₦airaland Forum

MIKOLOWISKA:
what you see is what you get



if they are so talented and intelligent why don't they know how to raise capital?

responsible safe sex


go and do your own show and show everything you hear



why are you allowing children to watch it abi you no see warning label

the market decides baby
not you moralistic jingoist
unemployment killing kidnapping
is it your


who is stopping you from focusing
remove your log before pointing another splinter

and see where the inexperienced fools put us


are you satisfied with their handiwork?


failures the lot of them


what are their legacies


you mean the failures we had in the past



not their fault the candidates are wack
you have no case

Lol!

stephenmorris:
Its No Longer News that davido bought his girlfriend,chioma of 5 years a porshe car worth 45 million Naira.The news broke the internet and has continued to do so ,but a Nigerian man by name olakunle alison has this to say about the whole scenario.

Very Important: Davido's Girlfriend Chioma like A prostitute ,Nigerian Man Says
As Shared On His Facebook ;

A generation of women sold to money slave camps.

Sticking with a man to whom you are not married and who cheated on you with several women, impregnating two of them in the process (baby mamas) whilst dating you, and then became an accidental 'baby-daddy' is NOT LOVE just because he bought you a #45million car.

You are a needy, opportunistic, parasitic, gold-digging, low self-esteem sufferer. A Stockholm syndrome patient. You are not loyal. You are a liar. A prostitute and you share some moral equivalence.

The only reason any woman would endure contemptible treatments from a man is because of what she looks to gain materially and financially. Let's stop ridiculing the word 'Love' for the sake of posterity so that they'd be able to distinguish between virtue and vice.

There is simply no virtue in staying with a man who openly disrespects you over a period of years. None. And buying you the moon  and stars  will not make up for him treating you like human fecal matter. Money cannot buy moral worth. Rather money distorts moral worth. And that's what is happening these days.



Permit me to digress a bit whilst I elucidate on point of ethics.

Humans are created with a deep sense of moral worth. This simply means that every human being loves to be treated like a rare and precious stone. It's just the way our Maker made us. The desire to be loved, admired, desired, respected, treated fairly and kindly is part of our teleology. So when anybody willingly and voluntarily subjects himself or herself to vile and inhumane treatments for other considerations it basically reduces that person to an object rather than a subject. The person has objectified himself or herself.

Believe it or not, what we are witnessing today is one of the unintended fallouts of the extreme faction of feminism: The Moral Self-Depreciation of Womenfolk. After all, the cardinal philosophy of modern feminism is CHOICE and SELF AUTONOMY. So who are we to question a woman who CHOOSES to stay in an abusive but profitable relationship? If she has a right to choose who stays in her body and a right to choose her role in a marriage, why not this?

I once wrote a piece on the tyranny of freewill (choice). Generally, humans don't have the tool box necessary to make good choices. A man's choice will only be consistent with his true nature. And man is deeply flawed by nature, hence his choices must necessarily be flawed. A greedy man will always choose money above morals, yet he needs morals more. A dog by nature must bark and a cat moan.

Knowing this, it is therefore suicidal to build an ideology on human choices and self autonomy. Nobody (man or woman) should be self autonomous. In reality, nobody is. Everyone needs a governing and regulatory authority that sets boundaries; both moral and spatial boundaries. This is necessary for the survival of humanity because our natural appetite is self destructive. We need to be delivered from ourselves.

Feminism is toxic not because of its intended consequences but because of its unintended ones, and we are already seeing them play out. If consistency matters, no hardline feminist should be able to condemn any woman who chooses abuse and disrespect over self dignity. IT IS HER CHOICE!

We should not teach our daughters that CHOICE is the best power they have. Knowledge is. With knowledge they'd understand that they don't just make choices but that their choices make them.

The young lady's choice makes her a disgrace.

#truthissacred
Selah.

source-https://www.xclusivenobs.com/celebritylifestyle/nigerian-man-said-about-davidos-girlfriend-chioma/

Very myopic...

Men will be men whether a man is rich or poor so this makes no sense.

DrinkLimca:
Nina of bbn is her role model..
very soon Tonto dikeh will offer to buy her an iPhone x..

Wasted generation...to think this is probably the future wife of one unfortunate man.

Oluwaiphee:
Well, this one is your opinion, everybody is entitled to one. My own very candid opinion is, anytime i read or hear people talk like in this post i just wave it as that same thing that make us (Nigerians) bleeding HYPOCRITES.
I will just ask the questions and just give corresponding examples as answers:

-Do you know the amount of jobs BBNaija created, as in youths that got something to do because of BBNaija?
Ans: Sound engineers, lighting engineers, carema men, producers, dancers, security, ninjas..lol...etc

Like seriously! Jobs..for Nigerians or South Africans?

