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Eziokwugbaoto:
I can bet my armpit hairs that if Fatoyinbo had not become successful and popular this rape incident won't be shaking the internet like it's doing.
Mind you any form of rape is demonic and unacceptable if the accused actually perpetrated the crime for which he is accused then he should face the full wrath of the law if not the Lady should also be charged for defamation of character we should learn to balance this things mbok

The guy fatoyinbo is a predator but these ladies are not entirely innocent too.

Fatoyinbo is extremely cute which made it easy for the ladies to fall prey cos ladies too like fine guys...the guy should just leave pastoral work and become a pop star.

Esales:
Man, that story isn't rape. He attempted to seduce her and she didn't give her consent. He didn't even kiss or hug her. What about her friend that has been sleeping with the pastor? I'm sure she regrets it now cus she was sweet talked into it. Does it make it rape?

Just wait small...that one sef go still come out to claim rape.

I'm not in support of RAPE please so no silly person should misquote me...MY POINT IS CLEAR..
From all the stories I have read so far I can not call fatoyinbo a rapist but a Randy psychopath who derives pleasure in taking advantage of young girls and also very canny.

JimD:
Consensual sex is different from rape. Even if an underage girl tempt you and you act on it. Its not consensual, because she is still the victim. 17 and below is not the age of consent. Its akin to rape. Imagine and you put "why every Muslim should accept Jesus" in your signature. Shame!

Here comes an olodo writing pooh...what has my signature got to do with my comment...its like some people comment before comprehending.

You just paraphrased exactly my comment meaning we are saying same thing so why the reference to my signature?

hadaptor:
Another Victim of pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo claimed she has documentary evidence
I was introduced to the church in Abuja by my childhood friend, who moved to Abuja from Calabar two years before I did. When I joined, she was also a PCU worker. I really felt welcome in the church up until my friend started having problems with other women. She told me it was because Pastor Biodun trusted her with so many official things even above workers that were there before her. I believed her until the day she had an misunderstanding with another worker who called her 'Ashewo Mary Magdalene' in the church. After that, her enthusiasm for church started waning while mine was getting stronger till the day she told me she was leaving the church and shortly after she left. By that time, Pastor Biodun had developed an interest in counseling me and then started telling me to take my friends place as a PCU worker. I was reluctant because I didnt feel like coming to church early and leaving late but Pastor Zbiodun assured me that his personal driver will pick me and drop me off and so I agreed. I started work as arranged but after a while, I noticed that the pastor did not respect personal space when talking to me when we were alone.
He would stand soooooo close and rub my upper arms or my back which made me very uncomfortable. The final straw was when he said I should go with him to Lagos to take notes and transfer same online immediately for some Pentecostal thing he was attending and he knew I was very computer literate. I was excited till we reached Lagos and I realized that only one room was booked at the Wheatbaker Hotel, Ikoyi. Of course I complaint and the Pastor called the front desk ( or pretended to) to demand for another room. He said they would call back when the room was ready. He then told me to help massage his back becos he has back ache from sitting on the flight. I said I was tired since it was already after 8. He then insisted I lay down on the bed to rest while waiting. I said I preferred to sit at the desk and he laughed saying that I was acting like a small girl or a village uneducated girl. He then went in to take a shower. I then called the front desk to remind then about the extra room. I wasn't surprised when I was told that they had vacant rooms and that nobody had requested for an extra room. By this time, I knew what was up and was ready for the fool.
I opened his pouch and saw his wallet which had his lisence. Took a picture of the wallet and the Lisence on the pillow on the bed with my head in the shot. I opened the door and took several pictures of myself, the wallet and the Lisence with the room number. Came back in, once I heard the shower stop, I started audio recording on my BB. He came out with a towel around his waist and started telling me how attracted he was to me. He said many deregatory things about his wife, calling her a postcard...pretty on the outside but flat and empty upstairs. He said sex with her was like having sex with a cold dead fish...he tried to kiss me and I stood up, picked up my travelling bag, moved to the door, opened it and quickly took a picture of him, standing with a towel around him. He started begging. I called him all sorts of names and insisted he give me money for a separate room or I would scream 'rape'. To cut a long story short, he asked me to shut the door, I refused, he brought out 2 bundles of N1000 and asked me to delete before he gives me the money. I told him he was in no position to negotiate. Got the money, left the Randy goat with a deflated erection and checked into another room.
First thing the next morning, I left for ABJ. By the way, remember my childhood friend that introduced me toCOZA? I narrated my experience to her and she confessed that she was sleeping with Biodun for over a year, even on his marital bed when his wife travelled. Oga Pastor, try and deny my story publicly and see American wonder....I still have the pictures and our conversation on tape. Thank God for technology!!!!!!
Written by Franca E.
Culled from La Isla Bonita
#Osaremen
#OsaremenGist

Rubbish story...this is not the time for cock n bull stories...if she has evidence the best time to present them is now and stop bothering us with super story.

