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Lalas247:
Please speak for urself .. just because u want to be a cheat u are trying ur hardest to justify TRASH!
Lefulefu wasn’t telling the story to say men want polygamy
U have it written all over your face .. hence why u still ain’t married since that’s what I’ve been chasing ladies for up n down nairaland ... hope they are reading this


Just because u can’t stay faithful doesn’t men we don’t have RESPECTSBLE REAL MEN ! Who can control their urges even with all the temptations of the world .... please keep ur cheating antics to yourself

Even lefulefu is too much of a man to do such fuckery he would rather leave the lady and move on ....

Lol! This is why I pity many ladies...they don't have the ability to discern...

Lemme blow your mind...all my life I have never cheated on any lady and I don't even plan to which is why I try to meticulously get a lady that is very sexually pleasing to me which is my strong point. But wait for this...

Many relationship experts out there tell ladies what they want to hear but I tell the world the truth...lalas please don't be deceived...MEN ARE BORN POLYGAMIST INCLUDING ME.

The western world understands this fact but they chose to go about it in a weird way by divorcing and marrying their new flame whilst an African man keeps his wife and marries or keeps a side dish.

No curves in the world can stop a man from having another lady if he wants to and no matter what ladies want to believe,there are some women out there whose answers to their prayers lies in polygamy.

A young married lady shouts monogamy until she finds herself as a widow or divorcee at 40 and she starts to understand why 9 out of 10 men who truly wants her are married.

And for chasing ladies on nairaland i see that as laughable cos I'm not that type of guy who chase a lady but I show interest which is perfectly normal and once you start acting up I ignore you cos there are too many ladies in the world hoping for a man and I'm too manly to chase any lady..infact ladies chase me.

Finally for the records,in my over ten years on nairaland i have never chased even one lady and I challenge you to prove me wrong...

If in your world,admiration is the same as chasing then I give up.

If GOD opens your eyes to see the type of guy I am you will always want to read every dotty comment I make about romance cos you will hardly go wrong with them.

Have you ever asked yourself this question...if indeed I'm that type of guy who loves to chase ladies exp on nairaland,will I be writing the type of articles I write? Does that not tell you there is something real about me? This is common sense.

I love to keep it real and it dies not translate to who I am.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Some of your brothers would not agree with you especially when they want to insult feminist or bash women.And for your last statement wake up and face reality except if you are in the 16th century.

Wise ladies know that we live in a wicked,selfish and unjust world of men and an in-depth understanding and acceptance of this age long fact is the beginning of wisdom for any lady.

lefulefu:
my uncle be dey tell me about one story of one strong runz wey be dey run after one well to do married. The man wife na also very strong bini woman and also very diabolical. The bini lady got to know about d relationship of her husband wit d runzgirl den she throw am one strong juju. D runz girl start to dey emarciate until she turn to complete skeleton. Dem carry am go hospital but nothin could be done. She eventually died. My uncle say after d runzgirl die then the man go back to him wife.mehn dat story was one kine as my unc yarn me.

Lefu see...as we grow older some things start to make sense.

I challenge all pastors and relationship experts in the world to a debate and I will prove to them that it is the fear of been labelled a polygamous man that makes a man get a side chic but almost everyman is a polygamist but some ladies just want to continue fooling themselves.Giving the chance,95 out of 100 married men will not mind a second wife not because they don't love their first wife but that is just who we are.

I tell men...why commit adultery when you can calmly get married to any other lady of your choice?

I think guys who keep side chic are as foolish as the side dish...

I will never indulge in that shit but if I ever find any other lady worthy of my desire I will gladly marry her and keep her somewhere far away from my wife rather than start keeping random side chic like many foolish men do.

Almost every lady is married to a polygamous man so why do ladies worry their head over the matter.

Just keeping it real bro...i hate hypocrisy.

midolian:
How wld you feel if another woman snatches your husband?

What reason will you give baba God for snatching another woman's husband

You might be the reason the man is maltreating his wife and children at home..

All of you are still immature in matters of marriage..

A man can marry as many ladies as he wants if he wishes to and no need side chicking....if the new lady is ok with that then no problem.

Enough of this foolish and childish talks of one lady snatching another lady's husband.

dominique:
Both of them married each other for the wrong reasons, I doubt if they courted at all.
She married him to "cover her shame" in her own words. He married her for her fame, but things got sour when he discovered that fame doesn't equate to wealth.

See judgement...nah wah...

