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AwkaetitiBabe:
Why do u feel its late? Meeting up with someone on a date does not mean anything romantic must be attached. Are you married now?

True that.

HealthOfficer07:
I don't want to create a thread, just to share a burden with one or two people here, here is the story!

My girlfriend has a male bestie!
Always chatting and calling her!
She said he's her colleague at work
Though from another branch,
She said he has a girlfriend
Yet he won't just leave her alone
And I think my girlfriend is enjoying all of it,
I checked their chat,
She told him that she's hořny
And asked how he can help
Can you imagine?
I'm sure there are lots of talks underneath
Maybe she deleted them!
I tried to chat the guy off with a text,
While she was sleeping by my side!
In their next chat,
The guy said he's mad at the text I sent
My girlfriend replied she's madder
Because of what I did,
I was very angry,
Because they are even on same side,
Unmhmnn!
Is this not one chance?
Even though she claimed to love me
She claimed to be a virgin and no sex thing till marriage!
I told her this guy will destroy our relationship,
She said he won't that he's just a friend,
Unmhmnn, I'm a very emotional person,
And quiet truthful too,
I'm plain to her, neither am I doing unnecessary
Chats with any other girl.
That saga shattered me, I only braced up as a man
And took it calmly till she left!
Why can't we just be truthful and plain to ourselves in relationships?
Why must we be doing hide and seek?
Is it that difficult to find a truthful person to date?
What is Love turning to these days?

You really need to have a hold on your emotions or you may have a psychological breakdown...Take every relationship with a lady with a pinch of salt whilst trying your best to make her happy.....some ladies are nasty and flirtatious and not that she is really cheating on you.

Keep your options opened too so that she will know she is replaceable....but above all..Don't let your emotions control you...have a grip.

morningstar55:
Fantastic read,kudos @Toks...and to the struggling dudes like me,bear it in mind that getting married is one thing,providing for the family is another.As for me,age cannot push me into a fight I can't finish,i'll rather remain single.

This is where many men get it wrong.

There is an uncommon favor that GOD bestows on you the moment you take that bold step to the married.
Proverbs 18:22 says: Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord.

This does not mean you will not be hard working as a man but you can't continue to wait forever judging from the uncertainties of life and that you have before you get married does not mean you cant go broke.....furthermore i believe that ladies of this generation should understand that parenting is a combined effort hence the need for them to also be up and doing.

Evercurious:
THANK YOU.. UNFORTUNATELY MOST GUYS PREFER LADIES THAT SET THEM ON DEMAND JOURNEY... AS IF IT MAKES THEM FEEL MORE OF A MAN... THEREFORE THEY END UP WITH SLAY QUEENS...

lol! this is the wrongest assertion you can ever make as regards men.

The older a man gets the lesser he has an interest in chasing a woman. I was chatting with a nairaland lady friend yesterday and i told her stuffs that got her wondering....Many guys of marriageable ages want ladies that will practically come into their lives and grab them....this is the secret bad sharp ladies use to get responsible men.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Its fine then.

Another Damsel to behold...its amazing that i have never had any date on nairaland in all the years i have registered but i guess its too late now.

All the best sis.

Titugirl:
Settle down...just like that?
# peace bro

Just glanced through your wall and i must say you are naturally alluring...please maintain that beautiful figure and natural look...Guys love ladies the most in their natural state.


Hope you are finding the thread interesting.

Legits:
hello everyone in the house. am new here. am also in search of a man for a relationship that would lead to marriage. am in my late 20s, working, a yoruba by tribe and i reside in lagos. thanks

I love your boldness jare..many ladies think it is out of fashion to reach out. Drama does not translate to good virtue but it is how you present yourself to that guy that matters.


All the best sis.

BTW i am very happy this thread is still relevant...

englishmart:
some of us think taking of alcohol is a sin. Ephesians 5:18 say. Do not be drunk with wine wherein excess, but rather be filled with the Holy Spirit.
One can only be drunk or inebriated if they take an overdose. The Bible says, instead of you to be affected by the overdose consumption of intoxicants, it's better to be filled instead with the Holy Spirit. If 5bottles of Hero larger is my main dose Taking 6 bottles and above will make me misbehave. And that's the problem. What one takes in doesn't matter much, but that which proceedeth one's mouth.

Many do not understand that taking alcohol is not the sin but when you get drunk, you have crossed the line.

The best thing is to kuku stay off alcohol totally cos there is a very thin line between moderate intake and getting drunk.

itspzpics:
hmmmm he needs chioma


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Una no go leave cele people alone bah

Harlem2:
This guy movie ehn

Pesin no fit pirate am

At all lol.

I searched sotey online I no see them.

Chai! Jesus please come quickly....


And one unfortunate guy go marry this one.

Eze2000:
Hi,
My whatsapps number is on my profile. **(VIM). Pls add me up let's chat. I really need to talk to you.

Thanks

Pataricatering:
This is how you read mixed messages into everything - so silly ! Where and how did you get the idea he is dating the lady - nothing that was said you n the video indicates that - he brought other girls to buy intimacy gadgets but he is dating the lady , he threatened he would slap her and the lady said she had known him for years - so therefore in your mind they are “ definitely “ dating ? How dumb !

And your parents wasted their time and money to send you to school...i really pity them o. Chai!

The true test of sound intellect is how we respond to people's opinion...


What a pity.

