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CultureRe: Ooni Ogunwusi Wedding Invitation & Details,To Marry Wuraola Obanor Next Saturday by Toks2008(m): 8:44am On Mar 06, 2016
ayaotas:
If the gist about this babe is true, I pray the Ooni has enter one chance[color=#000000][/color]


Well she can't even try that her runs business as tongue a queen with all the taboos attached to royalty

But can a leopard ever change his skin undecided

Blissful married life grin
If she was ever a runs girl then that lifestyle is automatically gone.

As olori in yoruba land,any man asides your hubby who sleeps with you is a goner..even you as the queen will face grave repercusion.
CultureRe: Ooni Ogunwusi Wedding Invitation & Details,To Marry Wuraola Obanor Next Saturday by Toks2008(m): 8:40am On Mar 06, 2016
delishpot:
You can imagine o. Coming from a fellow woman too.
Women are their own worst enemies.

A sexually decent single mum of 2 children is better than a sexually reckless single lady with no child.
CultureRe: Ooni Ogunwusi Wedding Invitation & Details,To Marry Wuraola Obanor Next Saturday by Toks2008(m): 8:31am On Mar 06, 2016
Sexytemi:
what about his first wifehuh
She still dey..

Im sure if she were a nairalander some years back who read my threads,she would have cursed me too but today she knows better.

I still maintain my earlier stands that if you are not ready for the possibility of sharing your hubby with another lady be it a side dish or another wife,just be on the safer side by remaining single.

www.nairaland.com/2956934/no-lady-should-get-married
CultureRe: Ooni Ogunwusi Wedding Invitation & Details,To Marry Wuraola Obanor Next Saturday by Toks2008(m): 8:26am On Mar 06, 2016
adorablepepple:
undecided, I just pity this oba and ife kingdom as a whole . An oba getting married to a remnant of three men. that's wonderful! Someone who was married till December last year.
Na here we go dey. Happy married life
Remnant of three men?

is that really an issue? many ladies are remnant of 10 men or more.
Christianity EtcRe: Which is most ideal to use?"IJN,In Jesus name or In the name of Jesus christ" by Toks2008(op): 8:17am On Mar 06, 2016
stainlex:
The one you posted isn't opening o. Instagram says it doesn't exist.
Lol..just passing a rethorical message.

So Apparently Jesus and Jesus christ are not the same....there are many Jesus but there is only one Jesus christ.

I will try to create an IG account so that i can like your page...happy sunday.
Christianity EtcRe: Which is most ideal to use?"IJN,In Jesus name or In the name of Jesus christ" by Toks2008(op): 8:00am On Mar 06, 2016
stainlex:
I don't think it matters...




Well, that's by the way,
Please Nairalanders, in the spirit of Mother's say, kindly do me a favor by liking this photo of an amazing woman on INSTAGRAM and tagging your friends as well! Thanks a million people! Don't stop tagging! I'm counting on you guys to make her dreams a reality by liking the post and getting as many people to like as possible.

https://www.instagram.com/p/BCc-bgLFIeI/
I just liked this page below..i believe they are the same.

https://www.instagram.com/p/BCc-bgLFIe2
Christianity EtcRe: Which is most ideal to use?"IJN,In Jesus name or In the name of Jesus christ" by Toks2008(op): 7:49am On Mar 06, 2016
Flexherbal:
C'est la meme chose. It is the same thing.
Very true.

type the urls

www.nairaland.com and www.nairaland.org and see what comes up.

If its not Jesus christ then it can never be.
Christianity EtcRe: Which is most ideal to use?"IJN,In Jesus name or In the name of Jesus christ" by Toks2008(op): 7:41am On Mar 06, 2016
donswaga:
The two is the same thing.

they have no meaning in English language.

The original name is yehshuah which means salvation.
And you say they have no meaning yet your last paragraph gave a meaning.

You try.

Anyways,just as you wrote..he is not just one Jesus but he is our salvation,our messiah,the anointed one,the christ.

