₦airaland Forum

tommychow:
Staying in shape is also important. African women tend to lose interest in looking fit and blame child birth for their laziness. Ladies, imagine your hubby getting broke and lazy and blaming it on the economy...that's how we feel when you become shapeless.

Note: I mean early in marriage.

EmmyDe25:
I can't agree more. But then, i can't settle for an ugly babe as a wife. There are still ladies who are fine both on the inside and the outside.

sammaking:
Get this right, there's a difference between a cool headed girl and one who's pretending to be a cool headed girl. A girl who has lost count of the no of men She's slept with will never keep her to to with her husband. Her legs will always be pointing outside because of the forces driving her except for Gods intervention.

zeb04:
moronic advice.

seun I understand you are trying to makes nairaland fun for all but putting these trash on front page is not advisable.
leave things like these in the romance section and give us better things to read.

Seun:
The moderator who updates the home page is a young man. Hopefully female moderators will be bothered to help us to balance things up.

shegsky: like seriouslyy. Give me some minutes to search for the site i copied these write up from ,by so doing, we will know who the greatest culprits is btw toks2008 and the founder of the site .
@ishilove,To me, if i knew such Topic exist on nairaland, i won't have waist my precious time in enlightening the female folks by creating another thread with the same message

Ishilove:
Toks2008, come and see dubber o

Ishilove:
Toks2008, come and see dubber o

Rhea:
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Cancel the wedding. You cannot start a lifelong project like marriage in a half-hearted manner. You are either all in or all out. No in betweens allowed; unless you are just trying a temporary marriage arrangement that will crumple in 6 months.[/size]

Squig:
Did you have doubts about your spouse before your wedding?

Did you meet someone amazing and you wanted him but decided to go ahead and marry your spouse?

How do you feel about the marriage now? Do you feel you did the right thing?

I'm in my mid 20s and I'm getting married next month, we've been together for almost 5years. He is the love of my life and I've never doubted my love for him or the fact that I wanted a family with him. He's got everything I want in a man.

The problem is we started having issues about 6 months ago, we stopped talking like before and we are completely disconnected now especially on my end but we're still going ahead with the marriage plan and I still want to marry him.

I met another guy I am really attracted to and we've been talking about a lot. He knows I am having issues with my man and I can't tell him we are planning to get married.

I'm having doubts about my man now, I'm confused, I feel I'll be happier with this new guy, I'm thinking it's lust but it's getting more complicated. Should I go on with the wedding?

Feel free to talk sense into my head, I need to hear hard truths.

softapples:
Wearing of trousers by Nigerian ladies has generated a lot of controversies. People have continued to argue if the practice is sinful or not.
Ladies on trouser?

While some churches welcome and promote it, others preach against it. Those who are against it base their stand on Deuteronomy 22: 5, which says: “The woman shall not wear that which pertains to a man, neither shall a man put on a woman’s garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the LORD thy God.”

Churches, which do not condemn wearing of trousers by women, believe that grace has put an end to such law.

Some people, especially young females, decide the church they will attend based on whether wearing of trousers is allowed or not.

misreal:
mr op,you are misleading people..all the above mentioned activities will take you to hell. .you haven't seen any Scripture that kicks against wearing braided hair because u dont read your bible.

Chizzled06:
But what if "biblical truth" is all a lie?

jmoore:
If na your wife dey cheat na this same thing you go tell yourself too, huh?

Omotayor123:
They said guys go into relationships for sex And intimacy(How True) ... Why then do ladies go into relationships Especially those that will tell you they are not ready for marriage.


A friend told me courtship is a scam and fraud. He said if I guy tells you " I want to court you" it's tantamount to saying "I want to sex you" And I agreed with him on that as I have seen a marriage that didn't last six months after 10 years of courtship And a Marriage of no courtship that lasts for Eternity.!

I realized *from personal survey* that :

90%of ladies have boyfriends for monetary/financial benefits *imagine a girl telling her boyfriend "You can't be sexing me for free* (how's she different from a prostitute).
And they tend to dump the guy sorry as$ should he default in meeting up with their demand. And move on to the next victim.

What happened to Being self Independent

8% of ladies have boyfriend for sex. *Imagine a single lady coming to social media to lament about how she's being sex starved. () when does pre marital sex become a necessity

What happened to Abstinence till Marriage

2% of ladies have boyfriend for support. They need someone they can talk to and share things with.

Which category Did you Belong



P. S. I stand to be corrected. No bashing or derailing please.
Let us Interact in a Mature Manner.
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CUM4WHAT:
NONSENSE

wrongnumber:
Just reading through these and i must commend your fantastic overview.

Nike must see this.

wrongnumber:
Interesting. I personally know two lady divorcees who ended up with married men and i kept asking; who dey fool who?

You left your marriage claiming your hubby cheated on you and you now end up with a married man who now cheats on his wife with you.How foolish?

Nice advice but i hope they learn.

youngpol:
Small time now you'll hear she's pregnant.

Jesuspikin77:
The last thing she wrote on her facebook wall was:

'everything that makes us human is vain'

Just imagine the irony!
This life is nothing but a smoke yet people keep concentrating all their soul, body, energy and mind on things (looks, grades, wealth, jobs etc) that are nothing but a heap of VANITY

Seek the kingdom of God, work out your salvation for JESUS CHRIST IS COMING.

