₦airaland Forum

Princewell2012:
Op this is the most sensible post or comments i have ever read this year.

Infact am short of words. When i show my wife this ur comment, come and see the she was shouting for excitement.

Yes, since you gathered people as a witness you should know how to gathered those people for a divorce or separation.

God bless you sir.

mztubsy:
like seriously OP!!! no offence but pleaseeeeee........be original.you got this from the movie"DIVORCE INVITATION".everything you listed there was word for word in the movie. movie lovers wud get the memo....like I said no offence.

Fiwasayo:
As hilarious as this may seem,and as much as I hate to agree with op it kinda makes sense to me

flyca:
All these stories with no moral lessons sef

Folzye:
I tend to wonder how people think nowadays, stupidity is now something to celebrate or make importance of and the perpetrators of this stupid act definitely know they are going to hit the spotlight.. Other countries have youths investing time into technologies and making the human race better..
Nigerian youths please wake up!!

otemanuduno:
Your own name can even work better than the name of Jesus.

Sincere4u:
OK Toks, won't argue that but I wish you marry a harlot and have a blissful marital life.

Sincere4u:
EVEN WHEN SHE TURNS OUT TO BE A HARLOT?.

wrongnumber:
Wow she is hot.

I thought you were unmarried and you also gave the impression that you are not. 15 years don tey.o.

PapaBrowne:
I don dey fear oh.
If the new sheriff can fear and cancel his ogoni trip, how about we civilians that don't have the 80,000 strong army at our beck and call.

Buhari can make himself a hero by actually birthing a new Nigeria. The UK that formed Nigeria saw need to create four countries(England, Scotland,Wales & Northern Ireland) to form the United Kingdom. Why can't we take a cue from them and adopt something similar.

If Buhari rises today and says he is submitting a bill for the regionalization of Nigeria with true federalism as a core of our structure, majority of the challenges we face today will be dumped in our history books.

Once again,Buhari can chose to make himself a hero by restructuring this country or he can choose to stick to his theory that since a civil war was one in 1967, it should be fought again and won in 2016.

mizzochocinco:
Mr intelligent man who is not intelligent enough to get a wife at 50 let the married ones give advice on marriage while the unmarried senior citizens like you sit down and take notes!

mrvitalis:
A 17 years old girl should be in the university chasing her dream and not in a man's house as a wife, this is bad and must be condemned

bonechamberlain:
Everyday this man is telling the world that Nigerians (the 95%) are foolish by voting him.
U can imagine they said rubbish during campaign. Only rational thinking people can detect the rubbish someone is saying.

Kimoni:
Exactly! So based on this definition, how does any of your listed points prove that "women are the causes of domestic violence"? How are women the reason they are being violently abused? the reason for another man's actions?

Another way to look at it, If I steal from an unlocked home, is the home owner the reason why I stole? Should the home owner be held responsible for my actions? Because he failed to lock his home which is the norm?

Is this your logic Toks?

banmee:
I will continue to troll you till you receive sense. From your profile, you look like you might be in your 60's but i doubt you are married because no sane married man would have the kind of thoughts that flow through your mind.

Kimoni:
Do you really know the meaning of this word "cause"? this long write up does not make me believe so.

banio:
Toks 2008 Why would U say that when a man truly loves a woman nothing on earth will make him leave her. I think that is over exaggerated. Love is relative, so is true love

banmee:
Stop wasting your time. I have prayed for Toks2008 but alas the devil has taken control of his life. You can't change his phucked up mindset. No one can. The worm is laying blame on women for domestic violence. Can you imagine? God I thank you for my life.

banmee:
Your problem is you are, I think impotent and can't perform unless you subjugate a woman. Everything you talk about always directs towards dominating a woman. I get it. We are bigger, stronger but you fail to realise we are partners. There is something seriously wrong with your psychy. I will pray for you again. Now close your eyes.

banmee:
You can also love a slave who does your bidding?

banmee:
This afgan caveman is at it again. I thought by now you would have turned a new leaf. Where the phuck did you grow up? Dude, someone messed with you mind and you don't even know it. You can also love a slave who does your bidding? I have sisters and i shudder at the crap you spill here. The things you say and the way you say them leaves much to be desired. Maybe in your mind you have good intentions but your thoughts come out all creepy like. No phucking way My sisters will marry a Nigerian caveman. No phucking way.

tankara1010:
Wish I had commented on time. Women are incapable of naturally loving men. I know this will shock both men and women. When a women respects a man, she automatically loves him. When a woman losses respect for you, she withdraws her love for you. A woman's love is conditional not natural. A woman only loves you for what you are and not who you are. Men on the other hand love women for who they are and not what they are.

