality check and this is one of the realities a female must come to terms with else she must prepare herself for avoidable tears and heartbreaks... Or perhaps change her gender.

Ephraimore:
Previous thread: https://www.nairaland.com/6733513/anne-idibia-removes-idibia-instagram



https://editorialtimes.com/entertainment/annie-idibia-adds-back-idibia-to-her-name/

Raging hormone...

Nice move Annie... We all are imperfect humans.

One thing I know is thst 2Baba loves you and that is worth more than any other baby mama.

OssyMalik:
https://www.legit.ng/1432534-idibia-saga-old-interview-resurfaces-pero-adeniyis-father-claiming-2baba-is-married-his-daughter.html?fbclid=IwAR0B2e01lNIJ1QLN46F0ZVyjXV3lfYyS7r_RKVOqymm4jpHnodrZWA_2Fm8

This Asabe guy annoys me with the way he asks questions during his interviews.

So unprofessional.

Iyaebe:
women will always be women too

Anybody dey stop you?

We know this but that does mean she should turn herself to jagaban of his life.

Men will always be men.

I once collided with a cow in 2004. Thank GOD I survived the accident but my car was seriously damaged.

mariahAngel:
Your agenda will never agend!

Stop spreading falsehood and corrupting impressionable young minds on this forum!

You are absolutely right sis.

Young and Naive minds.

Munzy14:
Even a toddler knows what we call tendency...


No generalizing....That polygamous/womanizing shit irritates some well to do guys.....Not will ever want to explore that.

How old are you sef? Cos it takes a type of age maturity to decipher my post.

Nuff said. Have a great weekend

Munzy14:
Not all men bro...

I mean no disadvantages...

You need to go look up the meaning of tendency.

Munzy14:
Not all men fancy womanizing bro....Yes all men are believed to be polygamous in nature, but not all will follow that even if he has got the resources to.

I don't dispute but ALL MEN HAVE THE TENDENCY except the guy is grossly disadvantaged in one way of the other
. This is my point.

Hopebringer:
But he still remains a bìtch. An untalented bìtch like froggie voice davido. Both of these fools are untalented rubbish.

Tems is the reason why essence is rated high, cause she wrote the song. WizKid aka "Mr I featured in your song " has no talent just like davido aka froggie.

Why do you all think Drake didn't feature Wizkid despite the whole world knowing Wizkid loves to feature in songs he can't write.?

Cause tems is the reason essence was a hit, essence is the only good track in that Dog shìt made in Lagos album. That album was unadulterated dog shit. I won't even allow my dog listen to that sorry piece of shìt excuse of an album.

The only reason people paid to watch this MC daddy of bullshit is because of that essence song.

Worst off is davido. I mean that guy sounds like he snores 24 hours a day on all his songs.

Davido still has some dope songs, the type we all can relate with.

Davido is good regardless of his voice.

BTW any show go sell at this time when the world is trying to get back their groove after the pandemic shut them in for a very long time.

Davido should reconcile with chioma if he wants his show to sell out cos ladies buy tickets more and they go put emotions into it as in "WE no go buy Davido ticket cos he dumped our gender" lol!

internationalman:
Wizkid one artiste I like his personality but can't seem to like or rate any of his songs high.

Honestly.

I love him and wish him well but most of his songs just no make sense to me.

I will pick Davido songs over wizzy and Burna Boy songs combined.

Chuky7:
To the ladies in the house. Would you marry a guy who his matter don cast as in his sexcapades is the news of the town. the kind of guy that flirts with anything with a skirt and has sex with any that allows for it.

Note this guy is financially buoyant lives the best life can offer nice car. house. travels. etc.

Would you?

Here is a piece of my story there was this babe that I was always chasing trying to get her attention at any cost she no gree but immediately Mr sexcapade pulls up with macho skills to tell her how she has nice legs she blushes like no tomorrow dey. I now heard he took her out last weekend. I guess my business with her is done n dusted.

Most ladies will date or perhaps marry the guy and will even dump their faithful sweet boyfriend to be with the guy and this is the reason.

Ladies are curious by nature and though ladies say they want a faithful guy but the truth is that ladies want a guy other ladies want and this is just the way they are.

