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teebaxy:
just for fun, u are Taking things too personal

You get time dey reply to that pooh pooh

SharonCute:
wow... such a young beauty

Im still cute,im still young..na the thing wey dey decieve many of us be that...old age no dey show suddenly/

winner01:
Its not about serving God, its about serving God genuinely.

The lady is alive because of mercy not because she serves God more genuinely than others.

LOL!

So people who die don't serve GOD genuinely right?

Abeg lets just give thanks to GOD no matter what. Many things in this world are too deep and mysterious to comprehend.

The way these Igbo guys are using these innocent Benenese ladies ehn,na only GOD go save these girls.

Trust me, to that lady,10k cefa is insane money because down there,those ladies as Sweet as they look are very very unassuming and not materialistic in anyway.

[quote author=vpost=41767536]see shape ooo. i will go for B if i was a guy...nw my shape is F AND U [/quote]Issorite.

Lalasticlala,ishilove wettin una think.

ghuzy01:
U don't get what he's trying to say,he meant that he wants his first female artist to have d lyrical power of both asa and dj loaf...not that he wants to sign asa or dj loaf

Oh i c

Nellybank:
Having paid all the traditional rites. I think you can. But if you never settle all the witches and wizards for ur wife village, just carry ur 500k go buy gulder and suya take calm down your brain make u no go wound

No wonder why guys will enjoy free sex and wife duties from their girlfriends till they get tired and move on to the next.

How much did most of our parents use to organize their wedding those days?definitely not even up to 200k equivalent of today's money.

How many months will it take a man earning say 70k a month to save 500k provided he saves 50% of the money each month?

I write again,i weep for the future of our ladies cos if this type of question can be asked,i wonder what will be in the minds of many guys in their 30s who don't even have a job yet.

If every Naija lady can follow this simple advice in the case of low funds i guess many ladies will never remain single and frustrated and im not talking about hopeless materialistic ladies hoping to meet a made guy but a decent and responsible lady who is poised for greatness irrespective of a man's money.

1.Do the intro and pay the bride price in a low key intro and engagement

2.Proceed to the registry to legalize your wedding

3.Plan gently towards the big time wedding ceremony while living your life and raising your family.

If you think this is dumb then simply follow this advice

1.Continue to offer free sex and wife duties to the guy who is not financially ready but always ready to screw the shit out of you.

2.Continue to wait and wait for him to attain a certain financial level until you grow older and lose your value

3.Get dumped when he eventually gets the money and start the process all over with a new man.

Even the famous omotola jalade had her traditional marriage 5years after her court wedding. but many ladies foolishly wait for the guy to gather enough money for all the the forms of wedding ceremony and at teh end of the day,when the guy is fully set,he dumps her ass for a younger chic.

Polarbite:
9ja entertainrs are so selfish,dey can't even help deir brodas and sistas.RIP

If you know how selfish and greedy people can be,you will cry an ocean.

People blamed him for not crying out but let them swear that they are not aware of his health case. Most People do not mind to spend A billion on luxury rather than spend 1milion to help a sick person

If he signs up ASA then it will be a special contract cos Asa is by far a bigger brand than YBNL but i cant wait to hear a collabo of Dekunle and ASA