"Right reason" is very relative so don't judge.

QueenSuccubus:



Chaaaaiii.. See these young ppol who are hungry for money sha...they will do everything juz to get some kobo...SMH

There's a lot of pussy Azz bitches everywhere that are very easy and cheap..

Honestly how I wish ladies can wake up and stop this indecency....

Thank GOD for Christ cos most ladies these days just throw themselves to guys not even for money in some part of the world but just to keep them sexually engaged.

viktagorion:
Go get your PVC guys.


Send Buhari back to Daura.

Exactly the point I made with this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/4466984/double-wahala-nigerian-youths.the-bbnaija

But I never knew lalasticlala has no autonomous decision in bringing objective threads to front page.

Welcomme:
Last last your mama don find wife for you. Oldest bachelor!

Lol!

obi4eze:
Apart from Squamous cell carcinoma, intestinal parasites can also be transmitted, especially for those that engage in anilinus

Madness...how can people be licking anus...?

The slay queen has just been spiritually slain. See wasted curves.

I can't do without giving my wife M.A but I pity guys that do random ladies.

Zealoy:
Pls guys there's this babe I love so much so I approached her and asked her out but she says let's just be friends that she's not yet ready for Relationship yet, pls guys what do u think I'll say to her cuz I can't stand being just a friend I want to be more than just a friend to her.

The best way to start a potential romantic union is being friends even if it is for a day so go ahead and be her friend and let fate decides...

Just know the time to quit if you can't stand be friendzoned permanently.

chivera018:
The woman is an idiot, so because he sweet talked you, you had sex with him.



I pray your mother-inlaw will sweet hear it.

The ex factor is very strong...this is why I advice married ladies to avoid an ex they love like plague..because once de be is always de be so don't create that opportunity...

Most ladies marry men they are not really in love with...FACT.

pocohantas:
Lol @ he has not paid bride price then. Is faithfulness conditional? If you can't be faithful before marriage,what's going to change after bride price? These ladies will marry the next available man all for the status, then keep fcking their ex. Such level of confusion and unfaithfulness. I will advise she confesses to her husband...from a distance though. Before we go see her mutilated body for frontpage.


If you want to be a married undercover olosho, never do something with a man who has nothing to lose. That is, never be involved with a single guy. Their second name is running mouth and blackmail. Go for a married man. Very safe

With the dexterity you put in this comment I'm sure you are writing from experience...

Adepaul10:
Bbnaija 2018: Tobi And Ceec Reconcile,Dance And Love Up Has Housemates Party Together



Watch video via
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5W_1ScW8JFo

This was why I created this thread.
https://www.nairaland.com/4466984/double-wahala-nigerian-youths.the-bbnaija#66947989

Mskrisx:
You go girl!
One thing the streets would teach you is how to turn a perceived MISERY INTO A MIRACLE.
Now...
-Better contacts
- Fame
- Bush meat catch hunter.
Finally, that guy will pay soo DEARLY truss me on this and if not now, later! Babe reserve am for years later.
I like her courage,
I love her boldness,
More Benjins and tours girl.

8ters can shoverupurAzz#

Soro niyen?

Lalasticlala i guess this title is more subtle.

I know you to be bjective and unbiased
Our youths need a reorientation.

Xisnin:
Let us examine this case critically.
Chimamanda is an internationally acclaimed writer married with a child.
Dencia is a single 40 year old C-list singer with no stable boyfriend nor husband.
If we go by her sermon we will conclude that she is a lovely, obedient and well behaved
woman who believe in submission to one's husband.

Why is she then a single at 40 while the supposed men-hating feminist, Chimamanda is happily married?

It is either men don't appreciate her or she is a pretender and a horrible person to relate with.
I know the latter is more likely the case.

It is instructive to know that most of the women pouring vituperative insults on Chimamanda are single, even on facebook,
there are very few negative reactions from married women, perhaps, they know better or have nothing to prove to anyone.

These single women attacking Chimamands are sending a message which is that they are wife material and they don't
want someone to spoil their market, it doesn't necessarily mean that they would be better wives than the maligned
feminists.

Feminists are sincere women who don't have to pretend to be liked, that is, what you see is who they really are,
and their homes are much likely to be peaceful because major issue have been sort out before time.

How about the anti-feminist "wife materials"?
You will never know what you are getting from this group, she could be a misandrist or could later
hold you by your balls while demanding for a better deal or "respect", something which she was
initially against.

