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Toks2008:
We all need respect but this thread is about the men so let's stick to the subject.

And let me make some things clear as regards this respect of a thing...

Many people usually say respect is earned and I quite understand that but the question is.. "Do you wait for your parents to earn your respect before you give them"?

The Bible never wrote at any point that you should "submit/respect your husband ONLY IF HE EARNS IT"

It was an absolute instruction that has no condition attached but we can argue that if the guy misbehaves then he does not deserve your respect but that is where many ladies got it wrong...

If at anytime you feel you can no longer submit or respect that man, just leave his life... But as long as you still decide to be with him, respecting him is very sacrosanct regardless.

Uncle lalasticlala what is your take?

WoundedLamb:
You guys arguing with the OP must have a lot of time to waste. Lol.

But for arrogance and pride, is there really anything to argue about?

I just gave a fact but as usual, proud and arrogant ladies will have issues with it rather than learn.

JeffreyJunior:
Bro, you haven't met beasts in human form.

Some men become more abusive when they are respected and treated like kings so the best way to keep them in line is for the women to always grab them by the balls whenever they start abusing them.

As I wrote, there are very few exceptions but holds true for most guys.

Any lady who has issues with this definitely has issues with respecting their men.

Bornsinner7:
Damn 4 women a day!!!!
Give this man a medal

Sex is overrated.. when you're done.. you begin to ask yourself what did I just do..

After banging and conquering.. no medal no award.. just infections, diseases and general weakness of the body.. if devil wan punish person e go give you girl with spiritual problem

Sex is so so overrated.

Ginaz:
I’m not the one and I don’t stay where I’m not respected. It’s not only a man who needs respect too, you know!

We all need respect but this thread is about the men so let's stick to the subject.

And let me make some things clear as regards this respect of a thing...

Many people usually say respect is earned and I quite understand that but the question is.. "Do you wait for your parents to earn your respect before you give them"?

The Bible never wrote at any point that you should "submit/respect your husband ONLY IF HE EARNS IT"

It was an absolute instruction that has no condition attached but we can argue that if the guy misbehaves then he does not deserve your respect but that is where many ladies got it wrong...

If at anytime you feel you can no longer submit or respect that man, just leave his life... But as long as you still decide to be with him, respecting him is very sacrosanct regardless.

Ginaz:
They are many. A friend is passing through this , she was a virgin too when she met that useless guy. he treats her like she doesn’t exist despite the so-called respect . roll eyes.

Ladies, don’t kill yourself respecting a guy for a mumu button that won’t add anything to your life .

Don't be too sure, things are not always what they seem to be so there may be an underlying issue you have no clue about, forget that she is my friend, I know her too well line..

And perhaps you are the one then it means you were unfortunate to be with a crazy guy or maybe one out of 100guys who are exceptions.

And that your last line gives you away. You obviously have issues with respecting a guy.

Respecting a guy is a confirmed trusted mumu button.

Ginaz:
Hmmm
Respect ! What of those guys who their babe accord respect to but treat them like trash?
Every man Mumu botton is different.

Show me a man that treats a respectful lady like trash and I will show you a mad man.

And I hope the trash you are talking about has nothing to do with unfaithfulness cos in the world of women once a guy is unfaithful to them then it means he does not value them.

Mumu button is a popular Nigeria Pidgin English slang which means a person's weak spot and when properly triggered, in most cases, will make that person grant requests that is asked of him or her if the person has the capacity to oblige.

It is a general belief that every man has a mumu button and most ladies are always interested to know the mumu button of their men...

Well let me give you one time tested and trusted mumu button that works on most if not all men since the days of Adam...

IT IS CALLED RESPECT.... Try it, it works like magic.

No. But only for people who are skilled in marketing.
It is an alternative source of income that takes time to grow but it is the approach 9f Nigerians that makes it look like scam cos they want fast dividends.

24brains:
is that grown up lady a minor? What is your definition of a minor?

That was why i wrote on the previous thread that this minor thing is twisted. That a lady has sexual features developed does not make her an adult and that a lady has no visible sexual features does not make her a minor.

Biological maturity starts when a guy starts producing sperm and when a lady starts menstruating. Scientists have concluded that the age 18 is not the true age of maturity cos many people don't mature mentally until around the age of 25.

So many twist and turns.

Candycrushy:
Does age really matter in a relationship? I've been getting different answers to this question as some will probably say age is just a number. This man in question is everything a lady can ever ask for, caring, supportive, prayerful, and kind. My fear is just his age, he's 12 years older than I am, I'm still in my early 20s. I'm scared of taking the relationship too far and giving him false hopes of marriage because that's exactly what he wants..secondly, my family might not accept him because his looks already shows off his matured age.. I like him very much tho...
I need suggestions.

12 years too small sef. If you like him and he truly loves you just relax and build a life with him.

richie240:
Obviously!

