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queenfav:
Wow, your point is that a woman should keep on doing all you pointed out, knowing her husband is cheating,just to avoid being deserted?It doesn't work that way.Ask any married lady here.Again,you are entitled to your own opinion.But from someone who has spent close to a year handling all sorts of matrimonial cases,I'll say you need a firmer grip on reality.No offense!

400billionman:
When a girl is a Sex maniac and can ride her man 2 hours and upwards and she is sexually decent, the man will be running from sex.

He wont have enough strenght for her not to talk of another girl.

queenfav:
Well,I am privileged to mediate on at least 3 matrimonial cases daily in my office.I am a legal mediator with the ministry of justice.I would however love to know what it means to be 'dumped'.Enlighten me please?

babadem2much:
With all the girls on town he chooses someone's wife abi? he never see something

Blossom023:
Most men make it the wife's duty to make him happy but when its actually his duty too to keep her happy.

1. MONEY. As most men know women love money, give them the money they need and they will be indebted to you. When she asks for feeding money don't just shut her down if you don't have it, try explaining to her. When she asks for money to beautify herself give her, cos she is only doing it for you.

2. COMPLIMENT. Humans naturally love when they are complimented.If a woman is not getting any compliment from her husband, she is likely to get it outside. Even if her pancake is not well dressed,tell her "my wife this pancake you rub fine o" she is ready to carry it as it is, let people laugh as long her husband likes it, she is ok.

3. LOVE HER CHILDREN. No woman wants to see her kids in pain cos of lack of love from their father. Pay their school fees when due, take them out, give them good morals.

4. BEDROCK. Make her bed rock. Give it to her where and when she wants it. Hit her G spot. She will glow everyday.

5. LISTEN TO HER. women love to talk, even when no one is listening, most times I know you come back from work tired and probably that is when she wants to tell you about something that happened in the office. Dont just shut her up, pretend to listen at list. You both can lie down and let her talk, hold her, and reply randomly... You can just say "yes... "I know" "its ok" .

6. TELL HER YOUR PROBLEMS. the bible says "he who finds a wife findeth a good thing,and obtaineth favour" . Maybe your boss is troubling you, just tell her, your wife can just go to her quiet place, say " GOD anybody troubling my husband, may he or she never have peace". Favour is obtained.


Feel free to contribute.

queenfav:
I am trying to get your argument seriously..If these attributes are to ensure a woman doesn't get outrightly dumped,then what's the point.A man dumping a woman is not when he throws her out and moves a new woman into his house.It starts from cheating.A man who deosnt stick to his woman has impliedly dumped her.And these days,most men are not ready to leave their wives.They just want to have fun out there and go home.So please,whate your point exactly?

Tunagee:
Good, but if he does not know how to take care of my home, she shall surely be shown the way out.

IzonOwei:
the world has actually relegated the seriousness of marriage in the times we live in...its so hard for men to be faithful these days...it will only take a guy who respects and appreciates good qualities in a women not to cheat on her...but such men are rare..sometimes even the few who are wel behaved end up falling sometimes... ...there are a few reasons why its so tough for men:

1..MONEY: money is such a bad thing for a guy who is struggling to be faithful to his woman...with so much cool cash there is this tendency for an average guy to ginger any beautiful lady out there...this is a very serious issue...i have had friends who were all churchy and chaste right through the university but are now womanizers after securing a job with SHELL,MOBIL,CHEVRON etc...so bad...money can make a man feel he can do all things...And we know the beautiful girls are on the prowl to get them well to do boys...

2..DECADENCE in the world presently..fornication is just right in front of all men...the internet,at our work places...Ladies wont let a chaste man think well...In the past sexual immorality wasnt much advertised,but now its viral(instagram,facebook,porn sites,bbm etc)...

For me...its all about applying scriptural principles and always putting the interest of Jah and our wives ahead of ours..then we can avoid hurting them...


E NO EASY OOOOO...

niggi4life:
Bros you are so on point, you have got all the points spot on.
But the problem is how many women have this attributes?

