₦airaland Forum

cococandy:
Ritual what?

They are just perverts.

But the question still remains "why are we now seeing the trend"?

How come we don't hear about it before now.

Sis believe it or not,its a spiritual thing and i suggest you start watching more of Yoruba Nollywood movies and you will understand these things better.

Pretty face though but not cool with the nose piercing but if your guy loves it wats my own lol?

Rayhut:
@ Op, can a guy be love starved in this present day Nigeria where girls full street dey hustle day and night, even the compound/street someone is living na competition between the girls on who show their unclothedness pass

Nice question bro.

I no fit count how many babes don come offer me pomo wey i throwey face.

Any guy who is sex starved in this present crazy world is either a very decent guy who is holding back or a complete jack ass who is so scared of approaching ladies.

But for Christ i believe say i for don die of over...

400billionman:
Most nairalanders are just jobless creating threads up and down.

Nothing is worse than virtual reality(living on the internet)

LOL do you know i actually make my living 60% from the internet? and thats why i have the time to drop some nice write ups when im less busy so i do not agree with your stand-view.

Facebook owners,yahoo and the likes make their living on the internet and yes they spend virtually most of their time on the internet.
Lastly please remove that mindset that people who create threads in a prolific way are jobless.Do you know that freelance writing is very lucrative? more so its about passion.

Kaffee makes her money through dancing
Seun and the other bloggers make ample income from a blog that is kept alive by these threads so your passion may not be writing but something totally different so just take people as they are and let them indulge in what they are passionate about and also gives them joy.

My 20cents

Rapmoney:
Conji is a very bad thing . It has turned so many guys to 'desperados' and 'machines' that are easily predictable! When conji sets in, everything in 'love' and 'romance' becomes acceptable, okay and right too!!! . In fact, it is a baskard!

Below are observable traits that some guys exhibit when they are love-starved! Then, just know that conji has gotten the better part of them :

1) They quickly return missed calls from unsaved numbers: When a guy is always quick to return missed calls or flashes from numbers that are not saved on their phones, you could be right if you assert that he might be love-starved! When they hear a male voice from the other side, oh gush!!!...their hopes have been dashed; they would quickly end the call. Their only expectation is to speak to a female and nothing more. Hehehehe . To them, the flasher could be an ex, old flame or a babe they exchanged phone contacts with some time ago! . All na the race to cure conji. We are aware o, but we are not against ...but if na Rufus, your paddy na im flash you, to call go become egbegba!!!

2) They call random phone numbers: This is not only annoying but also disgusting! How can you sit in your house and start dialing numbers indiscriminately and randomly? The aim or purpose is to hopefully call a naïve female who might play along with them. Like No.1, if they happen to hear a male voice from the other side, that's the end of the call!!! Na bad market that one be!

3) They indulge so much on pornographic materials: This is another sign that a guy might be love-starved (sex-starved too)!!! They spend thousands of Naira streaming, watching and downloading pornographic movies every month!!! The slightest available MB on their phone would probably end up in downlading or watching these clips! . It could be an easy way to satisfy that urge, you know

4) Through their activities on social media: Observe their disposition on social media; they mostly portray themselves as people who hate Nigerian ladies with passion! To them, they see nothing good in ladies; very quick to condemn and insult at the slightest opportunity, using extremely derogatory words!!! The truth is that most of them are just hiding behind a veil, they are actually love-starved!!! They need romance in real life; they want an understanding loving woman by their side . A man with a loving understanding woman does not go about raining unwarranted insults on the women folk on social media platforms!!!
You can express your views and thoughts without pouring derogatory words on women!

5) They use pics of unknown girls as their social media display picture: You will see some using the pics of beautiful girls gotten from the Internet as their display pictures on facebook, whatsapp, etc. Oh gush! Bros, why na? Wetin do your own pictures? In real life, they would hardly even have the opportunity to go close to that lady, talk more of having an affair with her . Some even go as far as opening threads on this forum to show folks their new 'girlfriend' from Bahamas or Cape Verde!!! All na fake...and remember, like 2face said, 'There is more to life than just faking up reality'.

Good morning folks!

I beg to disagree with all your points and i would have agreed if your title read "5 Ways To Identify A psychologically sick and sex-Starved Guy)

1.Any business minded person will and call back if a missed call is seen.

2.That one is true for a totally mentally disturbed guy.

3.Many guys do that even if they have millions of ladies except the real disciplined ones so that is totally off point.