So when next you want to pray please use the name Jesus our salvation which means in the name of Jesus our saviour!..which is same as JESUS CHRIST.

We have jesus of oyingbo and we have agege Jesus but we have only one Jesus the christ.
Christianity EtcRe: Which is most ideal to use?"IJN,In Jesus name or In the name of Jesus christ" by Toks2008(op):
Swissheart:
So, in Jesus Christ name we have prayed.
A very big Amen.
FashionRe: "Mega Hips Contest": Nigerian Pageant For Ladies With Big Hips by Toks2008(m): 12:20am On Mar 06, 2016
MrSmith007:
Embarrassing..
Rewarding HIPS more than BRAINS
Who hips don help? undecided
Pervert organisers.
Lol
CrimeRe: NSCDC Arrests Two With Fake Naira Note (photos) by Toks2008(m): 11:13pm On Mar 05, 2016
tsephanyah:
if Nigerian government can create jobs to those jobless guys trying to survive, all this crime rate will decrease, abd for the record the real criminals are out there and FG protecting them.
lobatan
RomanceRe: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by Toks2008(op): 10:41pm On Mar 05, 2016
Lalasticlala what is your greatest turn off in a lady?
Christianity EtcRe: Which is most ideal to use?"IJN,In Jesus name or In the name of Jesus christ" by Toks2008(op): 8:15pm On Mar 05, 2016
ozy4christ:
Both works but it depends on your motive,remember some people do answer jesus,like i said, it depends on ur motive
You still need to call the name the way it should.
RomanceRe: 10 Kinds Of Guys That Find It Difficult To Approach/Woo A Lady by Toks2008(m): 7:10pm On Mar 05, 2016
JeffreyJamez:
I can relate to the deeply principled part.....we can be very secretive too. grin
Being secretive is a possible by-quality of an introvert.

Introverts are drained by social encounters and energized by solitary, often creative pursuits. Their disposition is frequently misconstrued as shyness, social phobia or even avoidant ut many introverts socialize easily; they just strongly prefer not to.

Introverts are the best set of people to get involved with when it comes to matters of the heart.So disciplined,focused and cultured
RomanceRe: See What Guy Did To Girl That Refused To Visit Him But Asked For MTN Card by Toks2008(m): 6:30pm On Mar 05, 2016
BlackTechnology:
What of if you have brought up the matter and she came only for her to refused coming again after she declined your move in her first visitation

How can you win her back to visit again.
Chai..bobo yi ti fi konji ba oro je.

PM me,i cant start writing some powerful guys code here..add me on watsup..08023146046
RomanceRe: 10 Kinds Of Guys That Find It Difficult To Approach/Woo A Lady by Toks2008(m): 6:25pm On Mar 05, 2016
JeffreyJamez:
..and I'm pretty sure your honesty has been used against you before, no?
Sure on countless occasions on and offline.

Introverted guys are annoyingly honest and very pure in many ways..you will hardly find a skeleton in their closet.

Some mistake a sociopath or recluse for an introvert but they are so different.

Any lady in an affair with an introverted guy is a fortunate lady cos she will practically beg him to misbehave and even cheat on her and most times,introverts are deeply principled and religious...
RomanceRe: See What Guy Did To Girl That Refused To Visit Him But Asked For MTN Card by Toks2008(m): 6:16pm On Mar 05, 2016
BlackTechnology:
You haven't responded to my question

I will like to learn more from you

" How do you tame her.? "
By not bringing the matter up not even for a sec.

just tell her you dont mind coming to see her and show care....trust me..na she go begin wonder why you have not invited her and because ladies are naturally curious..she will want to know what you are hiding hence will initiate the invitation.