Toks2008:
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I posted the system activity here sometime back but unfortunately there was an update on mt4 build which affected the activities so i had to do some adjustments and now back to trading with the system.

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Thanks and happy viewing.

prettysassygirl:
wow,I like your type,keep it up

ojaydedon:
nice write up. can i copy and paste somewhere e lse?

mrdino:
@Op: most of ur points r valid, just dt there's much bitterness in ur post, as if u r talkin from experience

JAZES:
Alhaji Aliko Dangote is the most successful businessman in Africa with a net worth of several billions of United States Dollars.

His business is heavily present in Nigeria, Africa and other countries in the world. He left the whole world stunned when he increased his personal net worth by a million in less than 24 hours in February 2015 and according to Forbes, he is the 53rd richest man in the world.

In spite of all the giant strides attained by Aliko Dangote, here are some of his financial secrets that are worth emulating by individuals and business organizations:

1. He once worked for someone

Dangote worked for his uncle, Sani Dangote. He served his master diligently. He acted in accordance to the statement which says if you must lead, you must serve. It was while working for his uncle that he gathered experience, skills and confidence.

2. He took a loan to start his business
Aliko Dangote started his business with the NGN 500,000 loan he took from his uncle/master. He approached his uncle in 1977 and told him about his plan to establish a business outfit and his uncle gave him the loan to start the business. However, he was given a three-month-deadline and he repaid the loan in three months.


3. He kicked off his business by trading in commodities
Sugar, rice, pasta, salt, cotton, millet, cocoa, textile and vegetable oil were the commodities he started his business with. He was importing these commodities into Nigeria.

4. He developed a strong distribution network
Since production is not complete until the goods reach the final consumer, Dangote developed a strong distribution channel that made his goods deliver faster than his competitors.

5. He leaped from importation to manufacturing
After some years in his importation business, Aliko Dangote transformed into a producer of products he was importing. In one of his statements, he revealed that changing from an importer to a manufacturer has so far been his best move. The move produced Dangote Group, an organization that controls over 13 companies.

6. He built a brand
Dangote built a vibrant brand for his business. He corroborated this during an interview by saying “to succeed in business, you must build a brand and never destroy it. One competitive advantage I had when I ventured into manufacturing was my brand (Dangote), which I diligently built in the course of my trading.”

7. He sells cheap quality products
In his mission to gain the loyalty of his customers, Dangote started selling his competitive products at cheaper rates compared to his competitors’ rates.

8. He had a big break
Dangote’s networking skills and ability to make unprecedented connections made him record the major breakthrough he needed for the prosperity of his business. His break through emerged when he acquired the license to import cement.

9. He works pretty hard
As an astute businessman, Alhaji Aliko Dangote spends most of his time strategizing and brainstorming on how to grow his business. Reports have it that he sleeps by 2:00 am and wakes up by 5:00 am everyday. Can you beat that?

10. He obeys the laws of the land
Unlike other cunning businessmen, Dangote is an upright man as far as abiding by the rules and regulations governing the ethics of business are concerned. He keeps his credit records as well as his tax records tidy and he preaches that business should be done as stipulated by the regulatory bodies.

http://onlineleaks247.com/index.php/2015/09/10/10-money-tips-you-should-learn-from-the-richest-man-in-africa-aliko-dangote/

CC: lalasticlala,ishilove

udysweet:
God bless you for this,gracias!
Wish I could take back all the wasted years*sighs* but God says I'll restore to you,all the wasted years. The years the caterpillare,cankerworm has eaten. They make you feel like you're so desperate to settle dwn. But for God sake a man shdnt jus see u as a sex pot to eat frm,be filled and walk away. And dats why I tend to see all of dem dat way. And yes pple will com and talk now and say someone is playing hard to get,by d time u agree to every tom dick and harry,one must hav slept wit half d worlds population! Lol
A man who needs a woman in his life for the keeps,won't waste time telling you,I don't want all dis trial and error again jo,lol

jesussaves22:
Yes because that is how i met the girl i want to marry now. She says no sex and i responded ok but no shishi or penny till we marry and she agreed. I only told her to come close to our house so that we can knnow some of our dos and donts. Just recently i found out that she is still a virgin because we both are on ourselves now. We met around may 2013 and we are still togather . Now am planning to marry her. The only thing she requested was for me to assist her in her final year project which i did wuthout bias. So if girls can do what this particular lady did believe me the man and woman relationship will be too sweet.

Pidggin:
Nice one, it shows you love your sisters and you'll make a perfect father to a lucky girl one day. My close friend dated a guy for eight years, I think they met while she was still in secondary school. She gave her whole life to him, but he left her and got married to someone else. She never recovered, looked years older than her actual age due to stress, developed HBP @ a young age, and died shortly after. Any wise lady reading male comments here should be able to discern the plans most of them have for you, beauty without brains is like a pig wearing a nose ring.

Zoharariel:
Ayayayaya! My little bird is whispering to me in Igbo that Wike is going down.

I hope Dakuku Peterside is warming up to claim his mandate?