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solmusdesigns:



Well the truth is divorce is very dangerious, look at American society, too many lonely divorcee are hopelessly falling for Nigerian scammers because of the emptiness the feel at old age
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this doesnt in any way justifies cheating



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PureGoldh:
That lady's comment on that guy's post speaks volume(s)

So as a lady, if yOur husband is cheating... yOu will also cheat in the marriage abi?

yOu can't open ur cake which is sugar coated open and expect ants not to feast on them.

That ur spouse is cheating is not an avenue for you to cheat wether as a man or woman

omohlexy:
Lie kee you

Fountainofyouth:
You are the biggest odensin, she never knew he was a married man until she caught him red handed.

EVILFOREST:
So your GRAND FATHERS and FOREFATHERS that got married to many ladies and put them in the marriage ways, were USELESS...??
Is this how one should appreciate her FOREFATHERS..??.

Because a WHITE COLORED MAN came from somewhere and described how ill-structured your CULTURE is and you bought it.
Now same WHITE MAN is making you realise how GAYS and LESBIANISM should be accepted..across board.
How I wish the BRAINS of AFRICANS can be re-wired.
Most LADIES in AFRICA even RATE the WHITE MAN'S TRADITIONAL WEDDING above ours..
U people need REORIENTATION..

Made4naijalove:
A Nigerian lady, Nneka, has exposed a married man who has been pestering her for sex and a relationship and also spending lavishly on her and her friends.


Nneka says the married man whose name she gave as Stanley, has been pestering her for a relationship for a long time. He hid his marital status from her but her intuition kept telling her that Stanley was married.

She recently found out he was married. She called him out by posting a video of him professing love to her. When she reached out to him, Stanley allegedly told her that his marital status shouldn't change anything.

Watch video

source :

https://www.made4naija.com/nigerian-lady-exposes-married-man-pestering-her-for-sex-and-relationship/

theButterfly:
Hmmmm.


Would you want someone who considers you broke and/or unattractive agreeing to marry you simply b/c she knows you'll be faithful to her, but knowing fully well that, she, on the other hand, could be unfaithful w/ a non-broke and/or attractive man behind your back? Your suggestion could work in some cases by reducing the number of men who cheat on their spouses. However, it'll likely promote or increase women's unfaithfulness in marriages.

Blissbath:
I vehemently disagree on dis topic.

lefulefu:
u dont need to be wealthy as a guy to cheat. A vulcaniser or a danfo taxi driver who is married could get an agbo seller as a mistress and she wont be as expensive as dose lekki runz girls. Everybody knows his level. As for ugly ladies my brother there are ugly ladies who cheat like no man's business on their husbands or boyfriends.ladies who arnt attractive also get their army of woers.

joyberry:
Exactly, so u think ugly guys and ladies don't have other qualities people want ?u think relationship is all about appearance and money ?like seriously

lefulefu:
Toks2008 my guy that believe dat its only when a lady is attractive that she cheats is completely false. I have seen very ugly wives who cheat on their husbands with no iota of concience in dem. I have seen a married woman so ugly dat her face looks the backside of a chimpanzee and yet she still still sleeps around with different men. I have seen short ugly married men with big brown teeth who sleep around with prostitutes and they have mistresses they cater for. Cheating is not about looks. If u want to cheat even if u are physically repulsive there will be someone willing to shag u. If some men are willing to sleep with a mad woman then wats in an ugly woman not able to get a partner.

PabloAndreas:
1998?...and judging from d way he looks in dat pic there's a slight chance this guy might as well be 50

OmoAlata1:
That is why I recommend to date a man who has a good job and ugly. Even if he will cheat, it will not come that easily for him.

czarina:
Uncle Toks, your assertion is flawed.

MJBOLT:

'brokeness' and unattractiveness cannot even reduce cheating and yes cheating is easy and cheap.people cheat for different reasons,if a broke guy see the opportunity to cheat on his broke/ugly GF with a rich/beautiful girl you think he wont do it .9


IT TAKES DISCIPLINE AND SELF CONTROL TO REMAIN FAITHFUL IN A RELATIONSHIP

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virgoquin:
As if no be still this same country you go see agbero cheating on his wife and having multiple girlfriends sef....abeg find another excuse for cheating this one no follow at all

Your write up is nonsense.. you made no sense

ednut1:
he served in 1998. Do the math https://www.nairaland.com/3478913/nysc-things-must-take-along#51263894.
Egbon go and marry and put all these talks into practice

MJBOLT:

i wonder where you got the idea that dating an unattractive or broke guy will stop him from cheating it takes discipline and self control for a person to remain faithful not unattractiveness and 'brokeness'.

weyreypey:
This table has both men and women on it. We men have been complaining about rape by aunties that reprogrammed our entire existence....such that it became impossible to see the female sex as human beings but sex objects
https://www.nairaland.com/5301700/what-big-aunties-did-us

Sucremamito1:
I pray he doesn’t make d pictures public when d relationship go south..
Ladies beware of sending out any raunchy pic to anyone

Officialgarri:
Damn. Our politicians are so daring.

So you mean it is unconstitutional to own dual citizenship as a lawmaker, yet these guys didn't stop at being floor members, they had the guts to be house leaders.

And they would still buy their way out using the court that ought to uphold the law.

This is craziness and impunity.


Mehn, I'd advice you take this your trash to romance section. Is this the first time this is happening? Why can't you breath without mentioning Buhari?

KanuSE:
It would be appropriate for the guy to receive the child tax credit as he's the one in active employment. Mind you, the lady is illego & shouldn't be in the country in the first instance.

KanuSE:
The quest to be legit and be able to seek employment and other entitled benefits (as a citizen/resident) pushed the mother to that extent. IMO

As for the man it was pure greed.

KanuSE:
He should have registered as a guardian instead of misrepresenting as paternal father.

Abo123:
I purposely registered a new name because of this story so that many people especially potential husbands can learn from this. I'll like to narrate the story in details so I want you to follow me.

It all started in 2011 when my brother got a contract job in Abuja. Then he met this lady when he went to our home town during a leave but she told him immediately that she can't date him because she's short but he kept persuading her as usual.

As time goes on she started crying that she is unable to pay her 300k school fees because her father is dead and her mum is not buoyant enough to continue the payment and she may withdraw as a result of this. So he offered to sponsor her education from 200level till she graduated and she agreed to date and later married her in 2014.

To make the long story short, he later got her and her two siblings well paid federal government job through his office and later got her a car. Less I forget that their marriage produced two children (a boy and a girl) in five years.

Unfortunately for him his contract job was terminated three months ago and he decided to give her 200k so that they can manage it for four months for food stuff and house keep but she told him that the money has been exhausted after two weeks. This caused a little quarrel and she decided to leave the house with both children and went to spend the week in a hotel.

This spark an annoyance of my family members and we decided to send two of our elderly brothers to her mum in our home town but the woman started sparking that she didn't wanted to marry him in the first place because he's short but she was the one that persuaded her to marry him.

They later had another quarrel last month and the lady took the children to her mum in the home town through a flat without informing the husband and any of our family member. So we decided not to call her and a court letter was issued to him for request of termination of the marriage.

Now the marriage is terminated and my brother is seriously depressed.

I really learnt a lot of lesson from this.

J111333:
This kind of crime is universal naa, no be only Naija.