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AngelAhnie:
Thought you were the only saint on this forum..

You can't do without head that's serious

Vikky014:

Vikky014:

mikkyjagga1:
After how many Sex on d first dates...

InvertedHammer:
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Lol.

The son of a former governor of Lagos state who built on the wealth and connectios of his father almost committed suicide?

Tomorrow Tinubu's son will tell you how he is a grass to grace story.

The fact is that Otedola has never experienced hardship in his life.

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Tolexander:
I could have said my President (Buhari), but it is more of a stunt and the scene created just to give material to the social media and newspapers.

Obama had it better cos he acted it more like a free man. No security guard and had people around him.

annice2014:
Then that's why u must pray for God to intervene, divorce is not an option for a child of God. If d other partner still refuse to stay, then u'l have to stay unmarried cos remarrying when ur partner is still alive is a sin. This is only applicable to God's children

olatunjithomas:
I don't think there is anything on the face of this planet that man won't ingest............. Smh





crocodile meat............hell, that sucks!!..............

Trina0936:
The wife obviously got fed up with his philandering lifestyle. Let her stay divorced and be happy than die in silence.

annice2014:
God hate divorce, so a child of God that is heavenly minded should not even think of it. I don't believe that marriage can't be saved if pride is set aside.

cogbuagu:
If he can't do what he preache then he is not a TRUE man of God!

9japrof:
Bros you need to be caned, you are a disappointment i must confess. A woman did all these to you and still tell us that you loved her.
Sometimes i wonder why on earth some guys misbehave like this. the truth is that even tho a woman loves you 100 percent and notices that you are a wussy, a guy who would always displease himself to make her happy, thats when ur respect stats depreciating. You wrong ur family, colleagues, and lost ur link to international travels all cos of one lady, dude you are plain stupid, you are not buying my sympathy.
Relationships should be a 50 50 commitments else it should be a No No.

And this nigga hasnt learnt his lessons. he is still calling out ladies that would help him stand on his feet. Please any lady in the house whose willing to take up the mantle of the last lady and continue where she stop should please send this nigga a Pm

zheroes:
you have a point but I totally dissagree with it. Would you jump into untested waters with both feet? That's a suicide mission.

I can speak because I have been there. Its one step at a time, show some level of love, if the other party does same then you can begin to increase you level of commitment.

I used to have your idea of love , that is go at it with your all, when you do youu will defintely be taken for granted.

Some persons happen to be with us due to circumstance and when their situations changes you then realise they never liked you in the first place. They only stuck because of the benefits

So take one step at a time, if the other party doesn't reciprocate, take another step to clear any sort of doubt, if they still don't reciprocate, kindly lock up. That's became my style when I found my wife and we are both happy today.

Some people are naturally cheats, they have fish brain thinking they are wise. So NEVER EVER give it your all, if you do and the person is changing or changes , you too change. Its that simple.

Nikita1:
I yaff miss you

solasoulmusic:
Honestly what is love without sharing every part of you. Gifts that come from the heart are way more valuable than superficial public appealing we remember them till we leave this earth or amnesia kicks in

Whatever the case I don't think anyone is a fool for love Looking from outside you dont have the rose tinted glasses ..the one in the honeymoon phase where nothing could absolutely go wrong before the adjusting phase. Also nowadays not everyone is honest about their true intentions uncle kayode is marking multiple babes but still professing love for his main babe ...some act different around everyone some just wait till your comfortable to unleash the Karashika.

Man nowadays is content to be promiscous and glorified on earth only

We should all find the deepest kind of love inside of us. And be happy with that until your partner comes along because love wont be like a movie you might not get presents sometimes all you get is another beating heart that says Love you too...let's do this.
Love is inspiration to do...could be for/ could be with

You are unlucky if your fall in love with a selfish person you will be called a fool because your brave enough to love ... the most widely known form of appreciation is a gift and most times peoole take advantage of it but karma lives

gondon:
I felt pained upon seeing a topic like dis. Lost my job bcoz of a Woman, got my first passport with 6 open visas seized coz of her, got another passport with 2 visa seized coz of her again, not in good terms with my Family coz of her, dont hv male or female frndz coz of her, do everytin in dis world to make her happy, got public insults daily from her, be it in public buses, Church, market and even enough slaps to top it up; yet i still gave her my love.
Her true being came out, wen my mum spoke to her to free me, since den my life hv neva been dsame. She calls me a jobless being, a poor man and above all an hopeless man. But d truth be told, wen u love someone; u wouldnt knw how to control it, expecially if u happen to be someone like me.
Still pursading me to sell my 4bedroom duplex i built at GRA ENUGU, to clear a debt of 100k i owe her....... Bur i still love her even though she is gone.
And d said lady i spoke about isnt a graduate, nor knows how to read or write, but yet treated me like a trash; just bcoz tinz changed. All i wrote happened from Feb 2016 to Date.......