I should not be writing this publicly cos its a guy code.
RomanceRe: 10 Kinds Of Guys That Find It Difficult To Approach/Woo A Lady by Toks2008(m): 6:12pm On Mar 05, 2016
JeffreyJamez:
Lol.....I've never wooed a lady.... I find it exhausting.
When i tell some nlanders that i have never wooed any lady on nland they are like na lie...if you know how introverted i am...you will understand why my write ups are the way they are...Honest to the core and very annoyingly loyal.
RomanceRe: 10 Kinds Of Guys That Find It Difficult To Approach/Woo A Lady by Toks2008(m): 5:55pm On Mar 05, 2016
Booyakasha:
I disagree with the Introvert part.. I'm dating an introverted guy.. grin Apart from the fact that introverts can be extreme loners, practical people with inability to express theirselves and they get the phobia of kissing and hugging or even holding hands in public, here are some reasons to be with an introvert guy.. they're amazing!!

Great listeners. My boyfriend helps me a lot by just listening to me. You know when you want some one to just hear you out and only advice when asked for, Introverts are ever ready for that.
Very Intelligent. Very clichéd sentence but trust me they are intelligent. My Man solves the rubiks cube in under 2 mins. That's crazy.

No nonsense. They are the ones you can have the most meaningful conversations with, not garbage talks.
They guide you very well. Some how they see you just the way you are, and yet love you because it's beyond looks for them. They don't get blinded by love, and yet For them love means everything and they give it their all.

Not Fake. They do not pretend to like you. They either just like you or don't and will tell you straight

Love Ain't A Game . They don't fall in love easily, but They fall hard. For them love isn't a game, their Hearts are at Stake. If they tell you they love you, you better not break their heart.

Calm by nature. Would women want to be with a man who gets violent, abuses, puts her down, yells at her or with A Man who treats her like a princess, will be faithful and treat her with respect all her life. I'm sure you will choose the latter i.e The Introverted man. They can never get violent it's just not in their nature to fight, and usually are respectful towards everyone in general.

Give you space. Space is must in a relationship and introverts know how to give you that.

Hot in Bed. They are good love makers (I can only speak on the behalf of my bf). Boy they are passionate!!

Stand by you. Is anything in this world worth more than some one actually standing by you through the toughest times? Introverts who are in love with you, won't back down when your in trouble, or back off because some one else says so. They fight hard to protect their loved ones.

Won't “use" you. Introverted men never woo women as a game. They are genuinely attracted to her and want to get to know her on deeper level. Yes sex is on their mind too but they will never cross their boundaries with you. Introverted women find it hard to fall for some one and when they do it's usually for life.

Honesty. Yes they are brutally honest, they will criticize you, not to hurt you but, because they really care about you . Yet they will be the first ones to come Cheer you up, Motivate you when you feel down and like a total failure.

Best friends. They are the bestest friends you can ever find. Trust me.

Loyalty. Being faithful comes to them naturally. Since they are introverted, they do not have many friends or easily make new connections. This means they do not find it hard to stay loyal and committed when in a serious relationship.

Some introverts i know here on NL: Teempakguy grin
See as this lady describe me finish.

I cant count how many ladies i have practically avoided and still counting..to me why sleep with you if io dont see u as one i may end up marrying.

I cant use and dump a lady..not even when the lady wants to be used.

And Yes i hardly woo a lady and when i do and i see you play hard,i withdraw with the speed of turbo light so tosyn is kinda right.
Christianity EtcWhich is most ideal to use?"IJN,In Jesus name or In the name of Jesus christ" by Toks2008(op):
It has become a norm for Christians or believers all around the world to end their prayers with the name Jesus.

But where we have seen many use the acronym IJN especially when they write,we have heard many end their prayers with "in Jesus name" while very few use the words "in Jesus Christ name...so we ask, which is most effective? are they all the same? Is there anywhere in the Bible that distinctively suggests which one to use?

But before we take a look at these options, lets take a quick background look of how the name JESUS came to be.

The name Jesus is an English form of the original Ancient Aramaic word Yeh-shu-ah which is a contracted form of Yehoshu'a better known as Jesus the anointted one

In essence, the history of the name made us understand that his real name is Jesus Christ and with that "christ" added,it totally singles him out as christ(the anointed one) and not just any Jesus which can be any other person who bears the name.