JumiaQuickSales:
What exactly does this society want from women


i can't believe this post got 85 likes!!!!


The society is not being fair to women at all.

Why must a man's choice of life be blamed on his wife

I thought a woman was supposed to take care of the house singlehandedly while a man handles the finances, according to the society especially

How come to keep your husband "from being snatched", the woman has to do her part of taking care of the home and still handle her financial upkeep that is supposed to be the man's job, according to the society


What is then the work of a husband in our society with the 6 qualities listed above

From OP, i believe the man's role should be to eat the woman's food, enjoy her sex, enjoy her love, keep his money to himself, be proud of her sexual decency etc!!!


A MAN'S CHEATING ATTITUDE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH HIS WIFE!!!

A WOMAN IS NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR HER HUSBAND'S SEX ESCAPADES!

A MAN WHO WANTS TO CHEAT WILL CHEAT, NO MATTER WHAT THE WOMAN DOES, CHEATING IS A CHOICE!!!

OUR SOCIETY;S ORIENTATION JUSTIFYING MEN BEING POLYGAMOUS IN NATURE IS WHAT MAKES THEIR MEN CHEAT AND LOOK FOR THEIR WIVES TO BLAME!!!

MEN HAVE HORMONES, DON'T WOMEN HAVE A STRONGER EMOTIONAL HORMONE


A CHEATING/SEXUALLY PROMISCUOUS SINGLE MAN WILL END UP A CHEATING/ SEXUALLY PROMISCUOUS HUSBAND, IRRESPECTIVE OF HOW
ANGELIC HIS WIFE IS

WOMEN, BE A GOOD WIFE BECAUSE GOD SAID YOU SHOULD BE. NOT BECAUSE YOU WANT TO KEEP YOUR HUSBAND FROM BEING WHO HE CHOOSES TO BE. HIS CHARACTER IS NOT YOUR MAKING.

Elesta:
U nailed it!

lovethchioma:
@op... from your writeup i can deduce that its allowed for a man to cheat only that they wont snatch him if the woman does all those things as mentioned in ur writeup. I'm also seeing most guyz here nodding their heads in agreement, that yes we might cheat but we will always come back to you provided you do all these. Just SMH. moral decadence is jst increasing in our society where most people who are not disciplined and lack self control think its ok for them to cheat. what ever happened to being faithful? any man who cheats does not deserve a good woman. people are now telling God that He is stupid for creating jst Eve for Adam and not Eves.
Cheating is so easy, how abt trying smth more challenging like being faithful. its only a man who fears God will determine to be faithful no mata wat.
Come ooo @op, how is it possible to snatch a man who doesnt cheat. Some who hate the truth wud b angry and want to quote me. oya over to una

Missy89:
People cheat. Even if their partner is Jesus Christ.

100 attributes wont help. That is life

moscobabs:
madam shut up..men are polygamous in nature just put follow the op article to remain relevant in ur hubby house.

sandracoopert:
That is not 100% correct. In as much as doing these things can make some men happy and loyal, it won't keep some from cheating or still getting a new woman. A cheating man or woman cheat for no reason even when they have everything.

emerged01:
op,I completely agree with you but you can try arrange your points in order of importance. "Fear of God" should be number 1.

Chelseafan1:
These are really good points, every ladies should take note, it will be hard for the guy to dump the girl really but trust me, a Casanova will still cheat if he wants to.

Some Men are just programmed with that annoying mentality of sraffing more than one woman, there are too many good looking women around, if you like, be sweeter than an angel, a cheat will always cheat.

MRBrownJ:
@Toks2008
you should have written that these are the attributes needed in order to have all the chances for your man NOT to cheat... but as we know that men cheat for many different reasons, these points you mentioned are weak. here are a few men that would still cheat on a woman who possess all the attributes that you wrote:
- a disrespectful man who has absolutely NO RESPECT for his woman.
- an unfaithful man who believes that there is nothing wrong with cheating (or that it is men's way).
- a polygamous man who has NO intention one settling with one woman only.
- a rich man who thinks he can "buy" any woman he desires
- a man who is never satisfied with what he has.
- a man who gives 0 value to the attributes you mentionned
- a man who at a particular time in his life is weak (due to whatever reason)



the above is the reason why so many women are miserable in marriage, foolishly staying married in order to pretend to the whole world that they are happy.