NOW HERE IS THE POWERFUL STATEMENT...NATURAL LOVE IS ONLY PASSED FROM THE STRONGEST TO THE WEAKEST, NOT THE OTHER WAY ROUND. Meaning, men naturally love women and women naturally love their children. Now women love their children naturally but not their husbands or boyfriends or father of their children. What does this also mean, it means that a man can die to protect his family ( wife and children) however a woman can die for their children only not the man. If a man looses his financial status, fame, physical attributes and sexual prowess, a woman will likely leave him for another man. This is the natural hypergamic mating characteristics of a woman...she is always looking for a better male provider.

I know countless men who lost their wives and never remarried. Not because they didn't have money or not lonely but because they are eternally still mourning their deceased wives. However women when they lose their men, they usually remarry quickly...another evidence they never genuinely or naturally love their men. Now many in Nigeria would like to argue that they are countless of widows in Nigeria still unmarried. Yes I know, here is my explanation. Those women are unable to remarry for two reasons, the stigma of being a window in Nigeria and lack of finances/independence. If you remove those women and put them in western countries, they will start behaving exactly like the western women. You will observe the more western culture makes its way to Africa/Nigeria, women here are slowly behaving like western women and it's just a matter of time before Nigerian women will start divorcing their men when they lose their financial status. They can't do it now because they are not as independent as the western women and the government system does help them as single mothers nor the court system interprets laws in their favor in 50/50 divorce sharing of assests, alimony and child support. As soon as these western laws and culture makes it fully into our system, Nigerian men will be shocked to know that these women are naturally incapable of loving a man except if the man or men happens to be their children.

I close with this biblical verse Ephicians 5:33, "every husband must love his wife as he loves himself, and wives should respect their husbands." Here his God clearly saying what I said. A woman his naturally built to only respect a man not to love him. I'll open a special thread on this to advice men!

Kay17:
All that faith and trust based on a biological impulse to mate. Tragic!

Saddenedsoul:
Thanks

Saddenedsoul:
Sorry, to bother you all , but I just had to get this off my chest. I recently got married, just little over a year ago. I have had no reason not to trust my husband, in fact I could trust him with my life. My problem started last week when I borrowed his laptop to complete some office work. I found his WhatsApp web was logged in, so out of curiosity, I decided to take a peek. What I found what worrying, I saw lots of messages from women who were literally asking my husband out, planning dates and meet up venues, even when they are all well aware that he is married. Since then I have been paranoid, every word from his mouth becomes suspicious, I get angry at him for no reason; I don't know wether to confront him, because I feel like he's just going to lie to me, I'm very confused , somebody help me.

Saddenedsoul:
Sorry, to bother you all , but I just had to get this off my chest. I recently got married, just little over a year ago. I have had no reason not to trust my husband, in fact I could trust him with my life. My problem started last week when I borrowed his laptop to complete some office work. I found his WhatsApp web was logged in, so out of curiosity, I decided to take a peek. What I found what worrying, I saw lots of messages from women who were literally asking my husband out, planning dates and meet up venues, even when they are all well aware that he is married. Since then I have been paranoid, every word from his mouth becomes suspicious, I get angry at him for no reason; I don't know wether to confront him, because I feel like he's just going to lie to me, I'm very confused , somebody help me.

chigoizie7:
That's what they don't know. I can spend millions to get what I want, sex, house, car, just name it. I can aswell spend time( being polite and nice) to get certain things, eg, sex,job, contracts etc. But I can decide to do away with any of those once I am satisfied with what I gained from it

johnson232:
@bold how?
there is no trace of chauvinism in this article...