4.Be specific please because hatred for Nigerian ladies is different from hatred for ladies generally and i do not see why a "love" starved guy will hate ladies that he is desperately trying to have so you totally missed it there and that should go for a heart broken Naija dude wey naija babes don show pepper.

5.That is a sign of a real sick guy who needs a psychiatry evaluation.

BTW Who put this on front page?

BOUNTYDOG:
Hmm so what happens to the poor grl afterwards?

Its so simple to the occult but so complicated to ordinary men and im not in an occult to know but there are consequences and its like a covenant because they must cum inside her to seal it.

Leets take a look at it this way,

A 60 year old sleeping with 5year old abeg has that ever happened in Nigeria before now?

But what do we have these days? a year old,two,four defiled by men and you guys come her to write grammar of phideowettin

Please lets leave grammar because we all know there is no logical reason to defile a toddler or minors when there are willing harlots that do short time for 500naira if not less.

okedoyinolabisi:
paedophilia is on d increase.....a stiffer punishment shd be given to this disgusting bastards

You guys don't know anything

Its a new trend for ritual proceedings.

Can't you just imagine why we are having recurrent cases?

Please lets wise up,its a ritual thing.

Drkul:
God have mercy
Some of these accidents could be a result of reckless drivers, bad roads. Portharcourt owerri road is very very very bad. Govt and the villagers need to do something about that road.
May God protect us from accidents. May their soul rest in peace

I keep telling people.

This world is not our home but a temporary abode and we can be called home at anytime without prior notice.To humans death is painful but to GOD its home coming and everyone must leave this world in one way or the other so the best you can do is do the needful and accept Jesus as your lord and savior this moment so that when the trumpet of your life sounds,you won't be found wanting and end up in hell with satan and the demons.

Here are 10good reasons why you must not miss heaven.

https://www.nairaland.com/2563215/10-amazing-reasons-why-must

I am here to read the comments of ladies

sonofananimal:
FACT!! NAIJA WOMEN CAN LIE MORE THAN THE DEVIL.


BUT SINCE YOU DON KNOW AND THANK GOD YOU NEARLY ONE FALL FOR HER ONE CHANCE TRAP. I WILL ADVICE YOU GIVE THANKS GIVING TO YOUR CHURCH.


IF YOU DEAR LISTEN TO HER FAKE PLEADING AND CRYING AND SAY YOU WANT TO GO BACK TO HER!
NO BODY GO TELL YOU SAY YOU BE MUMU, NA YOU GO TELL YOURSELF SAY YOU BE REAL MUMU, IN FACT MU MU SQUARE.

NOWADAYS WE HAVE TO BE WISE AND THINK SMART, NOT THINKING WITH OUR HEART BUT RATHER WITH OUR BRAIN

Shey u see wettin i dey talk?

Abortion gone bad n u fit ssee am tomorrow fall in love believe say u don see ya cinderella.

Marry am finish kon begin waka from one deeliverance center to another forr pickin thinking say na u get low sperm count and na si she go keep quiet bgin dey fast and pray with u.

Anobia

Wilson125:
I had this call on tuesday morning from a strange number, the caller told me I needed to see her in the hospital, dan abia precisely, that ma girlfriend was on admission,she called her name ( ma girlfriend's name)...when I got there, my girl was admitted already, so many question popped out, but her friend was unable to gimme answers, so I decided to meet the doctor, when i asked him what the problem was, he told the abortion she did was not successful, the operation didn't go well,

I was like: who went for abortion? who was aborted?
he said my girl had an abortion somewhere and the operation wasn't proper, that she was bleeding seriously when her friends brought her, he asked me if I was not away base on how i reacted, I was shocked to the point I have to take medication to help recover, this is someone that claimed her virginity was intact and she wouldn't want to lose it till she marries, I loved and respected her wish, I never knew she was only acting along all this while..

God! that was way 2 much for me, I made the necessary payment for her treatment and left.. she called on that tuesday night, I picked and heard she was okay, so I told her to take care of her self and I ended the call...

Since then She has been calling, sending in sms telling me she is sorry, seriously I don't know what to do with her or what to tell her, these are just the reasons I don't want to pick her calls..

what should I do with this girl? ...m totally confused..

This is why guys dont have thee patience for all these self aclaimed virgin who will be forming for one guy and taking the stick from anotheer.

I think you should hear her out and she will likely come up with a molest story.

by the way i believe it is foolishness for any lady to lie about been a virgin cos the guy must know someday even if it is on the wedding night and that will be worse.