[b]1.When you use the acronym "IJN" you certainly don't need to be told that you are not only disrespecting that name but making a total mockery of the name because IJN could mean anything that rhymes with that acronym so this must be stopped immediately so when next you want to write,please write in full and stop making mockery of the anointed name.

2.For those who pray in the name of Jesus i can boldly say that while in your mind you could believe that you are praying in the name of Jesus the anointed one who died and rose again,i strongly suggest you do the right thing by calling out the name of the specific Jesus you mean because there are many other people bearing that name Jesus and you just might be calling out to one of them.

When you just use "in the name of Jesus" Its like calling an incomplete name..like calling out John in the midst of thousands of johns and even when you know the one you are calling,you need to be more specific if you want to catch the attention of the John you are reaching out to.

3.IN THE NAME OF JESUS CHRIST(messiah) is the most ideal and realistic way to pray because there is only one Jesus and no other one on earth,under the earth or in heaven who is the messiah and that bears this original Ancient Aramaic word Yeshua (THE ANOINTED ONE OF GOD)[/b]


The translated bibles only use the name Jesus because of the years of translation but the real original name of Jesus is Yeshua(The messiah.the anointed one,the christ).

Yes we know that the name Jesus is translated to different names in many languages but whichever name he is called in your language,always ensure you add christ to the name you use to make it distinctive.

I hope with this eye opener, we believers will hence forth start praying the right way and will always use In the name of Jesus Christ to end our prayers as that name clearly calls out to the messiah,the anointed one who came to die for us,the anointed son of GOD whose name is above every other name...GLORY HONOR,POWER AND MAJESTY BE UNTO JESUS CHRIST FOREVER MORE..AMEN.

RomanceRe: One big reason why married people cheat and how to avoid it. by Toks2008(op): 5:22pm On Mar 05, 2016
obontami:
grin
Your signature tho.
Lalasticlala please ban this dude for me.
FamilyRe: Pastor Catches Wife In Hotel With Choirmaster by Toks2008(m): 12:03pm On Mar 05, 2016
Creamish:
Lezz & Toks2008 ... I guess u should tell d pastor DAT d wife luvs him...and luv doesn't translate to loyalty. He shouldn't leave d wife just because she cheated... wink tongue
www.nairaland.com/2560505/before-divorce-adulterous-wife
RomanceRe: One big reason why married people cheat and how to avoid it. by Toks2008(op): 9:32am On Mar 05, 2016
TheSonOfMark:
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Cynthia, if you're going to curse someone out then do well to vituperate via well-articulated words of the Anglo lingua instead of this dyslexic rant which is reminiscent of the parlance of ill-bred, airheaded junior high school dropouts resident in rundown shanties.
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Eleyi tun ga o

Even obayagbon go bow.

By the way why use the name cynthia?
RomanceRe: One big reason why married people cheat and how to avoid it. by Toks2008(op): 6:26am On Mar 05, 2016
Charles4075:
Op, the truth is Cheating is like napalm, and both men and women can be guilty of lighting the fuse.

There are two types of extra-marital relationships: FLINGS and AFFAIRS. Flings are the most common, most often involving opportunity, lust,and lack of self-control. Whether you are talking about a man or a woman, you can hear the excuses/justifications in your head: "Babe,I screwed up. I got drunk in Allen avenue with the [guys/girls] and ended up sleeping with this hooker/guy I met at the club. It didn't mean anything, and I promise it won't happen again. Please forgive me."
Okay... people aren't perfect. They make mistakes. They make bad choices. And sometimes, opportunity can make good people do bad things. But Flings are really about no self-control, and they showcase how the cheater is willing to sacrifice their honor—and their partner's honor—for a one-night-stand. Choosing to forgive a Fling means you need to think long and hard about it. I'm not a believer in"Once a cheater, always a cheater," (because cheaters can choose to follow a faithful path with different partner with different relationship dynamics), but Flings are about selfishness... and that doesn't just go away.

