₦airaland Forum

Thegeneralqueen:
I'm coming for you

Just have a sweet exterior dimension and good hygiene...i will accept you and give you a VIP treatment.

HigherEd:
Putting this story out there is in no attempt to embarrass anyone or any church. As i always walk a very careful lane when reporting issues regarding the church. I have barely laid the facts as I remembered them.

The bible tells the story of how Lucifer rebelled in God's own perfect territory and was cast out with his entire team. So if rebellion and secession can happen in Heaven then it surely can happen in church. Therefore let no atheists nor unbeliever jump on this as reason to villify or misrepresent the church.

The church is Christ bride but it is not perfect, but it is still Christ bride nonetheless. Issue like this are common in Christianity, even from the early days. It then takes wisdom and maturity to handle this challenges as they come.

I do not agree with Adjeman but I kind of understand him. I know in his heart he regards the church leadership and even respects Oyedepo. But somewhere there he feels he is being cheated and that would be where he might have erred. The prosperity character of a church like winners chapel flows from the top and trickles down. Whether the church is in somalia or ogbomoso it would prosper. I'm sure the Ghanian church was even astounded that they could contribute a whole $60,000 a month(back in 2004). Adjeman should have just learnt the principle and left. Men like Enenche, Adeyemi, Poju and Ibeyiomie started under Oyedepo and today have equally financially strong ministries irrespective of poor economy.

True

TheUpsetGirl1:
No Nigerian man can make a lady squirt..

I'm a Nigerian and the last time I checked...its a norm for me.

I am not a lazy Nigerian guy.

The truth is that most ladies can squirt if they try to be comfy about it without minding the sheets and the man must make them comfortable with it.

Cum is an understatement...A real man should make his wife squirt.

But for a lady who has enlarged her kini with giant dildos and cucumber should blame herself and not the innocent man.

RuthDaniels:
Of course not! Read your response before this and be the judge

Oda naa e ma binu

RuthDaniels:
You don't have to be aggressive Toks... There is two sides to everything, you can't just dish out advice by your own experience.


Well since your thread is for mature single guys, let them go for themselves then. Funniest form of defense I've ever read .

Where is the aggressiveness? Or are you reading it aggressively?

Let me call lalasticlala once again to see if this is good enough.

ouzo1:
Op u the advertise urself abi??

Why do you guys think I'm still single? Abeg face front.

RuthDaniels:
Lol,you may be right...

But then, I think there should be a focus on some parts of your post because they require some deep thinking.

A man will marry a lady who shows him she is worth being a wife, what if the lady was only acting to get the ring? Why should a man settle for who finds him worthy to be a husband and not who he finds worthy?

@Emboldened, this is where you all get it wrong.. Not marrying who you really want. There is a difference between marrying the one you want and marrying the one you have. The former lasts longer because it is based on your choice which implies greater commitment. Aside love, if commitment is absent in any union or partnership it is bound to fail. I think it is easier living with whom you choose than who have to be with.

Lol @every man, marriage is about two people mister toks and not one.

Leave rethorics biko n face reality...a lasting marriage is not as a result of a man marrying who he wants.

My point is very clear and only mature single guys can relate to it.

nurez305:
I watched the video yesterday and what I heard was some of the youth are lazy and not all the youth... So if you know you are not lazy, then the message is not for you... Why are the reaction since yesterday... I will only react if he said all Nigeria youth are lazyand waiting for government to provide food and housing allowance for them

So in your mind you think it is ok for a president to even utter such derogatory statement to the world.

IamD18:
MEN don't chase women, they go for women and uses the next door when the said woman start forming hard.

Money should be chased, not hoes/bitches.
Chase a cheque and never chase a bitch.

I would have given your comment a trillion likes but for the bitch word...please respect ladies and remember your mum is also a lady.

Igbos:
buhari lost a supporter

He just lost a possible re-election with his mouth diarrhoea.

