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Obiagelli:
Nmenu I am enjoying this movie

meanwhile there is a certain pa chukwudi44 running around from one thread to another while Saraki's children are doing something tangible with their lives. He did worse on the eve of the last presidential election


In the end I am glad the Apc is starting his corruption fight from its own house

Came:
One thing must spoil a man. Choiii!!!!!

falconey:
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modath:
What people need this kind of obscene wealth for is beyond my human understanding.

I have come to the realization that Saraki has no soul., After stealing people's life savings (ensuring some suicides) through Savannah bank, impoverishing Kwara for 8yrs on his own, he has installed his stooge to continue the culture of loot & plunder!!!


He is not stealing because he needs it, something is defective in his genetic make up to induce such a high level of kleptomania.

AlienStar:
The guy don old o

scarletdp:
OP i'll ask the quoted a question and i need you to take the answer seriously.

Bruv, in that 6 years of no sex relationship, honestly did you not have sex in 6 years or just in six years with your gf?

busolaJ:
I'm not desperate neither am I a loser, I'm not here to look for a boyfriend I just really need to vent some of my frustrations and share my feelings without being judged hence why I to opened an account.

I live in London,I'm 23, educated with a good job and I've never had a boyfriend,I'm not picky when it comes to men, realistically I'm not that bad looking I rate myself a 7/10 and most people describe me as sweet and easy going.Its not that I don't get Male attention but its always from the wrong type of guys, I assume that all the guys that approach me just want to smash which in most cases I'm right .

I don't believe in sex before marriage, am I being unrealistic with myself?, I don't go clubbing and party all the time so its not that I always surround myself with the wrong kind of guys. my close friends tell me everyday that its not possible to find a guy that will wait till marriage before sex but I don't want to settle for any old school guy at my church just because of my belief . BTW I'm not looking down on 'church guys' but I'm wondering Is it possible to come across young Christians who are considered 'new generation' and have same thinking and upbringing as I do.

please I need some advise and encouragement. Is this normal or am I being too hard on myself?.

I've tried so much to focus on myself and my relationship with God and making Busola (Me) a better person but I'm just really tired and fed up of waiting on Mr right

icedbeatz:
why do I feel that's the first level of the journey to being a bitchh in a man's life? how many times are you ready to take a walk? and remember this females have this crazy perception which she will feel like she can now order you around, she might start raising her hands on you soon became subliminally you have given her the power. Leave ones, twice what about the third time? damned where is your cahones?

xynerise:
Aggression in women is something that sounds unusual. I have seen many cases where women act a bit too forward in making decisions and actions.
Society enforces the idea that men are aggressive and women are passive, and, while there might be a kernel of truth to this, it hides the fact that any woman can be as aggressive as any man.

For a man raised to believe women are incapable of that kind of aggression, it can be very jarring to be confronted with an aggressive woman. As a man, How do you handle it? Should you treat her as you'd treat an aggressive man or do you need to be more delicate?

Luckygurl:
Hehehehe!! Your partner is really a brother in the Lord as in all this jim jim brothers

He has to loosen up a bit, for crying out loud you've got marriage plans.

What are his reasons for acting this way? Are they religion based?
Even if they are, engaging in intimate talks and PDA's ain't a big deal, I mean this is someone you'd spend the rest of your life with and it's only proper you get past the normal brother-sister relationship.
Not like you're asking him to go down all the way, nah!! Just a little show of affection, hugs, pecks, kisses, cuddles does it..

Sister mi! Maybe you gat to find a way to break down those walls of his. Insist on getting a warm hug from him after a meet up, blow a kiss through the phone after a call session, he should reciprocate too. Just find a way to work things around....
Once you achieve this, push no further rather help take things to it's permanent site
Guide him well cos his likes are rare sort of, you only have to work around him a little.
Hope you get your desired results.

Topics like this give me hope. It shows that we still have responsible men out there who ain't in for just sexx and it's likes.
I'd choose a man who's got such mindset over another who's ready to try out different sex positions with you whether or not he's got plans of taking you to the altar.

toks2008
What's your take on this issue?

nlfan:
Dear NLers

I am in a no sex relationship with this amazing young man, he is cool and has everything I wanted in a man.

Apart from him, have always been in a no sex relationship, the last man I dated, who died in the ill fated Dana Air crash was also in a no sex relationship with me but he was more vibrant emotionally, like he will hug me tight, hold me and look into my eyes, roll his hands over me and kisses me too and sometimes I notice he will be so turn on, just that we have decided we want to wait and sometimes he will say baby i'm so turn on but I can handle it.

Now the issue I have with this one I am dating now is, he will not do any of that, all he does is look at me passionately, and if he must touch me, he will just hold my hands and play with my fingers, he can stare at me the whole day and gist with me, but I have never seen him at the point where he was turn on, whether in his face or actions, he is just there.

I know he is God fearing and can afford not to be turn on, but I am so scared, have slept in his house before, we were just like blood siblings, cook together eat and off he went to his room, no emotions or maybe a kiss to say good night and stuff, it was so neutral I feared he might not like sex or romance at all or maybe he is not all right.

Sometimes I want to bring up gist like, how far did you go with your ex, what is the most naughty thing you have done in a relationship or for love, and he will go like... I came back from work, I didn't have a car then, so I trek all the way to her house to cook for her.

And I ask, what's your most memorable sex experience, and he replied baby good night, this is not you so don't bring up the fake self, you've been talking too much to your girl friends lately I guess.

How do I get to know all these about him, have starved myself enough of sex to please God, and to be a good girl my mother asked me to be and cannot "CANNOT" and will not be able to stand a slow or bad sex experiences in marriage, the thought of this is driving me crazy

lushious:
Am a biggest version of B

treasuremabel:
Wow, i just love their simplicity

adconline:
Laziness and poor work ethics.. They want to get paid without adding value. Why are most students studying marketing in higher institutions??

elosonservices:
Some one needs your advice.
He is sexually active and can not stay a day without engaging on it and his female friends are always coming for more according to them he is very good in bed and can keep the ladies busy and happy.
Is there any side effect I'm afraid don't want to die.
Please advice him.

Cutehector:
lol there are diFferent grades of stretch marks.... Certainly not those thick ones dah look like roots growin in someone"s body lool.. Who even gets turned on by wicked stretchmarks...

Cutehector:
like seriously.. On d record, I'm not attracted to fat girls$

Jcmiracle:
i have never been into relationship before... i need a girl i can love and will do same too... contact me on whats app... 07065784236...

Chizzled06:
Lol you might want to actually learn about the history of the bible. Its authorship, discrepancies, canonization, lost scrolls etc.
If your convictions remain, then I have a bridge I'd like to sell you.

jmoore:
I asked you latin and you are talking chinese.

kestolove95:
Its better dan pushing drugs

kestolove95:
Its better dan pushing drugs

fergus0n:
Wonder were da pickd dis idiot frm am sure his a role model to sm ppl #spits awt

MhizDeedy:
Hardwork pays!!! God bless their hustle

donholy28:
dat one concern them...anyway am waiting for Linda to marry o