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The money must be good.

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Raalsalghul:
Oga Toks, you really should stop this.

Are are you normal?

The time has come.

Since they have refused to restructure either regionally or through resource control.

Nigeria is a failed state.

Killertune20:
Having dated for about 3 years, early this year, we had an altercation, I believe the distance between us caused it cause I moved to a different state.

Late last year she told me about a young pastor who's asking for her hand in marriage, I asked about her stance and she said she didn't see it happening, but 2 weeks after the altercation, she told me she is considering the pastor.

Ever since then, I have tried to move on but I can't, this babe ticks all the boxes for me, for more than 3 years cause we started dating in school while I was in 300L and she 200L, It's been like no other girl existed in the world for me.

Now the usual gimmick "the lord said you are my wife" has cost me something I value so much.

I love this babe with all my heart, now the things I do around her, like forced chats, unreplied messages gets to me, create a pinch on my ego and in a way emasculates me. It feels like she has moved on but I can't.

Now my question, how do people get over people so easily?

Have you ever met someone and felt like she was the one and it ended?

Has anyone been in my shoes and how did you move on?

The happily ever after I dreamt of has become a night mare.

Bla Bla bla Bla.. If you love her why you no marry her?

If you had proposed and she said NO then the narrative will be different.

Move on guy and be a man when next you mean another lady or if it is not too late just tell her you are marrying her... End of story.

IBILEmayweather:
This video just dey make me laugh..Britons are just so humorous

And free spirited.

They don't carry life for head.

Liposure:
left over is not food

You be small pickin.

I know a 26 year old Akwa ibom lady who is a single mum but she has been with just one man in all her life.

We have 20 year old girl without a child but with body count that will make you go mad in disbelieve.

So which one is the real "left over"?

That a lady is a single mum does not make her less attractive but this is a fact only real men can relate with.

I love sweet looking single mums.

Petyprince:
Biden on the beat, this is just the beginning. He will run down America.

You are a colosal disgrace.

Did you at least bother to know why this happened?

michlins:
See how Nigeria government will use this rare scene to ask Nigerians to endure suffering and lack of social amenities

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ume1000:
when two individuals quarrel. Always learn to put attachment aside

If you shout at your husband's brother he has every right to reciprocate

Not in Yoruba culture.

The wife respects my siblings and viseversa but in the case where a wife misbehaves, such is reported not confronted.

MLTR:
She has no right to throw out her hubby lil sis .... lets stop been foolish because we want to have undenied access to pvssy @ night.
You return from work n see your lil sis luggages outside, does that show your wife respect you, does that depict you are in charge of your home.
Women will alway want to put a man in the middle, the best way to handle it is prove to both side you own yourself.

Not when my wife is disrespected.

Go back and read her post. ''She shouted back at her because she was ranting...''

Was that not suggestive that the sister in question is rude? So the caveat is disrespect. IF any of my sister disrespects my wife then she may have to look for another place to stay.

Me and my wife are one so a disrespect to my wife is an automatic disrespect to me. If my wife offends her, she ought to calm down and report to me then I handle the case.

iamGholdaniel:
I am angry right now,
My brother’s wife is so full of pain, whenever she sight me.
I don’t know where this hatred is coming from, today she did worst than before.
a male friend visited, and I went to the kitchen to cook and serve him.

After my friend left she started ranting, and I shouted back at her.

She packed out my belongings , and she started throwing my bags and other stuffs outside.
She locked the house entrance and left with the keys

I decided to stay calm and wait for my brother to come back.

Because everything my brother own, we both struggled for it.

She has every right so calm down and respect her cos if you disrespect her then you disrespect your brother.

Pierocash:
They involve themselves in fraudulent means,come to the public and be making comments that make others look stupid.they talk with so much arrogance ,making it look like they are just been hardworking and creative.meanwhile,nah fraud dem dey do.

And you will begin to hear words like ''The you in you is greater than the you that you are by far'' , ''I started my poultry business with one egg''

Awon criminals.

wany:
And any man that can also accept the fact that a woman can not be with one gbola alone will know peace and live long. sad truth

Ofcourse... Only a foolish man will vouch for any lady or start looking for a decent lady cos he will only be deceiving himself.