Sullyboy:
check out no hand kissing challenge

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IYAvtXSmujo&feature=youtu.be

Misplaced priority

Rukkydelta:
You are welcome
Greet wifey for me

At least I can finally rest from the "goanmarry" crew.

Rukkydelta:
Wow! So Mr Toks is married
Congratulations wishing you a blissful marriage life

Lol! Thanks sis

Davido loves her no doubt but it won't stop him from having other ladies....men are annoyingly polygamous in nature.

360frolic:
A new photo has surfaced of ex -Big Brother Naija housemates,Lolu and Anto kissing .

The duo have not officially confirmed the status of their relationship but as they say, a picture is worth a thousand words ..


http://newshelm.ng/photo-bbnaijas-lolu-and-anto-caught-kissing/


https://misspetitenaijablog.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/05/22709d329f528a6f7a946ca8f280fc34.jpg

I pity all these foolish girls parading themselves as bae to these small boys...they are ruining their marital future cos if these guys don't marry them,they will be haunted by their past especially Nina going online to say she was made love to many times by Miracle..some girls are just too dumb...must she reveal that trash?

Angelanest:
For some days now, some pictures have been making the rounds online showing how a ''pastor'' removed a lady's panties and shaved her armpit during a purported church service. The pictures were heavily criticized by online users who blasted the pastor for such embarrassing acts.

The lady involved in the matter has been identified as a Ghanaian actress, Piesie Asamoah Gifty who has been forced to speak over the trending pictures.

According to her, this pictures are from a movie 'Pastor Blinks' and never happened in a church.

She took to Facebook to share the update. Read below;

It a movie not a church as some people are saying, pls stop spreading false news Am an actress and it my work to give a practical education to the world Actress maame fante once told me acting is also in a form of spreading the word of God Basically,acting is just the practical aspect of evangelism..

Who knows?some church secretly might be going through if not same a similar situation And I strongly believe that every Christian who is having a similar experience, after watching the movie will come back to her/his senses. Instead of spreading false news to the world let help share the truth to save.

The movie is already on the market go grab a copy thank you Movie title "Pastor Blinks" Production name"Phens Multimedia" Role in the movie: church secretary Picture below is some of the behind the scenes of vs 3&4 of "pastor blinks".

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/05/lady-whose-pant-was-removed-by-pastor-reacts-over-trending-pictures.html

When it comes to these crazy stories online I always wait for at least two weeks before drawing conclusions..social media and lies be like BBnaija and sex.

midolian:
Recently, the best graduating student with 1st class honour of 4.88 from University of Nigeria, Nsukka was awarded #10,000..The gap between this piffling amount and the #25Million awarded to the winner of 2018 Big Brother Naija reality show for living a lie on TV is the talk of the moment

see picture below

so if this makes FrontPage then why hide this Mr lalasticlala?
https://www.nairaland.com/4466984/double-wahala-nigerian-youths.the-bbnaija#66947989

gonkin:
The poor only remains poor if he gives up his mission to succeed. Do you know that most rich and unfaithful people were once poor and faithful. We never know.
My own is im neither poor nor do i consider myself as rich but i know one thing about me is that im very VERY faithful. You only choose to be unfaithful if u wanna be unfaithful.

I won't blame any girl for choosing only rich dudes cuz if you were a girl you'll only go for Extremely rich guys and not shadow rich guys.

Im sure u remember me on one of you topic about 30 and single. Well if i was mega rich im sure i wouldn't have posted there cuz i would have someone.

I meant starting with a not too rich man rather than ready made.

Vikky014:
my toks my toks. longest time.

My Vicky my Vicky.

Rutheby:
So true but most lady prays for an already made guy who'll be faithful

I do too

Most rich guys are not faithful so you either choose a poor faithful guy or a rich unfaithful guy.

A man knows what he wants and it's not about age so let's hope he is man enough to own up to his words.

ishowdotgmail:
AY is senseless... So cos we don't have money yet we shouldn't profess our love through poem for our girl. He should remember, every individual have their timeline to live.

Davido has his own clock and time, so do you

Some ladies don't fancy this flashy cars cos they love unconditionally....

Any guy dating a lady born within Feb 20 and March 20 can relate.

They are not materialistic and will throw your buggatti at you if you don't treat them well.

daviesblaze:
ask a lady this question. trust me, you can be sure to get a minimum of about 10 A4 pages of qualities.

based on experience, i have come to realized that what really matters is quite a pretty small list.
and it can be any of the following based on their order of importance:

Self Confidence: of course how would you look talking to her in the first place without having this quality. infact it is very important that you can get laid with it, without having number 2 below

Good Looks: Like seriously, do i need to emphasize on this one. i don't wanna sound too cocky, but i am a living testimony to that fact.

