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placeofallure:
I've never thought of this, but now that you asked.... I think it's spending time with me and expressing it. Reciting it all the time like a nursery rhyme. kinda childish but that's me.

Gbam!

The truth is that no matter what a guy does for you to prove he loves you, if this is missing, you will never feel loved and he will just wonder why.

Ikjosh04:
All of the above but the love language I value most is, Submission and Tranquillity!!

Suprisingly you didn't add those 2 to your list.

These are attributes or better still they are classified under act of service.

THE POWERFUL EFFECT OF LOVE LANGUAGE

When you hear the term love language what comes to your mind?... Let me guess... You probably think it is when you say or hear sweet things to or from someone you love but you are so very wrong..

Love language is that unique and peculiar way people expect to be treated for them to have a level of assurance that they are loved and the most complex twist to this is that every individual has a different love language and this is why you must meticulously find out the love language of the person you are with and not just assume you know.

OK let me make it simpler for you to understand by listing the different love languages we have.

1.Physical Touch: This is the love language of some people and no matter what you do for them, if this is lacking then you don't love them... If you like give them all the Diamonds in the world, as long as you don't touch them as often as they want, they will never feel loved and may Likely cheat on you with anyone who is ready to to communicate with them this way even if the person does not truly desire them.

2. Words of affirmation : This is the way some people understand love. Do whatever you think they love, if you don't tell them often how you love and appreciate them, they will fly away into the hands of anyone who will and even if the person is lying to them, they care less but just tell them often how special they are to you or how sweet they are and you are guaranteed their love and devotion.

3. Gifts: This is as straightforward as it sounds.. Just by some people gifts whether expensive or not and you have their love and devotion, to this group of people nothing else is as important as you buying them gifts from time to time and no matter what you do, to them they will never feel loved until they find someone who buys them gifts.

4. Quality time : This set of people care less about words of affirmation gift, or anything else but just spend time with them and I mean quality time and you have them loving you like puppies, this set of people are the type that complain of their lover not spending time with them even if they get the whole world from same person

5. Acts of service : This set of people just need you to be there for them in terms of rendering little assistance from time to time. This is their own love language and they will fall in love helplessly with anyone who is selfless enough to Render a helping hand even if you have nothing else to give them.

The Question now is.... "How do we know the love language of the person in our lives..."

The answer is very simple... ASK. don't assume.. Many of us know what makes our hearts melt so stop assuming and stop doing the wrong things cos no matter what you do, if you don't communicate with your significant other in the precise love language they love, you will only make them feel unloved and may likely lose them to someone who hits the right spot.

So when you hear your loved one complain to you that he or she does not feel loved by you regardless of all your efforts, please don't get confused, you are probably not using their love language to communicate with them. Once you get it right, you will definitely experience a whole new boost in your romance.

Hope this makes sense.

This life sha

To think that in that pics they must have felt so good that they killed it.

Nice memories and thank GOD for their lives.

Omihanifa:
But if no be greed how can Tinubu be nursing the ambition to rule Nigeria again after all the money stolen and he's still stealing from Lagos State government

The man should just go and chill and be enjoying his loot till he dies

Already his hands are shaking and he's even sluggish in communicating. So what's the point of going to a bigger stage to embarrass yourself like Buhari is doing presently

Tinubu has terrible advisers.

I thought he is a smart Man but I was wrong all along.

If he knows what is best for him he should just retain his role as a king maker and present Osinbajo to avoid a colossal embarrassment.

lilvicky68:
How did a car save his life? It's only God that can do it..and it's not his appointed time to die..

The thing weak me... They would have paraphrased it.

The car prevented serious injury but it was GOD that saved him.

[quote author=Ctorch post=99479356]I pity Chioma – Nigerians reacts as Davido steps out with alleged new girlfriend in St. Maarten (Video).

Top Nigerian music act, David Adeleke aka Davido has sparked viral reactions after being caught on camera stepping out with a new woman while on vacation.