RuthDaniels:
Your last paragraph says it all. Ladies who intend to do what you advised should be wise enough not to be too direct and handle things maturely.



But Mr Toks are you implying that men at this stage are confused lots who don't know what they want? Secondly what happens to the lady if this man meets another lady whom he really wish to be with even though he is married?

I don't believe any sane man will not know who he wants to be with, believe me every man knows what he wants... the time it will come is what is unknown. When the desired isn't available, the available becomes the desired. But what happens if the initial desire shows up? Dang!

In most cases,When a single mature guy wants a wife...he knows what he wants but most especially he knows he wants a wife and any lady who can show him at that stage that she is worth it will have him...whether she is his choice or not is not the issue cos most people don't marry their choice anyways...its about getting married to a woman good enough to be his wife.

If everyman decides to marry their choice I guess many marriages will not exist.

RadicallyBlunt:
Its happening in many other countries but Nigeria girls and their one line mentality.

They better wake up.

Gone are the days when ladies just sit and hope that guy they desire comes for them..or the days ladies love to form hard to get...

These days the number of single ladies are so much that most guys who truly want to settle down don't even know which lady to go for as almost every lady they meet looks great to have as a wife.

One secret I want many ladies to know is that most men at marriageable stage are so vulnerable and would readily fall for any lady who can show them she is really ready for business and this is why they say "bad girls get the good guys" but the truth is that these girls are not bad but only smart to go for that man they desire.

It does not mean you are cheap and it does not mean you will automatically grant him access to sleep with you but it will go a long way to prove that indeed you are a confident lady who knows what she wants.

Slide into his DM,smile at him,quote his comment and write something good about it...just show him you desire him even if you can't woo him directly and if he refuses to see the obvious...move on to another man that catches your fancy but stop waiting for any guy you desire to come for you....go for him

muykem:
Buhari is absolutely correct and sincere. We need to change our mentality and improve ourselves. You all know the truth, how many of you wrote WAEC, GCE, UME on your own?

It's not about the correctness but No reasonable president should say this openly....

And more so...he is so very wrong...No Nigerian youth is lazy...not one and this is why they excel outside Nigeria...Even yahoo boys are mentally dynamic regardless of the bad nature of the biz...Buhari is known for his verbal blunders from 1983...infact Fela sang about him in beast of no nation Album.

lestat:
Is this man this senseless?

Can't he keep quiet if he had nothing to say ?

I don't know who is worse between him and Trump.

Is there anyway Osinbajo can replace this msn?

Aye n se baba yi... Just look at the way he is destroying his chance of re-election with his loosed tongue.

Rubyventures:
Where can you get a box room for that amount ? Not in London . The average cost of a room in London is £500.

Lol! You don't know what you don't know...i rest my case.

timesup234:
Most of you idiotts are brainwashed mugus. Poverty has reduced you to a complete morron. Now listen well and listen good, if you earn 150 k in Nigeria you are a zillion times better than someone earning 2,000 pounds monthly in UK. 80% of Nigeria in London will never be able to mortgage a home till they die. Note the word "mortgage". Even a briccklayer is richer than such person. Stop being a fool and idiott!

First and foremost i guess it is clear I'm discussing with someone with a very low IQ cos the true test of a sound mind is the ability to discuss issues without the use of abusive words and also the cognitive mental stamina to withstand contrary opinion without getting angry or personal but for the sake of intelligent people viewing this post i will respond to you.

If you skipped my analysis i will help you out once more...

150k in naija can never be compared to 1300quid meaning i had to cut off 700 from the 2k you wrote.

If you earn 1300 in U.K,you will live a quality life in U.K and still have a savings of N250k which is 500pounds but with your 150k job in naija you will have to buy quality life and will be left with little or nothing.

I cant believe you even wrote the quoted.

rusher14:
Guy, don't make me laugh.

A studio is easily £600 without bills and not even a good one.

Na you buy house for person dey you dey expect 500 for whole house? How much be mortgage?