So out of curiosity they just want to go close to the guy and see that thing that makes him so desired by other ladies.

This holds true for most ladies of not all.

Munzy14:
Not all men...

If you have the very active partner, you no get time for womanizing.

I guess you missed that part when I wrote "at different levels"

Womanising is a relative word and everyman and I repeat.. All men are polygamous in nature but many of them don't just have the time NOT THAT THEY DON'T HAVE THE TENDENCY TO.

Onyi22:
Marry a womanizer at your own risk
Nigerian guys are Useless, All of them

Soro niyen.

Your boyfriend is a womanizer and the man you will marry or married too is a womanizer. All men womanize at different levels.

Stop fooling yourself.

masseratti:
oga allow all the ladies to box me in abeg, put your self in their shoes and see if you will be happy seeing them doing other men as you will be doing.

I put to you that you are either a Simpleton, a lady posing as a male or you are indeed a female thinking you are a male.


No real man will write the quoted.

Laslas she go dey alright.

No be today woman dey break frames and tear pictures just to latter regret and apologise.

Annie biko negodu.

Crazy country.

janedonez:
Tu Face, Take charge of your home. you are loosing it all gradually, a real man keeps his family intact. Don't be a sisi and let your family crumble like a pack of cards.

2baba has no fault in this matter.

Annie should learn how to control her raging hormones.

It's not too late for her to apologise for losing guard cos at the end nah she go suffer am pass.

I'm not taking sides at all... Its just what it is.

Raalsalghul:
I have confirmed it today that you're a redpiller.

I will rather call myself a Sigma Male.

premiumswizz:
A woman who has three children for a man, is still and always will be his wife directly or indirectly, consciously or unconsciously.
Annie needs to wake up from her dream and accept reality.

I don't know how the modern ladies reason walahi.

Womam wey 2baba give belle not once, not twice and you are ranting that he is spending time with her rather than accept the lady as iyawo and you gladly take the iyale position.

When she finally pushes 2baba away and she no see am again then her eye go clear.

pocohantas:
Hmmm. I don’t want anything to happen to MJ. I kinda like her, though I don’t like her acting.

Annie isn’t innocent in all of this either. She doesn’t come off as a clueless or lovestruck young lady to me. She should better accept Pero as her co-wife. 3 kids is a lot.

I know that small sense still dey your head.

WoundedLamb:
Stop avoiding the allegation. Having three kids is a not an excuse to sleep with ex lovers, dude. This is not just "another woman", this is his wife. Stop dishing out what you can't take as a spouse.

Chai I feel. Like calling out 2baba as a simp cos I wonder why he puts himself in this situation. E for just officially declare himself a polygamous man rather than this avoidable drama.

Annie is a lovely lady, I respect her not because she stood by 2baba blablabla but I just admire her unflinching nature so I wonder what is going on.

Annie if you are reading this biko calm down and accept the reality..

2BABA WILL NEVER STOP SEEING AND PROBABLY SLEEPING WITH HIS BABY NAMAS

Okafor's law is very real.

masseratti:
oga leave that thing, am a man a woman like Annie in this our Nigeria is very rare, she has gave up her career for a man she loves, the man has refused to change, she met him when he was not as rich as now, she can move on if he refuse to change and stop complaining online, what she is facing if any body is in her shoes it won't be funny.

See let me educate you.. NO LADY EVER MAKES ANY SACRIFICE FOR ANY MAN IF SHE HAS NOTHING TO GAIN.

No lady stays with a man for just love but there must be a thing of interest for her to remain and it could be anything.

Annie made a choice and she has her reasons so leave all the talks of sacrifice.

A lady will tell you she is patching up with you despite your lack of money but the truth is that she has not found a suitable replacement so she lingers on and the guy thinks it is love.

A lady will date a married man if there is something important she will gain from the union and she will even defend her actions.

See, ladies see nothing wrong in anything they do as long as it favours them but whatever they do not like is all shades of evil.

My advise to you. Never ever allow any lady box you.

pocohantas:
You have never used Annie? No be you quote me 2 weeks ago with same nonsense?