Rukkydelta:
Just observing

Observe well

mascot87:
Fake pastors deceiving gullible desperate church members since time memorial

That Awkward Moment When A Prophet Tells You That He Is Not The One

https://www.nairaland.com/2559380/awkward-moment-when-prophet-tells

pretydiva:
Who her yansh don help

That moment when all you have is overused ass and boobs to flaunt with nothing in your brain.

sonofananimal:
VERY GOOD. YOUR WRITEUP REALLY GIVE A VOICE TO THE SINGLE MOTHERS OUT THERE, AND KIND OF GIVE ME A WHOLE NEW PERSPECTIVE ABOUT THEM.

BUT THAT'S JUST A NO TO ME BASE ON MY PRINCIPLE. IT WILL BE LIKE I'M SINING AGAINST Myself.

I BELIEVE IN EQUALITY, MEANING IF YOU ARE SINGLE, YOU ALSO DESERVE A SINGLE PARTNER. IF YOU ARE A SINGLE MOM, YOU ALSO DESERVE A SINGLE DADDY.


KIND OF WEIRD! RIGHT?

Well, whatever rocks your boat.

For me,im very much opened to an affair with an after one that is sexy enough to compete with the regulars

direkt:
Most of us see rich folks without knowing how the wealth came out. We don't even bother to ask how the money was made. Especially the girls, all the wanna see is money without caring about the source.


Do you own a clothing and accessories shop? Show everyone your designs HERE.

And many clueless naija money monger ladies will be like ...my guy is rich and based in uk...

Why only 8years? oloribuku somebody destroying the image of sincere and hard working Igbo guys and Nigerians.

May it not be well with you for destroying our image and been so wasteful.

Bastardo

sonofananimal:
please enlighten me more. I would like to know your view on this

A good thing you asked.

Most of theese after one as they are called expecially the ones that are below age 26 are indeed very decent and morally sound.

Most of them had the chance to abort but chose not to maybe due to personal convinction,religious sentiments or for whatver reasons and it may surprise you that many of them are sexually decent and have not been with many guys at all but just unfortunate to indulge in an unprotected 2minutes or even one minute quickie during their ovulation period.

Most of these after one below 26 were naive and innocent cos if they were really bad,knowing the right pills to use and the liquid mixture to take immediately after sex or how to shake off the guy semen walahi they wont get pregnant.

Most of these after one aree fertile and can evidently give you more but it wiill surpriise u that many of these super flat tummy sexy single chics without children are very infertile due to the use of contraceptives severally and also abortion that was badly done.

And the interestiing part is that most of theese after one are ready to calm down with a man that will appeciate them unlike their counterpart wey body still go dey catch at that age group.

Why i chose the age limit is because many after one above a certain age actually made up their mind to have a child due to desperation but most after one below 26 were victims of circumstance

I know a friend who got a young lady preegnant when she was 19 and she aborted it and since then the lady never took in again and her monthly flow will sieze for months and until they broke the affair after years the lady never took in.

Many single chics you see are serial abortionists so dont be decieved.

If every lady who find themselves in a postion of single motherhood can go to my thread on 8 words of advice for the single mums and adhere to them,they will be glad they did

greatness22:
PDP will raise again like an erected d.i.c.k

Its all about reebranding

They should change the name and be rady to merge with other parties. Thats all

I see Apc breaking out gtom CPC n the nearest future.

sonofananimal:
yeah! In some way. There are very good to date or marry if you are also a divorcee or have a child too. But it is also good to start a new beginning (experience) together, not that one have already gone far than the other one. Your marriage life won't be balance due to the woman's child which is not yours

I honestly understand u and i use to reason this way too but now know better.

brunofarad:
Not again

GOD pray that you lift me up in my political career because so many great plans i have for the people.

I know how these people feel first hand and its so unfortunate that some people are actually doing these businesses with burrowed money.

oreos:
Plenti plenti

I thought you were a misogynist

Lol

Why wiill ii be? If only you know how deeply i cherish and respect women.

The fact that im a no holds bar wtiter does not mean im a male cheav but the truth must be told.

oreos:
I am beginning to like you
I apologise for all the stuffs I have written about you

lol..You don abuse mee before

Mspread it seems you are so hot to the extent that guys are perverting on you so pics of you or idontbilivit.Lol just kidding.