JimD:
Those people defending the man are part of the reason why Nigeria and Nigeria's legal system is so bleeped up. There is a code of conduct required for a man of God. And this man has appeared on the news for this kind of shit more times than I remember. Anyone defending him without even hearing his side of the story is just plain stupid.

No one is defending him but let's say it as it is..THERE WAS NO RAPE...PERIOD.

I have been seduced by underage many times and I thank GOD i overcame the temptation and if for any reason I fell I could be charged for having sex with a minor which is an offence on its own but let's say it as it is...THEY WANTED THE CUTE GUY AND THEY GOT WHAT THEY WANTED....There was no rape.

I know women enough to understand the silly victim card they play.

Imagine a lady I met when she was 19 o and me I was 25..fast forward to 10years latter...she told me I took advantage of her naivity and that she wants to leave....i got confused...let her go and after 3 years she came back and I began to wonder...


A lady will visit your house...pull off her cloths..seduce you and the moment you are about to do the thing ....she will stop you and ask a lame question...HOW DID WE GET HERE...?

Let the shallow minded people quote me as they like...their headache....

Rubbish....see what we are saying....your friend told you...why cant she come out openly now that Bisola has?

That is how they will continue to keep mum and allow more innocent ladies to be preyed on.


Infact I'm drawing my conclusion that this fatoyinbo guy raped nobody.

They all had sex...they wanted him coz he was and still hot... he was single at the time of Bisola and whilst people can accuse him of taking advantage or sleeping with a minor which can be taged statutory rape...the sex was consentual.

FAMILYJA:
Any sane Nigerian should stay neutral as far as the whole drama is concerned. Only God knows the truth. So do not support or stand against.

Edited:

The ways and manners people attack you for airing your opinion baffles me. Whatever happens to 'everyone entitled to his/her own opinion'. All those attacking me, when you are done, take it to the bank and cash out. SMH!

You must learn to ignore as i have done.

They are only acting out who they are....dumb...they are all over nairaland...empty brains.

Proverbs 30:18-19
“18There are three things that are too amazing for me,four that I do not understand:19 the way of an eagle in the sky, the way of a snake on a rock,the way of a ship on the high seas, AND THE WAY OF A MAN WITH A YOUNG WOMAN.
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When it comes to any issue concerning sex between a man and a woman please trust no one no matter how anointed he or she may be cos even the wisest man ever lived got confused over the matter...

Nevertheless, in any fiasco involving a man and a woman there are always 3 sides to the story....His side, her side and the truth..

I can't say Busola is lieing neither will i call Fatoyinbo a liar but GOD knows best.

My advise is that we sensitize our kids to speak out in a timely manner when it comes to any form of sexual molestation so that the culprit can be brought to book immediately and not wait for years to speak out thereby casting a shadow of doubts over such allegation.

It is well

banty:
Their product gone bad is termed "a Nigeria man".. Hustle positively make your people no deny you o!

Walahi....if it is something good they call him American born.

Iranu

Sanchez01:
Rape and sexual predatory cases ARE NEVER LATE. As a matter of fact, I think now is the best time, because others have come out before them, which somewhat cements or reinforce Busola's claim.

Suleiman has only had one controversy and one person roped in (Stephanie Otobo and Daniella Okeke). Another would cause people to believe the man is what they call..

What happened to R Kelly, Michael Jackson and Bill Cosby after donkey years of alleged abuse and statutory rape? Should Busola pursue the case in a court of law and other abused ladies summon courage to come out, Fatoyinbo would be good as gone. Have it at the back of your mind that cases as this are never late. Never!

Well as they say...its never wrong to do the right thing and that she has done by coming out....but taking it to court is baseless cos there is no proof so I guess the story will just fade out as usual.

We should start sensitizing our girl child to speak out in any case of rape so that offenders can be brought to book in a timely manner thereby saving other possible victims.

Make e relax....i give am like 10years from now...he will see himself in the mirror and smile after money don brush his looks.

kong4:
You should shut up! She should wait for another robust reply we never got? Something is wrong with you.

All these lame people quoting me n reiterating my shut up to a guy saying Christianity is a scam.....una well at all?

Cocao:
You know how I know: Busola Dakolo has been a very private and family oriented person all along. Then I put myself, as an 18 year old in her shoes, I probably will not be able to process and say anything at that point.

Yes, there are ladies that claim rape when it was consensual sex, but this is one most probably is not that case. Practical thinking should have told you that.

Like I said earlier, may someone close to you that young in life never experience such, because if they do, all these "practical thinking" will fly fast out of the window.

If this man is guilty, someone please put him behind bars. Enough with it!

Ok noted.