The singer who is currently in St. Maarten, was seen holding hands with the lady reported to be US rapper, Young MA’s ex-girlfriend, Mya Yafai.

Davido and Mya further stirred dating rumours with their Insta-story photos showing the same sea side in St. Maarten.

The DMW boss is engaged to Chioma Avril Rowland who is also his baby mama, and the short video clip has left feeling some level of pity for Chioma as fans wonder if Davido is now dating a new girl.

Watch the video below:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5fNiDB-1QDM

Nigerian superstar Davido stepped out in St. Maarten with Young MA’s ex 👀 pic.twitter.com/JnfsTz3SK5

— TheShadeRoom (@TheShadeRoom) February 27, 2021

don't support randinness cos it is an irresponsible way of life but you ought not to start that first paragraph with "I pity Chioma"

Did she tell you she wants to be pitied?

Was she not aware of the randy life of Davido?

Did she not meet other baby mamas before agreeing to open her legs?

Unfortunately Chioma may never marry Davido if the Perruzzi story is true.

Davido may not escalate it but he is seriously pained and the only way she can find succour is to find another lady.

LadySarah:
A certain Chii59 has been trolled out of nl last week on account of her sickle cell health status.While I don't know her nor holding brief for her as some them said it was a tit for tat thingy,its a call for us to be careful the jabs we throw at ppl.Some are just looking for a lil trigger to commit suicide.

Ppl who know her should call her pls.I fear for her.

I also think this late Victorian was too open with her issues on nl which weaponised the trolls .So many offline chats especially with guys and all.When it isn't even business related.

Well I'm not suppose to make reference to this but for the sake of your post I will.

I actually sent Chi a PM which I rarely do cos I have a policy of not sending PM to any nland lady.. But I did in her case not for anything else but to encourage her after I read where a guy was actually trolling and cyber bullying her cos she is SS and I was like Gosh! Who does that.

She reassured me that she is not so bothered with the trolling and I tried to belive her cos I know how depressed one can get when he or she is trolled by personal negative issues.

No matter what, in yoruba land we don't joke with "Ebu ara" meaning no matter how angry we get, we don't ever attack anyone with personal issues expecially when it is about their health, body or unfortunate happenings in their lives.

However I will implore people to reach out to her more cos I strongly believe she needs all the love she can get.

Even Victoria, I have encouraged her several times and she did very well for herself until the cold hands of death did its worst.

dessycute:
I don’t usually comments on threads but I don’t seem to understand why Nairalanders keep trying to outdo each other in trolling, religion bigotry and tribalism. I’m not sure most people realize there are so many opportunities available on this platform. This platform generates millions for some of us weekly, permit Me to say I can mention 10 monikers who are counting millions daily from this platform. Let’s all learn to tolerate each other, if a post or comment contradict your view, just simply ignore or drop your view without unnecessary arguments. As for the woman, may her soul find favor in God’s sight.

Millions weekly, millions daily.. Not even monthly..

Even Seun no make millions daily but what do I know? Anything is possible under the sun.

Ishilove:
It's the truth. A friend died of cancer last month, and even though I hadn't chatted with her in a very long time, I suddenly found myself thinking of her one day. Three days later she died.

Ishi abeg no let people begin fear you o.

Maybe these were just coincidences.

Nooooooooooo

I just got the info now.

She is my very good friend off nairaland.

We communicate regularly but I have no clue she is late.

Oh myyyy GOD

This was her last post on Facebook just few days ago.

It is still hard for me to accept. Nah so people dey die?

Some churches use mantle, olive oil, Holy water and so on whilst some use candles and perfumes...

Jesus once used the sand and saliva but at the end it is our faith In Jesus that heals and performs miracles and not really these things..

Near Decapolis, some people brought Jesus a deaf man who could hardly talk. Jesus healed the man, of course, but in an interesting manner: “Jesus put his fingers into the man’s ears. Then he spit and touched the man’s tongue” (Mark 7:33).

