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ronald4lif:
Not all women feel ashamed coming across guys who have fvcked them, liberal free-minded women won't give a hoot. What's there to be ashamed of coming across guys she has fvcked? If he isn't embarrassed why should she?

For the purpose of argument, there's no scientific study that proves frequent sexual activity affects or 'loosen' the vagina. It has been proven to be a myth and misconception so if you have any please free to share and discuss them.

Let's even assume that constant sex makes the vagina loose, of which it hasn't been established, what's your business about it? For how long are you going to hide under the umbrella of oblation in what shouldn't ordinarily be your concern? Whatever a woman does with her life and vagina is no concern of any man.

Ironically, sexual and moral 'counsellors' like yourself finds it okay to engage in sexual encounters with different ladies but becomes aggravated when a lady does same. These women don't screw themselves, do they?

You are probably a female posing as a male and that is the only logic for your comments else i guess you need a thourough reset of your grey matter.

sheilak:
EYAH

I understand why you come on Nairaland day in day out to wail

Oh! You are terribly used yourself

lol

its even funny that as a guy i cant say i have laid many ladies in my life time..strange but true.

You call my write ups wailing but to me im simply catching my fun but the fact remains that 98% of what i write are very very insightful and only ladies of odoriferous personaility will see them as bad...FACT.

sheilak:
You are a damaged good!

Go and marry so that you can have someene to shove your opinion down her asshole

Why are you so pained?

Anyways im trying very hard to get a fairly used lady cos most ladies are terribly used.

sheilak:
Receive sense!!! Stop writing trash. keep your nauseating opnion to yourself!





To omotayor123 and other moro..ns

You are a hypocrite if you engage in pre-marital sex and think you could offer advice because you are....what again?

Having sex outside the confinement of marriage is just for the sake of fun. It does not matter who you have it with. Once you dabble into pre-marital sex, you have no right to give morality advice. The ones that have numerous exes happen to be more curious that they find people interesting. We are not all the same. You are not better than them and you can never be.

Sexual morality is very subjective. Leave the advice to those of us who is willing to wait till marriage for religious or personal reasons.

thanks

EEEYAH! i really feel your pains..How many now?10 or more.

How i wish nairaland is not a faceless forum because some people are really shameless.

Itsmenyou:
I think you are a sad, sad man, OP, and I feel extremely sorry for you. What women decide to do, or not do, in the end is all of their business and none of yours. All your patriarchal rants here on NL has still not done a thing to ease your foul temperament, has it? A thousand more won't do the trick, to be honest. All it will gain you is a high BP, and death after a bit.

Now breathe. Women are not your problem. Their vaginas are theirs, not yours. Go find your solution elsewhere.

I think Jesus can help you, f you let Him. But I must warn you, He'll definitely frown at your views. Premarital sex (and adultery), after all is a sin. You won't get into heaven because you think your "private part" is a master key.

Leave it at the door, will you? And oh, the bitterness too.

Good luck!

Se o gbadun? definitely o ti ree ni inu opolo

When you are ready to make sense please quote me.

DonX001:
It's a strong painkiller.
But has other effects like a feeling of getting high, relaxed state of mind and Co, that's why people abuse it.
But its side effects include dizziness, vomiting, weakness, diarrhea.
Most importantly, has a strong potential for addiction when abused.
My advise--->> Don't touch it, even with a long pole.

GOD forbid..na joke i dey joke o..i never wan die

coollabman:
Tramadol is an opiod pain medication used to treat moderate to moderately severe pain. When taken as an immediate-release oral formulation, the onset of pain relief usually occurs within about an hour. Tramadol is a type of strong opiod that works on the nervous system and brain to reduce the feel of pain. There are many different forms, strengths and brands of tramadol. Some forms and brands start working quickly to ease the pain, while others release the tramadol they contain more slowly, over several hours, to provide a constant and more even pain control. These are called ”modified-release” and often have ‘XL’ ‘SR’ or ’24hr’ in front of the brand name.

Why is tramadol abused?

Apart from its pain relieving effects, tramadol has been discovered to give a feeling of euphoric high when taken in large quantity. When opiods like tramadol are mixed with alcohol, it increases the effects of the alcohol.
Toyosi Ogunjobi, a 19-year-old public secondary school student in Lagos, who is into the abuse of the drug told The Nation that he mixes tramadol with alcohol when he wants to engage in manual labour. He claims it allows him to work harder and longer but that if he takes the mixture without working, it weakens him.

Gabriel Oladoye, a 21 year-old undergraduate of the University of Agriculture, Abeokuta also admits to abusing tramadol. To him, tramadol serves as an aphrodisiac. He says he normally takes the drug few minutes before sex and it enables him last longer and perform better in bed.

Bode, a 27 year-old liquor seller says mixing tramadol with Bullet alcohol drink helps him last longer during intercourse, since he normally suffers from premature ejaculation. He shared an experience in which he engaged in intercourse all night with a commercial sex worker after taking tramadol with ‘Bullet’. He said they had marathon sex all night, but confessed that he had to visit the clinic during the day, when he began experiencing pains on his manhood. The doctor, after checking him up for infections, warned him to desist from such medications and marathon sex, as he was lucky not to have ruptured his tissues.