Chii59:
Stop this unfounded bias. We're all very much entitled to our opinions.

What is the bias?

Don't you believe you can?
I wish you can really have a grip of your emotions.

sketcherJ:
surely surely I will say you paint a quite gory picture of the world right now. You can't be fully right because you have conditioned everyone to behave the way you project and it isn't possible. I believe there are still some good ones out there. Your experience doesn't necessarily make it the norm

sketcherJ:
looking at your comments here, it can be deduced that you have someone close to you who have snatched someone's husband or your ways aren't even right; serial cheater perhaps? And you are trying to look for justification for your ways. Well, what you opine do happen but as I said before, you aren't fully right. There is no justification

Are you conversant with the word ''Personal opinion'' ?

And furthermore do you know that it is a sign of low IQ to attack the person of a discussant rather than discus the subject matter?

If you are not intellectually skilled enough to discuss abjectively it will do you a lot of good to ignore.

Cheers.

12inchess:
Even court marriage won't keep your husband. Well it's some kind of security but the truth is that you can't keep anyone that doesn't want to be kept.

No she believes she can...she has the power.

12inchess:
Hahaha. . Now I see why the wife's family is always insisting on Church marriage (which is essentially a court marriage in the church). How come nobody explained this to me when I was getting married. Hahahaha . It's not like I plan to marry more wives or something. But it's funny I'm just figuring out why the bride's are always so particular abt the church wedding. It entails some kind of legality to marry one wife. My point is that why should there be no legality to marry multiple wives since traditional Africans did. Or we just copied and pasted the Queens law? Afterall everyone that has any sense should know the real wedding should be the traditional wedding. It appears that white wedding is also some kind of security against higihagas like this.

You are on point.

It is our follow follow mentality that has brought us to this level we are.

Our type of marriage is 100% traditional. No where In the bible was church wedding mentioned but our slavish mentality made us tow that path.

See I am not a fan of polygamy, it is stressful, complicated and even dangerous but be it as it may, it remains a better option for men who just want to be with another lady.

What we see from outside is not what it is. Many men are suffering in their marriages and crying in silence but as soon as they decide to marry another lady, those who have no clue of their story will be quick to condemn.

Polygamy is not a sin, no where does the bible call it one. The idea of one man one women was brought by the white man who are now aldo forcing homosexuality down our throats.

The duty of a woman is to get married, raise a GODLY generation and have access to nice sex whenever she wants. Her duty is never about monitoring who her husband sees or how many ladies he chooses to be with...there are better things in lfe for a woman to pursue than the lame me and my husband mentality. As long as the man is easonable enough to play safe, a lady who does not stress her husband over his desire to be with another woman usually becomes the main woman in the life of the man...He chose her above others anyways so why can't she just maintain her place and avoid worrying her head over the other women.

Chii59:
Marriages are flawed, because humans are flawed. Saying women are lonely is a blanket statement, from a very biased angle.
Loneliness itself is subjective. Married people get lonely, single people get lonely, divorced people get lonely. You are only as lonely as you feel.

I just gave my contextual meaning.

Chii59:
If there was a court marriage, then he could be sued for bigamy.

Definitely and this is why many men shy away from court marriage.

Chii59:
Uncle, loneliness itself is subjective.

I have seen enough ladies who left their marriages cos their men cheated on them and OH YES they live a lonesome life and many are even depressed after they realize that the men they are meeting were just using them to catch cruise.

Chii59:
Did the blogger tell lies? Is he or is he not married? Has he divorced the first before proposing to the second?

He needs not divorce if there was court marriage.

See fine boy just waste himself cos of a lady when thousands are literally praying to be with a guy.

12inchess:
Technically, he has not committed any crime. He only proposed which is morally wrong without divorcing the first wife. Besides I believe the Nigerian constitution allows for polygamy right?

There are different types of marriages.

If they do just traditional, the man can marry extra wives without issues.

If they had a customary marriage the man can also marry more wives.

The issue is with Court marriage or registry as some call it...the man needs to divorce the legally married one before marrying another woman.