Affairs are different, as they aren't fast hit-it-and-quit-it acts of misguided lust and sexual wanting. These are long-term relationships—sometimes involving sex, sometimes not—and they are trickier for someone to get over because there has been investment over time—and it's also an emotional investment, as well. People sharing the inner-workings of their personal lives, their activities, their kids—all while dropping back from their established relationship. All-in-all, forgiveness and moving past an Affair is wrought with challenges.
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Excellent
RomanceRe: One big reason why married people cheat and how to avoid it. by Toks2008(op): 6:25am On Mar 05, 2016
dollyjoy:
This man with women matter sha.hmmmm lipsrsealed
LOL!

Romance is the opium of life. Show me someone who has a happy romantic life and i will show you a happy person.
RomanceRe: One big reason why married people cheat and how to avoid it. by Toks2008(op): 8:06pm On Mar 04, 2016
askakim:
@op, one thing that I know is that not all men cheats but one thing is sure also that the ones who cheat are the ones who never wished to do so but lack self control of there flesh..So as a Lady, you need to work on how to be more sexy and playful when you are with your hubby.. Thanks
You made perfect sense with the embolden.

Ordinarily i dont even think of cheating on my lady neither have i ever done that and i guess its because i never had reasons to.

Many guys want a lady with nice booty yet got married to a flat ass...please tell me why they will not be tempted whenever they see a bootilicious lady? Too bad that most times we just cant find what we want and what we need in one lady.
RomanceRe: One big reason why married people cheat and how to avoid it. by Toks2008(op): 6:01pm On Mar 04, 2016
Rea:
If only we could be contented
Yeah..IF ONLY.

Lalasticlala what do you think?
FamilyRe: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by Toks2008(m): 9:26pm On Mar 03, 2016
Joy1706:
Sorry o. U know I'm not married how? Toks2008 is a fool. He shouldn't be spreading his foolish opinions online
I guess i have lost count on the number of times you have called me out using unprintable names.

I am forced to curse you but i dare you to use one more vulgar word on me and i will use the prophetic anointing on my life to place a curse on you...a curse that will plague you for the rest off your life.

You think you can leverage on the facelessness of an online social forum to curse at will.

I have been ignoring but dare me one more time and you will regret it for the rest of your life.
RomanceOne big reason why married people cheat and how to avoid it. by Toks2008(op):
Cheating on a spouse or potential spouse have been an age long act with no possible solution in place and i'm afraid we all just have to find a way of coping with this never endingyple cheat and even in a seemingly happy marriage,couple still cheat on each other and this has almost mad e me lose hope of the possibility of having two people who will be totally faithful to each other till death do them apart...

Enough of the ecclesiastical mambo jumbo..please lets ask one another..WHY DO PEOPLE CHEAT ON EACH OTHER?

Well i don't know if my assertion is true but for some people i guess its an addiction that have eating deep into their soul and this set of people need special attention but i will focus on explaining why a regular averagely decent man or woman cheat..

1.The man:

I strongly believe that no matter how decent a man can be,there will forever be a conflict between what he wants and what he needs in a woman.

A man is a visual homo sapien that usually gets carried away by what he sees so most guys want a lady who looks pleasing to their eyes and at the same time want a lady with very decent inherent qualities so they go on the search and get to realize that the ones who are pleasing to their eyes end up having serious character defect they cant seem to cope with while the ones with angelic inherent qualities are far cry from what they want as physical attributes.

So in most cases,a man just decides to marry a lady who seem to be seen as "a good wife material" yet may not be sexually attractive to him and after marriage,he will have to cope with the temptation of having a taste(fling.one night stand) of another lady who seem to be sexually pleasing to his eyes.This fling usually develops into a steady extra marital affair which intimately destroys his marriage.