Ask those men suffering in their marriage and you find out that they didn't marry
feminists, they supposedly marry women who believes that the man is the head of the house, some
of them don't even call their husband by his first name and would even condemn feminism if given a chance.

I will prefer a feminist than a pretentious obedient and subservient woman any day any time.

So who is thinking backwards, Chimamanda who thinks professional title should come first on twitter bio
or Dencia who allegedly gets irritated by such harmless suggestion?

Soro niyen?

prechbills1:
lmao... frustrated asshole want to deny his relationship status

mumu.. you're a 38years old single man..
stop coming here to pour your frustrations on women

Lobatan @38...you go just die untop my matta...

prechbills1:
must ladies above 25 think about marriage?

why are you still single?

primitive man

Who told you I'm single? Mumu Nigerian youth.

edelweiss:
y mine was just 25 days. We planned our wedding in 4 days and no i wasn't pregnant. I was married non tested. When you meet the right one , you simply wont want to take chances.

Leave these ladies that want to waste their time getting sampled up and down in the name of courtship...awon ode...when you are thoroughly sampled and dumped they will say they have spiritual husband disturbing them..

Dating and courtship is for teenagers or adolescent who have no clue of what commitment means and just want to catch fun...but once a lady is above 25 she must be very careful about wasting her years in the name of dating/courtship.

grossintel:
Miracle just told Nina, this isn't the time for love. This is the time to make money, courtship is very important, but shouldn't be more than 2 years.

We are talking serious matter this one carry BBnaija matter come...i guess you are as young as the 23year old miracle who probably has no clue of what marriage entails.

Mypeople2:
My guy, that is not always true.Some ladies maybe kind, sweet ,lovely etc at the earlier part if your relationship.But after one year, may God help you .Even guys are guilty of it .

There is no way you can stop an angel from turning to a devil so this is not a yardstick...two months is even too long...my dad never courted my mum and they stayed married happily till he passed on at 73..

Here is a story of a couple who decided to marry 5 days after meeting each other.

https://www.nairaland.com/4087850/he-proposed-5-days-after

jessca048:
but two months is too small to venture into marriage

Whether you spend 2 months or 20years courting...you can never ever understand each other until you start to live under same roof and even at that,you will always continue to understand each other every passing day.Falling in love is an unrealistic phrase cos in the real sense people grow in love over the years of staying together as a couple.

A real man does not chase a woman but goes for any lady he desires and takes the next exit door if she starts acting hard to get but if he meets a lady who knows what she wants,he will never waste her time with baseless dating and courtship cos a real man knows what he wants ....only boys or guys who dont know what they want use that awkward line..'lets get to know each other'

Don't be fooled ladies...any reasonable man knows if he will likely marry you the very first time he sets his eyes on you...quote me anywhere.

Dpussyhunter:
lalasticlala
mynd44
farano
dominique

our nigerian youths or better still our lazy nigerian youths need to see this

I don't know about other mods but lalasticlala should be objective and unbiased about it...


I just can't wrap my head around the fact that our youths spend so much energy on a seemingly unproductive show..

I hope lalasticlala is objective enough t beam this.. May GOD help us.

Mariinee:
Shouldn't you put reference then? Because, you clearly lifted a lot from the original post.

ok i agree i got this part from the page which is not really much.


"In 2006, BBNaija was conceived by Obi Asik the then CEO of storm 360 as a platform to promote the Nigerian brand as well as the rising dominance of the country’s entertainers on the entertainment scene in Africa."

so how do i reference this? im learning everyday so educate me please...

Highbrow:
This piece is a theft of intellectual property! You MUST include your source:

http://googleweblight.com/i?u=http://nnvibes..com/2018_02_24_archive.html&hl=en-NG

So because i added this info which can not be regarded as intellectual i should now quote my whole write up coming from the source abi..

' 2006, BBNaija was conceived by Obi Asik the then CEO of storm 360 as a platform to promote the Nigerian brand as well as the rising dominance of the country’s entertainers on the entertainment scene in Africa "

In 2006, BBNaija was conceived by Obi Asika the then CEO of storm 360 as a platform to promote the Nigerian brand as well as the rising dominance of the country’s entertainers on the entertainment scene in Africa but unfortunately,the idea had been defeated.

lets face it..what brand does this show promote and what positive impact does this show have on the productivity of Nigerian Youths and Nigeria as a nation?,and in what way does the show promote the image of the country when it was not hosted in Nigeria?...