Acidosis:
Many of them were too young and naive to speak up. What proofs can a 19 year old lady, sometimes a "nobody", probably have against a "GO"?

The psychological impacts of rape, abortion, drug, domestic violence, etc. last a life time. So it usually doesn't matter when or how it happened. More often than not, psychologists tell the victims to speak up even on issues that happened 20 years ago. That's the first step to recovery.

Issokay. Thanks for the insight

Cocao:
Let he without sin cast the first stone? Oga please use another saying as this one is not applicable.

IT IS NOT APPLICABLE TO RAPE. Do you understand the effects of rape to a child as young and innocent as that? Rape can lead to a whole lot of physical and mental instability and that is why rape is a criminal activity.

What he did is not something an apology will suffice for. It is criminal and should be treated as such.

Saying this: Let he without sin cast the first stone, means that you think it is trivial and for that may someone close to you never experience something like this

This is a criminal offe

I'm not a woman so I don't know how it feels but one thing I know is that it is very awkward for you to be raped twice and then kept mum over it.

Sometimes we call it rape but it may not be.

Why did she not shout to attract people that he did it mode than once.

I'm a practical thinker and I'm not holding brief for fatoyinbo but I hate all these seemingly hypocrisy from many ladies who will consent to sex and latter tag it rape.

Jamersirwin1971:
Someone who was raped years ago dey get proof ?? You are funny . People that made love years ago self no get proof

Exactly my point.

Many ladies give reasons for keeping mum over a long time in cases of rape just to come out latter.

My question is..WHY NOW?

Ugosample:
isolated what?

you better kip shut this old man

There are SO MANY cases like these covered up that these religious leaders do

and you are saying "Isolated case"

Accusation is not a proof of guilt so keep mum and don't be hasty to judge or call a whole religion a scam cos of isolated cases out of millions of clergies...that is my point.

Cocao:
If you follow both Timi and Busola you will realize how geniune they both are, as individuals and as a couple. Busola coming out to say this means a whole lot. I never trusted that COZA pastor person and now even more reasons not to. The whole world cannot be pointing fingers at this man for no reason

I totally agree but let he that is without sin cast the first stone...

YES he may be guilty but let's cut him some slack n be real...HE IS HUMAN.

All I expect from him is to hold up and apologize if the accusation is true and if he denies then let them present a proof.

No sentiments.

yettymuse:
Christianity in Nigeria na SCAM!

Shut up. Don't conclude cos of an isolated case and never judge until you hear the other side of the story.

No one is holy and we are all humans.

Smile4daddy:
I thought she said she has never kiss a man before

How come she get belle?

Like seriously! Must kissing take place before a lady becomes pregnant?

iamJ:
I saw this coming, once your mata gather steam

Expect diggings


It's official burna boy wouldn't marry her

Who dey marry single mother 2019?

I rather become gay and cut of my balls than marry a single mother, single mother that's another mans reminant

If she was good why didn't the father marry her

See small pickin reasoning.

I'm not the type that loves raining curses on people but I feel like cursing this woman her husband their entire lineage and anyone who is connected with them.

JESU ... see money wey one criminal dey control ..i can imagine so much more undiscovered.

oneroflo57:
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For now, I'm still on babypips and would mail you on my progress when ever i get lost or confused

All the best bro

oneroflo57:
Good day house
God bless who created this thread where ever you are and God bless all the contributors especially toks2008.

I have always been interested in forex but didn't know how to go about it. Then i came across this thread recently and all the contributions of toks2008.
I just hope he is still active and still helping people become professional forex traders. I'm atm studying the forex trading courses on babypips.comm like he instructed and i intend to send him a mail when i finish with that(might take a while).
I pray the email addresses are still active.
Thanks ones again mr toks2008 for all your contributions here.

You are most welcome bro.

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dominique:
How was the roadside seller able to recite his account number while in moving traffic? How did the man get the seller's phone number? Take all these Twitter stories with a pinch of salt

My sister GOD bless you o cos me sef don think am....

Super story everywhere.

Mariangeles:
Although the man ought to be arrested for having intercourse with an under age girl, the stupid girl is not innocent either

This underage matter sef is very relative.

Lately, i have seen many 14/15-year-olds that look like my aunty...it is easy to blame the guy but lets be frank and see things realistically.

i know many shallow thinkers will quote me to start spewing trash.

Beauty is a blessing but if you are too hot it might turn out as a curse on you if you let it get into your head.

The guy is good...The gbedu has finally entered the body.

Isreal my guy. I love this guy.

festacman:
What happened to that polished, cool and calm gentleman image, which Frank Edoho had been projecting to us? He appears to have let down the mask a little bit. Now, the possibility that he might have in fact battered his ex-wife as alleged is gaining substance.

The thing weak me o...i been dey think sey person hacked his account.