Dope House: it doesn't necessarily have to be large or big. it should look comfy and feel manly enough.

Large Car: Think Rolls Royce, Bentley etc. but as long as you have a car, trust naija girls

Large Bank Account: 7–9 figures baby. come to think of it, how do you expect to roll and meet with ladies dope enough. am not talking about the ones you can scatter their kpekus with just 600 naira mat-ice ice-cream

Large Muscles: Kinda Cute uh. trust me, if those guy catch your babe in za other room. better start preparing your mind to avoid story that touch. am not talking about the ones on steriod oo. think of those ones in the local gym in your area.

Large Heart: Which girl no like enjoyment. trust me, with just 5k you can earn one week of free kpekus

Large Brain: Am talking about the the Smart ones, not the booky types sha. with the right type of voice and and a lil bit of manipulative techniques, you can virtually get any lady of choice.

Large Hands and Large Feet: believe me, most ladies use these to gauge the package. you can thank me later

and last but it can never be the least there is nothing as important as a Large, eh, “Package”. because at the end of the day, when all things above is done and settled, it all leads to the other room.

until next time folks, i still remain davies blaze

I thought you would leave the question open for ladies to answer so guys can learn a thing or two cos what works for Chioma may not work for Abibat

Ratello:
https://www.ghanaweb.com/GhanaHomePage/entertainment/I-fell-in-love-with-Ernest-Opoku-after-our-first-sex-Actress-647312

We all can see what this one man one wife mentality is causing...

Not all men can stay with one wife so Why not kuku marry as many ladies as you can and be happy without the need of wanting to kill an innocent baby...

Many people will lose their faith because of his actions and it will bring mockery to the body of Christ.

Even most high ranking pastors can not say they have never been with another lady after they married their wives but what does a lame misogynist like me know?..

Oya ladies quote me and blast me
..i don talk my mind.

chumaster:


This man is intellectually deficient to rule even a state not to talk of a country as big as Nigeria

Most of us voted him for his zero tolerance to corruption and in all fairness,he has not disappointed in that area.

CSTR1003:
She is not fine.

But then, when you are looking for a life partner, fine becomes irrelevant.

Chai! Who dash you sense? This is what I just realized o...im a sucker for curves and stuffs like that but of recent I dumped that mindset because when it comes to choosing a wife,curves,pretty face and those superficial things become a plus but not the de facto.

Yes the lady should be pleasing to your eyes but not compulsorily fine or curvy..

I can buy my lady the world if she deserves it...btw this Chioma lady is sweet looking and I learned she can cook fire so tell me why OBO no go wan die on top her matter...there is no jazz at work
..its common sense and I wish them both the best.

fk001:
Jonathan's administration is the third most corrupt administration in Nigeria since from independence



Kiss the truth

I voted and rooted for Buhari so that he can tackle this crazy corruption and so far he has not disappointed me in that area.

CollinsWeGlobe:
Uncle Lalasticlala, i need some accolades, i have made so much thread about snakes and crocodile more than every Nairalander.

Today in the land of Uhonmora, the youngest amongst the six children of Ora. Owan West Local Government Area of Edo State, Nigeria. A huge Python was killed by my brothers.

Uhonmora is the land that flow with milk and honey.

Uncle Lalasticlala, i will invite you here to see live snakes and crocodile.

Give me my accolades!!!

Source: http://mandynews.com/2018/04/29/big-python-killed-in-uhonmora/

You people are just killing Pythons Ugandan cos they don't have venom abi..

lefulefu:
lol Toks there are reasons why some married men are keen in keeping sidechics of which the major reason is that most of these men don't have happy homes. Their homes are become cold and unwelcoming and they have fallen apart from their wives. Do u think a man who has a warm welcoming home would think of a sidechic? Agreed there are some few unrepentant die hardened poligamist advocate but then not every man is cut out for this polygamy ish or having a sidechic. When a man is happy with his wife and his home is conducive for him he will never think of a sidechic. Hope u know there are some Muslim men now who prefer getting married to one wife. Not every man is cut out for polygamy abeg.

I quite understand but i keep asking..a polygamous man and a monogamous guy with side chic abeg what is the difference?

My point is that we should stop dwelling on this monogamous thing cos its a lie from the pits of hell..there is nothing like a man must have one wife...it is a choice and the earlier the world understands this the better it will be for our ladies who keep running out of their marriages because their men cheats or marries a second wife just to end up as sex object in the hands of randy men,become depressed and desperate for sex,become celibate against their wish or keeps remarrying and finding out its all the same.

If a lady is not ready for the possibility of sharing her husband please let her remain single. Enough of this sugar coating..Polygamy has been in existence since the days of Genesis (Gen 4:19 And Lamech took two wives to himself. The name of the first one was Adah, and the name of the other was Zillah).