2.The woman:
As for the ladies,even when they refuse to agree,i will say ladies are emotional species and it will only take a very disciplined lady and one filled with the spirit of GOD to stay faithful to one man.

Most ladies want a Cute,rich,caring,GOD fearing,sex machine in one man and if their hubbies do not have these traits,they will want to be with John for the money,always run to Geoffrey for the thing and will be in an emotional affair with James because he is so carry and so on and because of the nature of women,they usually get emotionally attached and if found out,her marriage becomes history.

[size=13pt]So in essence,the main reason why people cheat is no other than oju kokuro(lack of contentment)[/size]

Possible solution


-As a man please understand that it is the same hole in any woman and you can't do all the sweet ladies you come across except you want to waste your life.If you see a lady with hot body and good inner quality then good for you But to be on the safer side please Just ask yourself..which one is more important to you? Is it a hot sexy body or a woman with a good inner qualities and if it is hot body you want please wait and get your hot wife and tolerate her other side and if it is a wife with angelic quality you want please they are every where..just get her and forget the hot body. But in my own school of taught,i will advice that a man goes for what pleases his eyes BECAUSE WHATEVER IS PLEASING TO THE EYES WILL MOST CERTAINLY BE PLEASING TO YOUR SOUL
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-Every lady must understand that her respect,integrity and self worth is not measured by how physically attractive she is but by how sexually decent she is.A lady should ask herself which is most important to her,..is it good sex,money,looks or virtuous nature and stick to a man who has what you most prefer and tolerate the other side of him.Just understand that no man has it all and learn to appreciate your man and take him as he is making sure you pray for him and help him to be a better man for you.


May GOD help us all.

RomanceRe: I Loved Him, He Broke My Heart, And I Have Been Cursing Him Deep. by Toks2008(m): 7:08pm On Mar 03, 2016
No comment.
RomanceRe: Characteristics Of A Nigerian Male Gold Digger by Toks2008(m): 7:05pm On Mar 03, 2016
DanceVille:
Most Ladies out of frustration condone guys who are out to milk them dry.
They think it is love, or that the guy is disadvantages.
Some guys can play it smart and cool at first till they find out you are emotionally insecure and can pay the bills..
1 .A Nigerian male Gold digger never pays for anything but always expect his girlfriend to pay.

2 .He is always in debt and wants his girlfriend to bail him out.

3 .He gets angry when his girlfriend refuses to give him money.Some even went to the extent of killing her.

4 .Nigerian Male Gold diggers use your marriage and your love for him, as a bargaining tool..

5 .Always comes up with fake big business ideas that end up failing.

6 .He always wants to control your finances and know your ATM Pin.

7 .Nigerian male Gold diggers always beg for money from his girlfriend to entertain his guys.

8 .Nigerian male Gold digger is always concern about your financial status.

9 .They always drive Luxury cars when they can't even afford paying their House rents.

10 .Most of them dates and most time married Women twice their ages in the hopes that such Woman dies few months after the Marriage.Chaii! This is very common.

NB : I created this Thread because Guys always say Ladies are the only Gold diggers buh I think have proven you wrong that we also have Male Gold diggers.
Theirs are even worst than the Female aspect..

Feel free to add yours.
Bashing and comments are highly welcome.
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DanceVille
In all my years on earth i have never asked a lady for money before neither do i ever pray to do that.

Dont get me wrong...there is nothing bad in that just that i just don't know how to and even if i meet a very very rich lady...the worst i can do is ask her for a loan if necessary and expand my business so that i can take good care of her and she wont have to spend so much from her pocket even on herself.

Call me old fashioned and you may say im suffering from an Alpha male syndrome..which ever way..i am who i am.
CelebritiesRe: Juliet Ibrahim Marks 30th Birthday With Stunning Photos by Toks2008(m): 11:37am On Mar 03, 2016
vipez:
but one question I keep asking is;
Must they be almost naked?
When beauty becomes a curse.

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