Later, in the town of Bethsaida, Jesus healed a blind man. Again, the miracle was preceded by spitting: “He . . . spit on the man’s eyes and put his hands on him” (Mark 8:23). To heal a man born blind, Jesus “spit on the ground, made some mud with the saliva, and put it on the man’s eyes” (John 9:6).

Certainly, Jesus, the divine Son of God, does not need physical props to work miracles. In many cases, Jesus merely spoke, and healing followed (e.g., Matthew 15:28; Luke 17:12-14). Yet, in three cases, Jesus used His spittle in the process of healing.

Without faith, works are nothing.

4 kids... They should think twice.

Yungstallion:
Have you ever wondered about the history of the origin of beads? Their origin is traced back to the African community, especially those with kingdoms like Nigeria and Ghana where women in the royal families wore them and people would use the different patterns, sizes, quality and length to differentiate their status.

Having said that, these are some reasons why women may want to put on beads. Here are some of the reasons.

1 Fashion, Fashion is what every woman desires to have in their life. A fashionable woman is a darling to everyone.

2 Weight watch, Majority of women would use the beads to watch if they are gaining weight or they are loosing it.

3) Cultural Heritage.
Some communities among the Indians value this type of beauty and they always keep it as a value addition.

I love waist beads expecially the silver.

EMMARY2000:
See the denial thread https://www.nairaland.com/6435460/christian-pilgrim-commission-tonto-dikeh



https://www.instagram.com/p/CLxVfqYn8mI/?igshid=1hzvxzth57r44

Why is she embarrassing herself?

That she took pictures is not a proof...let her show a form of letter or document attesting to it else she should just keep mum over the matter.

Nostradamus1:
Audio vp

You are very ignorant of the constitution.

VPs are Infact dormant. They are only as important as the president make them to be.

Infact Osinbajo in my opinion is the first real active VP I have come to know since I became an adult over 20years ago.

100trillion:
My senior bro wedding was schedule for the 30th day of October 2021, his wife and her fams were on his heads, telling him to make sure the wedding is the talk of the town, that, he should rent a big hall and make sure food; drinks; meats; kola etc. are available.

So last night he told me, I asked if his wife contributed anything, he said "Monetary" No....that she said she'll bring ppl to cook food and handle things women are meant to handle.

I told my him: Snr bro, make marriage simple. Don't take loans for wedding, don't use all your savings on wedding just to please people. People come to eat, drink and leave you in povery. Manage what you have. If your wife can't help you to think straight, then she ain't wife worthy.
This afternoon, in my presence he called his in-laws and called off the wedding....thank God he has not complete the dowry.

Hope I was right?

Super story.

He called off the wedding just like that.

NEXT!

This reminds me of this thread I wrote 6years ago.

My very first thread to make Front page on nairaland.

https://www.nairaland.com/2521393/when-maid-becomes-madam

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Interesting!

The name of the bisexual Sugar daddy abeg.

BadBradley:
Who is bobrisky and why should his opinion of anything matter?

A pervert, a desperate dweeb chased by unbroken generational poverty, he had to sell his humanity to make a living.

There are many other honourable line of business this human debris could have chosen but he was neck-deep in poverty which in turn corroded his morality.

There's little wonder that the only excuse he gives for his abominable lifestyle is the material acquisition he has made over time.

Unfortunately, this is a human every parent will pray their children don't turn into , even if it means bringing them our of poverty. Even bobrisky's parent would secretly cry to God for their lot for a sin like this.

Bobrisky is a tormented soul , embittered by his life choices which has fedon his flesh like maggot does cadaver and not even the devil would have thought his handiwork would manifest so badly in any human like it did on this human disaster called bobrisky.

Your opinion, his choice

Live and let's live... Let GOD be the ultimate judge.