Effects of tramadol abuse

Although tramadol is an over-the-counter medication, its abuse can cause some undesirable effects similar to those of other opiates, such as dizziness, weakness, sleepiness, insomnia, headache, shaking, heartburn, panic attacks, nausea, vomiting, diarrhoea, constipation, itching, sweating and dry mouth.

According to Adekunle Adeseye of Ariset Medical Hospital, tramadol belongs to a family of analgesic and it is actually a synthetic opiod. He said it can lead to addiction like other opiods such as morphine, cocaine and the rest. Some of its other side-effects include light-headedness, serious vomiting and even sedation, as it is narcotic in nature.

Dr. Jude Okonkwo, a medical practitioner at Medicare Hospital Ota, added that overdosing on the drugs can make some people experience difficulty in breathing; and that once addicted to the drugs, abusers won’t be able to function well without the drug, as it has neurological side-effects.

Asked to confirm the claims that the drug has aphrodasic effects and also gives extra strength, Dr. Okonkwo said “Those claims could be true, as it is a narcotic. It heightens the senses, but its effects vary from persons to persons. Abusing the drug has more” negative effects than any perceived positive.
He advised that abusers-turned addicts should stop and youths who take it for recreation because of its euphoric effect should stop as well; as drugs should only be taken on doctor’s prescription.

When asked how the increase in tramadol abuse can be curbed, he advised that parents and guardians should tutor their wards more on the hazards of drug abuse. He also wants the government to place serious sanctions and restrictions on the use of the medication.

www.thenationonlineng.net/the-use-and-abuse-of-tramadol/

Guys and sex...i can imagine a guy being asked at the judgement gate.."what kiiled you on earth" and he says...Tramadol.

LOBATAN

IamDino:
"Tramol","Charlie" are not drugs meant for light heads.
They are drugs that should be taken for specific purposes.If the drugs are misused,the dugs will misuse the person taking them.

I don dey heart about this tramadol and im so curious to know what it does for real abi make i try am sef...

emperorchedda:
he doesn't have a brain

Women and men are not equal sexually, I'm sure the girls are aware of this

leave the dude,he wants to impress the gullible ladies.

jayloms:
Proper response. The broda thinks throwing a bunch of vocabs in his comments passes him as intelligent. Ladies simply should not do what guys do, especially when "sexuality" is d subject of discourse. Simply because our physiology is structured differently. A man can go on fvcking as many times as he wants and wouldn't have much side effects save the energy he loses in d process - but same cannot be said for a lady.

The more you date diff guys and allow them to squeeze those oranges of urs and allow them access to your ***** the weaker the walls get and sooner or later it would affect you psychologically.

Fact is, women suffer more psychological effects, when they start realizing their physical assets are depreciating, hence, the reason some try to remain sexy using every means possible.

As a lady, you should truly define what it is you and d oda party want in ur relationship at its infancy before intimacy sets in.

Brilliant.

rubsaphy:
Funny thing about relationships is that we're never really content. When the lady decides she wants to breakup, it might come as a relief for the guy. , but after he gets into a new relationship with his fresh babe, he realizes that his ex was more understanding, patient, selfless, then he gets jealous when he sees her trying to move on, and tries all his tricks to win her back. In life we can never have it all.....

You are right tho but your assertion is a different ball game.

Omotayor123:
On point... I don't know what some ladies sees in having numerous 'Ex' like it's an achievement. Some will even go as far as dating a man they can NEVER Marry smh!

If not for one thing, they should pity the man that will end up carrying them as wife!


***Make guys too stop toying with ladies heart like they are playing Chess.

I hope they learn.

Ladies dont realize that the reason why we have many divorce and breakups is because of the ex factor.

You date John and after john have done you inside out,you leave him to be with jude and then juse does his own and you say Jude is also not it and then you move on to John....

Jude and John happens to be friends and then your guess is as good as mone, two guys discussing your folly.

Omotayor123:
On point... I don't know what some ladies sees in having numerous 'Ex' like it's an achievement. Some will even go as far as dating a man they can NEVER Marry smh!

If not for one thing, they should pity the man that will end up carrying them as wife!

I hope they learn.

Justeenaleo:
Rubbish

ivyT:
Word!
Op is 100% right

MissSlimbody:
Op, your foolishness is legendary.
No offense

This is why i love Nairaland.

4 comments
4 ladies
Different stand view.
WOW! so so interesting.

ivyT:
Word!

Op is 100% right

I tot some wrote that ladies will come for my head after reading this.

By the way is lalasticlala still a mod on nland?

ronald4lif:
Mr. Toks never disappoints in brandishing his misogynistic views. Dude, a woman doesn't have to stay in a relationship that's not working just coz she doesn't appear to have many exes. If it's not working, she move on. Likewise the guys.

You talk about women being 'ransacked' and never spare a thought for men who are also being ransacked. Why must your opinion be laced with male chauvinism, female belittling and condescending to the women folk. You can do better mate. We already know you're a chauvinist but easy with flaunting it on our faces.

Awon puma ti de.