Actuallt we have ladies who are also perverts and i have met like 2 and the first one was years back when i was travelling in a bus,this lady came so close by my left and crossed her right hand to my right shoulder,rested on it and was practically pulling me close to her..

I no go lie i respondeed well and i really enjoyed the long ride from Lagos to shaganmu that day "winks"

I sincerely wish many unmarried single mums can see this great thread.

Its not an envouragement to have children out of wedlock but for them to understand that they are not second class.

naijathings:
We all love our girlfriends and boyfriends weda it is 100% love or 15% but there is almost always a K-Leg or coma about them
and they might have something to say about you too... but we are all humans and there is no Perfect person.

so here I go with mine and I hope we all join in and make it a fun thread.

..

I Love my girlfriend . she is cute, has flat belly and big hips. she is a good cook and dresses to impress. She is a lady on the street and a tiger in bed but........ she has a 10 year old child and has not told me about it even after over one year of being together.

You need to see this thread.

www.nairaland.com/2532999/advice-unmarried-single-mothers

sonofananimal:
ONE THING I HATE, IF YOU LIKE HAVE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL BODY,
SEXY CURVE BLUE EYES AND SO ON, BUT ONCE YOU HAVE A CHILD OUT OF WEDLOCK YOU ARE NOT FIT TO BE FRIEND OR MARRIED.

GUY IF YOU GET SENSE! FORGET THAT WOMAN, KILL THAT LOVE YOU HAVE FOR HER.

IT IS NOT ADVICEABLE TO DATE A WOMAN OUT OF WEDLOCK ONLESS YOU ARE A DIVORCEE OR YOU ARE IN THE SAME LEVEL WITH HER (SINGLE DAD)

Very good.

Please if you come across any super hot flat tummy single mum of 30yrs and below please let me know.

In your world they are useless but in my world they are more appealing than a single lady who have probably had 5 abortions.

naijathings:
We all love our girlfriends and boyfriends weda it is 100% love or 15% but there is almost always a K-Leg or coma about them
and they might have something to say about you too... but we are all humans and there is no Perfect person.

so here I go with mine and I hope we all join in and make it a fun thread.

..

I Love my girlfriend . she is cute, has flat belly and big hips. she is a good cook and dresses to impress. She is a lady on the street and a tiger in bed but........ she has a 10 year old child and has not told me about it even after over one year of being together.

Leet me advice you...

Dump her fast and give me her number so that i can scold her for having a child out of wedlock.

Yungwizzzy:
Nor mind all this yeye old men wey their mate don die finish

them go still dey follow us dey drag the small work wey nor dey

mcteew

One fact i will stand by is that this act by PMB should be retraced asap.

Appointing a non custom officer is not just a slap on the aspiiration of the custom officers but will even bring about moree corruption because i dont think this Alii man knows a jack about what goes on there.

A case of round peg in a squaree hole.

There can be stiff measures in place to curb corrupt practises but bringing a total outsider is a total faux pass

KillerBeauty:
I love marketing jobs because it's readily available.
But you can also get high BP because of this target wahala.
U can sell ur life to the devil because of target wahala
And u can get sack in the blink of an eye because of the target wahala

This target thing is the problem but you can also markeet for other companies as a freelance marketter as long as you dont ddepend on their salaries but only commisions and if you are good,you will be absorbed.

A time is coming when companiies will no longer pay fixed salaries but will be 100% commision based.

I guess if this lady had told AY to go to blazes when he was still struggling in school,today she wont be by his side today to chop his money.

Joavid:
You can call me a Northerner but I won't make this a tribe thing.

I've had a man who's 19 years older than me and desperately wanted to marry me. He is a top executive in his company etc. But I just know am not ready for marriage because of the goals I've set for myself.

Different strokes for different folks.

If i could go back in time i will go back to the early 90s when one super hot hausa lady was just all over me and i was like what do i have to offer this lady considering her beauty,class and background.

i latter discovered that her father had betrothed her to one rich guy but she just want to be with a man she wants.How dumb i was way back.

Most Hausa ladies love for real and are ready to suffer with a man and remain faithful irrespective as long as you love them and same goes for many Imo ladies as well as Ijebu,ondo/ekiti ladies above all others.My opinion.

Joavid:
You can call me a Northerner but I won't make this a tribe thing.

I've had a man who's 19 years older than me and desperately wanted to marry me. He is a top executive in his company etc. But I just know am not ready for marriage because of the goals I've set for myself.

Different strokes for different folks.

I talk am