Oga abeg don't argue this point with me ok...you can even get a box room for 200Quid. You don't know what you don't know so be objective enough to know.

obailala:
A lot of people on this thread dont get the point. The compatison isnt between the £20k UK job vs the N27k Nigerian job; the story here is about leaving her meagre UK job to return and be with her husband, heck! she might have not even had a job at all in Nigeria but what is wrong with a lady giving up her job which is 5000km away to come be with her family?

Everything is not about love dude...these days we must think deep and plan well...i have seen many guys relocating their wives and children abroad and many wives will not even mind their husbands going out for better life..who love epp?

rusher14:
What kind of accommodation is £350?
Na student house?

You can even get for 300 and a very good room with all bills inclusive...it all depends on the zones and location...even with 500 you could get a whole house outside London so it all depends on the location.

amazon14:
If she working £7per hr, and she works 10hr per day, then 30days a month, my dear that is approximately £2100 in a month, multiple it by N470. It's very close to a million a month which graduate in Nigeria earns such a amount?

If it is true minimum wage is £7 per hr, I might considere relocate to UK

Its actually £7.5 and the good news is that with your work permit, you will hardly get anything less than £10 per hour but without work permit it will be difficult to even get a £5 per hour job and even when you do,you must be very careful else you may find yourself in deep shit.

timesup234:
£1600 pounds is abject poverty in London. Nigerians are easily brainwashed. If you make 200 k monthly you are a trillion times better than anyone earning that in London

I laugh at your ignorance.

rusher14:
You will pay tax with 1300 left.

So please, regale me.

First we are not sure if that sum is after tax but lets say about 30% is deducted we will be left with 1300

Accommodation 350
oyster travel card 100
Feeding 150
Misc 200
Total £800

She will be left with savings of £500 which is about N250k

So tell me if this is not better than the miserable 27k naija job

rusher14:
Even by UK standards she was just getting by on 1800 pounds monthly. So don't do the direct conversion.

She sacrificed for love but harsh realities have reconfigured her oblongata.

Naija is tough and no food for uninventive man for Lagos. You either shape up or ship out.

Nigeria needs creativity now and not some kind of employee situation.

No lamentation would change that.

How can you get by in U.K with £1800..habba you harsh o....with this sum,any prudent person will have savings of £1000 which is N500k each month...if you doubt me I will break it down for you.

I repeat..if not for the love of Christ in me..marriage will never ever cross my mind cos I can always get free s.x and infact they are begging me for it and I can always have a baby mama and all that comes with marriage and when I'm getting close to 70 I can always marry one small sweet lady to take care of my old sef.

Ladies think its all the men that have time for their baseless drama...many of them are very single and seriously searching and when they see a man who is serious to be with them they start acting up like ogbanje....they will see a man that wants them but they prefer a man that just wants to use them...most of them have nothing to offer except their depreciating sexuality....ladies are their own problem...MAY GOD HELP THEM.

angelbulksms:
Could you please shed more light? He is known to posts lots of relationship tips, though sometimes out of point.

So you are taking the Aproko lady serious...
I have become the nightmare of many nairaland ladies because they hate the truth.

abiolamitodun:
Why are men scared of getting married and why is the number of baby mama increasing
let's discuss

Many men are not scared of marriage but are only scared of committing to just one lady for the rest of their lives cos they have been made to believe in one man one woman..

For me its all about my love for Jesus and i wouldn't like to start sleeping about else i will never bother about marriage but sleep with as many beautiful ladies as i can lay.

Go out and see sweet looking ladies and you will see the confusion guys go through in choosing one,,Have you noticed that it is Christian guys who suffer delay in getting married? that is because they are too careful in selecting but for a typical Muslim guy he knows he can always marry more so he just selects from the available and gladly add to the number in due time.

In Ngeria another strong factor working against guys desire to marry is the economy and i need not elaborate on this.

Another reason is the high expectations of our ladies who who are unrealistic.