All I know is that no matter how transgender you make yourself, your soul must retain the original you.

When you hear "Shebbi you know I am shameless from person wey you wan fight abeg just make peace"

Shallypop:
Hi! I sent 15k to your wife's account.

You are kind hearted.

Keep it up.

aanexplus:
Shey dem dey knock mortuary doors in the abroad too or should I keep quiet?

Go on YouTube and type... Ghosts caught on camera in morgues and get blown away.

engrchykae:
Some guys came to buy moi moi (the one in peak milk can),paid the seller and while they were leaving they told the woman to come around this side and collect her tins.
When the woman finished selling,she was short on time,she now remembered that some guys told her to come around for her tins,she now found the tins on the door of the morgue,she parked her tins,she saw the chief mortician and narrated her story,the mortician asked her if she can recognise the guys,she affirmed ,the mortician opened the door and let her in,she saw the three guys lying on the floor with fragments of moi moi on their shirts.
Her head swelled up.
Life is bigger than what we can see

Indeed, only the stark ignorant will believe otherwise.

Me i have stopped doubting mysteries cos this world sef nah mystery on his own, The creator is a mystery and humans are mystery.

NaijaOlosho:
Akeem is mad

He is not mad...he only gave his opinion which he is entitled to.

The real mad people are those that will vote for Tinubu cos only an insane person will say Tinubu is his or her preferred candidate.

Osinbajo or i wont vote at all.

Tinubu is a Colossal mistake, a misfit and the biggest mistake that Nigerians will ever make.

mosdii:
Avoid Typical Naija Farm Tools because Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

This terminology cracks me up anytime i see it.

uruba23:
You don't know the level of familiarity in their discussion neither do you know her background, she probably come from a free spirited world because normal Naija babe would always form hard to get ...as for eating snail well she went too far, in the Nigeria context but in other cultures it might just be normal and yeah not all men enjoy eating snail that is why she probably asked. Don't get it wrong,the fact that she is saying it doesn't mean she want to execute it.It is just a Jovial talk nothing personal.

Why am i thinking you are the Boss in question?

Cos your post sounds as if you were there when she was telling him.

uruba23:
Eyaa Poor girl just shooting her shot like there is a manual for that, since it is her first day on the job I doubt she has a copy of the company policy..
I think she should pass with a warning, it is not like she assaulted the guy, all he need do is to reply to her shot . Na question she ask, person wey ask question no dey miss road.

Just like someone wrote, you don't shoot your shot by telling your boss you want to face sit him cos not all men love eating snails.

But who knows... Maybe this second chance is for the boss to see if she really meant her words...

JayCynic:
How did area boys get to see a tattoo on your back?


From the image on the post, the tattoo is fuzzy and sparsely identifiable.


Based on what I know about area boys, they only care about your money, your phone and weed. No goddamn area boy beats you up for a freaking tattoo, they simply don't care.

This is probably a made-up story by Bobrisky for publicity, perhaps trying to stay in the public eye because Nigerians are too busy hustling and no longer care about him or his leaky anus.

You get sense jare.

At least the acting paid off.

Nooel1:
They are right, no man alive can match his bribery and corruption antecedents in the world.

A man who empowers Agberos and place them ahead of educated Lagosians in Ilu Eko.

A man who derives joy in looting Lagos state treasury while giving back a bottle of groundnut oil to Lagosians.


Is that one a presidential material?

Only a clueless enemy of Nigerian will vote in Tinubu.

Dead on Arrival. Osinbajo or someone else but unfortunately we may have to choose between two bad options if Tinubu forces his way to be APC candidate and Atiku comes out one last time.

Should that be the case then ATiku will definitely carry the day as he is likely to be more favoured regardless of his corrupt records.

larryjonze:
Why is everyone believing the story, no bank or money lending institution will give long term personal loan for 5yrs. maxi one year by extension two years.

He must be a clouter. Anything to make front page