C’mon leave this place osiso. Always speaking from every hole in your body. When a man talks too much, it is quite easy for him to be all over the place like you are.

Reasonable people dig up the quote and paste it.

Do me that honour and stop your mental masturbation.

pocohantas:
So this is all you can say now? Na like this life be o. Once wahala set, people go change mouth.

You Toks2008 was all around Nairaland, using Annie as a case study of a virtuous woman who won by clinching a community penis. You said other women should learn from her as Tuface has finally calmed down.

Has Tuface calmed down now?

Once a community penis, always a community penis. They only come home when they are broke and sick, just like the prodigal son.

Annie please don’t ruin our Celebrity Love Story o. You have been used as an example of a virtuous woman for years. No come spoil am now.

I had never at any time used Annie or any lady as a case study of a virtuous woman.

I only wrote and I reiterate once again.. "MEN ARE POLYGAMOUS BY DEFAULT"

Let this sink into you and you will. Experience marital peace.

However, I do not support adultery or fornication, If I ever choose to be with another lady, I will gladly look for one, pay her bride price and enjoy my sexuality sinlessly and I don't need the permission of any lady to do that.

If she is not cool with it then let her leave to look for that imaginary faithful guy that will seed his manhood to only her as long as he lives.

In my school of thought... Only a virgin bride HAS THE RIGHT to "demand" for a faithful man cos non virgin brides according to the Bible do not even deserve a bride price to start with so if they eventually get married, they have no right under the sun to demand for an exclusive sexual relationship.... Not after many of them have lost their sexual value to wayward lifestyles.

Argue with your keypad.

Magnoliaa:
Oh, woww. Wisdom! Master, cannai drink from your fountain of knowledge?? Asin, asin, what you're meaning to tell me is that, I should feel lucky as a woman, that a randy obuko goat got married to me out of all his mistresses, ba? Nice one. So. Please, I want to know what benefits I get that those other women do not have. As in, as e don marry me now, watin go be my gain?



Thisssssssssssss. I can feel the spirit's inspiration behind this comment.

This is why I call guys who box themselves to one wife simpletons.

When a lady sees a good reason to date a married man she does so with so much confidence, many ladies will gladly be the 10th wife of a billionaire but these same ladies will marry one simple guy and start threatening if he decides to marry another lady.

Ladies are the most deceptive, hypocritical and self centered species on earth.

This is what we get when a man tries to box himself to one woman when he is not the monogamous type.

Shebbi if 2baba marries all the baby mamas this talk for no come out.

I pity guys that box themselves to one wife when polygamy is their calling.

More like a music video shoot cos Davido will rather catch a cab than go on London tube.

My thoughts

Ladycewhy:
This is way beyond sexual furstration. Na so madness take dey start.

People express their frustrations in very strange ways.

Calling him vegetable is a pointer to what she wants.

Ladycewhy:
Schizophrenia can manifest at any time. She can be fine for years and all of a sudden she begins to act weird.


To me ,she doesn't seem mentally sound.

She needs to cvm and squirt hard so that her body go calm down and I guess Oga dey slack in that area.

Vabama:
So am one of those Guys that preach against domestic Violence ....

I Got married of Recent and Guess what , we dated for 3 Years before marriage.

After putting a ring on her finger ... her behavior change ...

From Bad to Worse ...

Like this girl will wake up at Night , and Give me a dirty slap .... If You Ask her what's the problem , she will look at you and work away.

She will wake up by 2am and start playing music , if you ask her wetin .... She will ask me 'CAN'T I PLAY MUSIC BECAUSE I MARRY YOU'

If You mention divorce .... she go vow say if you try am , You Go die !!!

Okay i sat her down and ask her what is the matter.

Below is what she told me !!!



So am asking , is it that she wants me to beat her or what
Should i run away from Home
Marriage no dey easy at all.

You Don marry confirmed Ekwensu.
Better go meet her parents to tell them what is going on cos this one pass ordinary.

Infact your story sounds unbelievable.

And if she is indirectly passing a message to you then you need to give her real good cos wives usually respect husbands who make them cvm and squirt so well... Go down on her if needs be and make her satisfied then let's see the strength she will have to wake up at night..



Vegetable bawo.