It wasn't a random occurrence. It wasn't as if d CCTV had always bn there and by happenstance caught him in d act, mba!
She purposely installed that surveillance camera for the sole purpose of setting him up.

She 'wined' him to come over as she wanted him to 'feature in a film she plans to shoot', not knowing that d daughter of eve had prepared d 'meal' he loves most.

I blv the trapper and d trappee had something going BTW them. She must have felt hurt by him and blvd d best way to deliver d ultimate checkmate was to set him up.

If he's found guilty or not in a court of law, so be it, but no one can tell me that there's no iota of vendatta in princess' action.

As if you watched another video where a guy clearly said exactly what you wrote.

Within the ambience of law, even if a minor lures an adult(and the adult is fully aware that she is a minor) , the adult should avoid the minor at all cost which was where baba ijesha goofed..

It is very easy for men to condemn baba ijesha but then how many men will be able to overcome such temptation where a "minor" with fully developed sexual features will make advances and not at least touch as baba ijebu did.

May we not be led to such temptation..

qualityovenbake:
It baffles me how someone will defend a rapists with full knowledge of the crime the perpetrator has committed.

Panti police station should do us favour. As soon as he shows up for the protest, he should be arrested. His a rape apologist.

It baffles me how someone will use the word rapist in this case with the full knowledge of what Rape means.

Where are you from?

November24:
I like this guy,anyhow una see am

I Like this guy,this is friendship.
Baba ijesha was setup.

Kings pls be careful o. Even your babe can set you up

It was actually a set up and they may lose the case cos the new viral video showed how the said girl actually made move towards Baba ijesha which is somewhat contradictory to the previous video and the said girl in that particular video was also said to be above 18years(Not sure of all these but that is what i saw in the new video)



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BUfUcTIaM0E




Go to 4mins and see why i feel this is a serious set up. I am not rooting for baba ijesha but lets be pragmatic a bit.

Freestainworld:
Rapist speaking out for his colleague, this is a sensitive matter, no sane person will even like to associate with it.

The question is.. ''Is it bail able?'' and by the way there is no case of rape here but indecent behaviour.

otipoju:
Really? Your ignorance is amusing.

Cele is not meant to be a Behind church.

It is like the operating theater of a hospital where life saving surgeries are carried out.

Its not a pretty place. If you need motivational speakers go pentecostal.

Please name your wine and i will deliver it to you asap.

Celestial church and i mean the real ones are gifted with victory anointing and im talking from experience. Some churches have anointing for break through, and some are purely evangelical.

No church is better than another cos they all serve different purposes under one umbrella which is Christ Jesus.

Winners use mantle in form of white handkerchief and it is working for them, some churches use anointing oil, Cele use Perfumes and only white candles and whenever you see Cele use coconut, salt or any other stuffs they are simply symbolic for prayers and nothing more to it.

But ignorant people will always be ignorant.

ednut1:
are you a cele member

I am a member of Celestial, Christ embassy, winners, redeem, Daystar....

ednut1:
I regard educated people who still go to cele as big fools

The way you guys just make comment sometimes make me wonder.

How can an educated person write this?

Only fools condemn other churches, mosques or any other religion.

Why not say anyone who attends any church at all is a fool.

Please stop this shallow mindedness.

OK o

helinues:
We have read this severally..

Why the repetition?

Out of the said 15 victims, na only 7 get names....How about the remaining 8 victims

Animalistic post from a heartless Clueless satanic minded person.

This is why foreign countries see Africans as animals and that is why the lives of blacks don't matter to them cos we don't care about our own.

You want to see the names of all of them like seriously! Is the death 9f just one person not enough to condemn the perpetrators?

GeeX:
He just outdid himself... I am a Yoruba man, but this has gotten to another level, Sunday Igboho just shot himself in the foot.

Baba Adeboye isn't someone you will insult or ridicule and go scot free. Every Christian in Yoruba land is by extension, a child to Baba Adeboye and we say NO to this!

I have not watched the clip but Sunday should know that Pastor Adeboye can't openly support Yoruba nation even if he secretly wants it to happen..

Modified...

I just watched the clip and as a Yoruba guy I can say he goofed big time.

Sunday Sunday Sunday how many times I call you? Be guided.

SocialJustice:
42 years man looks 62.

The way they age more than their actual years baffle me o.

I thank GOD for my genes.