12inchess:
He should have atleast divorced the said lady properly before moving on to someone else.

About the husband sharing thing. Let's be honest, it's very tough for a man to stay with one woman. I seen even pastors scoping other girls. I believe it's easier for women in general.

Any lady who accepts this age long fact that a man is polygamous will experience the beat marriage ever.

We have guys who choose to be with one lady all their lives and it is a matter of choice but that does not mean a lady should expect that from her husband..it is the most foolish thing any lady will do.

Just do your best to be the man's favourite and let him be. You don't need to divorce any lady before you can marry another one, we are not in the West. If the lady wants to stay, fine and if she wants to leave, all the best.

adewumiopeyemi:
Am not married or engage

This people are married and they went to court for register and they were join in the church he stil went to social media to embrass his family dont you no internet safe if the guy doesnt respect his wife he shoild respect God that join both of them togethet

Guy there are stories hidden from the world. Nevertheless it is a man's prerogative to be with a lady or have more..it has nothing to do with disrespect.

See, there are no fresh guys out there perse for ladies who are in their mid or late 30s cos most guys in tha category are either divorced, widowers, baby daddies and so on and these ladies need to be with a man so what will they do?

Even a widower or divorcee will still prefer to go for younger ladies so just allow these ladies make their choice. There is nothing wrong in a lady wanting to be a second wife and dont bother about these hypocritical ladies wailing upandan cos if Dangote decides to make any of them baby mama this minute they will go to chirch to do thanks giving.

Just let people make their choices and live their lives.

ikeseeholdings1:
Toyin never cares about the man`s wife happiness...who cares about the Guy happiness?. No one knows what the Guy was going through in his marriage,had something happened to the Guy now and the truth about his marriage was revealed,everyone will be shouting God. i have come to realize one thing in this life,live your daily life like there will be no tomorrow,do what makes you happy and don't care about people,s opinion.
When i got married to My wife,i made a vow never to have something to do with a married woman,but after 13years of My marriage,i discovered that My wife has been sleeping with married men. What do you want me to do now?

Bro at my age I have seen things and I have experienced things. I shake my head and cry inside when I see posts from people who have no single clue of what real romance is all about.. people who are still dreamers, those who have positioned themselves for dangerous heartbreak with their very naïve mind-set and no matter what you say, experience always remain the best teacher.

With what I have seen in this life as regards romance., I just advise people not to have any high expectation at all...INFACT JUST PREPARE YOURSELF FOR UNPLEASANT SURPRISES.

Bro i feel your pain. See these ladies cheat more and they are more brutal in their ways. Just get a lady to raise a family with and dont have any expectation of getting a decent lady else.

Love your wife all the same cos most of them are in the same boat o. There is hardly any sexually decent ladies out there.

What is this for Petes sake?

12inchess:
Husband no plenty for outside. Na snatching era we dey now. Make women better be protecting their men oooo. Before na to just be the side chic but the ladies of now want it all together with the ring and change of name.

A maa rogo oooo

There is nothing like husband snatching...what we have is husband sharing and it has been like that since the days of Abraham.

I just pity all these female toddlers who are still in their 20s with the lame mentality that they cant share their husband....laslas you will be displaced to live a lonely life.

adewumiopeyemi:
Some men just like disgracing our gender in social media if you dont respect your wife respect God that join you guys together

You are the one digracing us with your shallow mindset. How many girlfriends do you have?
Please allow people live their lives.

Romanoff:
When you hear men are scum, na this one type them dey talk about.

The woman that also decided to be dating another woman's husband and even accepting a ring from him is scum.

Nigerian actresses collecting husband's like Thanos collecting Infinity stones on his gauntlet.

Radarada.

You are still very immature in matters of the heart.

No worries, laslas all of you will learn.

So what exactly is wrong if she decides to be a second or third wife? How many of you are second or third girlfriends which is even worse than being a second wife.

I see lame comments everywhere but of course the comments are coming from toddlers who have no idea of what they are writing.

Hypocrites everywhere. Many of you will gladly become a baby mama to Davido and Dangote but will come wailing online over the decision of another lady.