I am using this medium to call on a good lady out there, in search of a soul mate. You cant tell where our luck is, so i wouldnt change my nature. Also, i call on good people who could help a brother stand up back, not monetary stuff, but a contact or link to a job would be d best.



God bless us all.

freeage7:
OP, please are you married?

UuzbaGuuzba:
OP do you love?
Is there any one you love?

You can't write what you don't know.

God is Love. You can't love God whom you don't see if you do not love your neighbour whom you see.

You have your WHOLE life to practice love. Because by the time your life is over, that is the report card you will use to enter or not to enter heaven.

So how far? Redefine again.

Misogynist2014:
This post is worth its weight in gold.
"The very essence of romance is uncertainty." Oscar Wilde.
Just try not to be selfish or too expectant.
Follow your brain, not your heart, thank me later.

chronique:
Several times,I've been in a situation where I wanted to get someone couple of items,but had to pause to ask myself if truly this person is worth it...

Aviero:
Negative mindsets shouldn't deter us from showing good affection to the people in our lives. Abi?

I've learnt the hard way. These days, it's all about reciprocality. If I show bae adequate affection, and she doesn't reciprocate well, I begin to have second thoughts. I slow down on whatever it is I am doing.

You can't tell me to keep doing good to bae, when I know that bae is taking the good for granted and giving the goods to someone else.

I can't risk it all for any bae that's not going to risk it all for me.

So, OP, being careful matters alot.

I can't just be doing mumu all the time, and in the end, get heartbroken. I need to be careful this time around.

Okeycima:
My man with all due respect for the time you took †̥♥ compose this epistle,all you have written here is based on probability and the probability ☀̤̣̈̇f what you wrote here †̥♥ work is half as it is in the hands ☀̤̣̈̇f Both parties engage in the so called relationship, as the one playing the fool can wake up †̥♥ realize that he is been fool and the one fooling the fool shouldn't turn the fool †̥♥ slave.

idesylvester:
Advice that is meant 4 those born in d year 1805 is what u r giving us in this new century, bros take ur time b4 amadioah locate u!!!

Women of this days eh.. bro I agree with refuse because I refuse to agree

iykenathan162:
my bae for 2 yrs now is requesting for an android phone since her old phone is given her hell of issues.though the money is not the issue here

but it is wise enough for me to buy that phone for her since I have not married her pls I need yr advice

5minsmadness:
When u lack sexual satisfaction in matrimony

As a man this can be very frustrating. The woman you knew that was very sexually active premaritally suddenly develops cold feet after marriage. She relaxes and loses her sexiness. She talks of being tired all the time and you as the man is turned into a houseboy doing all you can around the house to please madam and make sure she is well rested so you can get down to business in the bedroom later in the day. Most women still don't find this effort by the man enough and use the opportunity to take advantage of their husbands and use sex in blackmailing them (if u can't do so and so then we can't have sex). This is a man that is used to having sex three times a week and suddenly finds himself settling for it once or twice a month.

Men are sexual beings. Sex is a major part of our repertoire. If it wasn't so you wouldn't see so many cases of infidelity on the part of the man. Sex is important, very important to us. Sex is food. And if the wife denies him this meal he gets angry, irritable, commandeering and cold. A religious man will try and keep himself in check by practicing holiness, but you will always notice the bitter undertones in all the things he does. The grumpiness, the sadness, distancing himself away from the wife and choosing to watch TV instead, etc. A carnal man(for want of a better word) will simply take his business elsewhere. He will find sex either in porn.ogra.phy and mast.urb.ation (and the wife catches him one day and starts wondering where he learnt the bad habit from). Or he learns how to frequent prostitutes. Or he has an affair and if he doesn't get caught he goes on to have many other affairs all in a bid to satiate the sexual hunger within him. Even those that get caught if the situation in the house isn't rectified they harden thier hearts and become more daring in thier escapades.

I know women will come here and start screaming self control and how they know "millions" of men who practice such. Let's be honest, that's a lie, you don't know up to 10 men you can bet your life on that are faithful to thier wives, not even pastors. Sexual hunger is hard for us men. We need all the help we can get in controlling it.


So if you are a married woman reading this, don't starve your husband of sex. Satiating your husband is wonderful when done in love but if you can't do it in love at least see it as a duty. It will keep him sane, less prone to outside temptation fron your female gender whom he meets everyday and who by the way smell of roses, less irritable and more compliant to your wishes.

End of part 1.

samuelson06:
It's nobody's business how he choose to live his life. Neither secret nor elaborate wedding guarantees a lasting marriage. I think I go with Dbanj in this one. I particularly hate noise most weddings generate.

rosy4u:
Oya come, let's goan marry

SANDOSKI:
Waoooo..... Dis is Lovely



#M waiting for my own

LuveU2:
Lol funny u. It has helped a lot of guys and about to help another. We just need you to make this a reality for us baby.

ProfyJay:
In enforcing this law the state government should also make provisions for an alternative for these hawkers who rely on this business solely for their daily bread!