₦airaland Forum

Benita27:
That a guy introduces a woman to friends and parents isn't a guarantee he wants a possible future with her.Lol.

George22016:
Oga toks u day find front page OK

Girls don't have anything to contribute come to think of it.We are d ones that will take them out,buy this buy that.and what will they do

Open their legs which they have been opening for dozens of every Dick,Tom and harry...

Some girls go reach 29 before they see husband marry walahi

IamLEGEND1:
just when I thought would spend the last week of 2016 & cross over successfully into the new year without reading any dumb shít......

Benita27:
I beg to differ Tok!.

Some guys have masters degree in showing girls off to their parents and friends while the ulterior motive is to get in-between her legs as much as possible.

A friend of mine met a guy, same week he took her to his mum as wife, smashed her, dumped her weeks later... after all the marriage talk.

Alondra:
A well known fact

Stupedinluv:
We know already

refiner:
What if I tell u that I have a child..

2dugged:
hehehehe,well this is obviously our first and last encounter, please stay off my mentions next time,I am done lashing out, as I can see that you are out to look for trouble, go look for someone else to bicker with

2dugged:
you need the prayers more, you are an idiot and probably need rehab, and may madness be your portion this coming 2017,see this fool, didn't know you were also this stupid and lack manners, thunder fire you there

refiner:
I think I'm more sexy...

2dugged:
hehehehehehehehehehehehehrheheheh, me,bitter? Dude grow up,all your threads have all stink of a man trapped in boy's Mind,even though I sometimes wonder how it makes its way to fp, now run along and continue your baby mama search

2dugged:
why you come mention me,dey tell me?,your life your choice

carmag:
.Nonsense


they think they are cleaver my social media account had never linked to my names

by the way I'm a staunch supporter of Trump or any group capable of wiping out terrorism and suicide bombing in this planet

2dugged:
That she is light skinned does not make her the sexiest

Stupedinluv:
who made her the sexiest

Missmossy:
Lol... It is well.

danwilliams4u:
wat type of shit is nairaland turning into; everybody is now turning to a luv doctor.

vicky85:
Please, Zero your mind to to impress any man, cos, if you are nobody, they will not marry you... Hello World... www.justpyenews.com

chloe9191:
Interesting topic! You end up the same case as I did. LOL Let's me tell you my story. We've been in a serious relationship (and also living together) for 7 years. We've spoken about marriage and both want to, but he still hasn't done it. We've spoken about our future including children and where we'd live. I'm tired of waiting and have told him this before. It's been two years since I've said I'm tired of waiting. He still hasn't popped the question and I'm sick of waiting! What do I do from here Should I make him move out until he pops the question? I don't want to be the one to pop the question. EVERYONE including his own family has been asking for years when we are going to finally get married, including his father (who is a tough pill to swallow). He knows to ask my grandfather, take my best friend and mother to help pick out a ring, knows what kind of ring I want, etc. We've even planned a hypothetical wedding. What the hell is he waiting on? I have tried: Dropping hints, telling him, planning hypothetical wedding, 3 month separation. I think it was caused by: Absolutely no clue. He says he wants to.

In his defense, some guys just do not get the whole proposal/marriage thing. He said he wants to marry you so bypass and ring shopping and just begin wedding plans. You want to get married then you might have to literally plan it all and he will show up. Now I have a ring but never got a big proposal. Instead, my husband bought the ring and basically handed it to me and said let's get married. Then I planned the entire wedding with the only input from him being what time does he need to show up. This is not because he did not want to marry me but rather it is just not his thing to be focused on planning events.

Set a date, book a hall with a deposit and let him know. Maybe he is stalling because he thinks he can't financially afford marriage or a ring but tell him that you just want to be married to him no matter what. Start with small wedding plans and gauge his reaction. You might be surprised that all along he just needed a bigger nudge from you in the right direction. This might mean that you go pick out the rings together and there is less fanfare in a proposal but if you really love him then you will accept those challenges and look at the brighter future with him.

Missmossy:
Makes some sense, some of the point aren't valid though. Marriage goes far deeper than these. Some married men have wives who possess all these qualities yet they cheat on them every now and then.

Kentrasso:
i do wonder sometimes.... what made men look out for.
sometimes you're worried that they may think you're after their success and you want to withdraw. at the same time they seem interesting and you want to stay in touch. Do successful guys assume things about people? how do they know if a lady is real or a gold digger?

zolapeperenpe:
Abeg,make i queue behind you.

MVLOX:
True.... Afta more than 27 years of staying on my own and running from babes wahala, I finally surrendered to the most special babe in my life(she comes afta my late mum cha) having known her for like 14 years I had no choice but to fall for her afta seeing all the 5 qualities mentioned above and more self.... God willing the deal will sealed in the coming year... Expect my prewedding photos....''Wink''

chumakk:
I didn't read. You said marriage is scam so why should we try to marry again

littlemistress:
please, where are the men who are ready & mature enough for marriage? where can they be found?

Suneshol:
Thank you so much for this post. I was beginning to think I was weird or running crazy! In the world we live in today, the only thing most people know how to do so well, is what we call 'follow-follow', 'that is the way my parents taught me', 'that is what my pastor said', 'this is the way I know it should be, end of discussion!'. Most people no longer ask questions nor seek the truth anymore. No one truly reads the bible. I'm so glad I came across this post!

VickyRotex:
I don't understand.

Are they not the same couple that had their wedding pictures all over the internet last year or so? All loved up!

That someone who isn't married go dey feel like sey make e just do go marry.

The way I see Marriages fail these days, makes Marriage scare me.

I pray for this cup to pass over them! I pray it stands the test of time. I wish them well.

pretydiva:
The kiss isn't passionate nau .. these bloggers sef. Ayam tired

CaroLyner:
Seems passionate has a new meaning

INTROVERT:
That's not passionate

rokiatu:
What is so passionate about that kiss?

INTROVERT:
That's not passionate