DemonInvoker:
The Man Is A Porcupine...Why Marry Her In The First Place...That's Why When I Saw A Post Of The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama Today,I just Walked Passed It.
Nothing In Marriage...This is Not 1955,Women Are Far More Pragmatic Than We Men,They Push You Into Marriage Because Of The Many Benefit's They Stand To Gain But In The End,You Realize It Is Better To Live With A Women Rather Than Marry Her As The Financial Penalties Of Divorce For Men Who Have Built Up Wealth Over Time Is Offensive...In Developed Countries Single Mothers Are Paid More Than Married Parents,Tax Breaks Are Removed...So That Should Tell U,Illegitimacy is Being Accepted Every Where...Women Tend To Behave Better When Not Married To As Compared To Those Married Who Find A Way To Starts Misbehaving After Marriage..Some Married Men Are Already Fed Up With Their Marriages,Their Wife's Get Away With Nonsense And Atrocities But If It Were Ur Baby Mama Playing Up,You Can End The Relationship Quicker and Cleaner.No Biggie.
Finally,I Know A lot Of Reasonable People Abroad Who Have Lived Together For A long Time And As They Approach Retirement Age Then They Mutually Decide To Marry And Have A Marriage Blessing...In One Of Those Cases Their First Son And Daughter Played The Best Man And Brides maid,NoThing Is Better Than That...A Piece Of Paper Will Not change Anything In A Long Term Relationship Or Will It Cement One That Isn't There, Forever.
If Only You Knew How Many Women And Men That Are Already Tired Of The Mistake Called Marriage But Are Only Putting Up Together for The kids!!!If Only You Knew how many are playing away Matches In Their Marriages because they realise Las Las "the marriage was a waste of time"...For Many It Is cheaper to Just remain In The Marriage than to divorce If Not Them Ready Jakpa.

I will be sincere with you... But for the sin attached, many people won't even bother getting married anymore cos the present day world has redefined what it really is and unfortunately it has become the norm.

Many men and women marry but what to live a single life.

AHCB:
Marriage isn't for everyone.

Very true.

Adaorababy:
Crash of second marriage? Then she's d problem

Not necessarily...

Marriage is simple yet complex.

Some people are just unlucky

humilitypays:
White garment Churches should stop answering Church.


They should answer


Celestial Mosque of Muharideen or Celestial House of Ifa Kingdom or something similar.



Stop tarnishing the image of the Church of Christ by calling every Babalawo and Ifa house a Church and calling every disguised ritualist, Babalawo, Dibia, Spiritualist, etc a Pastor. God cannot be mocked. God is love. God is life.

Don't let them deceive you, most people calling themselves Prophet, Man of God, Pastor, Reverend, Evangelist, etc are not called by God nor do they represent Almighty Jehovah neither do they call on the name of Jesus Christ. Jesus gives life, He does not take life. You can call on God from anywhere you are and He will answer you so long as your ways are right with Him and you have faith in Him alone.


Stop running from one prayer house to another seeking for urgent solution when you can seek the face of God right in your bedroom and He will answer you. I am a living witness of the wonders of God. Whenever I call upon the Lord He answers me, even if I am walking on the road. My going to Church is to worship God and thank Him for His amazing love and kindness towards me not to seek for miracles.



Thanking and praising God alone from the depth of your heart can cause God to bless you more or solve other of your problems without you even asking. Form the habit of praising God even in your bedroom, bathroom, car, etc and watch how your life will be in few months from now.



No Pastor have the power to forgive your sin, so why looking for short cuts instead of mending your ways with God directly


They should stop pretending to be Church when in reality they are disguised Ifa house

This applies to all churches, whether white garment or pentecostal...

You have no idea what many of these pentecostal G.Os are into...

E GO shock you.

Mordson:
I abhor, detest, and despise celestial churches and all other white garment churches.

Ritualistic and fetish lots. Just imagine how they wasted a young, vibrant guy on account of a despicable ritual of candles and perfume.

Well, the deceased should share in the blame cos a supposedly educated fella should have known better. Pity.

You have the right to detest but you are also ignorant

These white garment churches are a thousand times far better than many pentecostal churches.. I'm writing from experience but you have the right to your opinion.

Batam:
It is the wish of people to be running after pastors and alfas but circumstances led them into it.
Pray you don't encounter challenge bigger than you. Your education will be nothing.
Don't you know that God use foolish things of this world to confound the wise.

Nah when some people see serious life challenges that they will understand.

post=101514005:
Some people must go to jail for this.
This is call manslaughter in the court of law (using the term murder may not be apt).
If no one is disciplined for this, this scenario will repeat itself again.

And perhaps it has been happening but they keep sweeping it all under the carpet,
Perhaps, we are reading about this now, cos there is a socialite involved.



This is even more like it!
Apt!
Thank you Reed!

God help and save your children!
#InsideLife

Well as one who understands the module operand of prayers in Celestial Church I want to say with every sense of confidence that it was not a premeditated act but purely accidental.

It was pure negligence on his side.

This is a common practise but they are usually very careful with the quantity of perfumes sprinkled on the person they are praying for but I guess they poured too much on him and perhaps the perfumes he used are the very volatile type.

This is an unfortunate incident.

IYANGBALI:
i still yinmu you again

Make we just leave am like that.

IYANGBALI:
yinmu

You no go understand but there are some things we keep to ourselves.