Whilst many intelligent educated youths are out there with mind blowing entrepreneurial ideas with no funds to implement their ideas and many talented Nigerian youths out there hoping that one day they will get funding for their dreams but here we have a whooping sum of N45m and several other rewards splashed on the winner of a sex-talent hunt show where a carton of condom was provided as part of supplies for the house and Shockingly, in less than three weeks of entering the Big Brother house, the packets of condom had been depleted. Does this mean the housemates have been having regular sex?,it is very apparent that the organizers only show viewers the ones they want them to see.

What about the kissing competition?, curdling,nudity and live sex on live Tv?,thereby influencing our children very negatively and serving as a satanic tool to sow the seed of immorality in the underage who also view the immoral program and follow it up on social media.

As if this is not enough,we have some celebrities who ought to be role models promoting this counter productive program by openly rooting for their preferred housemate and even the winner is honored by the state he/she comes from making them ambassadors ....whilst first class graduates in many Nigerian universities are rewarded with N10,000,a soft porn winner gets N45m...this could fund the business ideas of over10 potential Dangotes in Nigeria

So i begin to wonder how on earth did our youths get to this point where they have totally missed their priorities....in a country where their is massive unemployment,Boko haram terrorists, endless herds men killings, high profile corruption cases, Non payment of salaries by many states despite the bail out funds, Kidnappings, Economy recession and Bad leaders to mention just few...our youths who ought to demonstrate their intolerance to the aforementioned find it more convenient to expend their energy on a soft porn reality show,..how lame

With the misplaced priorities of today's Nigerian youths I guess the nation may be stagnant unless we focus on things that matter in moving Nigeria forward like our Nigeria youths of the past, like Awolowo who was 37 years,Akintola 36,Ahmadu Bello 36,Balewa 34,Okotie-Eboh 27 and Enahoro 27 and they led the struggle for Nigeria Independence after the death of Macaulay. Only Zik was 42 at the time!

In 1966, the first military coup was led by K Nzeogwu who was 29 years and countered by M.Mohammed 28,T. Danjuma 28, I. Babangida 25,
J. Garba 23, Sani Abacha 23, and M. Yar'adua 23, And brought into power Y. Gowon 32,Ojukwu 33, Obasanjo 29, and Buhari 24!

Most of the military governors who governed the states under the successive military regimes were under 30 years.

Also, the brief democratic dispensation which interjected the military regime also saw some Senators and members of the House of Representatives, in particular, populated by persons under 30!

Under 30's were also not in short supply with appointments - we have examples of MT Mbu who became Nigeria's Foreign Affairs Minister at 23 and Pat Utomi who became a Federal Adviser at 27 and so on and so forth! but the present day Nigeria youth have totally become a shadow of the youths we once had in time past...how unfortunate..

The most bizarre twist is that in all, 170 million votes were cast in the 85-day event, with 30 million votes coming in the last week alone which goes to confirm that indeed,many Nigerian youths are clueless as voters had to spend N30 per sms and many voted several times and those who voted for free had to go through the stress of downloading an app in order to vote for free yet many of these voters who are 18 years and above have never voted in any electoral process in Nigeria and many do not have a Permanent Voters card to vote in a credible leader to move our nation forward.

Well just as the theme for the just concluded show implies..Indeed it is DOUBLE WAHALA for the clueless Nigerian youths

I rest my case.

He must be a lazy Nigerian youth

goodnewscliff:
be looking for your choice there... Maybe ur choice aint looking for u ...dats how random life could be..... Op is jst implying women should go for what they want .... Someone will always do the GO role..either d dude or d bae and dat doesn't mean its must work out...women should step up their game a bit.... Allota guys have been rejected by women they feel for ...do u knw how it feels to be rejected? it ain't easy to gather balls to talk to some ladies @ times..... I hate when guys go xtra miles jst to impress one block head lady he may get tired of anytime soon

My broda these ladies think it's an easy task for a guy to approach a lady and possibly for a reason or the other gets rejected...

To make matters worse...one lady will be dying for you somewhere and you will be there wasting your time with one who has no clue of what she wants...

If you find yourself in a country where approaching a random lady seems like a crime you will catch the drift.

They will be shouting gender equality but simple to give a man strong green light or even approach directly nah wahala..they think it's every man that has time to be wooing ladies about....You will woo senior sister in Ibadan and approach younger sister in Ikoyi and they will start calling you womanizer when all you are innocently doing is looking for a babe.