So if any lady wants to hang herself today because her man takes a second wife or even keeps a mistress let her go ahead. Enuff of these silly threads about side chic or a man marrying another wife...It is an unjust world of men.

Polygamy is complex,risky,bla bla bla but it remains a choice and not a crime and ladies must live with this age long truth. They will be shouting monogamy upadan as if there are no better things in life to achieve than being the only wife of a man who will still remarry if they die.

Ishilove:
Why must she wait for a man to establish her? The man she is waiting for has one head, she too also has one head so why??

To act as a catalyst of course.who does not want one in a country like Naija?

Ishibabe..watsup?

Perfectnumber6:
. You know some of these ladies dating these married men are very young , this same girl I was talking to is just 22 years old and already dating a married man, Her reasons was that a married man has settled all issues at home financially so he would have time for the outside girls. I mean that's was so absurd of her to say. And for her to tell me again that if she gets married and her husband goes after young girls too , it won't matter to her. I just wanted to faint bro .

Bro that lady is 22 but she has the mind of a 42year old lady.

Look around and see for yourself...how many young guys do we have who are ready to settle?

You tell the young ladies not to marry a married man but what the young guys have to offer is sex and they latter dump them but the married man is ready to marry her and establish her for life...

All I want every pastor,imam,relationship experts and all women to know is that polygamy is a choice and not a crime...give your nan enough reason to stick to only you sexually and hope he does but there is more to life than all these foolish talks of monogamy.

The bible does not condemn it and the other religion accepts it so it is left for a woman to decide if it's worth it to divorce her husband and remain single because her hubby takes a second woman...

Ladyhippolyta88:
Everyone claims to know the truth and there are a lot of people who would counter your view everyone to their own experience.As for your last statement I have come to realise and believe that it is Hippolyta's world you heard that right not a man or woman's world but my own world as an individual and ever since then it has been working very well for me and it is not at my own peril because I came to enjoy life and not suffer for anyone.And I am not regreting or seeing it at any peril.Now take your myopic and primitive reasoning out of my mentions and share your so called truth and experience to those willing to buy and believe in such nonsense.

Now you are learning how to communicate intellectually and intelligently but you still need to improve on it cos you really don't need that last paragraph.

As long as your opinion makes you sleep well at night...enjoy it and do have a great week

SoapQueen:
Not worth it..I cringe when I hear some married men tell me stupid stuffs like "C, I wish I met you before my wife".. Na lie o..These men ain't loyal.

I tell them " Do you know my bad habits?". Better stop painting your wife bad because you want to impress one girl..

Lol! These are evil men and I pity any lady who falls for this.

If I will ever be with another lady asides my wife I guess my line will be "I'm married but I believe a man can marry two or more wives if he can cater for them and I have what it takes to take care of you if you don't mind"

Simple and straightforward....no long story or foolish lies..

I simply rent a good apartment for her and set her up and enjoy both women in my life without hassles...

But if I see it as baseless to have another lady then why keep a mistress...

Ladyhippolyta88:
If there is anything I know is the fact that change is constant I can never go with the bandwagon.Hope you have read the thread.You think everyone agrees with you even if it would be like that in your own world it won't be like that in mine.You talk like as if you know it all or as if people are not the one's responsible to how they live their lives.FYI it won't remain like that when I leave this world.@lalas247,Can you see another rubbish?

No need quoting lalas cos I'm the most hated writer on nairaland but many ladies who latter realize the truth i dish out contact me offline to thank me.

I owe no one an apology for expressing my opinion...infact it is a sign of foolishness and low intellect to throw tantrums,get too emotional or attack another cos they gave an opinion contrary to yours so calm down aunty.

We live in a man's world and I'm not proud to say it but it's just the truth...disbelieve it at your own peril.

Perfectnumber6:
. Lols true ooo a girl once told me that she doesn't care if she gets married and another woman is dragging her husband with her. Just because I told her to stop dating married men can you imagine .

Exactly my point...

I was listening to one relationship expert yesterday with my wife and I was just shaking my head whilst my wife was shouting yeah yeah...

Some ladies are so wise that they know some deep shity truths about men whilst some ladies just want to fool themselves sticking to illusions..

The difference between these two ladies is that one has chosen to be happy regardless whilst the happiness of the other one is dependent on the man's attitude to her.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Please keep your primitive reasoning to yourself and don't make me puke this morning.Visit the thread that made frontpage yesterday concerning a woman who discovered her husband as a paedophile.Not everyone carries your warped up mentality so save me the nonsense I would rather be called a foolish woman than agree with such rubbish.

Save yourself the tantrums...you don't have to agree but this fact has been before you were ever conceived.. it is now and will be when you leave this world.