Kahujadekadura:
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Pls for d sake of history, Martin Luther is not freedom fighter. He is a human right activist.
Mendela ran to Nigeria on exile. Read ur history and stop disgracing ur ancestors here.
Malcon x aslo is a human right activist not a secessionist. He was also assassinated just a Martin. Assassination is not a measure to knw who is a hero or not becos it is not d person will or wish to be assassinated. They are knw as hero's becos of their course not becos dey were assassinated.

You are spewing trash.

Stop comparing Mandela to your clueless kanu. Mandella may seek a temporal refuge in Nigeria but he was bold enough to face the adversaries head on.

So how does this exonorate You?

Too bad the senator has just ended his career. Please lets learn to control our emotions.

I was molested at the age of 10, raped at the age of 17 by a calabar girl named Carl and that was my first time of sex.

It was as if that was her mission....again at the age of 20,21,23 and on and on.... this affected me so much that wooing a lady became so difficult cos all my life i have been taken advantaged of as ladies will just find their way into my life and practically have their way with me so i felt that is the way it should be.

Now i understand why i can't chase a lady...once i tell her i want her and she starts acting up i just let go and i enjoy being dominated by a lady because all my life ladies have been the ones having their ways with

gbosaa:
And he was in a sex shop buying heaven knows what!

I pity all ‘runs girls’ in Abuja who go after these people.

He has the right to be wherever he chose bit that is not the issue here...it is the assault that we should be talking about.


From what I could put together in that video...he is definitely dating the lady he accused of abusing him but transferred his aggression to the innocent lady cos I still don't see any crime in a simple speech "Take it easy oga"...

He should be arrested immediately and suspended if possible removed as a senator.

AngryNijerian:
You know nothing about Mandela. Don't embarrass yourself further

Lol! Please educate me.

You guys should be ashamed of the so-called Igbo leaders talking about Ojukwu who fled after leading several thousand to their death and history is repeating itself with Kunu.

MAY GOD GRANT YOU PEOPLE SENSE.

simonlee:
And Ganduje is still walking free despite being caught on camera too?

See APC lawyers and how they think ba?

Festus...

I'm sorry to say but you are so ignorant as well as those who gave you the likes.


A senator does not have immunity but a governor does.

Kahujadekadura:
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Tell me one freedom fighters that never went on exile

Mandella

Malcom x

Martin luther king

The list goes on...unlike Ojukwu and Kanu

Juliet11111:
Anytime I remember we igbos have someone like Mazi Nnamdi Kanu I thank my God. Igbos are indeed a blessed people.

Add COWARD Mazi nnamdi Kanu.

No real freedom fighter runs away.

Same lady I guess...kudos bro.

meobizy:
The painful thing is OP will remember him next only when broke.
Na una way here: forever beggars.

Unfortunately, no one wishes to beg for money or be a beggar even the Alimagiris. Our prayer is that GOD should meet every one of us at the point of our needs.

As regards remembering someone only in times of need i see absolutely nothing bad in that and in fact it is a privilege for you to be remembered when someone has needs cos it means such sees you as a solution to his or her problem.

trash content on front page and BTW that is not his dck but a crazy phone.

zikter:
About the Aliade-Makurdi accident:
A fuel tanker belonging to Total company was coming from Aliade axis and had a fall around Ahumbe settlement area on Aliade-Makurdi road.
The tanker fell across the road, covering almost the entire breadth of the road, with only a little space left on the right side of the road.
The tanker DID NOT catch fire however fuel had already started to leak out.
Both the driver and conductor of the tanker were still around the vehicle.
The villagers DID NOT attempt to take fuel from the tanker.
A Toyota bus was coming behind from Aliade axis.
The villagers signalled the bus driver to slow down. They told him that oil had leaked and poured on the road so he should NOT use the tiny space left on the right hand side of the road but instead follow through one of the houses to the other side of the accident and continue with his journey.
The bus driver said he could manage and pass through that space without problem so he went ahead but when he got to the place where the oil had spilled, the hot exhaust of the bus touched the oil and the bus exploded into flames killing every PASSENGER onboard.
The villagers tried to put out the fire and while they were doing this, another explosion from the tanker injured and killed some of them.
I feel so sad right now... so very sad.
The Questions and lessons:
1. Could these deaths have been prevented if the bus driver had listened?
2. Could the passengers in the bus have been saved if they were reasonable and courageous enough to come out of the bus and allow the strong headed driver to drive through that dangerous spot alone?
3. Could the villagers lives have been saved if they weren't trying to rescue fellow human beings (strangers) in danger?
4. Will the relatives of these passengers ever know what happened to their loved ones if they fail to arrive their destinations?

9 out of every 10 deaths are caused by human errors and carelessness.

R.I.P to the dead.

Aduemeso:
if you can help me with a job I will appreciate it
sir
but the 2k
is to buy books for my younger brother

It is well bro. I wish your younger brother success.

All the best.

Aduemeso:
please somebody should help me with
2k, I am begging, help a brother and save a soul today
0477706396
GTBank
please

Why 2k? Why not beg for a job?

Breakingfamous:
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If a lady wakes up tomorrow to say I molested her please before you even consider whether it is true or false just check how beautiful her tits are....if they are not fine just disregard the story but if they are you can ask me very well...

Just kidding...cant molest a lady but I run away from any lady with nice boobs cos I grow so weak around beautiful boobs.