In your myopic world, you keep juxtaposing men and women together in terms of sexual decency and that is why people like you will forever be jerks for women.

Of what use is it when a lady keeps jumping from one man to another and after been laid by these men she now realizes they are not good for her? Dude think with your brain.

Bhella5:
Toks2008 here is a free advice, wear ya helmet. The bashers are coming for ya head.

This is a fact that is very very glaring so its their choice to acept it or reject it.

Love Machine:
But there are most guyz who commit suicide or harm the long time girlfriends after she dump them.

That was why i used "most cases" because i know we have jerks in the name of men who will go as far as killing themselves because if they wait a little more patiently,they will realize that no lady has the monopoly of beauty and virtues no matter how goos.

Breaking up can be a very painful thing especially when you have invested so much emotions into the affair and if a guy says he is really done i guess the lady has no choice but to move on and hope for a better union but there are some ladies who have this mindset that they can just call off a union whenever they dim fit and for these set of ladies please get this straight;When you say "im done" for whatever reason,in most cases,the guy will be like "wow at last i have the freedom to be with a fresh chic"

The bitter truth is that no matter how super sexy you may look,after a considerably "long" union,most married men and guys in committed relationship secretly fantasize about being with a fresh lady without the complication of double dating or polygamy and it will take a man who truly loves his woman to make the slightest effort to make her stay if she opts for a break because most niggas are always excited when they have the chance to freely be with another fresh chic but many ladies fail to realize this.

As a lady please understand that you cant keep changing guys like a piece of cloth ans the more the guys you date,the lower your value among the male folks.

So ladies please think deep before starting any affair because it is totally foolish for you to break up with a guy after he has explored all your nooks and crannies and the hard fact is that no matter how the new guy seem to be unmindful of your past,no guy wants a lady who have been ransacked and laid by many men so i beg you once more,think before going into that union and stop serving your body as sample and latter say "you are done" after being seriously done by the guy.

The epitome of this piece is that its better not to be in a relationship at all than to jump from one man to another. This is not about advising any lady to stay in an abusive union but this is just the simple truth

Abeg think.

brownsug:
Lol no vex emabinu

Please send me a watsup message so that i can get your number back. I dont like losing my friends.

Thanks

brownsug:
Bros kole toyi now,pple go think say I buy market for ur hand no pay,FYI I never felt u didn't send me o
,biko. I'm wondering why u got angry,really

Abeg park very well.E don master you.

ThuGnificenX:
One day after a similar incident.. She started beating me from the bus stop till we got home.
I should disobey her and refuse the food.. So they'll tag me as stubborn abi, besides the chicken was big so I just devoured it and prepared for the aftermath.

at least food don enter belle

mkpese1:
Wake me up whn gej is jailed.

Still waiting to see how he will escape it.

ibedun:
Monarchy truly and wella insulted!!!!!

Why are we Yoruba men so so weak A bloody Lebanese "ajeku"

I once wrote an article:https://www.nairaland.com/2620465/when-bae-insists-investigating-past

I really do not care if she was married donkey times but the question is "what went down" what caused the break up? who exactly is Wuraola?

The ooni i guess allowed initial gragra feeling to affect his decision(https://www.nairaland.com/2432231/when-get-carried-away-initial) because i really don't know whyy he would chose a lady with this type of past as a maiden wife,her type is good for a third or fourth wife of an OBA just to help her cover her shame.

Nevertheless, im not judging her but i really would have loved teh A class king to get a bride with a clean slate.

ibedun:
Monarchy truly and wella insulted!!!!!

Why are we Yoruba men so so weak A bloody Lebanese "ajeku"

I once wrote an article:https://www.nairaland.com/2620465/when-bae-insists-investigating-past

I really do not carew if she was married donkey times but the question is "what wenty down" what caused the break up? who exactly is Wuraola?

The ooni i guess allowed initial gragra feeling to affect his decision(https://www.nairaland.com/2432231/when-get-carried-away-initial) because i really don't know whyy he would chose a lady with this type of past as a maiden wife,her type is good for a third or fourth wife of an OBA just to help her cover her shame.

Nevertheless, im not judging her but i really would have loved teh A class king to get a bride with a clean slate.

missingrib:
don't confuse the man more

Just want him to set the records straight.

niyi123:
indirectly he should come marry you. But why most of our ladies are like this, they will say they can't tolerate their own husband with another woman, but if they see a wealthy man they don't mind being with such man even if he has uncountable women already. WOMEN ARE THERE OWN ENEMY.

Foolishly hypochritical and confused set of people.

many ladies will want a man who will be faithful to only them yet will like to be with a man other ladies want.

many of them will say they hate polygamy but will rather prefer to date or be another wife of a rich guy rather than be the only wife of a poor man.

Awon oponu.

lol

I fine pass the ooni and we are age mates so come and i will give you succour. ;Dlol

I hope this will not be another super story

ChizzyMaris:
That awkward moment when you bring home a woman you want to marry (from the same village/town) and your parents tell you can't marry her.
You ask why, and they say its beacause your great great great great great grandmother and her great great great great great great grandmother were cousins.
And you're like, "whaaa?"

lobatAn