rockstarB:
I don't even know where to start. Anyway i have been dating my man for close to 4years now and we are both cool together and we planning to get married after am done with my youth service. The number one factor why i decided to have like a distance relationship with him was the fact that i didnt see myself dating a guy from my school, so i choose him, tho he lives in same town with me we do not see that often cos of school and other stuffs.
I am introvert and i deal with mood swing and emotional problem even when my guy is around i sometimes feel like not going to see him because i feel like am not in the mood to see him, i say something like "you saw me last week/2weeks ago why do u wanna see me again?" I love him so much and i dnt even have what it takes to cheat so i have not for once in our 4yr course cheated on him. My attitude almost broke us up last year cos he felt like he was not loved the way he ought to be loved.
I also have problem with sex, he is the first and only guy since we first had it together but i always feel like he is dating me for sex even tho its so glaring that he is not. We dont usually have sex cos we dont see often. Lets just say at most two times in a month which is rare or lemme say three times in two months which is also rare, but going by this i still think he loves sex so much. My emotion always come first before or during sex, little thing easily piss me off, i remember a night we were about having sex but i stopped him simply because my system spoilt a day earlier and i felt like sex is the last thing on my mind, sex [/b]is always the last thing on my mind I may even start crying after [b]sex if my guy doesnt stay in bed to cuddle me, he is a faithful guy and i dont want to lose him to my emotions.
I dont see myself going through all these after marriage, is this how i will be depriving my husband of[b]sex[/b] just because of some petty stuff that should not count in the first place? My baby is coming home after over two months now and i already feel like am not in the mood to have sex or anything. Is anybody going through this? Please i need help bfr its too late.

All i could read all through is SEX..SEX...SEX

Is that the only thing that matters in an affair? Apparently sex is a de-facto in ascertaining your level of commitment when it should rather be reserved till your wedding.

I honestly dont know what to sex here sorry i meant say here because the isue of sex have been over hyped when companionship should come first before anything.

I no even know road to any club neither will i do ashewo in my life time and i don't even understand the rationale of giving a girl friend 5k to test if she is after my money cos a money conscious lady is not hard to know as she will even demand before you give and when she demands, ma die.

spyglaxx:
Do not marry a woman because of the size of her boobs or butts rather marry the content of her character.

Taaarh!

Whatever pleases the yes pleases the mind.

Character is important and physical attributes also counts so i would rather be with a lady that has some if not all the physical attributes i want and cope with some bad sides rather than have a lady with the best of characters but is not sexually appealing to me except you want me to be with a lady for character and with another for...

endyfine79:
Happy new year all.....
Endyfine is 30+, I joined too

Hello siamia, I feel ur swag.....

You are welcome sis.

Lovely pics...

How i wish more ladies can overcome shyness and join this thread..i guess it will add more shine to it because ladies are the spice of life...quote me in Buckingham palace.

At least king solomon get over 1000concubines and over 700wives i guess

Sometimes i sit and wonder how solomon coped..

menabae:
hehehehehe,yep economic is part of it,but let me tell u,women in general are like that all over the world not only naija ladies,I laught at people that call ladies that love money broke asses,jobless or goldiggers,why is that even the rich and wealthy girls \women runs after the already made men?why can't the rich ladies date and marry poor dudes,all we get is marriage of the rich to the rich and by the rich........ Nobody wants to be associated with poverty anyways and I think we the ladies naturally are born with that,ask a little girl abt her ideal man she will say she wants a very rich,caring and handsome man that's funny

I agree..this is why i always feel like slapping any lady that says 'there are no husband materials" because husband material full everywhere.

Go to the ministries..dem boku for there at level 7 and 8,go to sec schools you will find them as teachers and even in many churches as associate pastors but whosai, their ideal husband material must earn a six figure, drive a good car and live ina cool apartment.

Walalhitalahi our ladies never hear am because most of them will end up begging an agbero to marry them after they have spent their blooming ages waiting for a rich man...smh

menabae:
lolzzzzzz.. When u make the dough u can get any thing u like,women loves money and then fame or popularity,wat abt people like davido and wizkid who were very young buh rolls with wealthy nd classy babes.....just make that money and watch dem em babes all over u

I honestly don't understand why naija men complain so much about being dumpede by a naija lady..is it not obvious that women and money are like bread and butter?

Make good money and women will be point and kill..and i mean you can point to almost any lady that catches your fancy and you are sure to have her licking your ass...unfortunately that is the society we find ourselves and if you are not ready to face the reality,just forget naija ladies and try other babes of other countries....Na our economy cause am.

That moment when funny ladies come on nairaland to curse and slander a fact that polygamy is acceptable in our culture yet will not mind to be the 10th wife of Dangote or a baby mama to a rich dude rather than be the only woman in a poor man's life.