GlorifiedTunde:
Very essential issue people ignore.

I never did.

As a matter of fact, I believe any guy who is serious about getting married to a lady should ask the genotype question first before proceeding- before passion starts running.

It can be heart-wrenching to find out someone you've been dating for six.months is not compatible with you genotype-wise.

sparkleice:
I smell lies here.sme men will stil cheat on u evn aftr doing all these.evn f u want to gve him. Ur kitty cat everyday,tie. Ur two legs on d ceilng,cook hs best meal,and all dat he wil stil nt b satisfy wt u alone a cheat s always a cheat.so forgt ds post

shikshark:
ohh...u will employ robot with artificial intelligence to operate the washing machine i think. u too speed off

BRAVAGAD0O:
Hello friends, 1st of all, I don't want you to see me as a man that involves third party in his marrital life/affair, am not that kind of man, in fact a lot of things go on that I rather let it stay in my home for us to sort or face together than involving family or friends but this challenge is really heavy for me to bear.

I don't really know what else to preach to her that I don't like her behavior anytime am broke ,for me it's a total turn off because it always makes me feel like am not being appreciated even with all my efforts to make us happy.

My wife nag anytime am broke or notice my pay ain't coming soon, all she does is play blame game like telling me all sort of story, like she never eat since last year, like she's not happy, that the marriage is hell because of just few days broke, and the few days broke doesn't mean no food for us, the few days broke doesn't mean I won't raise money to fuel generator talk less of some more important bills. I am just 10 months old in this marriage, please, real men in the house kindly advice me on what to do, if am the one being wrong here because I don't understand why she's always like that.

Lalasticlala I wouldn't mind front page at all because I really want to learn from all other husbands out there... Thanks

dunsman:
atory story.. we gats to gv God glory we gats to live life slowly p*ssy no go gv life back

shikshark:
doing the laundry is an added advantage

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dafefe:
I need a woman to cook for me!! I love good food and indeed, the way into my heart is through food..who heare can make this dish?? let me consider her for marriage. https://clarascornerng.com/2015/09/vegetable-delight-local-nigerian-sauce/

emmaberry:
I have dis cool man in my life, we're so in love nd I cnt help it. We've been dating for 3years now nd I see a future for us. But lately I developed feelings for someone else, still I love my man so much nd I dnt knw what to do... Its killing me!!!!

charlesbailey:
Errrm.... I don't think he is reading this

class0247:
I wonder how people see things.If Emeka is here begging her wife to come back home and the children are begging also why can't a pastor close to that family find a way to bring them together and give them guide lines rather than trying to separate them.
A man of God should bring peace and unity to a home not otherwise.
Which woman will abandon her children.Remember marriage is for better or for worst.
Emeka is trying to save his home and secure the future of his children.Is not as if he can't get a better woman out there.
I know a lot of Nigeria men,once you step out of their home there is no coming back.
They better advice that woman to go back to her home and learn how to manage with her husband.
A lot of women are out there begging God everyday for a Husband

rbekins:
The truth of the matter is that there is no way a woman with her right sense will ever seek for divorce after 12yrs of marriage with 4 sweet and beautiful children, never in this world. Even if he beats her as she claimed, but this guy has really confessed and begged u to come back home but still she refused, (she is a LovePeddler) Meanwhile I don't believe he beats though. 60% of divorce in Nigeria are caused by these demons call themslves pastors. To u does Christ Okotie look like a pastor? Which human being at his right sense will value him as one without being under the spell of demonic manuplation which is trending for them fake ass pastors and prophet.
In short Emeke Ike, just pray harder to God so he can give ur possession back.