HYPOCRISY AT ITS BEST.

preetyb:
Not all men cheat sir

Even a dumb person knows that not all men cheat.

okangisaiah:
The fact many say men are polygamous in nature doesn't make it right. We keep encouraging them through this statement.God help us

It is not about encouraging anyone...its a fact.

Its also a fact that we have many men who will nver cheat on their wives or even marry another wife.

The point is that it is good to tell ourselves the truth...A woman should just pray to end up with a faithful hubby.

omojeesu:
Actually, I'm her father!
Bless you!

Oh great..
Amen sir

MindMatics:
..... I tink it wud b beta for a man in both categories to gt anoda wife as Muslims do rada dan fornicatin... #MiNdMaTiKx

This is my point.

I dont support polygamy or cheating but a man sexually chaste man who decides to marry a second wife is better than a philanderer.

Polygamy is not advisable but still better than sleeping with different ladies out there.

Elesta:
I don't understand yoruba

Helping each other is sacrosanct...thats the meaning

octopusfreaky:
Oga Toks2008 ,,ds is the only thread ive loved so far...kissesss.

lol..glad this is coming from a female...i recieve your e-kisses jare.

Speechless3:
Op you should be afraid if you are gambling God's existence because you may end up in hell too.

The God i have seen in the bible demands absolute faith in him. Any thing less than absolute is as good as nothing.

No be only gambling..na betting..when you are set you will read again and clearly get the message.

Lizabeth25:
I just love this write-up. Especially the NO 7....I read it many times. It's an encouragement to single ladies out there! Who feels their age is an issue.

Forget your age n build your self. Don't ever allow your age to make settle for less. Be focus, don't be idle n be waiting for one nigga to be paying for your nails n hair.

Learn to trust God and pray more!

Ironically most of these unmarried ladies ranting here do not possess just one quality out of the ones listed in that point 7 but you see them showing their losy and abusive nature online...

Before any lady cant start asking her man why he is cheating on her i guess she ought to first crosscheck herself with that point 7.

kumbalo:
It's wrong to suck dick. I have asked pastor and he gave reason why that is wrong. So dear, you wouldn't have to if this is discussed before marriage.

To give you an e-slap dey hungry me...

My pastor said...

Elesta:
How about a man that insists on knowing about a woman's finances before marriage

Well these days the Alpha male syndrome is no longer in vogue as we now see both parties discussing how they can contribute financially towards the homefront hence the need for the man wanting to know the financialk standing of the lady.

But be as it may,i still belong to the old ways of reasoning that no man must coarse or make it compulsory for a lady to contribute financially towards the homefront but should leave her to her discretionary decisions but nevertheless,ladies must understand that ka fi owo we omo ni owo fi n mo.

Krystalzkris:
what do u mean?

The write up is explicit enough.

nairayouthcom:
https://www.tipnaija.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/670px-Read-the-Bible-Step-19-600x4501-300x225.jpg



4. Romans 8:28

“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”

My life's slogan.

allthingsgood:
I think by not arresting him, Buhari has done his best to shield Jonadunce from humiliation. Unfortunately the level of stink and rot left behinde by mr clueless is just too much

fourmuch you mean?

1.Bros abeg no forget our discussion o,remember that one good turn deserves another..

2.WAlatalahi Jona i don try for you fa..prom now on you are on your own.

TonyeBarcanista:
Actually, Jonathan is in a serious fix right now. Whatever he says will be used against him by the public at least.

If he says he didn't approve the disbursement and Metuh's/Anenih's "special assignments", they (Metuh and co) will call him a liar and move to indict him.

If he says he actually did it, he automatically indicts himself and will lose the sympathy some section of international community have for him. In fact, he'll be asked to refund whatever goes to him and may even be used as "prosecution witness" (if he isn't prosecuted).


What a fix..

A very serious one indeed and the fears of mama peace may just come to pass.

Mind you.. this is just season 1 of the whole story,we still have the missing 20billion,the nimasa saga and many more..GOD save Jona o